伦理非一夫一妻制中的延迟射精：原因、影响及解决方案
Want to send us a message? Premature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more th…
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找到你的声音：如何在开放关系中设定界限
Want to send us a message? When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical…
肮脏的香草正在破坏摇摆（或者它们没有吗？）
Want to send us a message? There s a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are dirty vanillas (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or i…
You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters)
Want to send us a message? How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You ve been asking the wrong question.Society pushes a magic number for sexual frequency that s causing …
Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend?
Want to send us a message? Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party?This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relations…
我的爱好冒犯到你的生活方式了吗？
Want to send us a message? Is swinging just a lighthearted hobby… or a defining lifestyle choice? In this episode of our swinger lifestyle podcast, we dive into the hobby vs lifestyle debate that’s sp…
夺回争议：摇摆中的热仪式还是问题占有
Want to send us a message? Is reclaiming in the swinging lifestyle sexy ritual or possessive play? Ed and Phoebe unpack this controversial term, sharing their real experiences and perspectives from …
STI谣言破灭：关于STI检测和安全性的裸真相
Want to send us a message? Get real answers to burning questions about STI safety in the swinging lifestyle. Ed and Phoebe break down common myths, honest risks, and practical tips for safer sex at pa…
打破刻板印象：年龄、体型和偏好在摆荡社群中的表现
Want to send us a message? Curious about what diversity really means in the swinger lifestyle? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe break down the surprising variety you’ll find—and why it’s not what you mi…
你可能和错误的伴侣在一起的几个迹象！
Want to send us a message? Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates g…
5技巧让我们挥杆成功
Want to send us a message? 00:00 - Start01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change12:40 - Tip 5: Trust21:34 - Lets ta…
你的花花公子卡过期了吗？
Want to send us a message? Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you.In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University si…
随机播客如何永远改变了我们的婚姻！- 我们的第一次摆荡体验
Want to send us a message? Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secre…
解开摇摆者的生活方式：无需经验！
Want to send us a message? Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don t know where to start? This video is for you! We ll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and ofte…
摆荡有风险吗？政治斗争争取非一夫多妻制权利
Want to send us a message? With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect ou…
ED, 恐惧表现与摆动——无人谈论的秘密
Want to send us a message? You re in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound fa…
美国的性教育问题：Alex Liu在《性解释》中全盘托出
Want to send us a message? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of A Sexplanation , a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual sti…
酒精与癌症风险：每个摆荡者都应该知道什么
Want to send us a message? In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and …
我们抛弃了所有的规则，但你感觉如何？
Want to send us a message? In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotiona…
新关系能量NRE - 不破坏婚姻！
Want to send us a message? Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger UniversityCan New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or …
Ashley Manta：解锁你最好的性生活——正念、大麻和同意
Want to send us a message? Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger Universit…
撩骚大师课：如何在任何约会情境中接近、连接并达成协议
Want to send us a message? Have you ever been confused about a couple s interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you ll be masters at approaching, connecting sealing the deal. In this episode…
Admit You're DTF - It's Okay, We Understand!
