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Swinger & Lifestyle Events in San Diego, CA - 39 Upcoming Events

Find 39 upcoming swinger and lifestyle events in San Diego, CA from 2 verified hosts within 50 miles. Browse club nights, parties, hotel takeovers, and travel events from local organizers.

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Club Safe Word
TomorrowWho's Rope Is It Anyway?
Tue, May 5, 2026
Ready for a Night of Fun Challenges? Who's Rope is it Anyway: Where the activities are ridiculous and so are the points! Come join us! - register here! Event Details and Overview: Check-In: Doors open at 6:30 PM for check-in / Doors close at 6:50! Event starts at 7 PM and goes until 9 PM. Location:
Club Safe Word
TomorrowWhipped Cream Monday
Tue, May 5, 2026
From $18
Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! For quicker check-in at a Play Party, please register for Membership on www.clubsafeword.com Membership Currently $12.99 a month(3 mo=$33, 6 mo=$52, 1 Year=$90) If you are a member of an affiliate collaborator Club, please register and contact us to gain premium
Club Safe Word
TodayKinky Karaoke
Mon, May 4, 2026
$8.60
Lets get together to sing karaoke in a naughty setting where clothing is ALWAYS optional! There will be a play party right after if you want to stick around. Bring your own alcohol and something for a potluck to share! As always, we will have some mixers and alcohol for donations but it might not be
House of Black
Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
Mon, May 18, 2026
From $5
CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP ABOUT THE GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (CNM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo po
House of Black
A Black Tie Affair - A Night of Rope Education
Wed, May 13, 2026
San Diego, CA
From $15
A BLACK TIE AFFAIR A Rope Practice Hosted by: Shel Educators: Talented Mr Jay & bunny Black Tie Affiar is a skills-based class designed for all levels on a rotating basis. Whether you're a beginner or an intermediate, everyone can sharpen their technique. The evening includes a short intro on consen
House of Black
In 2 DaysHoB Meet & Greet @ KILOWATT BREWERY - OCEANSIDE
Wed, May 6, 2026
Oceanside, CA
Want to meet other like-minded individuals, learn more about House of Black & More, & have a good night out? Come Join Us for this Month's Meet n Greet at Kilowatt Oceanside Location! Come Meet and Mingle with Potential and Regular HOB Members alike. Socialize, connect, and make new friends and/or p

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