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And yeah, like sometimes people get sore sore people get tired and the thing is done before everyone got to go and that's just fucking life and like these guys will they'll deal with it it'll be okay definitely good to keep the lube around you know there's definitely a lot of moments where like someone calls out lube and then like there's like three guys scrambling around looking for the lube and no to bring it over. That's a cuck job. That's a cuck job. Yeah. I think there needs to be more of more gang bangs where it's women fucking a guy. I agree.
We should start by planning mine and we can test it out from there. No, but this is the catch. Women pegging the guy this is the venus cuckolders podcast a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious for the passionate and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Welcome to the show, everyone. I'm your host, Venus. Thank you so much for joining me today. I have Billy Brasida, who is a comedian and host of the Man Whore podcast joining me. And we're going to talk about planning a gangbang like a champ.
And as you can imagine, this show is going to be the perfect combination of hilarious and educational. But first I have a few announcements. The first one is about Crystal Welch. She is going to be going live with myself in the Queen's Quarters community. This is going to be the first time that we'll be testing out this meetup feature, which seems pretty cool.
It seems like a live hangout kind of thing where you guys can hang out and join in and we're going to have a discussion.'re gonna be talking about her column that she wrote for Medium and it's called Monogamy is Dying and Women Are Killing It. So we're gonna be talking about that and she really wants to have some feedback from all of you. So join in, it's free. The link is in the show notes for today. Oh, and it's going to be April 4th. It's a Thursday. It's going to be at noon Pacific time. That's 3 p.m. Eastern. My second announcement is also about Crystal Welch. Her and I teamed up.
We did a rate and review bonus episode where we went through all of the comparison picks that were submitted on a Twitter thread that I put out there asking for comparison picks. We went through each and every one of them and we rated and reviewed them. And it was, as you can imagine, hilarious and kind of savage. But anyway, I put it all together and we just put it out as a bonus episode.
So if you are a member of of any one of the supporter tiers on venuscuckoldress.com then you got access to that bonus episode on the private podcast or if you subscribe to apple podcast subscriptions you got it there too last but not least i'm talking about doc chocolate so the pillow talk was, I think it was like the beginning of March, I had Doc Chocolate. We were on the show. We were talking about something that was brought up. I thought I said, wouldn't it be fun if Doc Chocolate tried chastity? And so he agreed.
and he's going to actually try chastity for a period of time, and it's going to be so interesting, and we're going to talk about it on the next Pillow Talk. We have not set a date for it yet, but we will soon, so make sure you check the events page on venuscuckoldress.com because that's gonna be, it's gonna be so good. It's gonna be great. Okay, that's, that's it for announcements. Let's jump into the show today. Here we go. All right, let's get started. So joining me on the show today, I have Billy Procida, who I have been a guest on his show. This is the first time being a guest on my show.
Billy Procida is the host of the Men Whore Podcast, and that is Sex Positive Conversations. And he's celebrating his 500th episode.
Has it been 10 that you 10 years holy shit okay so welcome to the show billy uh thanks for having me yeah the uh the the 500th episode was last year and and you might like this i went down on five different women and then after i left the room they each reviewed me on mic i love that so much because i've done a few bonus episodes um for this podcast where i had people send in their favorite cuckold porn videos and i thought i was going to discover some amazing stuff and so i was all excited to review them and everything like that. And they sucked. Like they were shit.
So what makes a bad cuckold video? Oh, God, so many things. Sometimes it's just like the whole plot is terrible.
Or a lot of the times it's this really fake squeaky moany breathe through your teeth thing that the women do that guys don't realize i think that that's like really fake and performative but for me when i'm watching it i'm like no i can't she's like and he's just he's literally just like pulling her panties down and she's like yeah it's just not realistic like and the reason the guy falls for is because he's clearly never been in that situation i just think guys guys are really simple and so it just doesn't you know, it't take a lot so but but the thing is like if you watch like certain like fantasy pornos but they're fantasies you've also done such as a gangbang i don't know i'm kind of watching it be like unrealistic i can't really i can't emotionally erotically get into this porno because this is all off you would never be playing playing that playlist and, uh, you would never be arranged in this way.
