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Coming up on this Size Queen episode of the Venus Cockle Driss podcast. Oh my God, I can't even believe like I'm taking all of that. But at the same time, I was like, wow, that is a feeling that I have never experienced in my life.
and it was like overwhelming but also like so in such like an enjoyable way like I'm pretty sure there was some crazy like insane hormones being released in my brain where I was just like wow enjoyment i was fucking this guy and i remember him saying to me during sex oh you have such a tight pussy and i know he meant it as like he probably thought oh she will like that what woman doesn't want to be told that but i was offended i was so mad i like, what the fuck did you say? I'm like, my pussy is not tight. I do not want it to be tight. That is not me. So fuck off with that shit.
You are now listening to the Venus Cuckolders podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, the passionate, and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Go to venuscuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast, ask a question for the show, and find the elusive Venus Vault, a sneak peek behind the bedroom door. Now sit back, make yourself comfortable, and let's dive right into this episode. Welcome to this episode of the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. I'm your host Venus. Thank you so much for joining me for this episode, which is going to be so fun.
It's one of my favorite subjects, big dicks. If you know me, you know, I like it big. I like it big and black, just saying. But today, I'm going to talk about size queens because on this podcast, I have talked about a whole bunch of things in the last two years. Lots of stuff, but I have not specifically talked about size and why it is that this is such a common theme in cuckolding and how popular is it anyway. So I'm going to talk about all of that plus share some stories of why I love it big. It's going to be fun.
But first, I'd like to say thank you to everyone who joined in on the moan chat that I had on the 12th of April. And it was my friend Joe who joined me. He was on the podcast recently, talked about his sextortion slash blackmail experience that he had that he shared on the podcast. And so we wanted to chat about it on the Moan app, which is a live drop in audio app, which is totally private. And so we talked about it.
And everybody who joined in, oh my gosh, I cannot believe how many people that this has happened to before or something similar, or they know someone who this has happened to before. So it was a really great opportunity to just share stories, but also, you know, the, oh my God, the inspiration that comes from how Joe dealt with it and how he basically just like came out to all of his friends and family and coworkers and said, hey, I'm into some kinky stuff. These people are blackmailing me. And you know what? It turned out to be okay for him and he's a better person for it.
So just sharing that story, the inspiration that comes from it, I'm just like, wow. So thank you to everybody who joined in on that chat. It was a lot of fun. I love the Moan app. If you have not downloaded it, go to the Apple store and download it. You can just search for the Moan app, M-O-N, and it'll pop right up. All right, now let's jump into the episode for today and we'll get started right after this quick message. Calling all sex and intimacy illustrators. Have we got an interesting case for you.
Key Barrett, who wrote the book Locked in Love, is working on a new book and he needs your help. He's looking for 15 to 20 illustrations of sex positions where the submissive partner is locked in chastity. These can be very simple illustrations like an airline safety card or your own unique style. There will be credit, royalties, and a small compensation for each image. Find Key Barrett on Twitter for more details. Size queens. Okay. Urban Dictionary defines a size queen as a person who will only accept larger than average penises in sexual partners. So yeah, that pretty much defines me.
I've been calling myself a size queen for a few years, ever since I figured out there was an actual term for it, size queen. And I was like, oh, I'm pretty sure that that's me. But is it common in cuckolding? I seem to think so, but it's hard to know for sure because not all couples are living their life online, describing everything that they're doing. I have come across this quite often, though, as a theme with couples who I have talked to where the woman does look for someone of a bigger size than her partner. And sometimes this is something that's driven by her partner.
And sometimes this is something that she just genuinely prefers someone of a larger size. But to me, yes, it does. It does seem like it's a very big part of cuckolding. Definitely not all couples, but I've come across it a lot. Now, I did a little bit of research because I was like, okay, is this actually like a really big thing? Or is this just the big thing? Because it has to do with me. And I went on to black to white the message forum that's been around for a while. And I just did a quick little search. Size queen. That's all I typed in size queen.