Want to send us a message? Are terms like DTF or friends with benefits shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the friends…
接吻与讲述：分享性感故事是否总是可以的？
Want to send us a message? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of kissing and telling within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how…
我们抛弃了所有的规则 - 我们第一次完整的交换派对体验
Want to send us a message? Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party host…
为什么摆荡者面临审判：解构社会对强加信念的需求
Want to send us a message? In this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. Fro…
随意性交很糟糕 - 但能变得更好吗？
Want to send us a message? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into the unspoken truths about casual sex in the swinger community. 💬 Discover how the quality of sex can var…
摆荡者是规则破坏者——哪些规则可以打破？
Want to send us a message? In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, hosts Ed and Phoebe tackle the provocative idea that swingers are rule breakers in society s eyes. They explore how the …
5 Tips para Mejores Experiencias en Eventos Swinger
Want to send us a message? Maximize Your Fun at Swinger Events with These 5 Essential Tips! 🎉Welcome to another insightful episode of Swinger University! Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they share their …
社交媒体对你的摆动游戏有多糟糕？
Want to send us a message? Join Phoebe and Ed as they escape to the mountains for a candid discussion on the impact of social media on both regular and Swinger lives. This episode explores the addicti…
享乐主义评论 - 第五部分 双体船游
Want to send us a message? Join us in this exciting episode as we recount our mesmerizing catamaran cruise experience at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! 🌊✨ Overcoming our initial hesitations due to mo…
享乐主义2评论：第4部分 海滩泳池和度假村问题
Want to send us a message? It s not all fun and games in paradise. Phoebe and I discuss the challenges of pool time when trying to connect and flirt when both partners aren t right next to each other.…
享乐度假村评论：第3天的游历与享乐者 vs 摇摆者游轮
Want to send us a message? Continuing our in-depth review during our week in Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Phoebe and I dig into some of the excursions (some of them are free too!). We take a trip on …
享乐主义2评论：第2天泳池派对，性感乐趣和丛林照片
Want to send us a message? Welcome to another exciting episode reviewing Hedonism in Jamaica! Join us as we dive into our second day at the beautiful Hedo Beach resort. This episode is packed with unf…
享乐主义2评论：牙买加第一天的第一印象
Want to send us a message? Welcome to Jamaica! Join us for an in-depth look at our first visit to the infamous Hedo II resort. From the moment we arrived, we were captivated by the vibrant atmosphere,…
The Pitfalls of Swinging - It's not all fun and games
Want to send us a message? Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the…
摇摆生意的肮脏一面
Want to send us a message? Do you love your community and want more events? Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are. We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging bu…
聊天室糟透了！——但你可能会喜欢它们……
Want to send us a message? Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and f…
为什么你应该参加一次摇摆者游轮！- 快乐游轮
Want to send us a message? If you ve never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one o…
We're Back!
Want to send us a message? It s been a while since you ve heard from us... We ve been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversit…
Breaking Free from the Pink Box: Challenging Society's Beauty Standards
Want to send us a message? Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shape…
Dreaming in Ecstasy: The Fascinating World of Nocturnal Female Orgasms
Want to send us a message? 🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that l…
Taking One for the Team - Do You Compromise?
Want to send us a message? Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of Taking one for the team . How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In…
Swinger Lifestyle Exposed: 10 Things That Suck about the Lifestyle
Want to send us a message? There s a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover…
30 Days in a Cage - The LOCKtober Challenge
Want to send us a message? Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this se…
Folsom Street Fair: A Liberating Experience
Want to send us a message? 🌟 Step into the exhilarating world of the Folsom Street Fair with Swinger University. Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they take you on a journey through this celebration of sex…
Gossip and Bullying in the lifestyle - What should you do?
Want to send us a message? Join Ed and Phoebe in this enlightening episode as they delve into the intriguing world of ethical non-monogamy, exploring the depths of gossip in the swinger lifestyle. Lea…
Testosterone Replacement - Are You Sure It's Good for You?
Want to send us a message? As we ve matured our body chemistry has changed. Do men need testosterone replacement therapy? Phoebe discussed some women s issues in a previous episode about hormone repla…
Testosterone therapy for women. Is it safe for you?
Want to send us a message? In recent years, testosterone therapy for women has gained popularity, fueled by self-styled menopause specialists on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as …
Is Bioidentical Hormone Replacement (BHRT) Right for You?