And come on now, how often do we really try to fit three dicks in one mouth? Not this often. Oh my God. I can't wait to ask you about that because yes, that's exactly what I want to know. We're going to be talking about how to organize a gang bang today. And this is important for me because uh i am saving my first gangbang for my wedding night and yeah so i want my first gangbang to be my wedding night and it's going to be like five of my favorite black guys and i'm excited for it although i got to find my husband first, but I wasn't going to ask, like, are you engaged?
Did I miss something in the newsletter? I'm missing that piece, but anyway, but I'm really looking forward to, but I, I have this image in my mind of what it's going to be like, but I really don't know what it's actually going to be like because I haven't done a gangbang before. And I don't even think that I've watched an actual in-person gangbang before. And to come to think about it, I don't think I've actually watched a gangbang in porn. I think I've watched a few little bits of some, but I've never actually watched like start to finish. So I'm going to be learning a lot from you today.
And I'm really excited about this. But first, I want to talk to you, talk to you a little bit about your, your show. So if you want to just quickly explain what your podcast is all about, other than just going down on five women and them reviewing you. Uh. You know, 10 years ago, I started doing a podcast interviewing my exes about why we didn't work out. These are like ex hookups, ex partners, ex lovers, ex girlfriends, and just be like, you know, I had this problem where, you know, in my early twenties and in college, you know, women would sleep with me, but they wouldn't date me.
And I wanted to know why. So when I was 24, I launched this podcast, like reconnecting with these women and having conversations about that. And they would always branch off into, into discussions about, you know, gender and sexuality and relationships and love and all that stuff. Occasionally gang bangs is what would come up. And since then I have expanded, you know, my guest list. I talked to porn stars. I talked to dating experts, comedians, musical artists, cuckold dresses, you know, it runs the gamut. I even had on a state senator once.
So, you know, but we have a, I host sex positive conversations every Wednesday. are you looking for the perfect gift for your wife? I was recently sent a new toy and it's called The Throom by Shalovello. It has basically everything. It's like a vibrating dildo it has a and and G spot wiggling, G and U spot throbbing, and C spot vibrations all in one. It pulses for deeper synchronized sensations and it has a life-like come-hither massage with seven adjustable modes.
It's USB recharge rechargeable it's body safe silicone it's water resistant and it comes with a two-year service and five-year warranty i tried it out and it definitely did the job so give her what she really wants and check out the link in the show notes for today's episode but hurry it's on sale right now and that's not gonna last very long and so 10 years okay 10 years ago were podcasts a real big thing they weren't right so you were like they weren't big they weren't big but like there were big podcasts I launched mine I want to say like the month like a year or so before Serial came out I feel like that was like a big inflection point in podcasting with Serial uh season one uh but like Mark Maron was already out here Joe Rogan was out here Dan Savage was already out here um even even Cunning Minx was already doing her poly podcast for years at that point so i wouldn't call myself a trailblazer but i was definitely i think i got in early okay because yeah i the only ones that i know of that have been around a long time other than you are like dan savage i know he was like one like he goes way back with podcasting and stuff like, I guess because I didn't really find podcasts until maybe like five, six years ago, something like that.
So a decade ago, I was like, definitely not in the podcast sphere, but I think it's amazing what you've done and you, you work really hard on it. You, you, uh, put out weekly episodes, don't you? Yep. I never missed a wednesday in 500 plus wednesdays that's fucking amazing because like i i put out an episode every other week and i find that hard enough but um i don't know how you do it that's a lot of work and planning and and finding guests and and doing all the preparing and all the editing and everything and you do it all by yourself or do you have a team? Uh, it's just me. There's no team.
Wow. Okay. guests and and doing all the preparing and all the editing and everything and you do it all by yourself or do you have a team uh it's just me there no team wow okay yeah i i just think that's amazing so good on you 500 fucking episodes that's a lot that is amazing um what have been some of your most memorable shows i mean episode 500 was like really up there. That was, that was like a sequel to, uh, something I did. Episode one 80 was the original oral sex auditions where a friend of mine, she was sexually frustrated and complaining about dudes who don't eat pussy.
So I said like, let's hold auditions. And like, I, so we just revert, it was the original one was I found five guys to go down on my friend for, I think I gave them all 12 minutes to make a first impression. I do like pregame, postgame interviews. You know, they come out, they come out of the room, they're sweaty, like LeBron. And I'm just like, okay, so, you know, how'd the strategy go? And then after they left, she would tell us how it really went.
