Yeah you read the title correctly - she really did enter him into a small penis contest. And where do they even have these competitions right?? So many questions...Venus sits down with her long time cuck friend Jay to talk about how he dove head first right into the deep end of a cuckolding relationship with his girlfriend in college - and she REALLY got into it! When it comes to teasing and humiliation she really does deserve a trophy. Jay also talks about some common cuck hang-ups and how to lean into the angst in a way that makes it more comfortable. LinksDownload The MON App - listen in with Venus to talk about all things cuckoldingJay on Twitter: https://twitter.com/seaboy241Venus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsASN Magazine - Venus feature: The sexually empowered woman who wants it allFull Swap Radio - listen to Venus every Tuesday at 5pm and 11pm Central TimeNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on Twitter - Venus is very active on Twitter!Venus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on Facebook Maison De Neige - fall/winter collectionSupport the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices❤️Venus Connections❤️ - Matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships and female-led relationships. Learn more at https://www.venusconnections.com/ 👑♠️ Maison De Neige is high end lifestyle and streetwear fashion with a passion for the beauty of interracial combined with high fashion. Visit https://www.maisondeneige.com/ ❤️xoafterglow.com❤️ Meet the platform for ethical porn. Made by women, for women (and everyone). We make and share videos that portray sex accurately and treat performers with dignity, because nothing is sexier than consent. Use code VENUS for a free 7 day trial at ➡️ https://afterglow.ubpages.com/venus/Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://lnk.bio/VenusPodcast
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On this episode of the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. There are a lot of failed relationships within cuckolding and just DS relationships when that angst can't ever be dealt, on a fundamental level. And I think people can work on it, but there are definitely some people that it's just like, this is kind of like a fork in the road where it's like, maybe this is not for you. Um, however, you can also look at it the other way, kind of how I do where I, where I kind of lean into the angst and I see the angst as just a part of the dynamic and part of my devotion to her.
Wasn't there some sort of competition she made you enter into? Oh, yeah. There is a gay bar that held a small penis contest. And, of course, my girlfriend entered me. And it was non-negotiable that I was going to be participating. And I did end up winning said contest. so welcome to the venus cuckoldress podcast a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious the passionate and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all make sure you go to venus cuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast and check out the Venus blog. And of course, if you love it, share it.
Now, sit back, make yourself comfortable, and enjoy the i am your host venus thank you so much for joining me today uh Before I get into today's episode, I just have a couple of announcements. So the first one is for all of my new Patreon subscribers. So for those who aren't aware, I do have a Patreon page where you can sign up and support the podcast and there's lots of perks for it. And that's the reason why I'm able to do this full time is because of my Patreon supporters. So I wanted to give back and I wanted to do a little thank you to all of them.
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Lots of fun. My other big announcement, and I am so excited about this because I've been waiting for this for a long time. At one point this year, I tried out the Clubhouse app and I loved it. It was great, except for the fact that it was not private at all. In fact, anyone with my number in their phone got a message that popped up and said, hey, your friend has joined. And I was like, what the fuck? I pressed the little button that said, not access my contact information in my phone.
But still, they had this like backdoor way of trying to get you to connect with people who you know, which I get it. That's like the whole point of a social kind of app. But it pissed me off because I don't really want that. I like my privacy. So I was kind of bummed about that. I closed out my account.
I was like, was like well that sucks but then I heard about this new app that's coming out that's just like that it's called the moan app m-o-n and it's just like clubhouse except for two things it's only about sexuality it's for like sex positive conversations and it is unlike clubhouse totally private like you can not only are they not going to access any information on your phone, but you can actually listen in on conversations in a complete private mode. So your profile doesn't even show up. I mean, it's not like you have to have anything in your profile that has any information about you.
But it's very, very private. I've tried it out. It's finally available for download in the app store and it's awesome. I've joined one of the live audio events and it was really cool. Very easy to use too. It's kind of like the Twitter rooms kind of idea. And I think Facebook has something similar. I'm not sure if Instagram does. I'm not all that techie. But basically, it is a live voice chat audio app. And yeah, they've got lots of events already. And a lot of them sound so interesting. Like I can't wait to pop in on them. But it's completely live. So it's not like anything's recorded.
And it's not like you can go in after the fact and check out the conversations you have to join as it's happening. So I have created an event to talk about cuckolding. It's going to be November 16th at 12pm Central Time. So spend your lunch hour with me on the Moan app. So I will include the link to download the app in the app store, or you could just go to the app store and you just have to search a little bit carefully because I tried a few different ways and it didn't come up. So you actually have to search it, the Moan app, M-O-N. So that's how you do it and it'll pop up.
