SLaP! is a meet & greet event hosted by Purgatory Dungeon on in Albuquerque, NM. This event is open to adults 18 and older. Tickets are available at https://purgatorydungeon.com/events/87849/orders/new.
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SLaP!
Social Learn and Play
NM-REAL SLaP is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP events will be held most months on the third Friday.
Stop letting reality slap you in the face! Its more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP.
Each month NM-REAL SLaP will have social time and space for social interaction, one to three classes, followed by a sex-positive play party. Hang out and socialize, be a voyeur, be an exhibitionist. One area will have low to moderate level volume house music so you can hear each other. Other areas will have quiet space to relax and talk. Check out each event to see which educational activities will be held. Our play time has both a larger pansexual play party spaces (beds, cabanas, pan videos, and dungeon area) and a male-identifying only space a room with beds and male videos. Other focused spaces can be created if there is sufficient demand let us know.
All our events strive for safe space for all through attendee required behavior that is respectful, ethical, and inclusive. Our space is for 21+ year olds, no alcohol or illegal drugs. Outdoor space is available for vaping and smoking.
We hope you come to the whole event to socialize; however, you can also just attend the education or play sessions. SLaP is brought to you by the partnership that produced Kinktoberfest 2025 and NM Leather & Kink Fair, including NM-REAL, Inc. a charitable non-profit, and Purgatory Dungeon. Check out nm-real.com, purgatorydungeon.com, Kinktoberfest.com, and NMLKF.com for more information about those organizations and events.
Schedule for Friday SLaP! Events
- 6 pm: Doors open
- 630-8 pm: Education, 1-3 classes (check ad for each event)
- 815-845 pm: Fantasy - BDSM Entertainment, Mardis Gras Theme
- 8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play Party
Fantasies
We will have one or more fantasies at this SLaP! A Fantasy is a 3-5
minute entertainment performance demonstration of BDSM activity. The
scheduled fantasy has a Mardis Gras theme!
Lockdown: Introduction to Chastity - by Vid**
We invite curious, adventurous adults into a candid, hands-on
exploration of male chastity devices within sex-positive, alternative
communities. This class blends practical education with lived
experience, creating a space thats equal parts informative, playful,
and unapologetically honest. Whether youre new to cages or looking to
deepen an established practice, youll gain a clear understanding of
what chastity devices are, how theyre designed, and how different
styles can support a wide range of power dynamics, sensations, and
erotic intentions.
Format of the class is intentionally interactive. Alongside concise
lecture segments, Vid will host a show-and-tell where students are
encouraged to wear their own cages, share what works for them, and
compare designs in a supportive, judgment-free environment. A selection
of cages will also be available for trying on, allowing participants to
explore fit, materials, and aesthetics firsthand. Nudity will be
present, and consent, respect, and personal boundaries are foundational
to the class.
Beyond the hardware, the class looks at why people choose chastity:
themes of control and surrender, focus and denial, role exploration, and
long-term dynamics. Practical considerationsmeasurement, comfort,
hygiene, sourcing, and sustainabilityround out the discussion so
curiosity is paired with responsibility. Come ready to learn, observe,
and engage with a topic that sits at the intersection of kink, intimacy,
and intentional power exchange.
Vid is co-owner of Limax Baccus, a small 2-person team based on
Albuquerque that creates art and sex toys. Started in 2024 from scratch,
they have popped up in and around Albuquerque for various markets. From
public art to profane parts, there's always something for everyone.
Bedroom Bondage (Beyond just sex) -by Twizted Magic & otherKitty**
Bondage can be so much more than restraintit can be a slow,
intoxicating dance of seduction, connection, and trust. In this class,
well explore how rope can heighten intimacy, deepen desire, and turn
foreplay into an unforgettable experience. Youll learn how to tease the
mind as much as the body, using creative positions and sensual ties that
invite both passion and playfulness. The Sommerville Bowline single
column tie is your key to unlocking this workshop, so please arrive
already familiarwhether from our 101 class, our YouTube channel, or
your own practice. If youre brand new to rope, we recommend starting
with Rope Bondage 101 so you can fully savor everything this class has
to offer. Bring your curiosity, your partner, and your desire to make
the bedroom your playground.
TwiztedMagic & otherKitty, have had a tying partnership for a couple
years, that has been absolutely magical! Their rope bondage approach has
both Japanese and Western influences. They believe that a solid
foundation of core principles and techniques is an essential key to
learning. TwiztedMagic has put in thousands of hours in practice and
application. otherKitty has about 2 years of Bottoming experience and
has been learning to tie as well. They strive to maintain a learning
and growth mindset as individuals and rope artists. Seeing a need in
their community, they founded KnotScience_NM, an organization with the
goal of creating change and furthering Rope Bondage education in New Mexico.
Questions: [email protected] or text 505-525-5397
Purgatory Dungeon
and
NM-REAL
PRESENTS
SLaP!