There were 10 pages full of posts mentioning size queen. And each of those posts had many comments. So there were probably hundreds of comments about this topic of size queen. So like was like, okay, that's a pretty good indicator that this is pretty popular because I think that cuckolding is the dominant theme on that site. So I also went on to FetLife, Kink Central, and did a quick search on size queen. And there were, you know, thousands tagged size queen. There were hundreds of profiles that mentioned size queen, but there are 103 groups dedicated to size queens.
And I was like, wow, that's a lot of groups. That's a lot of people who are members of those groups. That's a lot of conversations happening in those groups regarding size queens. So I was like, damn, all right. In the kink world, for sure, size queens is a real thing. So why are so many people interested in big dicks? Like, this is a real thing. There's a lot of women who are seeking this out. There's a lot of cuckolding couples who are seeking this out. And there's a lot of guys thinking about it. And in gay cuckolding, this is absolutely a thing as well.
So before I get into why it is that I'm a size queen or how that all transpired, I just want to talk a little bit about this article that my friend Will Acorn did for the Venus Cuckoldress blog. So if you want to read this article, you can find the link in the show notes, or you can just visit venuscuckoldress.com. The post is called, Yes, Size Matters, But Why? And it's a very interesting article, obviously written by a man. And he goes into the first little bit talking about how society has been constructed around the male ego.
So it shouldn't come as any surprise that size doesn't matter is a phrase that women are raised to say. And I couldn't agree more. Honestly, I feel like this whole size does not matter. It's not an important aspect, blah, is something that is wired into women by men who are insecure. But anyway, I will continue. So he then does say that saying size doesn't matter tends to be an analog for a woman saying, I value many things when looking for a life partner. The connotation is true, even if it is factually incorrect.
To say size doesn't matter in sex is akin to saying height doesn't matter in basketball. Yes, some of the most outstanding players in NBA history were not over seven feet tall, but generally speaking, if you want to play the game at the highest levels, you will need to be above average height. I just thought it was so funny that, of course, that a guy writing this article would have to throw in some sports to be able to prove this point about, you know, height equals an advantage and therefore size with sex equals an advantage. And I was like, okay, this is so funny. Okay.
So Will even went into some detail about that. And he made a list of five famous basketball players and their height next to it. And obviously they're really, really tall. So he was, his point is saying that to be the best basketball player, really, you have to be above average in height. So he asked the question, why is it so controversial to admit that with sex, size does in fact matter? Then he goes into some examples of why size actually does matter. And some of these I found really interesting.
So the first one he said is that when you are of a bigger size, you can actually participate in various sexual positions that guys who are smaller can. And I happen to agree because one of my favorite positions is laying on my stomach while he, like with my legs closed, while he's like on top of me and he just slides in there. And I don't know that you only can do that position. If you have a long dick, you can't, if you have a small dick, it's just like not possible.
And the, for the guys who have the long dick, there's something about that position where they are able to like hit a spot that is something else. And that was another one of his points where he goes into detail about like, when a guy who is bigger is able to hit a different spot that a woman, he, he calls this a visceral reaction that she has. And I'm like, that's the truth that I a hundred percent agree with. But one of the other interesting things that he said was that perhaps guys with bigger, longer dicks have more stamina. And I've heard this a lot.
There's a lot of guys who do equate bigger dicks with more stamina. And I'm like, I don't really know if that's true. But he mentions in this article that he thinks that there are lots of nerve endings, just like any other guy in the penis. However, he said, because the penis is actually in larger, there are larger spaces between those nerve endings. And therefore it, he gets more, he's able to control himself more. And I was like, oh, that's interesting. I don't know if that's true, but I would love to know if that actually is true.
It's an interesting, I guess, hypothesis, but like, I don't really know if that's true. So if anyone's listening has any research that can back that up, I would love to read it, send it my way. And also he said that there is something about being that feeling of being stretched out that women really, some women really enjoy. Ding, that's me. So I'm going to talk about that. But first, I'm going to talk about the last, one of the last things that he mentioned in this article, which is societal rebelling, he calls it.