So So I hope that you all download it, join it and enjoy it as much as I am. It's awesome. Like you can learn about so many things on there. It's so cool. That's it for my announcements. Now let's get into my interview today with my friend Jay. Oh my goodness. It's really good. And the story, the story about his girlfriend, putting him in that contest. It's amazing. Anyway, let's get started with that. But first, here's a couple quick messages. Interracial, black and white, the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride.
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Interviews with women and other wonderful humans from many sex-positive walks of life. New episodes come out every Tuesday on Apple, Google, Spotify, Stitcher, and TuneIn. Oh, I'm your host, John, otherwise known as Hi There Katsuit. Yes, I'm a guy, but my curiosity allows me to ask the questions you want to know. So join me for What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want, presented by Dating Kinky. And make sure you listen to the episode featuring Venus in the archives. So joining me on the show today is my friend Jay, who I have known for a very long time.
I've actually talked about Jay several times on my blog and I think on my podcast as well because we go way back and I met him right in the beginning of my kind of journey into cuckolding. So I had just met my first cuck boyfriend. I can't remember if it was when that relationship ended or around that time, but this was like right in the beginning. And him and I, we met on FetLife, we started chatting and we've been basically friends ever since. So Jay, why don't you say hello to all the listeners that are here? Hi everyone. And thank you so much Venus for having me on. Okay.
So like said we go way back and the reason why I was drawn to having some conversation with you I think was right in the beginning you had a blog I don't remember what it was called but I do remember the post I read and it was something around uh like having a small penis and how that made you a better boyfriend, a better partner. So I was like, wait, what? This is all new to me. So yeah, if you want to just go back to that and just explain like what that blog was all about.
Yeah, So I actually, uh, started out more just kind of as like a sub, um, before kind of also leaning into being a cock just as much as a sub. And, um, I, part of me becoming a sub was actually kind of based in some of the things that I was learning about in school at the time. So it was just a lot of like kind of cultural theory and critical theory around like sexuality and society.
And kind of in the process of like doing research for assignments, I came across FetLife and created a profile and really began to kind of like explore, um, just kind of like the, you know, the kink side of me, but specifically started to kind of like really kind of lean into my submissive identity. And I'm really kind of, obviously I'm a very kind of like chatty and cerebral guy. And, um, I'm really just into these really interesting, broad topics about like society and, um, and how it interplays with sexuality and especially kink. So I wanted to start a blog and, uh, and write about it.
Um, so that's kind of how the blog started, uh, and how I ended up meeting you.
Um, so then I, I wrote this post about, um, about how having a small penis could actually make, make you a better, not just a better sub, um, but a better partner overall and and how it is, uh, and how that extends beyond, uh, just kink and just goes into, I guess, part of it is being in a female led relationship where you are going above and beyond, you know, but it how it can really kind of, I don't know, help you in a way and maybe even give you an advantage over somebody who is as a different type of size, you know? Yeah, I remember you saying that in that post.
It was something along the lines of if you could somehow have a bigger penis that you would choose not to. And I was just like, wow. Yeah. Well, I think part of that was just because I think I just kind of discovered how to really own my identity. Yeah. And it was like, well, why would I want to be anybody else but me, you know?
But it's funny because what actually, I actually got inspired to write it because there was a movie that had just came out that was a documentary about a guy who proposes to his girlfriend at a college basketball game and it's halftime and you know that they put the camera on and it goes on like the big screen and she says no and the the video goes viral and then he she and then they like have a long talk and he finds out that she's break she doesn't want to get married and has been wanting to break up with him for a long time because he has a very tiny penis.
And the rest of the movie is about this guy traveling the world and just trying to get to the source of his kind of like existential crisis and and i was like oh this is like it just kind of it would reinforce the idea that it's like it's so much more than just a fetish it's so much more than just porn like and that is really just a small part of it you know absolutely okay so one of the things that I one of the words I learned from you actually was the word angst at the very first time I ever heard it was from you you said cock angst and I was like oh okay that that's the word cock angst and I've used it ever since but like it came from you oh it's a great word I didn come up with it.
