What if men don t find me sexy or attractive? What if I can t pull off the sexy slut role like he wants me to? What if my sexual skills are lacking? What if I don t do it right?Chloe and Lana Rose join Venus in studio to explore the secrets to unlocking a woman s sexual confidence so that she could be more likely to embrace the cuckolding lifestyle with her husband. It s not just tips but key timing as well so it s important for men to pay attention to this episode!Links in this episode:Lifestylers Magazine - Venus cover featureScandalous Woman Magazine - Venus feature interviewSavage Love with Dan Savage - Venus chimes in on cuckquean angstLana Rose - Twitter, Website, PatreonVenus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsASN Magazine - Venus feature: The art of the teaseFull Swap Radio - listen to Venus every Tuesday at 5pm and 11pm Central TimeNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on Twitter - Venus is very active on Twitter!Venus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on Facebook Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices❤️Venus Connections❤️ - Matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships and female-led relationships. Learn more at https://www.venusconnections.com/ 👑♠️ Maison De Neige is high end lifestyle and streetwear fashion with a passion for the beauty of interracial combined with high fashion. Visit https://www.maisondeneige.com/ ❤️xoafterglow.com❤️ Meet the platform for ethical porn. Made by women, for women (and everyone). We make and share videos that portray sex accurately and treat performers with dignity, because nothing is sexier than consent. Use code VENUS for a free 7 day trial at ➡️ https://afterglow.ubpages.com/venus/Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://lnk.bio/VenusPodcast
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In this episode of the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. Today, I'm going to sit down with some friends and discuss one of the most common reasons why women reject the idea of this kind of relationship is a lack of sexual self-confidence. So we're going to talk about what exactly that means and how husbands can help their wife to feel confident and embrace this kind of lifestyle. What if the guy that we met didn't like me? What if I wasn't hot enough? And I also wondered why Mr.
Rose wanted me to sleep with other men in the first place she has to be comfortable she has to you know a 10 inch dick would terrify me well it might not terrify me so much anymore but but you know if that was my first time out and that was our pillow talk it totally would terrify me the idea might like turn me on in the moment but when it came to reality and i saw that in front of me i'd be like where am i gonna put that and one thing you must never forget marvel her and give her your wholehearted compliments you know tell her that you just find her so fucking hot so attractive and just stare at her across the room like just make her feel your gaze all right there's one thing that I have not mentioned that I think is absolutely crucial for women to gain confidence and it has nothing to do with men it has everything to do with other women welcome to the venus cuckoldress podcast a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious the, and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all.
Make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast and check out the Venus blog. And of course, if you love it, share it. Now, sit back, make yourself comfortable, and enjoy the show with your host venus thank you so much for joining me. This episode is going to be pretty cool. I'm joined with a couple of friends in the studio to talk about women's confidence and why this is so important when it comes to whether or not a woman will embrace this kind of relationship, a loving cuckolding relationship, or if she'll run in the other direction. It's going to be pretty interesting.
I hope you love it. Before I get into that, I just have a few announcements to make. The first being that venusconnections.com, the matchmaking service for single women and single men looking for loving cuckolding relationship is really really great and it's totally taking off so i just want to say that i have had the opportunity to meet some amazing single men and really really great single women in this lifestyle so if you're interested in finding out some more more information about Venus Connections, you can go to venusconnections.com.
A couple of other things that are new, I've had the opportunity to be featured in a couple of magazines recently. One is called scandalouswoman.com. And that one was pretty cool. I was interviewed by one of their staff and it was just a really fun, fun experience. So if you go to scandalouswoman.com, you'll be able to read that interview. And the second one was a magazine called Lifestylers Magazine. And that one you can go to lifestylersmagazine.com.
And that one was actually pretty cool because I did a photo shoot for the cover of that magazine, but I also did some other photos for the actual article inside. So it was a lot of fun to do. It was fun to do the photo shoot. It was also really fun to write that article about my journey and what it's been like. So that was a lot of fun. And last but not least, this week I was able to, oh my God, I was so fucking excited. I was able to help Dan Savage write a response to one of the people who wrote into his column, Savage Love.
