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Welcome to theus cuckoldress podcast a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious the passionate and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast and check out the venus blog and of course, if you love it, share it. Now, sit back, make yourself comfortable, and enjoy the show with your host, Venus. welcome to the venus cuckolders podcast i'm venus and today is such an exciting episode i love talking about this part of cuckolding relationships. This one is all about the women. What's in it for you?
Are you wondering, why would I want a relationship like this? Like, why would I choose something like this? So this one is all about why you should give it a chance and why you might just completely love it. first, let me start out by saying that I think there's a lot more women being approached by their boyfriends or husbands about this kind of fantasy or hearing about cuckolding relationships more now than ever.
I mean, for a while there, it was hard for me to determine whether or not it's actually becoming more popular because I kind of live in a little bit of a bubble, you know, where it's all around me. So it's hard to be kind of objective about that. But I will say that there's some interesting stuff coming out. And some examples of that are Cuckolding is actually featured as part of the new Netflix series, Sex Explained. and, um, Shane up in there. It's a classic cuckold scenario on porn that they show. And they're talking about sexual fantasies.
And one of the researchers who speaks on that series is Justin Lay Miller, and he is a sexual researcher. And his research showed that over half of all men fantasize about their partner sleeping with someone else. So I think that is huge. There's also obviously a lot of men out there who are fantasizing about cuckolding situations or even hot wifing situations. So it's definitely out there. And, you know, for all of the garbage that's out there about cuckolding online, there's just a lot of shit that's really not true, not realistic.
And it's all kind of like um, Fendom, Fendom, um, Fendom kind of negative shit. Um, there has been some more positive, uh, conversation. Fendom kind of negative shit. There has been some more positive conversation about this. And one of that is the Call Her Daddy podcast, which is a huge, huge podcast where these two girls are talking about, you know, sexual stuff. And they're hilarious. And I love them. And they brought up cuckolding in one of their episodes and it was awesome because instead of the usual kind of, uh, female perspective where they're like, Oh, that's fucking weird.
Or that's gross. Or why would you want that? Or, you know, it sucks to be him or whatever. These girls were talking about how it seems like the perfect situation where you have this loving, adoring stability of a relationship with your boyfriend or husband, and yet you get to have all of these incredible sexual experiences. They were just like, well, that seems like a win-win situation. And you know what? It was so nice to be able to hear that because I feel like as women, we just need to hear the positive part of this kind of relationship instead of the garbage that's out there.
So that's pretty exciting. So today's show is all about why I think women should really keep an open mind about this kind of thing and try it. You might not love it or you might actually fucking love it like I do. So that's all I want is just for women to kind of consider this as a legitimate kind of relationship option that you, you know, you might actually really enjoy. So let me start by saying that with cuckolding relationships, there's always some kind of power imbalance. With hot wifing relationships, there's not. It's very equal.
Hot wifing is the guy can actually be telling his girlfriend or wife if she's allowed to sleep with other guys and making the rules around that. And there's no humiliation. There's rarely any sexual denial or anything like that. It's basically wife sharing or girlfriend sharing. And some couples really love it that way. For me, I love cuckolding because it's all about her. She's the one who decides who she sleeps with. And he's totally faithful to her and her only. And there's usually some kinds of sexual denial. It can be really mild. It can be very severe.
It just depends on what both people really like. And there's usually some humiliation or what I like to call teasing, because that's really all it is. It's teasing. It's not kind of mean or cruel because he actually gets off on it. So that's the difference between cuckolding and hot wifing. I've talked a lot about that on previous episodes, but for me, I really love cuckolding relationships for that reason because I love that kind of power imbalance and I love how she's put up on a pedestal like that. And I personally have learned to love humiliation slash teasing in a very loving way.
