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This is the Venus Cuckoldress podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the special christmas edition of the venus cuckoldress podcast and i haven't done this before but this is fun. I'm definitely going to do it every year. This is a special list of great gift ideas for cucks, for cuckoldresses slash hot wives, whichever you want to call yourself, or for both of you guys. I had so much fun putting this list together. You're just you're gonna love it. It's great. Before I get into that, though, I do have a couple of announcements.
The first is super cool. I've been for the show, the Venus Cuckold Just podcast has been nominated once again for an AVN award. Yay. So I'm super excited about that. I'm super happy about that. There are so many nominees in this category of adult podcast, and it's not just like cuckolding related. This is everything under the sun that's like R-rated. And because of that, there's some like serious heavyweights in this category as there has been for the last couple of years. So I really don't hold out any hope of I'll see you next time.
like serious heavyweights in this category as there has been for the last couple of years so i i really don't hold out any hope of winning um but it's fun to think about i mean i think it's plug talk podcast has won the last i don't know how many years in a row it's a huge show and then there's holly randall on there too which is just a massive show um so i like it would be fun to win but like i highly doubt it but the cool thing is is that it's a viewer's choice award so you guys can vote on your favorite podcast so if you love this show it would be awesome if you can vote i think you can vote like at least once twice maybe even like five times per day up until a certain date.
I'll put the details and the link in the show notes for today. If you want to go ahead and vote, that would be awesome. If you want to make a post on Blue Sky saying, tag me at Calcaldris V saying that you voted, I'll definitely give you a shout out. So that would be super fun. So that's the AVN Awards. You never know, a miracle might happen, might win. I doubt it. But you know what? It would just be super cool. It is fun to be nominated, but it was so cool just to think about possibly winning an award. Doc Chocolate Bulls in Queens is on there as well. So you can vote for him too.
Because his show is pretty awesome. All right. And oh, I just wanted to mention, I'm going to be chatting in the Queens Quarters community online about today's episode regarding these gifts and gift ideas and, and posting the links and also asking for any further ideas for gifts, which could because Valentine's Day is coming up. So if you want to join in on the conversation, you can get free limited access to the Queen's Quarters community on venuscuckoldress.com. The link is in the show notes for today. So yeah, join me there. All right, and that's it for announcements.
Let's jump into the show. Here we go. all right here we go best gifts gifts for cuckoldresses or hot wives, cucks, or both. Here we are. So when I was compiling this list, I put out there on social media that I was, you know, wanting some ideas from people like, what do you think? What are great gifts? And I think it was all dudes who responded, of course. But so take this as the male perspective, but also from me as well. But somebody by the name of By Brian, he was on Blue Sky and he posted this really important note. And I was so happy to read it. This is what he said.
He said, it's easy to focus on the cuckolding part of the relationship. After all, it's what our horny brains want. But it's important to remember that cuckolding is only part of the relationship. Cuckolding is most intense and intimate when the relationship is already strong and full in love. So to that, I say focus on gifts that reflect on or add to the whole of the relationship. A romantic dinner or a weekend trip, splurge on gifts related to vanilla hobbies and interests. And I fucking love that so much. Because he's right.
I mean, I feel like as a woman, there's so much on our plate as it is like in whether you're just like in a relationship or you've got kids and family or aging parents or whatever stress about work whatever it is that as women that we have just a shit ton of stuff going on and it gets in our head and it makes it difficult for us to really think about the sexy, fun, thrilling parts of a cuckolding relationship as much or as often as we would like to or as our partner would like us to.
So addressing those things, those aspects of our difficult lives and kind of like easing the load, the mental load or physical load of all of those things is definitely a good way to go. So I love that advice. Focus on the vanilla aspects and the romantic and the love gifts first before you focus on the cuckolding gifts. And so this is a note to all the husbands and boyfriends out there or partners who are just super excited to listen to this episode and think only about, oh, the kinky, the sexy, the thrilling, the hot, the turn on gifts that you could buy for your partner for Christmas.
Please only think about those after you buy an actual love romance gift. You got to fill that love tank first before it can spill over into the bedroom, into all that amazing, thrilling, sexy, hot stuff. So some of those vanilla gifts are pretty like basic, I would say these are go-to gifts for your female partner. And so spa gifts are definitely at the very top. It is, you know, hard for us to really let our minds let go and relax. And a nice spa gift card would be fantastic for that. So whether she wants to use it for like a full body massage or a facial or whatever, it's up to her.