So a lot of you people I know have heard about his column because it's been around forever. And it's one of like the most syndicated columns around the world. It's called Savage Love. So I was able to chime in on an answer for one of the questions that came in, and it was regarding, funny enough, cuck queen angst. So that was a lot of fun. You can check that out. I'll post the link in the show notes for today. All right, now that's it for news. Let's get started with my conversation with my girlfriends today to talk about sexual confidence in women. Here we go.
All right, so today in studio, I have two beautiful ladies joining me to talk a little bit about confidence in women and how we can increase the confidence that women may have when it comes to sexuality and open relationships, hot wifing, cuckolding, but hey, let's say cuckolding for today. All right. So joining me, I have my very good friend, Chloe. Chloe's been my BFF for fucking ever. We've had all sorts of wild and wonderful experiences together. And I also have the Lana Rose in studio with me today. So the Lana Rose has a podcast and she'll be talking a little bit about that later on.
But she's been one of my very good friends as well for a very long time in fact we were talking about it this morning saying how long has it been and I think it's been like seven years yeah eight maybe I don't even know time flies when you're having fun so all right do you want to say hello to all the listeners hi, listeners. Hi, everyone. Okay. So for today's episode, like I said, it's all about building self-confidence in women when it comes to sexuality.
And the reason why I wanted to bring this up is because I've had a lot of women contact me over the years and say, look, my husband has brought up this cuckolding fantasy to me and he wants me to fulfill this fantasy for him. I'm fucking terrified. I don't know if this is something that I could actually do. So this is going to be a bit of a learning curve for the boys and the men out there because I think that there's a side to this, the female perspective that you just don't understand.
And so we are going to talk about that today and how we can address that and how husbands can help support their wife when it comes to self-confidence. Because let's face it, it's a big barrier when it comes to opening up a marriage to non-monogamy or cuckolding. So let's get started. So let's say the typical example is this couple's been married for fucking what seems like ever. And it's been a monogamous relationship. Let's say it's been wonderful. It's been great.
Nothing tremendous has been wrong with it sex life is decent very you know usual predictable that sort of thing and she's quite happy with that the way it is and then he brings this up and she's like oh my god you know why do why do I want to change something that's already good this seems like a pretty good thing that I've got going on. The thought of changing that is terrifying for women. So when you're in something that's been comfortable for a long time, asking her to change that is pretty terrifying. So Venus, have they had children or not in this relationship?
That the thing so a lot of times a woman's body will change and her role in the relationship changes and her self-identity changes she goes from like you know sexy little hot thing to a mama whose body has changed and you know she's focusing 24 seven on other people and not on herself. So there's that as well. So basically, bringing this up to a woman is fucking terrifying for a lot of women. So men, when you're, when you're wondering why your wife has had this knee jerk reaction of like, No, I'm not doing that. There's several reasons involved, but confidence is definitely one of them.
Okay, so I'm going to start with you, Lana. So what are some things that you have maybe tried in the past or that have worked well for you when it comes to increasing your own sexual confidence? Because you're in a relationship that is open, right? Yeah, we are. Mr. Rose and I are actually, we call ourselves hot wife couple, but we do like play with couples as well, but we find that difficult because four people have to get along rather than they're just the one.
So I like to go out and meet guys that my husband's quite happy with me seeing and he likes that because he likes to see me happy but to be confident in that it took a while I was kind of scared to start with and I had to do some internal thinking because what if the guy that we met didn't like me what if I wasn't hot enough And I also wondered why Mr. Rose wanted me to sleep with other men in the first place. It's kind of a tricky thing to think about. This skepticism is a huge part of women rejecting this idea of, you know, fulfilling this fantasy for their partner. It really is.
Like she's's thinking, you know, does he want to sleep with other women? Is this his, like, backdoor way of trying to sneak into that? Or, you know, does he not love me? That's why he wants me to fuck other people. Like, this doesn't make sense to me. So that kind of mental aspect is a big barrier.