But yeah, it's I can't think of a better word to describe the kind of mix of emotions that occur in the cuckold relationship. So what does cuck angst actually feel like to you? Well, I think it's well, it's it's fear and anxiety. And it's fear and anxiety that are playing at a ton at different levels to different kinds of fears and anxieties. And it's all kind of happening in this like single moment. Or maybe it's, you know, it could be a single moment, like the literal moment when, you know, maybe she's with a bull and you're in the same room, or maybe it happens.
It could be something more, you know, subtle, maybe just the fact that you woke up that morning and your wife was gone. It was like, oh, she spent the night at the bull's house. Yeah. you know um and it's and it and it's and it's just part of it i think is just a primal thing where it's like the man wants to be the alpha male. And it's like innate and it's also environment, you know, because that's what society wants men to be like. Yeah. And so it's and it's hard to draw the line where it's like, do do like all men innately just desire to be like the alpha dog on some level?
Or is it, you know, is it because like this is just what society thinks men should be? You know, it's hard to say where one is or the other. Yeah. And so but why would guys sign up for Cuck Angs? Like, what is it? Well, so that's the i think that kind of like when that arises it kind of separates like the people for whom uh this kind of lifestyle will uh work out for them and those who won't um because i mean there are a lot of failed relationships within cuckolding and just DS relationships when that angst can't ever be dealt with on a on a fundamental level.
And I think people can work on it, but there are definitely some people that it's just like this is it's it's kind of like a fork in the road where it's like maybe this is not for you. However you can also look at it the other way um kind of how i do where i where i kind of lean into the angst and i see the angst as just a part of the dynamic and part of my devotion to her you know okay so if you change the way you think and feel about it and you experience it in a different way, it can actually be part of something really special.
Yeah, I guess if you start I guess if you start with questioning, like what's going on when you're when you're experiencing angst, start to question what's leading. What are the what are what's exactly like what are the thoughts that are going on and like maybe take time and like write them out and maybe literally every time like you feel a big you know oncoming of angst you literally just sit down and you write it out and you examine like what's going on yeah and that way you can actually like work through it and um you'll probably have a lot more your relationship.
Do you ever have to do that? Like, did you struggle through it before? There have been, yeah, I've definitely done that before. I mean, yeah, I've definitely had it. I mean, I still do. I just am better at coping with it, you know? Okay. So, so tell me about your previous relationships. Are you single or are you attached right now? Yes. Yes. So currently single. Okay. Um, so tell me when I first met you, you were in a long-term relationship and, um, there was some really interesting things about that relationship I remember.
But tell our listeners kind of, you know, what that was all about for you. Yeah, I mean, it was basically my first kink relationship, first DS relationship. And it was like a dive into the deep end. um it it was, but it, and there were definitely, there were experiences that I, you know, maybe don't wish I don't had. There are some that there are experiences that I'm really grateful for.
Um, I would say ultimately I was grateful for it, but it was, it was just like a head first dive into the deep end, into the world into the world of ds relationships and it was like my first like long-term relationship when when i yeah yeah how old were you when you met her jeez i would have been like 23 or something okay so you're pretty young yeah um i just remember calling her barbie oh yeah. She was so beautiful. And I was like, she looks like Barbie. Right, Barbie, like an evil Barbie. But she kept you in chastity for long periods of time, right? Yeah.
And it was kind of a slow, I don't know if slow buildup is the word, but it was only about a month until she started introducing long-term chastity.
But that was – I mean, as a 23-year-old, first-time DS relationship, and my partner also doesn't have that much experience herself because she herself was like 26 or something and then to go into long-term chastity um it was as i said it was just a deep dive into the deep end yeah because didn't she she only let you out of the cage i think once a year or something like that well it will it was a weekly basis for like taking a shower or something okay you know and then and then it was like every few months if she would take it off so I could get a release but we were also um we were doing pegging and I was getting a release from that right so she didn she didn't feel a neat, she wasn't like, Oh, he's going to like blow up, you know, like I need, you know, interracial black and white, the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride.
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Um, so she had, she had an ex-boyfriend, uh, that was actually on the basketball team at the school that I was at. Um, and that was, that was kind of like her main bowl. But then once I'd graduated graduated um yeah i guess it was both of us at the same time started to uh look for bowls through like ok cupid um or tinder and it was just like man it was awkward and uncomfortable you know i mean because it's just like i'm trying you know'm, you know, making mistakes along the way, but it's so funny.
Cause you, if you just watch porn all the time, you were like, Oh, this it's so easy to find a bowl. It's like actually really hard to find a legitimate bowl. Yeah, it is. I hear that all the time from couples.