Want to send us a message? Menopause is a phase in a woman s life that brings about hormonal changes with potential effects on various aspects of health. These changes can impact skin tone, muscle mas…
😯 The Condom Slipped Off! How To Have "THE" Conversation
Want to send us a message? Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off? How was it communicated to you? What was your reaction? Can you come back from this?Instead…
Negative Swinger Reactions to the No Kissing Rule
Want to send us a message? We discovered some surprising reactions to the NO Kissing Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the NO Kissing rule is a …
Costa Rica 2023 - Days 5-7
Want to send us a message? In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe recap the past few days of their vacation. They discuss their excursions to the waterfall and the fun …
Costa Rica 2023 - Day 4
Want to send us a message? Welcome to day four of Ed and Phoebe s trip to Costa Rica. They are currently at Hotel Jaco in Jako, sitting outside the bar on a picnic table with a view of the ocean. They…
Costa Rica 2023 - Day 3
Want to send us a message? In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe give a recap of their activities on Day 2 of their Costa Rica trip. They talk about their pool time, i…
Costa Rica 2023 - Day 2
Want to send us a message? In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, Ed and Phoebe share their experiences on day 1 of their Costa Rica Takeover. They talk about the orientation day, a unique…
Costa Rica 2023 - Day 1
Want to send us a message? Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University podcast, are in Costa Rica to celebrate their anniversary. They talk about their experiences in Costa Rica, including thei…
Is a Prince Albert Piercing Sexually Satisfying?
Want to send us a message? In my 20’s I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so…
The Bizarre History of Hair Removal... and the C Word!
Want to send us a message? We explore two intriguing topics: why the heck cunt is so controversial, and why women feel the need to shave their pubic hair to look like children down there! So get re…
Moaning In The Bedroom - You Should Do It
Want to send us a message? In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partner…
Layla London’s Most Unbelievable Secrets!
Want to send us a message? Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?! We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur in…
Explore Swinging and Compersion in an Exciting New Way!
Want to send us a message? Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from Compersion . Nik and Mik use th…
Exploring the Exciting World of BDSM with Dr. Tiffany "K."
Want to send us a message? In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of BDSM and Dominance and Submission (DS) relationships with Dr. Tiffany K . We explore the basics of BDSM and the d…
Want LIFESTYLE Success? Let Go of THIS One Emotion
Want to send us a message? Welcome to this episode of our podcast where we have the pleasure of interviewing Jackie Golob, a sex therapist, coach, and holistic healer. Jackie is the proud owner of Sha…
How to Ask for What You Want in Bed
Want to send us a message? Many people aren t experiencing the pleasure they want in the bedroom, simply because they don t know how to ask for it. Do you ask for pleasure? How do you ask for it? Y…
Are you Ready for Separate Room Full Swap?
Want to send us a message? Have you ever thought about separate room play? Your partner is in one room and you are in the other, each playing with your new partners. We openly discuss the possibilit…
Ed and Phoebe Full Swap with Toronto Unicorn
Want to send us a message? Phoebe and I did a full swap with Toronto Unicorn and had a great time! We filmed it, and recorded audio too… Oh not THAT kind of full swap, but we did have about as much fu…
How To Pick The Best Feeling Condom
Want to send us a message? Do you have a love hate relationship with condoms? You love the safety it provides to yourself and your partner but hate the insulating feel. The size of the condom, the m…
Discover the Bombshells Ed & Phoebe Shared on the Strictly Anonymous Podcast!
Want to send us a message? Swinger University gets interviewed by the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Come listen in as we talk about how we got started, how we like to play, and some of the fun things we…
The Condom Slipped Off - Do I have an STI?!
Want to send us a message? Have you ever had a condom slip off when having sex with other partners? We cover what you need to do when you discover you have an STI. Your, your partner, and your sexua…
Swinger Cruise 2022 - Bliss Cruise Wrap-up
Want to send us a message? It s time for our recap on the November 2022 Bliss Cruise. Every time we go on a Swinger Cruise the experience is different. It s a choose-your-own-adventure swing-cation;…
Swinger Cruise 2022 - Day 2 Recap
Want to send us a message? Our second day on the Bliss Swinger Cruise. Due to internet issues in the ship, we could not deliver on our promise to get you the dirty details. Phoebe and I are sitting in…
Internet fail.