But for sure, wondering if you're, you know, attractive to other people, to other men, wondering if you're you know attractive to other people to other men wondering if you feel you know sexy anymore these kind of things wondering if you have like the skills to be slutty like well I'm quite lucky in the fact that I've always been a bit of a slut so I'm lucky in that that way. But yeah, we were monogamous for a while, and then having kids. But I guess we kind of started out where I do like girls, I am bisexual.
So he broached the subject about sort of bringing a girl into our relationship or me playing with a girl and having a girlfriend. And that was always, always you know on the cards and open for me and obviously talking about it like when we would have sex together we would quite often just talk about what I would like another guy to do to me before it even became a reality which was great because then you get those feelings you get you you end up being like oh I get feisty so No, you don't say. No.
But yeah, so I can get totally feisty when in sex and especially when he starts talking about what another guy will do to me while he's doing something to me. And I know that's not necessarily like confidence when you go out to meet somebody, but certainly in the bedroom with your partner and you see the difference that the sex is with someone you love. And, you know, he might not get feisty like I do, but he certainly gets more turned on I don't know.
bedroom with your partner and you see the difference that the sex is with someone you love and you know he might not get feisty like I do but he certainly gets more turned on just at the thought of me being with someone else so then it sort of breed you know it bred the intrigue into what would actually happen if he saw me with someone else so so talking about it helps to I guess pique your curiosity about what that would actually be like. Is that right? Yeah, that's, that's kind of where we went with it for a little while. Because I was like, Oh, no, I don't know.
It feels like cheating, you know, especially going off and being on your own. Because there's lots of different dynamics you can play with, like having them in the room, doing a video while they're there. And, you know, we've tried a few of the different dynamics out there. And, you know, we both have different preferences, I'm sure, but definitely talking about it to start with, it lets you know how far you'd kind of think about going. Oh, I like that. The possibilities. Yeah.
I also like the suggestion of like, you know, involving a woman instead of a man into your relationship when it comes to, I guess, your first steps into non-monogamy. I think that for women that might feel a little bit easier. I don't know. It just seems like that for me. I could be entirely wrong.
but that was kind of my uh stepping stone into like my what would you call it my slutty stage of my life but that was my whole life but I'm the extra slutty stage of my life the ethical slutty bit that's something or other well that was ours as well like I'd been married before and I'd had a threesome with a girlfriend and it was the usual kind of girl thing you get drunk on a night out you end up kissing in the bathroom then you know you go out again another time and you bring her home and it was kind of funny and I wouldn't call it a threesome but well he was there basically and trying to touch her and I remember her saying no not you fuck off not you so I wouldn't exactly call it a threesome either because she was interested in me but it rekindled my love of women but I didn't really do anything with it until I met Mr Rose and he was all for that and he actually suggested I have a threesome with him and a previous girlfriend because we've been friends for a lot of years prior to getting together romantically um yeah so he suggested girls and we went to a social and it was definitely like me psychologically I was definitely like don't do anywhere without me like don't do anything with anybody without me right and then I was the one that he caught around the back of the bathroom snogging a girl on my own without him there surprise so Chloe how was like your first experience or anything like that well similar to your story my first experience but was also with a woman and I reached out to her through Craigslist and she also did not have any experience with other women.
I don't know if she did. Oh, no, she's. And that gives away the secret of who the woman is. So we decided to go on this journey and experience all these other dynamics. Did you feel more comfortable meeting a girl from, like, Craigslist? Absolutely, because I was terrified of meeting a guy and not knowing if I would be safe or not. Meeting a girl, you know, most likely she wouldn't come after me or anything like that.
wouldn't be a serial killer yeah less intimidating and you know because I'm a very shy person I would say and kind of I do remember the first night I met you Chloe you didn't seem that shy well that's because I had a few drinks you know no I'm just kidding um but that's a good example of what like helps increase confidence like a few drinks is kind of nice to have but you don't want to be drunk that people can take advantage I guess as well and I agree and especially with like when you're going to meet guys as a hot wife or a cuckold situation you don't want to be drunk and have someone take advantage of you or not be aware of your space and your situation.