They're like, uh, first of all, we don't even know where to start and we don't even know what the process is and then we're having so much trouble it's not as easy as we thought yeah it was way harder than i i thought it would be and then and then it was like the and then it was like this whole thing which i guess kind of is angst related of like okay how do i like approach how do I approach these people and explain what this relationship is? And then it's like, oh, what are they going to think about it? And it's like, wait, why am I thinking about how they're going to think about it?
That doesn't matter. And it's like, that's involved. So what kind of like, when she cucked you, what kind of things would she do? Well, she started off by either, either her ex would, she would go over to his place and I would stay home and she would text me about it and send pictures. Or she would have, we had an apartment by campus and she would have me sleep out in the living room on the couch and they would get the bedroom. So it was like that at first, but then, and then she's kind of started to involve me where then I would kind of be like the cameraman.
And then that kind of turned into being like the cleanup man and also kind of prepping the bull and cleaning the bull down. So you guys just like dove right into this whole cuckolding thing. Yeah. Yeah. As I said. Like she seems kind of like a natural. Yeah. Natural is one word you could use. So she was a size queen. Yeah. I mean, well, for her, it was like, it was the whole, it was the whole deal. Like, you know, she just, she wanted like the whole typical kind of like alpha guy, but, but yes, that as a part of it. I can just imagine the type of guy she pulled in. She's like gorgeous.
So I just want to bring this up because this is a funny story I remember you telling me. Wasn't there some sort of competition she made you enter into? Oh, yeah. That is so funny you said that. I have not thought about that in a while. I was telling someone about this and they didn't believe me. I'm like, I swear to God, it's true. Yes, it's a real thing. Yeah. There is a gay bar back in my hometown that held a small penis contest.
And of course, my girlfriend entered me and it was non-negotiable that I was going to be participating and uh and I did end up winning said contest for all those people who didn't believe me when I brought up this story it's's true. Yeah. Well, okay. Well, first of all, it was judging on like overall, it was, it was like overall, I don't, I mean, um, it wasn't like just size itself. So you gotta give me categories, of course. Right. You gotta, I mean, it was just kind of like, you know, like body and, um, you know, it's the whole,. You got to give me some credit.
I just remember you texting me about it and I was like, what? This is like the ultimate humiliation right there. I mean, you deserve a trophy just for that. Yeah. I mean, it's not like there were probably like 40 or 45 people there, but this is also, this is in like a very kind of, I mean, this isn't a part of the city that is like a very alternative kind of crowd and it's in, and it's kind of in like the gay district. So people, there's like drag queen stuff going on.
Um, there um there's you know there's like striptease stuff going on all the time at like bars so it's not like that great it's not like you know you were at tgif fridays and then down the street there was a small penis contest oh my my imagination is just going wild yeah so leave it to the gay bar to have a small dick competition oh so funny and i think most of the guys in it were were gay i'm i'm fairly certain the majority of them in it were gay i don't think they were yeah i mean i don't know but i'm i'm gonna i would put my money on it your girlfriend was so savage yes oh absolutely and she had two friends that came with her to watch oh my god and then uh yeah and then we went out and got drinks afterwards.
I think I actually texted you then. Yeah. I do remember. I remember that. Oh my goodness. And it's so funny because I was in a stage in my life where I was just starting out in all of this. So it was like the whole kind of, um, sub part of it, I really had no exposure to, really. I really only knew the cuckolding relationship part of it. I remember that, yeah. Yeah, so it was through you that I learned about chastity before, I think right around the time I met you, I saw a chastity cage in porn for the first time and I was like, what the fuck is that? What the fuck is that? What is this?
Is this some sort of fashion accessory or something? What the fuck is that thing? And I just immediately put it in that part of my brain of like I don't understand that whatever right and it wasn't until you and I started talking where you started telling me kind of what the benefits were like how it changed the way you were changed the dynamic in your relationship and I was was just like, oh, that's fascinating. But I mean, before that, I really didn't know anything about the sub stuff or like femdom stuff. So all these stories from your relationship, I was just like, wow.
I was telling all my girlfriends about it. Yeah, and they were probably even more shocked oh yeah the story about the small dick competition they were just like what okay and you also wrote a few posts on my blog right around that time actually I think it was on some what you said were suggestions for single guys looking to date in this lifestyle. And I got lots of feedback about those posts. It seemed to really resonate with a lot of people, especially with the women. They were like, yes, this is where the bar needs to be.
