Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group

House of Black
Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group

Sun, May 17, 2026 · 8:00 PM (Pacific Time (US & Canada))

House of Black

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CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP
ABOUT THE GROUP
This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (CNM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly...)
Struggles in CNM relationships often grow out of unclear expectations, passive communication, and a resistance to being accountable for your own emotions. This group is intended to be a resource for understanding and participating in these lifestyles from an emotionally healthy lens, for exorcising mononormative cultural conditioning, and ultimately engaging in personal growth. Expect to be challenged on issues of codependence, boundaries v rules, radical honesty, and others.

YOUR HOSTS

JnPplay

Patty and Jon have been navigating the wild, wonderful world of Ethical Non-Monogamy for 30 yearsand theyre here to share the ups, downs, and all the juicy in-betweens! Married for 28 years and currently thriving in a poly quad, theyve explored everything from polyamory to swinging to BDSM with an open heart and a healthy dose of curiosity.


Patty, whos diving into the depths of psychology, loves unpacking relationship dynamics and the magic of meaningful connections. Jon is equally passionate about fostering trust, communication, and an inclusive space where people can be their most authentic selves. Together, they support sex positivity, LGBTQIA+ advocacy, and the belief that honesty, respect, and a dash of fun make for the best conversations.


Whether youre new to ENM or a seasoned adventurer, their discussion group is a judgment-free zone where real talk happens, insights are shared, and laughter is always welcome. Come join the conversation, swap stories, and celebrate the beautiful, unconventional paths that make life exciting!

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