And you don't want to feel coerced into a situation that your husband's like set up. I like the fact that Mr. Rose sets up situations for me.
Like when I've been back in the UK, he's arranged places for me me to be which is kind of nice um and also here in Vancouver and you know I have told a story of a time Venus and I went out and my husband was the one that encouraged that interracial black and white the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride don't sacrifice quality and comfort any longer with Maison Dines you get both in fresh empowering looks for every occasion for everyone from the streets to the sheets and everywhere in between check us out at Maison Maison Dinesge.com.
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So definitely starting out with women, it's a lot easier than it is starting out with like some random dude for sure and i totally get the safety part of it like for me to meet up with a woman i'm not afraid of what's going to happen and i feel like i can talk to her like a fucking normal woman like i don't have to and we were talking earlier about this like awkward part where you walk in there is this expectation of sex you have this you know expectation of uk you gotta make a little bit of small talk and then at some point you gotta start getting it on and it's like a fucking awkward as shit i would way rather do that with a woman than a man You don't seem to get that awkward moment with girls because we do just get on better.
And the only sort of thing that I'd query with some of the women in like the lifestyle or trying to experience that is if they're not bisexual, but you could still go and meet another woman in that space just to talk to them and find out their experiences as well because then you can just relax and there is no sexual expectation.
Absolutely and one more thing that I think is really really important I think that you ladies will agree is taking it slow and timing is so fucking important with this because like I said the husband brings it up to the wife, kind of blindsides her like, you know, hey, I want you to go fuck some random dudes because I get really turned on by it. She's like, holy fuck, go away. Like, I don't want to ever talk about this ever again. And a lot of that, like I said, has to do with, you know, her confidence, like she and her comfort zone.
So maybe before bringing it up to her, there is some things that you could do that might help her be more receptive to this idea of exploring her sexuality and framing it as exploring her sexuality, rather than I want you to fulfill my fantasy is important. So, Chloe, I just want to talk to you a little bit about some suggestions that you might have about that. I think it really starts with the husband laying the foundation by making her feel really confident about herself. And one is to show her how much he loves her and just boiling the fuck out of her because that is what she deserves.
Thank you. feel really confident about herself and one is to show her how much he loves her and just spoiling the fuck out of her because that is what she deserves and she deserves it anyways because look how much she does for you and having said that um he should really make the effort to take that first step and and spoil her by taking to dinner, taking her out on a shopping spree. Do the things that you know that she loves. And then this will take time. Slowly she'll build her confidence back. And that's key because you're never going to take the next step until she has that confidence.
so you need to open that door and you need to let her tell you when she's she's ready and you can't push this because it's just going to blow in your face absolutely that is it and not expecting anything in return like this is not a negotiation this is not anything like that spoil the fuck out of her get her to really love herself you know get to I'm sorry.
a negotiation this is not anything like that spoil the fuck out of her get her to really love herself you know get to know herself again do everything that you can to help promote that and not expect anything in return okay so it's not like you know you're asking for anything else just for her to be incredibly happy and know that you love her a lot and find her sexually attractive yes lay that foundation yeah before you dive into the whole i want you to go fuck some dudes well she's not going to be comfortable doing that if she feels self-conscious fucking you the love of her life is she that's exactly it and so that is the other huge part is body image and this can be you know a really big hindrance a big big barrier for this kind of lifestyle because let's face it like we said before our bodies change with having kids and everything like that and just over time and you might not feel sexy anymore and for women who were faced with the idea of, oh my God, I have to go meet random guys.
Like, is this guy going to find me attractive? Is he going to find me sexy? What if he doesn't? You know, that's pretty scary. And so trying to build self-confidence about the body that you have right now is important. A lot of guys will think like, oh, I should just encourage her to go to the gym and lose weight and everything like that. No, just encourage her to love her body the way it is right now and not to pressure her to change that unless she wants to. So men, listen up because that's a really good tip. Yeah.
