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Swing.com lists 381 public lifestyle events on the calendar for May 2026: 161 club nights, 136 parties, 5 hotel takeovers, and 79 other events. Listings span 109 cities, with the most activity in Houston, TX, Toronto, ON, and New York, NY. Participating venues this month include 231 Mutual Connections, Allures, and Bonnie and Clyde LS. Click any day below to see what is happening, sorted by distance from you.

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Colette Dallas
In 2 Dayscolette Dallas Hotwife Night

colette Dallas Hotwife Night

Dallas, TX
From $20
9 PM - 4 AM The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his ho
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7 Events
Colette New Orleans
In 2 Dayscolette New Orleans Thirty Dollar Thursd

colette New Orleans Thirty Dollar Thursd

New Orleans, LA
From $10
colette New Orleans Thirty Dollar Thursday New Orleans 9:00 PM - 2:00 AM Every Thursday. Don't miss
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Colette San Antonio
In 2 DaysThirty Dollar Thursdays

Thirty Dollar Thursdays

San Antonio, TX
From $10
Every Thursday. Don't miss this excellent opportunity to experience colette at an incredible price.
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Ice Lounge / Infamous Entertainment Wichita & Chic
In 2 DaysWICHITA: Freaky Friday IYKYK

WICHITA: Freaky Friday IYKYK

Haysville, Kansas
From $5
Meet the community of Ice Lounge Wichita! Please read all the details pertaining to the event in your confirmation email(check spam) About the Event Description: This lounge will feature: Live DJ Dance Floor Snacks Patio Area Outdoor seating with bonfire. Twin Rainfall Open Shower Room **THERE'S ABS
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Le Boudoir Club
In 2 DaysTHE MORE THE MERRIER!

THE MORE THE MERRIER!

From $30
WE INVITE YOU TO THE MORE THE MERRIER AN EVENING WHEN LADIES ARE LOOKING FOR A LITTLE MORE GENTLEMAN.... THIS FRIDAY PARTY IS FOR COUPLES, FEMALES AND SINGLE MALES Le Boudoir is the UK's smartest lifestyle venue, where a world of naughtiness, sexual liberation, and debauchery hides in every corner.
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Ohio Swings
In 2 DaysGlow Party

Glow Party

New Carlisle, OH
From $30
We supply the glow, the blinky, the flashy. You supply the sexy bodies!!! Our parties are laid back
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On the Border Lifestyle Co.
TomorrowThe Ultimate Adult Summer Camp - Sooner Swing 26

The Ultimate Adult Summer Camp - Sooner Swing 26

From $115
Get Tickets May 2831, 2026 Central Oklahoma The Ultimate Adult Summer Camp Year three and bigger than ever one of the largest lifestyle festivals on the planet . Think adult summer camp with zero judgment and maximum joy: vow it out in a hot-air balloon (yes, sky-high weddings are a thing), chase su
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Pendulum Club
In 2 Days7 SLUTTY DRESS FRIDAY NORTH

7 SLUTTY DRESS FRIDAY NORTH

Spring, TX
From $32.48
NORTH LOCATION!!! Must see this club! TPC is now in NORTH HOUSTON! FRIDAY NIGHT IS SLUTTY DRESS NIGH
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Purgatory Dungeon
In 2 DaysPurgatory Dungeon Kink School

Purgatory Dungeon Kink School

Albuquerque, NM
From $10
Rope Class with KnotScience_NM This class is perfect for complete beginners, as well as those lookin
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SoCalCircus
In 2 DaysSoCalCircus Friday 05/29 8PM eXXXtremely action p

SoCalCircus Friday 05/29 8PM eXXXtremely action p

Garden Grove, CA
THIS IS AN EXCELLENT PARTY FOR WOMEN & COUPLES WHO LOVE LOTS OF ACTION! Call us RIGHT AWAY at 909-549-5236 (Please do not text) and PLAN IN ADVANCE if possible. Spots for girls and couples are limited and they are going faster than ever! We only allow six girls/couples per party and those spots will
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SpectrumABQ
In 2 DaysPurgatory Shibari Rope Class