And of course that becomes like just an overall discussion about like pleasure and, you know, the low bar that is for and oral sex and and all that stuff um so and that was like my most popular episode for years until i did 500 uh during covid i did a glory hole episode that was fun how do you okay i have a question here okay this is legit how do you get canceled? But no, there's no one to cancel me. There's no, you know, Apple, they'll just let you do what you do. I'm not on YouTube. Yeah. YouTube is pretty strict. Yeah. Okay.
So I think that's amazing that you haven't had any pushback like that. That's really good because I have Patreon. Patreon will give me pushback. Yeah, it I was I flagged myself as adult content forever ago. Back when they introduced that, I thought, oh, I should, you know, this is clearly adult. But then I realized that what they meant, it was for porn. But then it took forever for me to get that tag taken off.
So a couple of years ago, tag taken off i you know i deleted a few posts that i needed to delete to be in compliance but i got because and the only reason it matters to me is because you can't search for the man whore podcast patreon page in the app unless you're already a member and so it's just it's like a barrier to entry for joining so i get it taken off and then they uh last year they reapplied it and when i was like why is she like well here's one example of adult content you make and it was my bonus episode for episode 500 and the bonus episode in their defense was i just i took all okay during that during that oral sex audition episode I had a microphone next to the bed to capture like those sounds right and I use them as transitionals because there's a lot of moving pieces in the episode so in between each one you're going to hear her moaning or like giving me an instruction or whatever uh so I just did a bonus episode that was all the moans just the moaning just all that part uh so it's like an hour of hearing me eat pussy uh I think you Thank you.
that was all the moans just the moaning just all that part uh so it's like an hour of hearing me eat pussy uh i think you you can actually hear a squirt like on the waveforms like when i'm editing in audacity i could see that's that's a squirt right that little see that yep that's a squirt sound apparently uh in a in a wave format and so they flagged that because because they were like you're literally just broadcasting sex sounds and i'm like all right you got me you got me on that one dead to rights but yeah uh otherwise we can talk about whatever we want on on apple podcasts and spotify and stuff i think that's a really great part about podcasting as uh as a art art form is that you can just, there, there really isn't a lot of censorship going on.
Yeah. Yeah. That's for now. Anyway, hopefully it stays that way. Yeah, absolutely. Okay. So oral sex auditions. I absolutely love that. I should do that one day because yeah, I think that the bar is really low um i can definitely relate i actually listened to a clip uh from from that episode where the chick was talking about how she's like i will let him die down there trying i was like yes she's like they literally do die sometimes because they suck so bad i love it i love it yeah that woman uh made me sweat like that was like, I felt like I put in a lot of work.
Uh, I, I left, I left the room and I had to like, I actually iced my forearm. I had to, I grabbed an ice pack. I put it on my left wrist and I, cause I, you know, we did them all in one night. So I was like waiting for the next one. I was like, Jesus, it's like getting an injury in the second quarter. Oh my God. I love it. Um, okay. So let's talk about how to plan a gang bang. So, um, I, yeah, I really want to have a gang bang on my wedding night. I have, I don't really know much about it. I, I have questions for you. So funny.
Cause like, yes, I've, uh, I participated in a, a fair amount of gang bangs.
I've organized several myself for people who asked i'm not actually into gang bangs it's not like my thing uh like i've organized them just because people asked and they were like i just feel like you could pull this off and it's like i i actually could and let's make it you know let's make it happen to the point that now i've kind of got like a little bit of methodology to it uh i wrote a 2700 word article for mashable last year uh how to throw a gangbang it never saw the light of day because it got written uh we fully edited it they fully paid me for it and then the editor-in-chief was arguing with my editor about having the word gangbang in the title and they kept saying hey is there another word we could use no i asked around there really isn't they'd be like what about group sex different thing what about sex party we that's a there's no other word for gangbang than gangbang yeah apparently but yeah i've apparently got a lot to say on the subject now.