But a gift card to her favorite spa or to a really nice upscale spa for an amount that she can use well. So don't just get like a $100 gift card because that's not going to do shit, okay? It's not even going to get you a fucking massage.
You better be looking at the services that the spa offers and look at how much they are and make the gift card for more than enough to get at least one full service or maybe even two full services and to include a tip hopefully so that she doesn't have to worry about that so there's a spa gift card and then there's my second favorite guys this is like the best gift it is for me anyway house cleaning okay you can get a gift card card for house cleanings or maid service.
You can get a gift card that would just be like a one-time cleanings, which would be great for something like a spring cleaning or whatever, you know, stuff that she doesn't have to do. Then that's fucking fabulous. She's going to appreciate it. But what you really should think of as a really great, thoughtful gift is paying for ongoing monthly house cleaning. And so they'll come in and do all the shit that like cleaning the fucking bathroom and the toilet and all that fucking shit that she doesn't want to do, you don't want to do.
It's the ass it just takes up time and or like cleaning out the you know full clean of the kitchen clean out the fridge if you want they'll wash your fucking windows if you want like they'll do all this stuff and it is just huge when it comes to eating easing that mental load for women and allowing her to focus more on her sexy self. So house cleaning. Yes, do it. There's also these like companies that offer subscriptions for meal delivery.
And what they do is like, they, they send you I think once a week or something like that, a box with all of the stuff you'll need for a week's worth of meals and she gets to choose like what she wants in the box and it comes with the recipe cards and you just like it's basically so she doesn't have to think about what's for dinner you both don't have to think about what's for dinner it's already planned it gets delivered all she's got to do or all you've got to do is just put together quickly put together this like amazing fucking meal and it's a subscription so it's like every week it comes and it's just like a huge fucking help for somebody who's busy who is you know it's a pain in the ass to try to figure all this shit out so dinner delivery subscriptions do it she will love it and it's healthy food too or it can be anyway if you want that um and then there's uh there's companies there's florists okay that offer subscriptions you guys okay, I personally fucking I would love this.
Okay, I would love this gift. I love fresh flowers. And I rarely ever have them because you know, they're expensive. I buy them for myself every once in a while. But I feel like I'm like, I shouldn't be wasting money on that. But it's something I do really love. And as a gift, that would be amazing. So for guys out there listening, yes, you can buy flowers for your partner and that's so nice and whatever. But fuck off with that shit. Get an actual subscription. So she gets flowers delivered, I don't know what it is, once a week, once every two weeks, I don't even fucking know.
But I got something in the mail from this like florist company, where they were advertising this subscription. And I was like, that's fucking brilliant. I love this. So I'm assuming that she'll be able to like, pick out the kinds of arrangements that she likes or specify what kind of flowers are her favorites or whatever. And like, you know, on the regular, she's getting these beautiful fucking fresh flowers. Like, hello. It wasn't even that expensive either. I was just like, this is so fucking amazing. I got to let all the dudes know about this out there. So floral company subscriptions.
Do it. Okay. And then this is another really, really great one. I've heard of this only a few times, but let me tell you fellas, this is it. Like if you really want to score some bonus points with your partner, you are going to arrange for or provide the finances for her to go on a weekend away with her best girlfriends. This is like, I know you're probably rolling your eyes like, well, I'm not involved in this gift. Why I don't get to go blah. Well, suck it up, okay? Because she would fucking love this. I'm telling you this right now.
Rarely do we get the opportunity to go on a trip with just our girlfriends. And we're always putting others first. And so this is not prioritized in a woman's life. Not usually. Maybe once or twice in a lifetime, like this is a thing. Or if somebody's getting married or whatever, this becomes a thing. But this is so therapeutic for women. I will tell you that no amount of therapy can even come close to the amount of therapeutic amazingness that you get from spending a weekend away with your bestie.