Want to send us a message? We tried. We really did. The internet in the ship is sooooo bad. Just a note about why we failed to deliver. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull…
Swinger Cruise 2022 - Day 1 Recap
Want to send us a message? What a great start to our week-long adventure aboard the Bliss Cruise Pre-cruise Party at an estate🏠with: @SapphicSwingers, @AverageSwingers, @2HotWives, and 10 of their…
Swinger Cruise Review: Why We Keep Going Back to Bliss
Want to send us a message? Swinger University is about to hit the seven seas, or at least the Caribbean Ocean, for their third Bliss Cruise. Want to know why we keep coming back, and what we have plan…
Ed and Phoebe are Coming Out!
Want to send us a message? This is our coming out episode. We ve been pondering coming out since day one of the podcast. And today is that day! It s not every day that this happens, it s a once in a …
Do You Know the 5 Types of Swingers in the Lifestyle?
Want to send us a message? We examine five types of swingers in this episode: vanilla swinger, hobby swinger, celestial swinger, friends-only swinger, and DTFer (Down to F*ck swinger). We define each …
Ch-Ch-Changes - What's changed after 10 years of swinging
Want to send us a message? Ed and Phoebe reveal how they have grown in the swinging lifestyle as individuals and as a couple. Over the past 10 years, their lives have become richer, more satisfying, …
Things Men Don’t Give A F*ck About
Want to send us a message? Men are pretty easy creatures, at least when it comes to sex. We have strong opinions about many things…but when it comes to sex, we enjoy it, however we can get it. We are…
How Big Is Too Big? Women Tell All!
Want to send us a message? If you have ever wondered if women prefer bigger cocks then you might be surprised when they prefer it. Swinging provides novelty to swinger s sex lives and dick size tend…
Does Penis Size Matter? What Women in the Lifestyle Really Think
Want to send us a message? People tend to overestimate themselves in all things and penis size is no different. Then you start swinging and now everything gets accentuated! Swinging makes us vulnera…
Manscaped for Swinging
Want to send us a message? Being manscaped for swinging is the least we can do for our potential play partners. Make a good first impression by looking sharp, smelling nice, and not choking her with y…
Costa Rica 2023 Swinger University Takeover
Want to send us a message? Join us for our podcast resort takeover in Cost Rica from June 3rd - 10th, 2023! It s an all-inclusive, clothing-optional, jungle resort takeover with a playroom suite, spa…
How Sun Exposure can Ruin Your Lifestyle Vacation
Want to send us a message? Getting together with swingers is so much fun we almost forget why we go to lifestyle swinger resorts and hotel events. Most of us are there to experience sex with other pe…
Swinger House Party: Cliques, Consent, Comfort
Want to send us a message? This podcast talks about swinger cliques and how to break into one, get consent from someone, and how our comfort level in the lifestyle has changed. SHOW NOTES: Obstacle 1…
Nipple Play & Nipple "O"s
Want to send us a message? Nipple and areola play is fun, and for some women, it is critical to their clitoral and vaginal orgasm. Some women can have nipple-gasms from nipple play alone! An estim…
A Better Class of Hot Content
Want to send us a message? Porn! Soon as we had the technology to produce moving pictures, pornos were born. Moving visual stimulus of real people having sex is about as close as most vanilla folks g…
Audio & Literature Erotica
Want to send us a message? Erotica is incredibly important in the female world since 90% of women use their imagination to get aroused. Cum with us to discover May is Masturbation Month and learn abo…
Open Your Legs for May!
Want to send us a message? May is National Masturbation Month! Its cumming out day was May 7, 2015, and since then has taken over the entire month. Join us for information on health reasons, techniq…
Bacterial Vaginosis: How To Swing Around It
Want to send us a message? Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) is an important topic that seems to affect many women in the lifestyle. We have more research and better information on BV and the swinging lifest…
Are You Missing Out? - There's More to Swinging Than Full Swap!