So you started doing gang bangs and you, you came, you said you came up with like a formula that works. Was your first gang bang that you did, was it awkward as fuck or what, what was it a great experience? I mean, the first gang bang I attended, I probably was 22 or 23.
or 23 uh i think it was just like some hotel room in uh in like downtown brooklyn it was weird yeah i think it was actually the first time a dude like has like touched my dick because like i'm about to go enter the wife and then the husband like kind of like grabbed my cock to like guide it in oh yeah yeah and i was like okay i guess he doesn't want me to miss like what's going um you might actually be able to offer something into that is there anything like in like cuckolding culture where like the guy like the husband or whoever is like helping the cock fuck his wife is that like part of it yeah that's a thing it's basically very symbolic it's like okay i'm gonna make i'm gonna help make this happen for her kind of thing but he didn't ask you he didn't ask you first i would have liked the warning i would have liked like in the emails because there's a lot of emails i think i think a well-organized gangbang has a fair number of emails with instructions and i feel like that could have been included of uh hey i might hold your penis briefly as you get close so i can put it in her um but you know we survived it okay so i think i actually remember straddling her face to like put my dick in her mouth at one point and i was like self-conscious like oh god like i hope like my ass doesn't smell too much like I feel like I hope like it's not gnarly back there that it was like I remember farting like three hours prior and I guess I'm just like I was like worried I'm like shoving all that smell into her face but yeah seemed to have a good time it's funny the things we think about when we're in these different positions and stuff I totally get it yeah um so okay and how many but how many guys were in that situation that hotel room i i don't know i think it was a little bit of a revolving door thing like people kind of come in and come out but like there were probably about like a dozen dudes i would say Oh, wow.
Okay. All right. And so I want to know this first and foremost gang bangs what you see in porn okay so she's like in the center of it all and you've got these guys all around and they're like you know beating their meat and waiting for their turn and and she's just like oh my god this is amazing i got so many dicks and they're everywhere. And I'm doing all this stuff. Is it very, is it all performative like that when you actually have a gang bang? Is it like that? Or is this really about everyone having a pleasure during this experience?
You know, one of the most unrealistic things about a gang bang porno is that there's never like in the background two dudes who already went and they're just talking about the game okay for the fact that no like there's you can't kind of hear in the background it's like yeah and i hear the steelers are going to take russell wilson that's that that's not in the video makes it not real to me okay because there's a lot more socializing happening uh usually than uh then is then is depicted uh i think every gangbang can be different i think it all depends on what that central figure uh wants uh technically anyone can be gangbang anyone of any gender can be gangbang i'm gonna say a lot of, her just cause like, that's kind of the context of like, I feel like you're seen, but like, yeah, like any, anyone can be gang banged.
It's just, I think gang bang is where there's a central, um, central star, you know, she, the, a certain leading person who's going to be the recipient of all this penetration.
Uh, but yeah, it depends on what she wants um when i have had women ask me to organize these events for them uh one of the first questions i ask is like if you had to pick a vibe word like what's a word that describes the vibe of what you want right that's going to give me an idea of like how we should set this up what it should look like what should sound like you know are lights on or lights dim or lights completely off are you blindfolded are you not blindfolded uh like one woman wanted to be blindfolded because she wanted to then be able to walk around new york city and if somebody kind of looked at her funny because she has got a really distinct hair hairstyle uh she wanted to be able to think have i fucked that person are they looking at me because they know they've had sex with me right and then i invite one i invite one friend a chick with a strap on so that way he's like everybody was suspect so depending on like what it is she wants out of the out of the experience will determine like again how social or whatever the uh the event is and what the vibe is is there like a good number of guys to have the like for each woman or i mean i think again it depends on on what she wants what the vibe what's the like one woman wanted me to invite a lot because her the her vibe word was challenge she wanted to see how many can i actually take before i tap out right so i think i i think i reserved like 27 dudes for that one not all of them showed up a lot of them actually bailed but like so i think we ended up with like 16 17 who came through but like i think i reserved close to 30 because she because that's what she wanted others it's like i think like five is already going to be plenty um and then also i think that depends on your body you know what can your vagina take you you know you're pussy better than i do and also like size like what kind of size dicks do you want do you want to have like do you want to have five dudes who are all like at least six seven inches