So that's my thing. So my first episode, I talked a lot about, um, how, why I love cuckolding relationships so much and the love that's involved in it. And so I would say for women who are thinking about this kind of relationship, man, there is some whole like next level love happening in a relationship like this. Like if you are really seriously in love and committed to each other in that kind of serious relationship, then cuckolding leads to these like unbelievable kind of euphoric kind of super ultra connected feelings between the two of you. And I'm not sure why that happens.
And I don't really understand it. Like I'm not a sex researcher. I don't understand this stuff, but let me just tell you that that's exactly what happens. And so if you are thinking about cuckolding relationships and you're not quite sure, you're already in a, in a really wonderful, um, loving marriage or relationship with your boyfriend. And you're thinking about this. Trust me when I tell you that this shit is just going to make it so much better. And not only does it bring like ultra feelings of love, but the trust that goes along with it is pretty intense.
Like you feel like you trust this person more than anything after you engage in this kind of thing. And the connection and the bond between you guys is only going to get stronger and stronger. And I think people don't really realize that they think, oh, well, she's cheating on him. Like, how could that, you know, that seems so destructive and stuff like that. But it's not like that at all. It's not cheating. It's just her having fun sexually with other guys, and he loves it that way.
So she's always going to be involving him in some way, whether that be talking to him about it, him watching or getting photos or whatever, like there's a zillion ways to, to involve him. And that's, that's what makes him feel good about it, him watching or getting photos or whatever. Like there's a zillion ways to involve him. And that's what makes him feel good about it. So it's literally going to make you feel like you are on cloud nine all the time. Cuckolding relationships are intense. They're emotional. And they're just full of love and connection and trust. And it's amazing.
Take my word for it. And like I said, she is put on a pedestal in cuckolding relationships. It's literally all about her, or it seems like it's all about her. And it's all about her sexual enjoyment. So her boyfriend or husband is going to make that a huge priority for their relationship. And therefore, a lot of attention is put on her and her needs. And within this kind of relationship, she's the one that's going to make the decisions. And that can be a really fun thing for a woman who's maybe not used to that. But it's literally all about her and her sexual satisfaction.
And he loves to see her pleased, like sexually pleased. That's like what makes him so happy. Her happiness and sexual pleasure is his happiness and sexual pleasure. So for all the people out there who don't really understand what's in it for the guy, maybe as a woman, you're wondering the same thing. Like, I don't understand what's in it for my boyfriend or husband. Literally, that's what it is. He is going to get off on the fact that she is being sexually pleasured by someone else. And so it is like a mutually beneficial kind of relationship.
It may seem like it's all about her sexual pleasure, but he's getting off on it so much that there's so much in it for him and he wouldn't have it any other way. I think that for, for women, for a lot of women, there's just, they don't get the opportunity in within their lifetime to really explore their sexuality in a really safe environment where they feel comfortable and able to really just go for it, go for all the fantasies that they've ever had.
And I feel like within a cuckolding relationship, you have that perfect combination of feeling safe, physically safe, emotionally safe, all of those kinds of things. You've got this wonderful husband or boyfriend that's, you know, by your side all the time and supporting you and loving you for this side of you. And yet you're also able to really just kind of go for it for all of your sexual fantasies that you maybe never thought you'd have the opportunity to really pursue.
And that in itself is so empowering for women to be able to go through that kind of sexual exploration with someone that you love is pretty amazing. And I personally, I hope that all women get that opportunity to do that. I mean, I obviously got the opportunity to do that and I'm so grateful for it. I can't imagine my life with not having gone through that. I feel like women at some point within their life go through this kind of like internal sexual revolution where they're just like, all right, that's it. I'm just going to completely rebel with everything that I thought was the norm.
And I'm just going to go for something entirely different. And some women act upon that. Some women don't. I'd say most people, most women don't. And this is just like this perfect opportunity to be able to do that. I will say that for myself, for sure, I mean, I could definitely say this, but for the women that I've spoken to in this lifestyle as well, they all say the same thing. And that this kind of relationship makes you a lot more sexually confident, more confident about your body as well, and about your ability to really command sexually a scenario.