Want to send us a message? If your end game in swinging is always full swap, you might be missing out! We discuss the expansive creativity, and FUN, that occurs when full swap is off the table. Come …
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Wrap Up
Want to send us a message? We provide our final review of the Costa Rica Hotel Takeover for the week of April 2-9, 2022. It had it s pros but if you actually wanted to have sex with other people…fi…
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 6
Want to send us a message? Sadly our last daily recap because we head home tomorrow. We ll do a round-up once we re home and settled in... It s the white night theme. We have some more sexy conversati…
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 5
Want to send us a message? Recapping the fifth day here in Costa Rica. Fetish night, getting out of our slump, and some of the ups and downs of the trip. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube…
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 4
Want to send us a message? Phoebe and I recall the day s journey with some serious introspection and some thought and questions for all our listeners. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: …
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 3
Want to send us a message? Catching up on all the adventures of the day. Jungle night, searching for the right couple (as in right now), pool sex with Phoebe. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch o…
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 2
Want to send us a message? Another day in Costa Rica at a fabulous adults-only, all-swinger takeover. More fun, friends, and frolicking in the sun, and on the dance floor. Support the showWant More…
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 1
Want to send us a message? Recording live from the event here in Costa Rica!Our first night of fun and meeting fun new people. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video ve…
The Surprising Truth: Casual Sex vs Deep Connection
Want to send us a message? Is the swinging lifestyle all Sport Forking? Can you make love to someone who isn t your primary partner? This episode breaks down the difference between the two styles of…
Most Common Swinger STI: Trichomoniasis
Want to send us a message? Many STIs and Trichomoniasis can be spread through oral sex. We talk about how to detect it, avoid it, and treat it. Plus, the emotional shame, anger, and resentment that ca…
The Surprising Truth About Catching Feelings in the Lifestyle!
Want to send us a message? Join us for….all the feels: rejection, jealousy, mind games, hokey pokey and zombie feelings. We also share some of our early perceptions of swinging and personal growth. S…
20 Ways To Blow Up Your Swing Game
Want to send us a message? Is your playground missing a swing? There are many things that that can jeopardize your swinging experience; anxiety about physical attributes, personality quirks, lack of …
Fantasy vs. Reality in the Swinger Lifestyle
Want to send us a message? Your swinger fantasy most often will not match reality. There is an exciting plethora of orgasms and orgies you can have while swinging with different types of people in ma…
New Year Hotel Takeover 2021
Want to send us a message? 2021 got better half way through the year band the last few months have allowed us a few opportunities to relax in the company of like minded people. New Years Eve this year…
Halloween Swinger Hotel Takeover 2021
Want to send us a message? Explore with us more swinger dynamics, the NO condom incident, a gallant introduction, the fabulous 4 a.m. 4-some, and the effects of inappropriate touching during Halloween…
Swinger Connections and Games in the Pocket
Want to send us a message? Network, network, network. Every opportunity to connect with other swingers is critical to finding the parties not posted on swinger sites. Networking is fun and connects y…
Good Communication Gone Wrong!
Want to send us a message? Sometimes while swinging, your direct communication goes sideways! We get nude with two couples and reveal the TRUTH about what happened and some tips about how you can avo…
Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 7 And Wrap Up
Want to send us a message? It is with heavy hear that we wrap up this fantastic week. Our last day at Coco Cay turned out to not be such a perfect day, but we made the best of it.Show Notes:Tropical S…
Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 6 Fetish Night!
Want to send us a message? Its almost the last day of the Bliss Cruise… So sad to go, but vacations can t last forever. Enough of that what about the fun?Show Notes:Pool Day X3Where can I sit… ;)Game…
Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 4 and 5 Glow Night!