or do you just want to do you want to have like 20 or 15 and there's but there are all sorts of shapes and sizes so you can you can take it all right like do you want to take 25 inch dicks or do you want to take five nine inch dicks like these are the questions one has to think when they're not trying to get a real job you know right okay so and as far as like timing and stuff goes like i feel like in porn everybody comes all at the same time basically at the end right i mean are something like how does it mean it's like an experimental porno we usually want like a nice linear timeline right it's uh yeah it'd be weird if it was like the teratino thing it's like everybody comes on her in the front and then we see how did that occur you know it's then we flash back uh you know again everything ends up being to her customization but yeah like typically they're coming in the middle and at the end i mean some people want like a bukkake where they want like they want a bunch of people to come on them and it's almost like an event and some it's but very often and it's also practically helpful is you just you come when you're ready to come and you that ways you can also tap yourself out it's how we can get new people in so you know unless you have a particular preference usually i i notice that guys will just kind of they finish when they're ready to finish okay and so is there a rule about like you you know you don't come inside her because there's other guys that still have to fucker kind of thing that's the is that like a rule in gangbangs or think of like almost any rule it's just gonna it's gonna be to you know what she wants if somebody doesn't want and i mean i've you know i mean also like we're using when you say come inside of like i do you mean like bareback or do you mean yeah i mean like i haven't been part of a cream pie gangbang because i did one that's right i did one i didn't finish during it that was my that was probably my worst showing i've ever done i just like i you know it's weird because i flew out for my friends like i forget what birthday it was but like i flew out in 2021 to sacramento for her like birthday gangbang and we all like did the testing and pre-arranged to um to do that and then i just you know couldn't couldn't go that day it was uh it's like is tyreek hill gonna be in the game and it's like game time decision and i just like like i technically fucked her but and came inside her but like it was very brief as in like hey i've achieved the erection let's just let me and technically i was the only one the fucker like everybody had a bad showing like it was not a great gangbang um like we were all i think yeah it was a little bit of an odd one but uh yeah i think the rules for that were to like come inside her when you were ready i think that was kind of the idea it was like we all knew what we were getting into but typically uh you know we're using condoms and so typically you just you come when you come it doesn't matter if you come inside her or not i think the only time it matters is if she has a request where it's hey i want you to come on me so please don't come when you're fucking me you know that that would be one um alteration i could imagine is that like is it easy for guys to plan it like that like or is that a lot of pressure to get it right what to plan like pulling out to come on someone yeah i feel like when and where to come and everything like for centuries we've been pulling out right and so think of all the porn in the 60s they pull out and they come on them right that i we know when we're about to bust so okay i'm just like and is there a lot of pressure for guys who attend a gangbang is there a lot of pressure for them to like i don't know perform well just not just for her but like to for the boys yeah to look like i don't want to see lame in front of the guys yeah is there is there that yeah it's like jim's not gonna let me in his fancy football league if i don't do a good job here uh yeah it i think um when recruiting for a gangbang i do think it's it's important to have a mixture of experience levels i mean somebody might want only experienced people because they're like maybe they don't have the patience for anything else but you're going to want some people who are really comfortable for when the guys who are a little more tepid uh are having a hard time like you need someone who's going to kick it off you need someone who can tap in pretty reliably uh because you know you're going to have new people and this is you know for some guys it's gonna be their very first gangbang for some guys it's gonna be the first time having group sex or seeing another penis in person like that right so i think it's good to like make sure you have a couple ringers in there like where you're like i know i'm gonna get fucked if like a lot of dudes get shy i have the the friend who wanted to be blindfolded she had an ex forever go uh try to arrange her a gangbang and then like when they were all in the room it was like three other dudes they were all like really nervous they were all really new none of them could get hard they were all really shy they all kept like kissing and touching and playing with her pussy but like none of them like would fuck and so eventually like the the boyfriend who arranged it had to fuck her in front of these guys and then just sent them all home which is like really disappointing right like you think i'm gonna get overwhelmed with all this cock and then it's like well it's just the one cock and then an audience which is the one cock that i know really well and i'm used to it yeah and that can be hot for people if that's the scene you want, but that's not the scene you put together, right?