And I also think like it's not just necessarily body it's being confident with your sexuality we lose that you know we have it when we're teenagers we go out there and you know especially if you're like Venus and I we're not so shy like Chloe and we have a lot of sex even before we got married we openly admit we were slutty but we've you know I've had children and I lost my sexual like I lost the desire to have sex and I didn't feel sexy for so long my body's changed like Venus mentioned but I'd stopped even playing with myself and masturbating and finding out what I find sexy now and what turns me on and what gives me an orgasm and also like the different types of orgasm we can have and you know what happens when you're with a different guy and he doesn't do the same thing as your husband that you've been with for years are you still going to find that hot or is it just going to be going through the motions for your husband's fantasy yeah What if this guy does stuff that your husband doesn't do and you're just not familiar with it?
You don't feel confident in it. So sexual skills, wondering about sexual skills is definitely something that women, we think about, but we don't talk about that to our husbands or boyfriends or whatever. Honestly, that's something that we worry about, but we don't talk about that.
It's or boyfriends or whatever honestly that's something that we worry about but we don't talk about that it's not like i'm gonna sit there and be like oh you want me to some random dudes well i'm not super confident on my blowjob skills so i don't really know about that it's not like we say that but we are thinking about it you know you would hope your husband doesn't tell you you give a shit blowjob yeah and like it took it took me years to ask Mr. Rose like have you ever had a shit blowjob? Is there such a thing as a shit blowjob? Oh there is.
And there is yeah definitely I've been told there is. So you know I know there's bad pussy eating and like. Well yeah and for sure when you're dealing with the idea of sleeping with somebody else who's new, you have to wonder, what will they think of me in bed? And I think it's not until you actually take those first few steps that you realize like, okay, I'm going to be okay with this. You know, if I'm not super confident with blowjobs, because I was there.
I think every woman is there at some point in her life where she's just like you know I don't know if I'm all that good yeah I was kind of lucky I got a message from an ex like five years down the line really still the best blowjob I've ever had oh really yeah wow oh my god so then I got super confident and we were in the lifestyle so that just even bolstered my confidence even more so guys come on give the girls some credit where it's due too totally yeah and I well you know I think every guy is different too I've just I've had like given a guy a blowjob before and just not felt like I afterwards I was like you know what that sucked like I just gave a shitty ass fucking blowjob like that sucked I feel bad for him and yet like the next guy that I was with it was amazing like I was clearly into it in a different way with him so it totally is different per person so even if you have fucking tremendous blowjob skills which I don't think any of us do but um that's something to remember as well like if the experience Thank you.
even if you have fucking tremendous blowjob skills which I don't think any of us do but um that's something to remember as well like if the experience when you do venture out and do the first time if it's not the best it is no representation of you or your skills yeah and remember that like because everybody is different the things that you like are different the things that they like are different and. And if you're going to meet the same play partner for a long time, it could work out that you get to know what people like, like you have done your husband.
But if you're going to do the one-off things, you shouldn't really expect it to be mind-blowing the first time. Absolutely. And if you are worried about your skills in one specific aspect of sex, then it's entirely fine for you to set some boundaries on that for your experiences. Just be like, you know what? I'm not willing to go there right yet. Like, let's just fucking take that off the table. Like, no blow jobs. Sorry. Well, that's the key to it all in any aspect of like the lifestyle dynamic, especially this.
You do need to communicate with your partners, like what you're comfortable with, and that's your husband's happy to play the first time if you have any hard boundaries and you know things that do concern women a lot more I feel are the emotional sort of context of meeting someone new yes because sex for women or most women historically has been way more emotional or there's definitely more of an emotional emotional attachment to sex for women yeah for a lot of women have trouble separating sex and love. And yeah, so that would be a big thing for sure.