Want to send us a message? Another day in paradise. Its all about getting your glow on and taking in the sights of St Thomas. We spend some down time and Up time with our friends in another tropical …
Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 3 All That Sparkles
Want to send us a message? Day 3 of the our Bliss Cruise November 2021 Daily series. We re finally hitting our stride on this cruise. We ve met more sexy people and had some new experiences.Show Notes…
Bliss Cruise November 2021 - Day 2 Mardi Trois
Want to send us a message? Another fabulous day at sea. In today s episode we talk about Mardi Trois and all the fabulous people that came out to play.Show Notes:Amazing peopleCostumesFellow podcaster…
BlissCruise November 2021 – Day 1 Sunday Funday
Want to send us a message? This is our second episode in our onboard episodes where we discuss the adventures on our first day back on the Bliss Cruise!Show Notes:BoardingThis thing is HUGEFoodBalconi…
BlissCruise November 2021 - Pre-Cruise!
Want to send us a message? This is our pre-cruise episode, kicking the tires with our mobile setup. Recording in our hotel room in Miami... So far so good.We ll be heading out on the Oasis of the seas…
Swinger Pool Party - Glitter + Clitoris = Glitoris
Want to send us a message? Glitter + Clitoris = Glitoris! The BEST pool party in 2021! In this episode we talk about our 2nd house party after vaccination and our 1st party in the bay area. This party…
Swinging While on Vacation - Rocky Mountain Adventure
Want to send us a message? Swinging during a vanilla vacation can be challenging. We lay out your best options for swinger hook-ups in Colorado. Pre-planning, follow up and a back up plan are key! …
How to Throw a Swinger House Party
Want to send us a message? Thinking of having a swinger party? This podcast covers how and why to have a swinger house party, neighbors, security, safety, supplies, food, drinks, cleanup, setting the…
Life of a Unicorn
Want to send us a message? Are you a single female and are thinking about swinging? This podcast covers what it s like to be a Unicorn in the swinging lifestyle. We address bi-sexuality, dating, saf…
Hotel Glow Party 2021 - Good and Bad Apples
Want to send us a message? Swingers aren t any different then any other social group of humans. There s always people that stand out, some good, some bad. This episode we talk through some highlights …
Body Image and Acceptance
Want to send us a message? We all go through periods of time where we feel like we don t look our best, or that we won t be accepted for how we look. Society doesn t help with our body image issues. …
BV and the "Whiff" Test - Bacterial Vaginosis in the Lifestyle
Want to send us a message? BV or Bacterial Vaginosis. It s a highly transmittable vaginal infection that you don t want to get while swinging. This episode covers: how to perform the whiff test, B…
Dating Red Flags
Want to send us a message? In this episode we talk about those couples you want to avoid having sex with for the first time ...or ever again. We reveal some red flags that may pop up while gettin…
Sexy Dating Profile Photos
Want to send us a message? Looking to boost your profile on any dating site? Take better pictures for your spouse? Get more Instagram followers? We have some tips for you!SHOW NOTES:Look natural, but …
Interview with Sexologist Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb
Want to send us a message? Interview with Certified Sex Therapist and Sexuality Coach, Rhoda Lipscomb! We talk about the unspoken Issue of erections challenges in men and orgasming with your swing pa…
Scam Dating Sites
Want to send us a message? Follow us down the rabbit hole as we expose scam dating sites. Whether you re single or a swinger this episode may just save you a lot of suffering and time on the phone wi…
Loud and Proud or Just Plain Rude at a Swinger Party?
Want to send us a message? In this episode we respond to a listener email about loud orgasms and squirting at swinger events. Along with some of our tips, pros and cons we threw in a few stories. We …
The Three 'C's of Swinging
Want to send us a message? The 3 C s of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending …
How to Give Great Cunnilingus: The Ultimate Guide to Going Down
Want to send us a message? Well, ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is… The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. Gentleman…
DTF or FWB - Let's Unpack This!