So he said that from a young age, girls are told not to care about penis size when it comes to sex. And I'm thinking that's because we're meant to look at sex as something very loving and adorable and sweet and just bonding and very romantic and everything like that, and not as something that's supposed to be necessarily enjoyable. So that's why I think women are so hesitant to ask for something other than that, because we are seen as somebody that's maybe greedy or disrespectful to a guy if we ask for something like a bigger size.
And Will talks about, for size queens anyway, it is their form of saying, fuck that. I'm not going to conform to that idea. And I'm just going to ask for what I want. And if that is bigger dicks, then I'm just going to say, hey, fuck you, I want this. And I can totally see how that fits in nicely within a cuckolding relationship. Because I think in cuckolding relationships, this is about fostering her sexual empowerment, and her ability, her giving her the ability to feel comfortable asking for what she wants and getting what she wants.
And so sexually, if she wants this, this is permission to say, yeah, absolutely. If you want it, you can have it and not feel any kind of guilt or shame or any, you know, hurt, but hurt feelings from her partner about it. So anyway, it's just a lot to think about. I really enjoyed that article called Yes, Size Matters, But Why written by Will Acorn. So thank you, Will, for submitting that post to the blog. I love it. So when it comes to size, does it matter to me? Hell fucking yes. I think I've talked about this a little bit on the podcast before. Maybe just a little.
But I know that I've talked about it a lot on Pillow Talk. And if you've gone into the Venus Vault, you've seen that I like some big guys. So how did that all come about? This has been something that I've known about myself since before I learned about this kind of relationship dynamic. So I'm a natural fit for the big guys, for cuckolding too.
So I go, like thinking back, I remember in high school, I slept around a lot and I don't really remember a lot from those encounters, like not very memorable, but I do remember like this one guy who had this like enormous dick and I really, I really enjoyed it. And so that part was actually quite memorable. And then I got into a serious relationship. I was actually with this guy for like 13 years and I didn't realize it at the time, but this guy was like above average in size for his dick. So I was just, you know, enjoying the sex a lot and it was great.
And then it wasn't until after we broke up that I slept with another guy and I was like, wait a second. Like, I am not really feeling much of anything. And I was like, really not enjoying it. And that's when I realized I was like oh this guy is like so much smaller and I don't like it and so I realized at that point I was like oh okay so the guy I had before was like quite a bit bigger than this guy so then I ended up seeking out guys were bigger. And that's when I was like, oh, then I really, really enjoyed myself. And I could feel like I could feel everything in sex.
And so then I was like, all right, now I know that I clearly have a preference. And then when I met my first cuck boyfriend, and he himself had a really big dick, like he was above average. And I remember I was like, whoa, that's really big.
And then he mentioned one day that he would love to see me with guys who were bigger than him and i was like laughing because i'm like um i don't know if i'm gonna find them but okay that sounds fun interracial black and white the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride don't sacrifice quality and comfort any longer with Maison Dinege you get both in fresh empowering looks for every occasion for everyone from the streets to the sheets and everywhere in between check us out at Maison Dinege.com Maison Dinege Couture, modern fashion for the modern revolution.
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I didn't know anything about humiliation or teasing, like sexual denial. I didn't know anything, nothing. And never during that relationship did I go online and look up any of this. I was just thoroughly enjoying my experience with him. And so I remember thinking to myself like, oh, I wonder why he wants me like to, anyway, I didn't understand the whole like angsty feelings that a cuck has of when feeling like he is smaller than somebody.
Now, of course, I do understand that, but it was an interesting introduction to it because I was like, well, this guy is clearly capable of great sex, but wants me to have more. And I was just like, wow. Okay. Anyway, I loved it. And of course, now I completely understand the whole angsty feelings when it comes to size. This is a real thing with guys. Like guys are obsessed with size. They are fucking obsessed with their dicks. And like they will talk about their dicks like so much. It's ridiculous. Honestly, so stupid.
Even in my matchmaking service, even though it's so heavily focused on relationship building and so minimizes the whole fantasy sexual part of it, obviously, because you have to do that in the beginning of a relationship. Even though I have had at least one or two guys fill out this very lengthy three-page questionnaire, which has everything to do with getting to know you as a person, getting to know your personality, like, you know, all the things that you're looking for in a relationship and everything like that.