And also to feel confident in the ability to tease and humiliate, but also to flirt. So flirt with other men. And it makes you feel desired and it makes you feel sexy and it makes you feel powerful and in control. And for all of those things, I think it helps to really sexually empower a woman in this kind of relationship and make, you know, just make her feel good. And I think, you know, that's really important for women anytime, but especially in this kind of relationship. I always say that cuckolding brings out your inner sex kitten.
And it also gives you the keys to the sex closet, meaning that like you can decide when you want to have sex it could be you know every fucking day it could be four times a week it could be every other week I mean it's whenever you want and that's up to you it's you're in control of that and that's that's pretty amazing it literally gives women the opportunity to ask for what they want and to get exactly what they want. And like, should I say that louder for the people in the back? Because I think that that is incredible.
When women have the opportunity sexually to ask for what they want and get it every time. That's incredible. When women have the opportunity sexually to ask for what they want and get it every time, that's incredible. So for all the women out there who are listening, if you only take away one thing from this episode, just remember that cuckolding lets you ask for what you want and get it sexually, which is like, oh, my God, it's so amazing. Interracial, black and white, the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride.
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And literally from point forward it never ever be boring like with vanilla relationships for sure at some point 100 guaranteed it's gonna get boring as fuck I mean it's just the way it goes you just have to really work at it to keep it exciting but with the cuckoldolding relationship, there's so many opportunities. I mean, I talked about ways to tease and the list goes on and on and on. Not only that, but I find with cuckolding relationships, you may start out at one point on the spectrum. Maybe it's closer to hot wifing.
And then as your relationship progresses, as you go along, you might find like, Oh, well, shit, that that part really turned me on. I think I want to do more of that. Or your boyfriend or husband's just like, holy shit, like, I didn't think I would react like that to something like that. And you end up going, evolving and going down different roads. And, you know, exploring new things that you, you never thought possible.
And I think that's, um, the same in, in like within other kinds of relationships that include kink and stuff like that, but for sure with cuckolding, you'll, you may end up somewhere you never thought possible. And that's, I think pretty common because in cuckolding relationships, you have to have that really solid level of communication in order to really thrive together. And part of that is talking about, you know, what is, what are you getting off on? Like, what are you enjoying? What are you not enjoying? If you're not enjoying a certain aspect of it, you guys are talking about it.
And if you're really loving something, you are going to talk about that as well and maybe kind of explore that a little bit more together. So as you can see, there are so many reasons why women should really love cuckolding relationships. The list goes on and on. And for me, I feel like it's just, it's a no-brainer. It's amazing for women specifically. Having said that though, I will say that there's a few common reasons why women don't love cuckolding. And you know, it really does take a certain kind of women to love this kind of style of relationship. And so that's okay.
But what I really hope that women take away from all of this is just to have an open mind about it. And at least consider it. That's all I ask. And just, I am hoping that by speaking about all of this, you know, the benefits for women, that it will help women understand it in a very real way when it comes from another woman. Because like I said, there's so much shit out there online that's just not realistic. It's not, it's not even cuckolding stuff. And I would shudder to think that women would be using what's online as a reference point in trying to learn about this kind of relationship.
So shit, I hope not. Please just listen to this podcast. But having said that, I will say, you know, like I said, it takes a certain kind of woman to really love this. And some women get really hung up on the non-monogamy thing. And that's, you know, I think a lot of women have kind of been brainwashed into believing that there's just one person, one kind of soulmate out there for you, who's going to satisfy you in every way possible. And they're literally like the only one for you. And if you end up sexually with somebody else, it just means that you don't love that person enough.
And I think, unfortunately, this storyline is just shoved down our throats as women. So for some women, that's a little bit hard to get over. Like, oh, will my love me if I'm sleeping with somebody else? Like, won't that mess him up emotionally? Am I going to, you know, damage him emotionally? Or will he, you know, still respect me if I'm out acting, you know, doing these things and stuff like that? So a lot of women kind of worry about that. They don't really understand this kind of separation between sex and love, being separate.