Want to send us a message? In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF. Friends With Benefits (FWB)Down To Foxy (DTF)The Nirvana of…
Stamina Expectations and What Can I Do?
Want to send us a message? In this episode we discuss a few questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we ve got a few tips to k…
Crossing The Line in The Lifestyle
Want to send us a message? How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come bac…
How To Get A Second Swinger Date
Want to send us a message? How do you get a second swinger date with a couple? We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident!SHOW NOTES:Post …
Condoms for your Lifestyle Fun
Want to send us a message? Not all condoms are safe for every BODY. We discuss how condoms are different in regards to: additives, chemicals, latex sensitivities, lubricants, flavors, colors, and sha…
15 Reasons Swinging is Better than Dating
Want to send us a message? Everyone likes to rave about single life, especially after getting out of a long-term relationship. We decided to flip this around and offer 15 reasons why staying together,…
Desire Resort Research: Temptations vs. Desire Maya vs. Desire Pearl Compared
Want to send us a message? A review on Swinger Resorts: Temptations, Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl. This review compares and contrasts the differences between the resorts by: demographic, food…
The Allure of Masturbation Revealed!
Want to send us a message? Masturbation is normal, natural and integral to our health and well-being. This episode covers the importance of masturbation, sharing it with your partner and addressing s…
Find Your Perfect Night Out Look: Top Women's Club Wear Picks!
Want to send us a message? Clothes make the swinger... Swingers love to dress up and dress sexy! We discuss the why swingers love it, where to get it, and how to get comfortable wearing nothing but …
Ladies - More Than Just Your Mouth... Please!
Want to send us a message? Learning how to perform fellatio that both people enjoy depends on good communication with your partner, body comfort, education, techniques, an open mind, and enthusiasm! …
Discover the Ultimate Tips to Safeguard Your Swinging Secret!
Want to send us a message? How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you re bound to trip up, and there s a better way. We hel…
Kissing is SO Good
Want to send us a message? The benefits of kissing…not only is it good for your health, increase connection with your partner, kick things off in the bedroom, it may also help you pick your next swing…
What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)? A Complete Beginners Guide
Want to send us a message? Swinging can be defined as non-monogamy, specifically ethical or consensual non-monogamy. We define all types of non-monogamy and explore the mental hurdles and judgeme…
Jealousy vs. Envy
Want to send us a message? Swinging can bring up all kinds of feelings and jealousy and envy are definitely two of them. What is Jealousy? What is Envy? You may find yourself experiencing these emo…
Why Your Lube is SO Important for Your Vaginal Health!
Want to send us a message? Lubes, Lubes, Lubes. Women….which one do you choose? We review all the base type of lubes for your safe swinging pleasure: water, glycerin, silicone, petroleum, and oil. …
The TRUTH About Safe Sex Practices
Want to send us a message? Practicing safe sex may not be something you have done for awhile but if you are starting out in the swinger lifestyle, or are little rusty on your facts, this is definitely…
Finding the Right Swinger Couple
Want to send us a message? Finding the right fit in the swinging lifestyle can be challenging. Swinging with others involves compatibility, attraction, confidence and preferences. It is very much lik…
Randy in Reno - Communication, Expectations, and Flexibility with Swinger Play Dates
Want to send us a message? We share our adventure in Reno with some new friends we met at the 2019 New Years event. We also discuss how important communication , and expectation can be in making any …
Swinger Play Date Essentials - "Ho" bag!
Want to send us a message? Are you ready to go when you get the call for fun? A little pre-planning can make the evening go more smoothly. We discuss what s in our Ho bag, some extras, and the bare…
The Hidden Price of Substance Use in Swinging - Mastering Social & Intimate Connections
Want to send us a message? Overindulging on your drug of choice can have an impact on your interactions while swinging. We recall some of our experiences, and provide examples of how moderation is an …
New Years Hotel Takeover 2019!