When you're asking, well, husbands, when you're asking your wife to have casual sex with some random dude, you are asking her to separate sex and love, which she probably hasn't done ever. That's absolutely true. Yeah. I've been through that. Terrifying. Yeah. Terrifying. I don't know. I never really had that issue, but I know that's atypical. Yeah. I mean, the usual response is like, this is going to be very, very difficult. And this is why women wonder, okay, why does my husband want me to fuck other men? Like, does he not love me anymore? This is the, this is attachment to sex and love.
It's like, no, split that shit right down the middle. Yep. And it takes some of us a bit longer than others. It really does. But we talked about like introducing a woman being a gentle way of like another woman into it, like a threesome or something like that, being a gentle way of, you know, opening up your marriage. So that is definitely important and setting boundaries on what you, what she's comfortable with is important.
But above all of that, it goes back to, I think what Chloe was saying in that showing her that you love her by allowing her to have the freedom to spend time and money on herself to really have that confidence to go there. But for husbands, let me just tell you, it's so important for you to leave it up to the woman to make these decisions about how she would feel comfortable doing something. That means leaving out your fucking expectations. Drop that shit at the door. Don't bring it up when you talk about your fantasy at all.
And i'm talking about with that is you saying oh i'd really like to see you with a guy with a 10 inch dick and i really want him to be ripped and it'd be so wouldn't it be so hot if he was like so good looking and like so you know stamina of a fucking stallion and all of this sort of stuff do not i know you think that that's good that you're telling her because it's so hot and everything like that do not bring that shit up because that what that automatically does is put this like huge weight of expectation on your shoulders and she's like okay not only do i need to be your own personal fucking porn star to fill out this fucking fantasy of yours, I have to be some sort of sex goddess kitten that's going to fucking perform.
But I also have to find this guy who you will approve of because this is what you want.
And she's left with all of this weight of expectation on her shoulders and none of it is her doing this for her but that's where the guys have to let go a little bit and let the woman take control like chloe said as well yeah let do it from the beginning yeah let her choose yes if you have said some say some you know some people can have veto power but don't put those expectations on her and don't expect anything from it and you know she has to be comfortable she has to you know a 10 inch dick would terrify me and it's not going to be the first thing that you know well it might not terrify me so much anymore but but you know if that was my first time out and that was our pillow talk it totally would terrify me yeah the idea might like turn me on in the moment but when it came to reality and I saw that in front of me I'd be like where am I gonna put that yeah and that's not hot that's not making me feel confident that's not making me feel sexy yeah and if you're with some guy who's like ripped like completely ripped I would be worried about like what does he think of my body oh I have a mummy tummy and I would be like oh my god I'm gonna hide this and I wouldn't be like I wouldn't go like crazy like I normally do and get feisty because I'd be too restrained and like so husbands I think you need to take that into consideration when you're talking about your fantasy to women about what kind of expectations and fears this puts into her just by bringing those things up.
So just ditch those all together and just focus on having her do this for herself, like boosting her self-esteem, really giving her what she wants and needs to feel good about herself. I mean, how many of us women have been in a long-term relationship where you at some point say, I feel like I've lost myself, especially after motherhood. I feel like I've lost myself.
The first step for you husbands to get your woman to do this for you, she will do for herself shut up about you but um the first step is to get her to know herself again and one thing you must never forget marvel her and give her your wholehearted compliments you know tell her that you just find her so fucking hot so attractive and just stare at her across the room like just make her feel your gaze because that is what she really wants from you you are the one who will set that tone for her yeah no I totally agree you she's you know the wife should be the queen exactly you know you're her king as a husband but you'll get to watch her or hear about her with other people but she always comes back to you and you have got to make sure she feels super confident coming back as well absolutely all right All right.
There's one thing that I have not mentioned that I think is absolutely crucial for women to gain confidence. And it has nothing to do with men. It has everything to do with other women. And that's connect with a woman or women, friends, acquaintances, whatever, who you feel comfortable sharing all of your sexual stuff with. And that's exactly what I did. That's exactly what the two of you did. And we have this circle of girlfriends who we can talk to about all of this. And that helps a lot because like I said earlier, there's a lot of stuff we do not talk to the men in our lives about at all.