Love entirely with your partner and sex entirely with someone else. And so two very separate things. And so women kind of get, I think, get hung up on that part. They don't really understand that. And, you know, I get it. that's just something that as more dialogue goes on about non monogamous kinds of relationships that people will kind of understand that in a different light, I'm hoping. But also, it takes a woman who to really love owning her sexuality in this kind of relationship.
So if she feels at all kind of shy or uncomfortable about sharing her body sexually with somebody else in those kinds of scenarios, let's say like she hasn't had very many partners her whole life and she's, you know, enjoyed it that way. And then her boyfriend or husband is asking her to do something like this kind of relationship, these kind of fantasies, this might be all entirely too much for her because she's just not open like that sexually. And so that can be a barrier. But also women are, you know, very, very fearful of slut shaming.
So they're, they don't want to be looked down upon by people, other people as like a slut i mean for me that word is a term of endearment it's something to be proud of it's you're owning your sexuality and i don't feel like there's any shame for that that's my opinion on it so but for other women that word is harsh that word is like the worst thing that they could possibly think of. And so there's a real fear around that where they think, oh my God, what if other people found out about this? Would they, you know, think that I'm just a horrible person for this?
Would they, you know, call me a horrible mother? Like all of these things go through their minds and this kind of fear can be really debilitating for women to the point where they would not want to participate in something like this. So that's always a factor. And women also have real concerns about their safety, their emotional safety, but also their physical safety. So they have concerns about whether their marriage or relationship could survive the emotional rollercoaster of cuckolding. They're also afraid of STIs. So catching any kind of diseases and stuff like that.
They're all very, obviously, very worried about that. But also being in a situation with someone who she might not know very well. And, you know, is she physically going to be safe? Is her husband going to be there to protect her if something goes wrong? Like men don't necessarily understand that these fears are big thing in our mind. Um, and I think, you know, men lose sight of that sort of thing for them. It's just a sexual scenario for us, we're thinking about where's the exit? Can I get out of here if something goes wrong? So it was a very different frame of mind.
And for women, we worry about that sort of stuff. So I think that for men, when you're thinking about approaching your girlfriend or your wife about this kind of fantasy in your mind, please keep in mind the fact that she may have these kinds of concerns. And as women, if you're thinking about this kind of thing, just please understand that, you know what, these are common concerns. Everyone else has kind of felt this along the way at some point. And it's, yes, it's something to consider, but try not to let it kind of ruin your opportunity of entering this with an open mind.
I feel like there's just way more benefits to this kind of relationship than there are risks. And I feel like if you, you know, kind of just gave it a chance that you might realize that as well. And you might understand that shit, this kind of relationship can bring you to levels you never imagined. And it can be really incredible. Okay. That's, uh, that's it really. But for this episode, there's so much more I, but I think that that's, um, that's the basics of it. I hope that women listen to this episode and walk away with some new insight about what's in it for them.
There's so much for them to love with this kind of relationship. And I hope that by talking about this, more women can appreciate it in a whole different kind of light. So if you walk away from this with maybe a few more questions and a little bit more understanding about what this is, then I feel like I've done my job here. Make sure that you go to venuscuckledress.com. I have written so much about this that I feel like that's a great place to point women in that direction to go and learn more. You can also subscribe to the podcast there, as well as the blog.
And you can also find me on Twitter. My handle is at Cuckoldris V. And I'm on Instagram as well under the Venus Cuckoldris podcast. So easy to find. Come and connect with me there and stay up to date with what's going on. And be sure to check out that Netflix series, Sex Explained, to see that cuckolding is highlighted in there as well. Justin Lehmiller has a podcast of his own. It's called The Science of Sexual Fantasy. And you can find that on pretty much all of the podcast listening platforms. Thanks for joining me for this episode today. And I'll see you again in two weeks.
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