Trust me, she will come back feeling like a thousand million dollars like it it is so amazing the effect that it has for women dudes probably not so much yeah you get to go up with your I don't know golfing with your buddies for a weekend but I don't think the therapeutic effect is quite the same I just I'm guessing but it is really really amazing for women. And I would highly recommend that if you can afford it, fucking do it. Even if it's just like a, you know, it's like, I don't know, just somewhere where she could drive the, both of them drive somewhere.
But I think that it is definitely worth considering. Okay. Another one to like amp up the romance and the love in your relationship this kind of gift is is is pretty great it's basically just like date night but amped up so it's a romantic dinner but it's kind of a trip it's somewhere further away and so you can um you could just drive there and then drive back home afterwards, or you can plan it out as an overnight trip. So I live in Vancouver, Canada. And so I would think that, you know, driving down to somewhere like Seattle for a night would be really fucking amazing.
You can book a nice dinner, maybe something else during before or after that's a show or something like that and then uh like a a nice hotel to stay the night and that the thought and and the effort involved in that is just it goes a long way so how do you give that as a? I love this idea of creating your own little romantic gift card. And you can just like cut a piece of paper, just write on there nicely, or you can print something out on your computer and your printer, just make something, a sweet little gift card from you.
And on there, it can say this romantic destination dinner trip date night trip whatever you want to call it and put it in a nice envelope and give it to her that way she will fucking love it yes it takes a little bit of effort yes you can fucking do it okay you can do it it's worthwhile okay now for the sexy gifts these are fun too um and I love this list coming up with this list was so fun because some of these are my absolute favorites as well tops on the list is Maison Dinesh I fucking love this company okay there's a lot of um queen of spades spades lifestyle brands out there um i think nearly all of them are are made by dudes which is fine i mean they've got their own stuff but it's really a like a it's like a their own i don't know it's like a type of a style but Maison Dinesh is founded by a woman and she has this like really high commitment to good quality and amazing fashion, like actual style, not just like, oh, here's these fucking bikini shorts with the biggest queen of spades symbol you've ever seen in your life on it plastered on the front okay she actually put so much effort into what these clothes look like and feel like and and some of her brand is kind of like an in your face um she's even got like sissy stuff on there like she's even she's like a bunch of cuck stuff on there like just a lot of there's some of that but she's got this brand that is like more couture and is like absolutely fucking gorgeous the queen of spades symbolism is a little less in your face and more like subtle more design friendly and beautiful and I fucking love it I own so many pieces of Maison Dinesh like it is definitely by far my favorite brand out there one of my most recent purchases was this leopard print queen of spades it's black and white but it's faded uh like through black and white and it's a kimono robe oh my god it is so fucking soft like it is so soft and stretchy and like the cut is beautiful because it's got it's cut like kimono style but it's the length is beautiful it comes like just right it's pretty high up on the thigh so it's super sexy oh my god and it's it's leopard print but each one of the prints like uh the little leopard print like thing has the spade in it so it is so fucking beautiful it's hard for me to describe but i'll put a link in the show notes for today but it's absolutely beautiful beautiful.
I fucking love it. Okay. Absolutely fucking gorgeous. Okay. I have a whole bunch of other stuff from Maison Dinesh and everything that she has is beautiful. Oh my God. I have two bathing suits that are just so sexy. I'm going to be releasing some pictures of those soon.
Oh my god so so beautiful one piece but super high cut low cut on the titties and this like metallic design like oh my god it's so sexy so Maison Dinege what you can do because you don't want to like necessarily pick out stuff for her right you want her to be able to choose what she wants you can just this couldn't couldn't be easier for you guys. You can just go on the website. The link is in the show notes for today and you could get an e-card and, and have like, you know, give it to her that way. So all she has to do is enter the code from the e-card at checkout.
It couldn't fucking be easier. So Maison Dinej, highly recommend. Yes. Number two on the list is the Motor Bunny. I have talked about this a couple of times on the show. I do not own one. I want to own one. Like I really want to own one. I'm telling you this.