And so having that group, having that circle of friends who you can be open with and honest about with this sort of stuff is absolutely crucial to increasing confidence. A hundred percent. Yeah.
You know, you go into the mummy circles or the work circles in your in your normal lives and you don't talk to people about this thing so having that circle of friends that you can talk about this stuff and it be normal and it be just another sexual experience or another thing that happens in your life that, you know, it doesn't take over your life, but it's fine to share with friends and they're doing similar things. You build your confidence. You just go out for drinks with them. It is hugely important. It really is.
I think almost eclipses all of the other suggestions we had about building confidence that really starts with women. And so earlier, and I recognize that earlier this year, I did create a private women's group, um, for women to, you know, have that connection to other women who are sexually open-minded, curious, experienced everything in between, and just having somebody to ask questions and have them help answer them. Or if you're concerned about something, or how do I do this? How do I do that? How do I flirt with someone again? Like, no, you've been married 20 years, you forget that.
This is not something you've been practicing. Sexting as well. Sexting, absolutely. And then talking about safety and talking about how to find someone who's appropriate, setting boundaries, all of these kinds of things, really important for women to reach out and talk to each other about. So this group is completely confidential. It's private. It's unlisted. If there's any women out there who want to be part of this group, please do contact me at venus at venuscuckoldress.com. And there's just a verification process. And then I can add you to the group. And it's absolutely wonderful.
So please do reach out. And husbands out there, if you know your wife would need something like this or a benefit from this, which I'm telling you she will, then pass along that information to her because it is absolutely so valuable to have that group of people, friends, mentors to help you through this process and help you feel really good about yourself.
Okay, so that's going to be it for today's episode before I round this out I just want to ask uh Lana Rose to let everybody know where we could find more about how about your podcast and also about how to contact you hi yeah thank you for that. my podcast you can find via links on my website which is www.thelanarose34e.com and yes 34e is my breast size that's why that's in there i'm also on twitter and instagramanaRose34E. And also you can join my Patreon at patreon.com forward slash TheLanaRose34E.
It's just building up my podcast and I'll be sharing some pictures of nice hot wifing dates I've been on and behind the scenes of my life.
And also there's a sexy story of myself and Venus where we gave a really special bull a very good birthday treat damn that was hot okay yeah that was a good night that was that was a lot of fun so and you go into a lot of detail about that that was uh that was really good so Chloe missed out on that night unfortunately but it was epic and yeah this bull of mine who's hot and sexy as fuck and can kiss yeah ladies he can kiss he can fuck he can do it all um yes he can yeah so it was his birthday i decided to give him a special present of myself and two other hot sexy women and and a hotel room.
So yeah, it was a good time. So thank you for the invite. Yeah. Yeah, of course. Sharing is caring. That's my motto. Anyway, if you want to hear the details of that story, you can, yeah, hit her up on her Patreon. Cause that was, that was crazy hot. I listened to it and it's just like, whoa, yeah, it's good times. Anyway, thank you so much, ladies, for joining me for this really interesting and important episode today about increasing women's confidence.
And fellas, I hope you fucking took notes because you do play a huge role in this as far as increasing her confidence, but also making sure you approach this in the right way. All right, that's going to be it for today's episode. Thank you so much for joining me today. Make sure you go to venuscuckledris.com. That's where you can subscribe to the podcast as well as ask a question for the show. You can also get access to the Venus Vault and information about Pillow Talk events. There's so much there.
Also, you can tune in to fullswapradio.com every Tuesday to listen to the Venus Cuckoldress podcast at 5 p.m. and 11 p.m. Central Time. That's fullswapradio.com. And last last but not least make sure you follow me on twitter my handle is at cuckoldress v that's it for this episode we'll see you next time Let's get started. have you heard of afterglow you guys this is so amazing you've you probably heard me talk about cuck porn before and how much I'm not really a big fan. And why? Because it's not really made for women, right? But Afterglow is different.
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