Even though these guys filled out it completely hyper-sexualized talking about their dicks. And I mean, like, almost every question, they answer it with something to do with the size of their dick. And I'm like, God damn it, what the fuck is wrong with you? So it has not happened a lot in that program, because obviously, I've gone to great lengths to, you know, explain to these guys, look, this is not going to be a place for you to fulfill your fantasies. This is the place for you to find your life partner.
But still, if I'm just out there in the fucking dating world, in this lifestyle, which doesn't exist, it means that you're out there either on vanilla apps or you're on FetLife or whatever, Reddit, who knows, you are bombarded with guys who will, the very first thing that they want to talk about is their dick. I'm like, fuck off. Anyway, it is very common to come across this in cuckolding relationships as like a theme that is fun to play with when it comes to angsty stuff, angsty feelings. And that's something that I learned early on.
There is this widespread idea that cucks have, all cucks have small dicks. And that is so fucking ridiculous. Like it's so dumb. It's so untrue. And it's just like completely untrue. There are some guys who do have below average penises who are attracted to this kind of relationship because they know that they want to be able to give their partner everything that she could possibly ever want and desire. And that's just the selfless part of their nature, the very generous and giving part of their nature. And so that part of it fits nicely within this kind of relationship.
So there are those kind of guys or guys who have issues with erectile dysfunction that feel like this kind of relationship would be fair for their partner. There's that. But to assume that all guys who are cucks have a below average size penis or even a micro penis is ridiculous. It's just not true. I think that most of the guys out there, most of the cucks out there are, they can satisfy their, their wife or their girlfriend or their partner just fine. Like they have no issues with that. She is happy as fuck in the bedroom with him.
And the cuckolding aspect is simply, um, what cuckoldress Scarlett describes as cuckolding from abundance. It's basically taking something where you're already feeling very, very fulfilled and just expanding on that fulfillment. And if you have not read her blog post, Cuckolding from Abundance, then you absolutely have to.
You can find the link to that blog post in the show notes for today and or you can just go to cuckoldresscarlet.com either way though no matter how you look at it I think that size queen stuff is always going to be a fun opportunity in this kind of relationship Now, when I really started enjoying this whole aspect of big size was a few years ago when I met this bull and, oh, he had just like the perfect dick. It was like so big, like thick, but also long. And this is the best part of it. When he got hard, he was like rock hard.
And so it was like when he was inside of me, oh my God, I could feel everything, everything. Oh, it was so, so good.
Oh, anyway, if you've been in the Venus Venus vault there is a picture of me I'm like down on my knees he took the picture looking down at me and I have his dick in my mouth and I could I only have the like the tip in my mouth it is so so big honestly that that picture is like something straight out of porn like it is impressive but him oh my god he was fun not just because of the size of his dick but we had some like insane sexual chemistry and he was very creative when it came to sex. Sex wasn't just like a means to get off for him.
Sex was an exploration of pushing limits and boundaries and oh my god did he ever do that with me.
He loved that he never really had to like you know work into getting into me or take this time or whatever like it was always on for me and I've had that happen many times where guys with big dicks have been like really happy and relieved when they fuck me because they're like, didn't even have to like go slow at first i didn't have to like spend 15 minutes warming you up before i could put my dick in you and like all that sort of stuff and i'm like hell no and then they're like and i don't have to worry about going too deep with you because you you can take it and i'm like yeah like, yeah.
And they tell me stories of like how, you know, it's that kind of annoying for them to have to do that with other women. And I'm like, yeah, I can totally see how that would kind of kill the mood a little bit maybe, or just make sex more of like, I don't know, a bit of a chore in the beginning, but then fun after. I don't know. But I just know that that's the feedback that I've been given many times by these guys. And I'm just like, hey, fuck, I have a big welcoming pussy for you. Come right in. Anyway, this guy, he really loved to stretch me out. He loved that.