So do you remember kind of what those suggestions were for that post that are those posts that you wrote? Yeah, I think it was a pretty high standards to aspire to. Yeah, I remember. Yeah, it was.
Basically, you were saying like, there was something very, very specific on there that was like, if you are entering into a cuckolding relationship or hoping to with the intent of you know having you know satisfying your own sexual fantasies then you need to just stop like it's about her it's entirely about her and her fantasies and fulfilling those and in doing so that's where your your joy comes from and i think that was so good yeah i'm yeah i mean i think that's i think you need that is it's a necessary part of the relationship i i think you know if you talk to a lot of cucks they'll say you know i get so much joy and happiness from watching her feel fulfilled and sexually empowered and sexually free and this transformation that she goes through with this confidence and absolutely kind of like sexual appeal that she's found she has and all of that sort of stuff that's where they get the most satisfaction from but for guys who have only just ever watched porn and have no relationship experience, it's difficult for them to sort of see that part of it.
Yeah. Well, I mean, I think this is what I think they're not seeing, is that some of the best parts of the stage, you know, there's different stages of a relationship. And I think one of the best parts is like the very beginning when you don't like, you haven't quite won her over yet. And you're kind of, you're still kind of like chasing after her, but you, you know, she likes you and you're, you're, you know, you know what I'm talking about? Like that is like some of the most like fun and exciting parts of the relationship.
Basically, I what the guys that are like what's in it for me if it's all about her um what they're not seeing is that you get to live that constant state that you kind of experience at the beginning of the relationship when you're chasing after her and you're trying to win her over and there's almost kind of like almost a thrill to it. And there's vulnerability involved and all of that, you get to live that just throughout the entire relationship. And it always, it makes things, things are never boring.
Okay, one question I wanted to ask you is, you know, for, for people who don't really understand cuckolding very much, they don't understand the humiliation or teasing part very much at all. Um, some might just assume that the teasing or humiliation part of a cuckolding relationship would be damaging to a guy. And what do you say to that? What do you think about that? I mean, that's not wrong. It entirely depends how you go about. It entirely depends on who your partner is and, and how you're doing it. Like there are some guys that are going to respond really, really well to that.
And it, to even the point where it like, um, is a part of your relationship that, you know, pulls you closer together, or it's just kind of something that kind of makes things more exciting and interesting. But there's some guys that have no tolerance for it.
And for them you know that's certainly true that uh it could it could be damaging you know yeah so it's yeah it's really just like you know communication is key with like obviously every relationship but even more so in kink you know because of stuff like that in my experience it's been pretty obvious with the guys who really like that part of it, the humiliation part. I mean, they're, they're like basically asking for it. Yeah.
But that's, see, that kind of, that for, for me, it's like, I enjoy it to the point where it's authentic, but not to the point where it's like, oh, she's going out of her way to say things just so that I can feel like she's just saying something so I can feel a certain way. Then it's like her performing a service for me. And it's almost like topping from the bottom.
I've had that happen before where a guy was like so so tell me how small you think my dick is I'm like what that's not like yeah that's not how it works yeah I mean I and and it sucks because for a lot of women they're not very comfortable with that whole initiating that kind of humiliation and teasing part. Like, they're just not. And so they already feel like it's not genuine. They already feel like they are saying things they don't actually mean. And that part sucks. For me, it just took time until it just came naturally. And it was just, I'm just telling the truth.
Like, Jay jay i've seen you naked i know how small your dick is i'm not i'm not lying about anything when i say it's like micro oh my god of course anyways i really appreciate you coming on to the podcast with me. I'd love to have you back. I really appreciate your perspective. So if anybody wants to learn more about Jay, my friend Jay, you can reach out to him on FetLife. I'll post the link in the show notes for you. And otherwise, I would love to have you back on. I really enjoy speaking with you. And thank you so much for joining me on the show today. Oh, thank you so much, Venus.
It was a pleasure. Okay, that's going to be it for today's show. Thanks so much for joining me. Make sure you go to fullswapradio.com. You can catch the Venus Cuckold just podcast on there every tuesday 5 p.m and 11 p.m central time and tuesday november 16th at noon central time make sure you join me on the moan app we're gonna have some really cool chats going on about everything cuckolding and of course don't forget to go to venuscuckoldress.com. That's where you can subscribe to the podcast and check out the Venus Vault, the elusive Venus Vault. And you can follow me on Twitter.
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