You can hear it in my voice like my pussy wants one please they're expensive though um so i don't have one but they are amazing they're one of these like what's the word of the other brand um fuck i can't remember now but anyway uh there's a few different brands but they're all the same kind of ride on vibrator toy thingy fucking machine no it's not a fucking machine it's like a ride on toy so basically you straddle it and it's like has this part that like massage that like vibrates your clit but it also has attachments like different like dildos that you attach to it and um you sit on it and like it vibrates like it's got it's called a motor bunny because like it's got a motor like it is like it will vibrate the floor of your house like the neighbors and be like what's going on in there it is so intense and it's of course got this like controls that either she can control or somebody else can control it so the first time i came across motor bunny was a couple years ago at splash mocha they had uh this like a demo room thing where you can go try it out i didn't go i fucking missed it but um but harmony miss harmony california she went and she came back and she was just like oh my oh my god that fucking thing like loved it okay and then this a few weeks ago i splashed mocha my friend ann and her husband james they went to go try it out again i missed the motor bunny demo um but i heard all about it afterwards and was just like wow mind blown so it's 10 out of 10 apparently rating like 100 guaranteed gonna love it uh so i would highly recommend the motor bunny um if you can afford it it's i think over a000.
It is something that would hopefully last like a decade. So it's a bit of an investment, but it's something that you can take with you. The first time I tried a machine that was like that, I tried it at a sex party and someone had brought theirs.
And of course, like cleaned and washed all the attachments in the machine in between people using it of course but it was a hit when I went on that thing there was a whole room full of people watching I lost my damn mind like I launched into the fucking universe like I went to different planets like I it was so incredible I've never ever experienced an orgasm like that before in my life and it was life changing okay so that is definitely high on the list for a gift for your partner. She will fucking love it.
Only thing is, is it vibrates so, so loud, um, that if you were in an apartment, you're probably, your neighbors are probably going to hear. So it probably wouldn't work for you. I don't think unless you could take it somewhere else. Okay. I'll put a link for the MotorBuddy in the show notes for today. Okay, the next thing I, someone recommended this, a lifestyle, tickets to a lifestyle event, like a trip to either Splash Mocha or something like Hedonism Resort or something like that. And I think that's wonderful.
I think that's a great gift because it is like a vacation at the same time, especially if it's like a hedonism resort, you're going to an actual like vacation resort. It's super fun and sexy because people are, you know, doing the thing. But it's also like a getaway. It's an actual getaway. It's something you can look forward to all year. So I think that's definitely a great type of sexy gift. Next, this was recommended online by a couple of guys. They said hot wife jewelry would be great as a gift. Yeah, you can do that. I've had some guys over the years buy me hot wife jewelry and it's okay.
okay like there's some decent things out there but um what I have found is that none of them were made well like with like materials that aren't gonna just tarnish and degrade and so they're really just pieces that you could wear once or twice or three times maybe to to something, and then they're going to start to fade or like the paint is going to come off or whatever. They're just kind of cheap. So it's fine as a gift, but it's not going to last. And she may or may not like whatever it is that you pick out for her.
I really do wish that there was like a kind of a maison de neige idea about jewelry where you could have stuff that's well styled well made and is not going to fall apart and it is going to last and of course it would be more expensive but it would fucking last and that would be important for me anyway um there is a perfume that she only wears with her bull. I heard about this a few years ago where a husband told me, my wife has this one perfume that she will only put on and wear when she's going on a date with her bull. And I'm like, oh my God, that's so hot. I love that.
And he said one day she put it on by accident and she was not going to see her bull, but she didn't tell him, her husband, that she put it on. But he's like, I could just, I could smell this amazing scent all day long. And I was just getting really horny and I didn't know why. And then he figured it out. He's like, oh, you're wearing that perfume. I love that. I think that's really great. But of course, you don't necessarily want to pick out a new perfume for your girlfriend or wife. That would be stupid. You don't know what she's going to like. You just don't.
You can guess, but you're probably not going to get it it right so i would definitely get a gift card for her to go out and pick out a perfume that she really likes that's fairly like you know sexy and uh that she would agree to only wear when she's going out on a date with a bull Interracial. black and white the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride don't sacrifice quality and comfort any longer with Maison Dines you get both in fresh empowering looks for every occasion for everyone.
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So, um, you just basically Google it, who's in your area and then see if you can get a gift card or just buy a shoot with that person and then present her with that for as a gift. I think it'd be really great. These are people who are excellent at making sure that the woman feels comfortable, feels pretty, feels sexy. They pay attention to the lighting, to her hair, to makeup, outfits, all that sort of stuff. And these are photos that she can have forever. And they're beautiful, really nice, way better than any picture you're going to take of her for sure.