Want to send us a message? Join Ed and Phoebe for New Year s 2019 at the largest Northern California Swinger Party. Swing into 2020 with the lows and highs of each night. We met some sexy friends th…
Unicorn House Party with a Side of Single Male
Want to send us a message? Another elective course reviewing a local house party! This party was hosted by one of the local unicorns, and it was fabulous... Join us to hear all the delectable details.…
Unicorn Interview with Alexa - She Does What She's Told
Want to send us a message? We interview Alexa (because she does what she s told...), a lifestyle Unicorn. She will be sharing how she got started swinging, provide advice for the lifestyle, sharing h…
Behind the Scenes of the Most Controversial Resort in Costa Rica
Want to send us a message? Ed and Phoebe document their first trip together out of the country and to a clothing optional, swinger resort! Come join the sexy swinger fun with Swinger University at a s…
Discover the Thrilling History of Swinging in Northern California!
Want to send us a message? An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle, with a combined experience of 50 years, documenting the history of swinging in the Northern California area, the fun, th…
Halloween Swinger Hotel Takeover 2019
Want to send us a message? A review on a fabulous time at the biggest swinger Halloween Party in Northern California. Two nights of on-premise play with 800 sexy swingers having fun! Join us for danc…
Swinger Dating vs. Hit It and Quit
Want to send us a message? Dating couples in the swing lifestyle has advantages and disadvantages. Some couples prefer to hit and quit. Depending on your swing style, dating as a couple is more chal…
Adam & Belle Spill Their Tea on the Swinger Scene!
Want to send us a message? An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle since 2009 sharing how they started swinging, their funny stories about the lifestyle, advice and changes they have seen …
Swinger Party Communication Skills
Want to send us a message? Have you communicated about how you are communicating for an event? We will cover pre-event communication, pep talk, non-verbal and verbal communication and signals. We sh…
Anything But Clothes Swinger Party
Want to send us a message? A review of one of the fabulous swinger events in Northern California. A unique, sexy and sensual swing lifestyle experience that draws new and long-time swingers for danci…
What REALLY Happens at Swinger Parties: The Honest Truth
Want to send us a message? In today s course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event. We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow. Atten…
What Really Goes Down at a Swinger House Party
Want to send us a message? A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends. We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another …
Best Swinger Apps and Sites: Tools for Connecting With Other Couples
Want to send us a message? In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers. We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful …
Other Uses for Your Tongue - How To Talk To Swingers
Want to send us a message? Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle. How should you han…
Talking Through Swinger Insecurities and Fears
Want to send us a message? Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship. With swingers it s critical, not only for your success in the lifestyle, but also for the success of your relationshi…
How to Build Your Dating or Swinger Profile
Want to send us a message? Your swinger profile, or your dating profile, will either make or break your chances with prospective play partners. . We have some tips for putting together a first-class …
Bliss Cruise Review - Spring 2019
Want to send us a message? Today’s elective course is about the April 2019 Bliss Swinger Cruise. We’ll talk about what to expect, what to bring, and some sexy stories. Grab your sunscreen cause its a …
The Pleasures & Pitfalls of Swinging
Want to send us a message? This episode discusses some of the benefits and downsides of the swinging lifestyle to help you figure out your reasons for joining in the fun. SHOW NOTESPleasures of Swingi…
Swinger Terminology: The Complete Glossary of Lifestyle Terms
Want to send us a message? We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help s…
How to Talk to Your Partner About Swinging: A Step-by-Step Guide
Want to send us a message? In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We ll dive into ways to bring…
Thinking about Swinging? Reasons To Swing
Want to send us a message? If you’ve ever thought about swinging and nonmonogamy you’re not alone. In this episode we discuss some of the many reasons couples begin their journey into this alternative…
Campus Orientation: A brief intro to the Swinger University podcast
Want to send us a message? Welcome to the Swinger University! Ready to learn? We re eager to pass on our experience and help you get a head start! Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTub…
