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Also same here I’ll do the scouting but it’s always her choice and she has the final decision actually it’s all for her enjoyment

Same here….
When Mrs wants to play mfm, I do the advanced scouting. As with many LS wives, she chats and makes the final pick. I make the arrangements. Mrs is much better at organizing our social calendar.

I do most of the chatting, I can usually figure out the fakes before she reads and we both decide.

Seeing how there are so many fakes on this site I skim through all the BS before I entertain the thought of getting her involved.
Sad that this site has gotten to be filled with so many flakes.

We're in the minority - Phoebert doesn't have the patience for dealing with messages from idiots and I do. ;-)

Usually quite a few messages are exchanged before we can manage to schedule a meeting which gives me a lot of time to determine compatibility. I discuss all potentials with Phoebert but he rarely looks at the messages. He provides the voice of reason and a sanity check at the first meeting when my brain is lost in a fog of anticipation.

Thank you for the replies. It seems that we are right inline with general consensus.

Mr. Moonlight plays the “advance scout” here on SLS. Too many dead ends and it’s just not her thing. Once a couple or single comes to the forefront and looks like a good possibility we share all communications and discuss the possibilities going forward. Mrs. Magic is more of our event planner and keeps our schedule straight between our family, vanilla and lifestyle calendar. It’s always a team effort in more ways than one.

I will filter out all the requests and then show her the ones that look good. She makes all final decisions.

On the site here i(male) try to weed out the crazies.... Ones they past (level1) then i ask the wife to approve...

Wife has final approbal

On the site here i(male) try to weed out the crazies.... Ones they past (level1) then i ask the wife to approve...

Wife has final approbal

In your relationship Who takes the lead in finding your third for your play?