So definitely look into boudoir photo shoot okay some of the okay the most common suggestion that cucks have when it comes to buying their hot wife or cuckold dress a gift is lingerie some of the women out there are gonna be rolling their eyes right right now because this is like the only thing that I feel like so many guys can think of. That's it. Lingerie. She's, I get it. I get it. Lingerie, sexy. Yes, she could wear it for her bowl.
It's basically, lingerie is a gift for her, but it's also a gift for you because you're going to end up, you know, seeing it and thinking about it and jerking off about it and it's going to be hot and whatever. I get it. But lingerie doesn't do shit if she's so tired and so stressed and so fucking not in the headspace to go out with a bowl. Okay, lingeringerie is going to do shit. You have to make sure that you are taking care of her before she can feel like she's going to be able to go out and have fun and enjoy this lingerie with a bull. Okay.
So that goes back to what everything I said before, make sure you focus on filling up the love tank, the romance tank, like easing the mental burden of your partner before you get into fucking lingerie because i have i have a closet that is fucking overflowing with lingerie that's great and all it's super fun but unless i have the opportunity to go out and fucking meet these guys then it doesn't do shit for me okay and of all the things I really need and really want in my life lingerie is probably down near the bottom of the list of priorities but I do appreciate that cucks are so thoughtful and this is what they think of is lingerie there's lots of different lingerie stores that you can,ie stores that you can shop from.
So Honey Burdette is one of my favorites. It's beautiful, well made. It's going to last a long time, but she's going to need to probably try it on. So go for a gift card instead of just picking something out for her. Because as we all know, once you buy lingerie, you cannot return it. Sex toys, sex toys, condoms, lube, vibrator. Actually, none of the guys online recommended a vibrator as a gift. They all said dildos. And yes, there are some women out there who really do enjoy dildos.
But I will tell you that most of them would opt for a vibrator any day but uh yeah sure you can get a dildo whether she uses it i don't know whether she would love that gift i don't know but sex toys sure um there are there are all sorts of really high-tech sex toys now, and I'm just learning about this, you guys. It is fucking mind-blowing. I had no idea. Okay, technology is definitely catching up with sex toys. It is not just about dildos and vibrators anymore, you guys. This is crazy.
There are actual sex toys that are controlled by by bluetooth or by apps and it's just it's crazy i'm gonna get into those when i talk about gifts for both people but um there are two more things on the list for women that are uh awesome and i will tell you someone online recommended to get tickets to a male strip show. Tickets for you and her to go and watch a male strip show. Well, I think that this idea is very cute and it's very creative. And I love it for that. But let me tell you, male strip shows suck so bad. I'm talking about male strip shows for women.
There's probably the male strip shows for gay guys is probably fucking amazing, I'm assuming. but the male strip shows for women um there's probably the male strip shows for gay guys is probably fucking amazing i'm assuming but the male strip shows for women are not good i've been to like two or three in my life and it was it was really shitty so maybe don't get that for her Okay, no, but the last but not least, I love this, you guys. This is such a great idea. Okay. Again, create your own gift card. And on there, you're going to give her the gift of blissful mornings for an entire year.
Meaning that you wake her up by eating her softly, gently licking her pussy every morning for as long as she wants. Okay? You are her pussy alarm clock. I love this idea so much. I know couples who are in relationships where this is part of their relationship. This is how she wakes up every morning. And I'm like, oh, my dear God. Like, what? I would think I would have died and gone to heaven. Like, if I woke up like that every morning, I would be the sweetest, most loveliest person every day of my life. It will be amazing. I feel like that's what I'm missing in my life right now.
And so that would be incredible. I mean, some days maybe I really I wouldn't want that. But I could just basically like, you know, push his head out of the way and be like, you can just like go or whatever. But like to have that every day. Oh my God. Yes. Yes, please. So do that. That's easy. You can fucking do that. You don't have to buy anything. Okay. You just make your own little gift card. You put it in a little fucking envelope and you give that to her. And if she, I mean, trust me, you're probably going to love it. As long as you're good at eating pussy, maybe you suck at it.