I mean, he loved my pussy, like everything about it, but he loved to stretch me out. And so he did things that I was like, never, I would never have thought about. And it's not like we had a conversation about it. It just went there. Cause like he could tell that I loved that feeling of being stretched. Like it's, it's, it almost like takes my breath away. And in that moment, like he can tell that I'm just like, Oh my God, like, like beyond. And so he would like, at first he would just like put like a few fingers in next to his dick, like just slide both in.
And I would just be like, oh my God, that's like amazing. And then eventually like he was putting his whole hand in there, like slide it right next to his dick. And I remember the very first time he did it, I was like, oh my God, I can't even believe like I'm taking all of that. But at the same time, I was like, wow, that is a feeling that I have never experienced in my life and And it was overwhelming, but also in such an enjoyable way. I'm pretty sure there was some crazy insane hormones being released in my brain where I was just like, wow, enjoyment. Because it was next level.
And I was like, wow, I don't even know how you thought to do that. But like, that was amazing. And he, he would do the same thing with like, dildo. And at one point, I actually did DVP with him and another guy. And I was just like, oh my God, loved it so, so much. Oh my God. And I, there was one time when we were, he was at my house and like, we were in some chat room online and we were on video and people were watching us and like, he was fisting me and they were like, Oh my God, I've never seen that. Like I'd never seen a woman be able to take that and stuff. And they were just like in awe.
And I was not really paying much attention. But then he decided that he was going to try to like double fist me. And I had never had that before. I'd never had anyone even try that before. And of course, like he just, I don't know there there's something magical about that guy. Like he just knew how to like just stretch. And it was like, wow, it was amazing. Anyway, so he did. And it was like, oh, something kind of euphoric. But that really did stretch the limits, literally stretch the limits of my pussy.
Because like because like I was like I felt like I was like this I don't know if you can go any further than that and then after right afterwards like he took this picture of my pussy from like I'm like bent over and um bent over the couch and he is he's got like one hand that's like holding my pussy and the other one he's got the phone and he took this picture and it is like the ultimate gape picture like I have never in my life seen another picture like it and And that picture, I love it so much, obviously, because like, I love my pussy being stretched.
But something about that picture that just like, wow, it is, it is impressive in a very shocking kind of way. And I remember a long time ago, I posted it once on FetLife, I took it down afterwards, but I posted it. And there was one guy, and he made a comment. And I will never forget it, but I can't remember the exact wording of what he said. But he said something like, I look at that picture, and I feel like I'm looking into like the depths of heaven and I see God. Like I could tell that this picture just made him like go to a different place mentally.
And I wish I could remember exactly what he said because it was so awesome. That always stuck with me. Anyway, I have not posted it anywhere since then. And I think what I'm going to do is put it in the Venus vault after this episode airs. So if you are curious to see this ultimate gape picture of that night, then you can go to venuscuckoldress.com and click on the vault. It is open to my third tier Patreon supporters for the podcast. So, okay. Oh my God. That was, that was quite the night.
And I really do miss my adventures with that guy because like, I don't think I'll ever be able to find somebody else who is kind of creative in that way. And I haven't, like, I haven't really since, but I've had some really great encounters with guys who are of a bigger size.
Oh, and I'll also say that like guys who are bigger are able to make me squirt with just their dick they're they're able to hit a certain spot that guys who are average to below average could never even dream of hitting and so there's that like especially if I'm on top and I'm riding I'm bouncing on this guy like he it will hit this spot and I'll just like squirt all over his dick like I don't know every guy who I've ever been with loves that shit so it's pretty hot I'm gonna lie it's hot oh anyway talking about this story is getting me a little warm just a little warm and just reliving those days of like ultimate pussy stretch.
And oh my God, I just loved it so much. But yeah, I mean, there are women who absolutely hate that feeling of being stretched and I get that. There are women who have certain medical issues that, you know, make sex quite painful, and the stretch quite painful. And so I completely understand that.