You want to get fucked by a bunch of people. You didn't want to get, you didn't want to fuck in front of a bunch of people. So definitely make sure you have some experience in the room for sure. And how long do gang bangs usually last for? I legitimately don't know the answer to this.
how long do you think you can get pounded for yeah that my pussy used to be such a champ she's a weak little bitch these days real fucking disappointment so yeah i don't know definitely good to keep the lube around you know there's definitely a lot of moments where like someone calls out lube and then like there's like three guys scrambling around looking for the lube and no that's a cuck job that's a cuck job yeah well if there's a cucky gangbang i haven't really been a part of those but yes that would definitely be a cuck job if we had like that that designated fella there yeah oh yeah he'd have the lube the towels the get me a drink like whatever you need that kind of thing yeah you probably i would probably need like the costco size lube um for that but yeah no i for longevity like i guess some women can just keep going and going and going maybe some women don't want to keep going and going and going but like i'm just like is there some with the with the guys you guys talk about this beforehand or does you just know automatically or with a new guy do you explain to him like usually you just you only fuck her for like a few minutes and then it's someone else's turn you gotta like hand off you know or i don't know how does it work like that if there's space for us to like be talking then yeah like i've definitely had guys say like oh it's my first time like any any tips any suggestions whatever like that but again just depends like that hotel room there wasn't going to be any discussion it was you enter in quietly undress and get in there when you're ready and so you know good luck and then there's other times where um we all met up for drinks beforehand with the woman um nearby like that was kind of part of the thing was you had to meet at this bar and we all kind of like stood in a circle and we're talking about our previous experience before we and got to know each other before we all went up to this apartment to fuck her for like an hour and when he was speaking to the time i think you know anywhere from a half hour to an hour is like probably how long it will last about uh you know and like with breaks right like sometimes it's sometimes she like raises her hand and says hey i need a break or i need to use the bathroom real quick or if your headspace goes in a certain direction you might need like a few minutes to just like collect yourself and maybe you need to talk to your master your dom or your husband or whatever and say okay well and then and then you re-enter um so so length of time can include like breaks and stuff like that in terms of like the guys talking to each other yeah like it just depends on how it's set up uh there was a blow bang so again not a gang bang this was just blow jobs but this one had like uh there's probably like 20 of us about and so there was a bedroom and then there was like a bigger like living room ish type of space and most of us are in that living room you're only in there when it's your group's turn they they had us draw cards so uh just to get us into some groupings and yeah so like we weren't in that room when it wasn't our turn so when we're out there we're hanging out we're having a drink we're talking to each other you know about the game or about tips for a gangbang whatever um and then eventually be okay you know clubs get in there you know and then then it's our turn to get to work uh then sometimes you get to know a dude real well uh that blow bang like at one point she wanted to there were two women involved blowing all of us so this one woman was blowing me and this other guy and then wanted to get us both into her mouth at the same time which like she asked like can i do that and we were like sure uh but then i required to just get quite close and there's a man i don't even think i know his name or i just learned his name like as like my dick went in her mouth he said and i'm john right and then but we had to get like real close hip to hip like you know arms around each other's shoulders just just so that we can fit both our dicks in her mouth at the same time uh so yeah you make new friends he and i are married now so okay all right together 17 years feels like it it's so funny how a lot of guys get really really weird about like the touching body parts with another man and like it's like oh my god i'm crossing a I'm, I'm crossing a boundary here.
Like what? I don't know. It is, you know, think about it is crossing a boundary. If you've never had that experience before. And if you've thought about like sexuality in a very certain way, which like a lot of, I think at least my country, like, you know, views things. So, you know, if it's someone's first time, yeah, it's going to be jarring.
When that guy grabbed my dick to put in his wife like sensationally it like i'm not i don't want to say alarm bells i want to say just like pings went off like this is different new sensation and also something i wasn't expecting and something i don't i'm not supposed to associate it with pleasure and i'm associating with pleasure because i'm entering his wife which feels great but like i did just have a man's hand on my dick for like of like three seconds which just felt sensationally different right and then the first time like i shared a mouth with another guy yeah that felt like oh my dick is touching another dick in this mouth and that and different.
So, you know, I think I think it's about how can a guy go shake it off and go, OK, cool. And look, the world didn't end. Everything's fine. Let's continue enjoying the experience. Or does someone get in their head and get really freaked out and then like needs to leave the room and journal? Right. Yeah, that's definitely a play to just be chill about it.