And in that case, you just really need to take Thank you. a little fucking envelope and you give that to her. And if she, I mean, trust me, you're probably going to love it. As long as you're good at eating pussy, maybe you suck at it. And in that case, you just really need to take some lessons and figure that shit out. Um, and make sure that you shave your face, please shave your fucking face. So it's smooth like a baby. Okay. Either that or have a beard. Cause that doesn't like that. That's okay.
But anyway, but anyway okay all right gifts for him um there was a guy on blue sky goes by the name of sub toy okay he had this idea of as a gift and oh my god you guys it's so good ladies you can get your guy a soft personalized seat cushion for the cup chair i love this how you want to design it what color it should be what it should say on it if it says something or just has his name or something I don't know but like I love it a cuck chair cushion yes thank you sub toy for that suggestion that was fucking awesome um somebody else on blue sky said used panties her used panties like yes i've done that before where i gave a guy my used panties and i was and he was just like oh my god that was like best thing in the whole wide world and i've only done it that one time and it was big hit so let me tell you you probably fucking love it or if you masturbate or use a vibrator with your panties on and then give him those panties or oh my god yes he will love it i'm sure of it um okay an engraved chastity cage i love this one too this is great so if you get like a really nice metal chastity cage have it engraved with something and give it to him i love love that.
That's wonderful. He would probably absolutely just die for that. It'd be great. A framed picture of you and your bull. Give that to him and have him put it on the bedside table. I mean, obviously, if you don't have kids that live with you or other people who live with you, you can get away with doing that.
And that would be like just like just really fucking hot really sexy or you could have some sort of photography done where you get this like really nice picture of you and your bowl and it's like it's you know safe for work but it's kind of like body scapes and there's no one's face involved so nobody would actually know who it is in the picture, but it would, you both would know that it's you and your bull. That would be fucking beautiful. Frame that, put it next to the bed. Yes.
This guy named White Shadow on FetLife, he said, and I love this one, that you should get your cuck a Brazilian wax for a Christmas gift. And I'm like, yes, you should.
I mean, it makes me really pissed off the inequity between how much women put effort we put towards removing hair on our bodies and how very little effort men put into it i think the only ones who really give a shit about hair and their body are gay guys and uh porn stars and that's it i mean guys can be hairy as fuck and they don't care like that you're getting hair stuck in your teeth and it's like you know getting all fucking nasty in there like and they don't give a fuck um or the least that they'll the most the most they'll do is take a little trimmer and like trim the shit down there whoop-dee-doo okay it's still fucking hairy mess and for cucks Okay, I had this cuck friend and he got Brazilian waxes and he had, he was in chastity all the time.
And it, well, it looked beautiful. Absolutely fucking beautiful smooth down there he was pretty muscular in tone too so like it was just hot as fuck I think all cucks should get waxed and I do not want to hear all your bitching whining and moaning about it hurting so bad and whatever I really don't give a fuck fuck, okay? The more you go get it done, the less it hurts, the more you get used to it. And trust me when I say this, because I waxed for over 10 years. After a little while, that little tingle that you get afterwards, it's fun. Let me tell you, it is good.
And I've had all these guys enjoy my freshly waxed pussy over the years. And you can put in the same level of effort. So yes, Brazilian wax, do it. I love it. Okay, and then there were, okay, let's talk about, okay, before I get into the sex toys let let's talk about gifts for both people. So I love this. This guy, Compersively, on FetLife, he said journals for both people. Now, this can be journals for, a journal for her and a matching journal for her bull.
And the two of them write their experiences in there or make little notes or, I don't know, put little things in there to remember certain experiences. I don't know. But I love the idea of journals because it can be either – it can be a journal for Cuck and his hot wife and they, you know, put their little thoughts and feelings and stuff in there. I just really enjoy the idea of writing things down and adding that to your level of communication between you.
And I think that's just a great thing to do because you can write in it at any point in time, and then you can make time each week or once a month to go through and share what you've written with each other. just think that's like a wonderful idea um and then there's books so i'm going to put the links to this in the show notes but the books that i would highly recommend for both of you as a gift the tell me what you want by justin lay miller is a to read, okay, because he talks about all the most popular fantasies of people in the United States.