Purgatory Shibari Rope Class

Purgatory Dungeon Class Rope Class Rope Class with KnotScience_NM This class is perfect for complete
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Trapeze Club Atlanta
In 2 DaysHello My Name Is... Icebreaker Party

Hello My Name Is... Icebreaker Party

Atlanta, GA
Kick off your weekend the right way at our Meet & Greet! It’s a simple, fun way to connect, shar
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Trapeze Club Fort Lauderdale
In 2 DaysUnderboob Night

Underboob Night

Fort Lauderdale, FL
A bold little tease where daring cuts, confident curves, and barely-there style take center stage! S
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Wild Walker's
In 2 DaysVIP- Frisky Meet and Greet

VIP- Frisky Meet and Greet

Dearborn Heights, MI
Club Wild Walkers Presents A Free No Cover Lifestyle VIP Meet and Greet. Open to All Lifestyle Peopl
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Allures
Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional

Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional

Sacramento, CA
Special Event Allures and Topless Travel brings our Premier and Exclusive Lifestyle Experience to Jaco, Costa Rica for a spa resort weeklong TAKEOVER! Join us in exotic Costa Rica from May 23-May 31, 2026, for a clothing optional takeover of a resort paradise! This tropical boutique hotel features 2
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CaligulaNY
In 2 DaysCALIGULA NY PRESENTS: COUGARS MILFS & HOT WIVES [FORNICATION FRIDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA

CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: COUGARS MILFS & HOT WIVES [FORNICATION FRIDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA

Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY Presents: In Fridays We Trust COUGARS MILFS & HOT WIVES [FORNICATION FRIDAY EDITION] A SEXY WINTER SHARE A HOTWIFE COUGAR OR MILF PLAY PARTY ALL NEW FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY DOORS OPEN AT ******900PM-400AM****** ****THE INDOOR SMOKING ROOM IS OPEN**** SPECIAL GUEST DJ-DJ SUPA SO
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CHECKMATE NYC
In 2 DaysEROTICA FRIDAYS

EROTICA FRIDAYS

New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only
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Club Chemistry
In 2 DaysFreaky Friday

Freaky Friday

Madison, TN
Come party with us at Club Chemistry! ? We are a private, members-only upscale club, proudly woman-led and dedicated to creating a stylish, comfortable, and secure environment for open-minded adults. Our discreet security team ensures the privacy and safety you deserve from the moment you arrive. Me
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Club Eden
In 2 DaysSATX Lets Glow Crazy Friday

SATX Lets Glow Crazy Friday

San Antonio, TX
From $30
Let's GLOW CRAZY FRIDAY $50 VIP MEMBER COUPLES $65 DAILY MEMBER COUPLES $30 DAILY MEMBER FEMALES $16
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Club Flavor Ohio
In 2 DaysMermaids & Cabana Boys & May Birthdays -($40 Prepay Friday)

Mermaids & Cabana Boys & May Birthdays -($40 Prepay Friday)

Massillon, OH
RSVP Today! Must have an active membership to attend!!!! Memberships sold separately. Event Details: Slip into a world where tropical fantasy meets irresistible temptation at Mermaids & Cabana Boys an unforgettable night of ocean-inspired seduction, exotic energy, and upscale nightlife indulgence. F
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Calendar FAQ

How many lifestyle events are on the calendar for May 2026?

Swing.com currently lists 381 public lifestyle events for May 2026, including 161 club nights, 136 parties, 5 hotel takeovers, and 79 other events. Signed-in SwingLifestyle members may also see Hot Dates planned for these dates.

Why are some days greyed out with a diagonal line?

Days in the past are visually muted with a diagonal slash. Past events still display so you can browse history, but the calendar emphasizes upcoming dates.

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How are the events on a selected day ordered?

Events are sorted by distance from your location, closest first. The default location comes from your member profile zip code; visitors can override it with the location field above the day list. Items without a known location sink to the bottom of the list.

How do I list my own event on the calendar?

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