But what really pisses me off is this idea that a lot of women have kind of drilled into their brain, that in order to be like, you know, desirable, sexually desirable, that you have to have this tight pussy and that this idea that all these guys are looking for this tight pussy and that it's such a compliment to have a tight pussy really pisses me off. because'm like the opposite. I'm like, no, I'm very proud of my big welcoming pussy for the big dicks. And the only guys who are scared of pussies that aren't tight are the guys who are insecure about their size.
And so all of these guys with big dicks they're not out there seeking out like the really tight pussies obviously they're looking for women like me who are gonna take it and not run from the dick but this will like yeah this idea of of a woman is sexually desirable if she has a tight pussy is ridiculous. And I remember I was fucking this guy and I remember him saying to me during sex, oh, you have such a tight pussy. And I know he meant it as like, he probably thought, oh, she will like that. What woman doesn't want to be told that? But I was offended. I was so mad.
I was like, what the fuck did you say? I'm like, my pussy is not tight. I do not want it to be tight.
That is not me fuck off with that shit so there's that I have learned to be proud and not just be proud but like really love my pussy because it is a great pussy for guys who are big and I fit them and they fit me and it's just a great situation all around so I'm I'm happy with being a size queen I never did feel any kind of shame ever or even thought about it about having like a tight pussy you know and or not having a tight pussy I never felt I was never worried about it never I don't know maybe don't know. Maybe because like, I don't know, shit just doesn't bother me.
I don't really give a fuck what other people think and say. And that's probably why I love this kind of relationship. Because in cuckolding relationships, I can ask for what I want, and I can get what I want. And Key Barrett, who was on the last episode, he, this was like a real kind of light bulb moment for me when he said that in a female-led relationship, all it means is that she does not have to filter what it is that she says. And I was like, oh my God, that is exactly what I've been saying about how a woman has her own permission and permission of others to just say what she wants.
Just say it. If you want it, just say it. And that's exactly what he was saying. He was like, as a woman, you don't have to kind of like take his feelings into consideration and be like, oh, well, maybe if you don't mind, I could do this, or I think maybe you should do that. Maybe, you know, soften it, you know, the filter of, you know, his the fragile male male ego. And so when it comes to penis size, like, we have as women been told that you shouldn't ever offend a guy about his penis size, like it will damage your relationship, because it's not what you should want.
You should not want guys with big dicks. You should want to feel lucky that you have this loving, adoring partner who cares what his dick size is. So this is our opportunity as women to say, hey, like, I do want something else. I do want something more. I do want something different and not be afraid of any kind of backlash or whiplash or damage to your relationship or any shame or any guilt or anything like that. You as a woman say, hey, I want this. And it'd be okay. Like, imagine that. So yeah, that's what he was saying about there is no filter in this kind of relationship.
And I was just like, that's exactly it. That's exactly it. If you haven't listened to that episode, oh my God, please go and listen to it.
It is the one before this one with key barrett where he talks about his book on flr a female-led relationships and it's on out on audiobook now you can find actually i'll put the links in the show notes for today but honestly it's a fucking amazing book and this is like really transformative for relationships and so amazing for women all right so I've rambled on a little just a little about big dicks so I think it's very clear now that uh yeah I'm a size queen totally okay with it happy about it And it is just part of who I am and part of what I want in my sexual life, my sexual being.
So I really hope that more women are able to give themselves the permission to just ask for what they want, even if that means whatever, just ask for it. And you can actually get what you want in this kind of relationship because it gives you the power and the permission to do that. And have I met a guy that was too big, a dick that was way too big? No, not at all. No. There was one time last summer where I had to have a little pussy pep talk where I was like, you can handle this, bitch, you can handle this. But there was no running from the dick.
I still took it like an absolute champ, threw that ass back and fucking leaned right into it. All right. That is going to be it for today's big dick energy episode. I hope you enjoyed it. I loved it. I had a good time. Make sure you go to venuscuckledris.com. If you want to visit the Venus Vault, you can also ask a question for the show, subscribe to the podcast, and you can register for the Pillow Talk events. Make sure you listen to the Venus Cuckoldress podcast on Full Swap Radio every Tuesday at 5 and 11 p.m. Central Time.
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