And in the end of the book, he talks about how to bring up these types of fantasies and your desires and everything with your partner. Some of the best advice I've ever heard is in that book. So even if you share your fantasies with your partner, it's an incredible read because you get to see what other people are thinking about, fantasizing about, but also it can help you to kind of bring your relationship to the next level when it comes to communicating, which I would highly recommend. Then I have Insatiable Wives by Dr. David Lay. This is available on audiobook as well.
Great for you guys to listen to together. Highly recommend that book. It talks about the history of women with insatiable sex appetites that have, you know, had more than one lover and what's that been like for them historically, what that's like in today's world with cuckolding couples. It's a fascinating read, highly recommend. Okay, and then I have two books by Key Barrett. These are excellent books. Okay, the first one, Surrender, Submit, and Serve Her. This is about female leadership in a relationship. It's not kink-based. This is about real relationship-based female leadership. Okay.
It is fantastic. I just, it blew my mind when I read that book. The other book is called Locked in Love, How Two Weeks in Chastity Can Make You a Better Husband. This is by Key Barrett as well. And oh my God, wonderful book. I would definitely recommend that one. Okay. let's talk about the sex toys for both of you guys. Like I said, wow, they've come a long way. This is something like so fucking crazy. High tech sex toys.
What these sex toys are designed for mainly is for like, well, mainly for like couples who are long distance distance where, you know, each sex toy is controlled by each of you and like you – it's, you know, through the app. So if she's fucking herself with her dildo, then it's controlling the contractions on his like whatever you call it, fleshlight thing, I don't know, dick sleeve or whatever you call it. Okay? So that's kind of like, that's hot and sexy and fun and whatever for couples. Sure. I get it.
If you're long distance, but I'm like, this could be so fun for couples who are into cuckolding because like the amount of like sensory deprivation and like, you can really trigger the imagination of a cuck with this because like she could be in the bedroom watching like bbc porn or something like that and she's got her vibrator or her you know rabbit vibrator or whatever dildo thing um that she's playing with and at the same time what she's doing with it, he's going to feel with his dick sleeve thing, masturbator thing in the other room.
So he doesn't get to see what she's watching, but maybe she's just like on the phone with him so she can, she's telling him sort of what she's seeing and while she's like using the, oh my God, you guys know where I'm going with this. That would be so fun. I can definitely have a lot of fun with that. Like I could definitely fuck with a cuck's mind that way. But they also have prostate massagers that are Bluetooth vibrating prostate massagers.
They've got or app controlled butt plugs so he could go to work with this like butt plug in and she could fuck with him during the day with the app and turning it on whatever she wants or something like oh my god the possibilities are endless you guys okay for all the single cooks out there they also have this like dick sleeve masturbator thing that works it uses ai to sync with whatever porn video you're watching so if you're watching like bbc porn like i it somehow syncs with it and you you get to like fuck this thing like she's getting i don't even know how it works but I just watched a little video about it and I was like oh my god like what this sounds so awesome so but I love the couple's toys I would definitely think about something like that the ladies you can get so creative with what you do with these toys.
I'll post the links in the show notes for today's episode for all of these things that I've talked about. So there are a lot of options. I haven't even gotten into like the gifts that you can give your bulls. But let me just say, do not forget about these gentlemen. They are an important part of our life. They are valued as human beings. And we are so lucky and fortunate to have them in our lives. And they bring so much to us and to our relationship and to our well-being. And they're worth everything.
So make sure that you give back to them some sort of gift, even if it's something small, but something thoughtful, I'm sure that they will be very grateful for that. Um, okay. That's going to be it for my little Venus's list of gifts for cucks and for hot wives or cuckold dresses are both. I hope you've enjoyed it. And yeah, I hope everybody has a great Christmas and a happy new year. I get to see my favorite fucking bowl on New Year's Eve. And I'm so excited for this. I cannot wait. I am going to end this year with a big fucking orgasm and it is going to be amazing.
So that's how everybody should be popping off 2024 on such a high note. That's going to be it for today's episode. Thank you so much for joining me. Make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com. That's where you can book a private chat with me. And you can also join the Queen's Quarters community and get all the amazing benefits like the private podcast and the helpful cuck tier where you can get key holding for the private Snapchat group, monthly private chats with me, and weekly live hangouts and invites to special live events. Oh, and you can also submit a question or confession for the show.
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