But it is in their defense like it is different like it is a different sensation you're on you're not it is crossing a boundary uh or crossing swords like it's it's definitely new crossing swords yes i've heard of that before yeah it's interesting to me okay what not to do during a gangbang what what are the big fucking red flags where you're like, do not do this? Ooh, uh, I, I, I mean, I, I was in between rounds. I had gone once and I was like waiting to go another time.
So I went to go, you know, drink water, check my phone and, uh, right on my, my alert screen on my phone, New York times notification said that Barbara Walters died and I had to fight everything to not blur out to everybody. Oh my God, Barbara Walters died, right? Don't do that. First off, it's a good start. Uh, don't not shower, right? Like clean, wash your ass. Don't be the smelly guy. Uh, you don't want to do that. Uh, don't be pushy. I mean, a lot of these don'ts, like the reversals are just really good tips. Like listen, like read the emails in full or the instructions in full.
Uh, don't push boundaries, ask for things that haven't been covered. If they things that you want i've um i've sometimes had to ask like if because and especially because i think swingers are or in gang like these can when there's a couple involved it can sometimes be touchy but like i love kissing so sometimes i've had to ask like is kissing okay because if they didn't cover it and i know i want to do it, then I should ask for it. I should not assume I can just go ahead and do that, right? Just because you shouldn't go stick a thumb in someone's butt if we haven't covered the butt stuff.
You should ask. You should be like, can I put a finger in your butt?
Or if everything's left to him because a lot of women want to be kind of mindless in the situation you want to be lost in the pleasure and they kind of um hand uh delegate the responsibilities to some sort of overseer so you might ask him can i put a thumb in her butt but you know just be conscientious in that way um be you know so while you're being selfish because you should be a little selfish it is a gangbang you're just fucking uh you should also like remember to be thoughtful and considerate of others um so wash i said that uh don't show up drunk and fucked up don't be fucked up yeah don't be like that goes for most sexual situations but especially this it's it's like we had someone vomit at a gangbang once and it was weird i mean not in front of us they went to the bathroom but then like i went to the bathroom after and then i looked in the and i before i went i looked in the toilet and it was just like full oh gross right yeah because like now i gotta go back in and get turned on again oh nasty you know i think uh and and don'ts for you know and for the person for the central person for the for the superstar right i think a don't would be to like don't don't put other expectations on the scene other than your own don't think oh i had all these people came out and and so i'm feeling this way uh but i shouldn't because like they all came out and so i should just take it whether it's because they're too sore and they need to stop or they need a break or if they don't want to do anal but some guy's like really saying he wants to do anal or um whatever it may be it's like remember that you're the most important person in the room um you call all the shots and we are all there to ideally listen to and follow your directions and yeah like sometimes people get sore people get tired and the thing is done before everyone got to go and that's just fucking life and like these guys will they'll deal with it it'll be okay um sometimes people will be like i think i'm done fucking so like if you want to come on me right now like i might help you out a bit with my mouth but we're like the pussy's closed for business uh or my knees are tired whatever it is uh don't be afraid to like ask to change positions right just i think uh gosh if there's i think we a lot of women feel so deferential to men sexually in a gang bang.
It's so many men and that some might amplify the def being deferential. No. This is, they're all your sex toys. Like this is your time to call all the shots and don't be shy about it. You're not a bitch. You're not frigid. You're not whatever. It's like, this is your scene. Um, I think that's really important for them to remember.
I love that advice so much because yeah, I could definitely see how it would be slightly overwhelming for me to be in that position of feeling like I need to like pleasure all of these guys and make sure that they all come and that they all have this amazing experience when I'm like, I should just get that out of my head and just be like, this is about me. Like, yes, it's you getting these guys off, but it's for your pleasure. Like the pleasure at the end of the day that matters the most is yours.
So even when you're thinking I'm supposed to pleasure all these guys, but you're only supposed to, because that's what you wanted.
And it's okay if all of a sudden you stop wanting that yeah and whether that means you need to end the scene entirely and say hey y'all i think i'm good tonight or if you just need to take a time out and be like hey i need a little break uh can someone get me water i'm gonna use the bathroom and then we'll yeah like again just don't be shy about that i i can't stress that enough yeah great advice okay so you've participated in a bunch of gangbangs and um it's funny you say a bunch by the way because like i don't think of it as a bunch but like for society standards yeah it's like because they measure it the the society measures gangbangs as one gangbang two gangbangs three gangbangs and then so many gang bangs.