Social Learn and Play
NM-REAL SLaP is a monthly Kink Social, Learning, and sex-positive Play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. SLaP events will be held most months on the third Friday.
Stop letting reality slap you in the face! Its more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP.
Each month NM-REAL SLaP will have social time and space for social interaction, one to three classes, followed by a sex-positive play party. Hang out and socialize, be a voyeur, be an exhibitionist. One area will have low to moderate level volume house music so you can hear each other. Other areas will have quiet space to relax and talk. Check out each event to see which educational activities will be held. Our play time has both a larger pansexual play party spaces (beds, cabanas, pan videos, and dungeon area) and a male-identifying only space a room with beds and male videos. Other focused spaces can be created if there is sufficient demand let us know.
All our events strive for safe space for all through attendee required behavior that is respectful, ethical, and inclusive. Our space is for 21+ year olds, no alcohol or illegal drugs. Outdoor space is available for vaping and smoking.
We hope you come to the whole event to socialize; however, you can also just attend the education or play sessions. SLaP is brought to you by the partnership that produced Kinktoberfest 2025 and NM Leather & Kink Fair, including NM-REAL, Inc. a charitable non-profit, and Purgatory Dungeon. Check out nm-real.com, purgatorydungeon.com, Kinktoberfest.com, and NMLKF.com for more information about those organizations and events.
Schedule for Friday SLaP! Events
- 6 pm: Doors open
- 630-8 pm: Education, 1-3 classes (check ad for each event)
- 815-845 pm: Fantasy - BDSM Entertainment, Mardis Gras Theme
- 8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play Party
Fantasies
We will have one or more fantasies at this SLaP! A Fantasy is a 3-5
minute entertainment performance demonstration of BDSM activity. The
scheduled fantasy has a Mardis Gras theme!
Lockdown: Introduction to Chastity - by Vid**
We invite curious, adventurous adults into a candid, hands-on
exploration of male chastity devices within sex-positive, alternative
communities. This class blends practical education with lived
experience, creating a space thats equal parts informative, playful,
and unapologetically honest. Whether youre new to cages or looking to
deepen an established practice, youll gain a clear understanding of
what chastity devices are, how theyre designed, and how different
styles can support a wide range of power dynamics, sensations, and
erotic intentions.
Format of the class is intentionally interactive. Alongside concise
lecture segments, Vid will host a show-and-tell where students are
encouraged to wear their own cages, share what works for them, and
compare designs in a supportive, judgment-free environment. A selection
of cages will also be available for trying on, allowing participants to
explore fit, materials, and aesthetics firsthand. Nudity will be
present, and consent, respect, and personal boundaries are foundational
to the class.
Beyond the hardware, the class looks at why people choose chastity:
themes of control and surrender, focus and denial, role exploration, and
long-term dynamics. Practical considerationsmeasurement, comfort,
hygiene, sourcing, and sustainabilityround out the discussion so
curiosity is paired with responsibility. Come ready to learn, observe,
and engage with a topic that sits at the intersection of kink, intimacy,
and intentional power exchange.
Vid is co-owner of Limax Baccus, a small 2-person team based on
Albuquerque that creates art and sex toys. Started in 2024 from scratch,
they have popped up in and around Albuquerque for various markets. From
public art to profane parts, there's always something for everyone.
Bedroom Bondage (Beyond just sex) -by Twizted Magic & otherKitty**
Bondage can be so much more than restraintit can be a slow,
intoxicating dance of seduction, connection, and trust. In this class,
well explore how rope can heighten intimacy, deepen desire, and turn
foreplay into an unforgettable experience. Youll learn how to tease the
mind as much as the body, using creative positions and sensual ties that
invite both passion and playfulness. The Sommerville Bowline single
column tie is your key to unlocking this workshop, so please arrive
already familiarwhether from our 101 class, our YouTube channel, or
your own practice. If youre brand new to rope, we recommend starting
with Rope Bondage 101 so you can fully savor everything this class has
to offer. Bring your curiosity, your partner, and your desire to make
the bedroom your playground.
TwiztedMagic & otherKitty, have had a tying partnership for a couple
years, that has been absolutely magical! Their rope bondage approach has
both Japanese and Western influences. They believe that a solid
foundation of core principles and techniques is an essential key to
learning. TwiztedMagic has put in thousands of hours in practice and
application. otherKitty has about 2 years of Bottoming experience and
has been learning to tie as well. They strive to maintain a learning
and growth mindset as individuals and rope artists. Seeing a need in
their community, they founded KnotScience_NM, an organization with the
goal of creating change and furthering Rope Bondage education in New Mexico.
Questions: [email protected] or text 505-525-5397
- Date
- Time
- 9:00 PM - 4:00 AM
- Type
- Meet & Greet
- Host
- Purgatory Dungeon
- Location
- Albuquerque, NM
- Ages
- 18+