Like there is no number for three. It's just, wow, you went to a bunch. But yes, I've been to my fair amount. So have like, have you noticed that there's important things about setting the mood or important things about being prepared as far as the environment and the atmosphere goes, I'm assuming there's going to be important things like making sure that you have towels nearby, that you have, I don't know, drinks or that the lighting is nice. Or are there any other tips that you can give people who are planning their first gangbang where they might not think, oh, I should do that.
This would be a good idea to set it up this way. Yeah. Again, everything is customizable, but the things to think about to be like, how do I want that aspect done? It's yeah. Things like what kind of lighting do we want? Do we want to be blindfolded or not?
Um, playlist there's, you don't want to do a gangbang to silence that's oh yeah disturbing yeah uh get a playlist put together you can search gangbang and find gangbang playlists on spotify my i had a i had somebody who wanted a gangbang she like had a friend make her a playlist for the gangbang right so there's but you do want to consider that um orientation of the room um you know if this was something more blow bangy like where it's going to be blow jobs okay that could be anywhere because we might be on our knees but it's like do we want to be on the couch or bed uh i remember the the one the night barbara walters died you know never forget rest in peace um but you know it's like we started on the couch with her eventually it moved into this bedroom I'll see you next time.
died you know never forget rest in peace um but you know it's like we started on the couch with her eventually it moved into this bedroom and then later it moved back out and you know onto the couch depending on like you know what positions you want to be in uh you want to think through yeah things like towels having lube nearby like within arm's distance of somebody making sure you have water or your beverage of choice nearby. Probably both. Again, you know, you also shouldn't get too fucked up. Um, have some Gatorade, Gatorade. Yeah. Yeah.
Just some sort of, you know, cause that's going to happen and you know, bitch can get thirsty at some point. Um, what else, uh, you want to consider, uh, I, I think, uh, the, in terms of like safety parameters, you want to like really get an idea of one, like what are the boundaries you want to set up? Uh, what are, what are the rules you want to put in place? Also protocols for that? Like, I think the traffic light system is really good.
I think that's like a real simple one, but whether it's traffic light or, uh, you know, going yellow, red, green, uh, or just a safe word of some sort uh you want to plan that out in advance and i do think it's really important if you're having a gangbang i do not care how confident of a bad bitch you are you should have like like a gangbang chaperone oh that can be a cuck a cuck i guess i imagine everyone here probably using a cuck for this but that can be like kind of anybody but it you know there should be a person who's there for your safety and to like tend to your needs which yeah is very cucky but there are people who i've just because i'm not a cuck so i just want to i'm i want to make i'm when i organize the gaming is like i'm fucking too um just to be clear for a moment uh so so you need to get like you want to get on the same page with that person because when you let go they're in charge and you need to be able to trust that they can handle the situation uh because you want to really let go you don't want to have to think about anything you don't want to have to think about is this guy guy about the cross a boundary?
Is, is, um, is this guy too fucked up? Is something you just want someone who can like, you know, kind of coach the thing, uh, once it's going on. So that's also, I think really important aftercare thing is a good thing to plan out. Like, what are you going to do afterwards? Like after all the dudes leave, whether that's everybody or everybody except your cuck, it's like, what's afterwards, like what's going to make you feel good. Maybe you need to get a schedule massage for afterwards. Maybe you want to just have a really good bubble bath with some candles.
Like maybe you want to get stoned and watch a movie, but like maybe get an idea of like, what is it like I'm going to want? Like, is there going to be a comfort food that you're going to want to be able to just like devour once everybody's out? And okay, cool.
But we want to make sure that we're going to be able to make sure that we're there gonna be a comfort food that you're gonna want to be able to just like devour once everybody's out and okay cool we want to make sure that's that's stocked whatever is needed yes snacks snacks maybe not during the gangbang like nobody needs to get you know uh cheese it fuzz in someone's pussy but you know i think i think that's a good to have maybe for after but yeah i don't think as many people think about after the gangbang, what one needs again, not just that in that way, but also mentally is like, there are you, if it's particularly kinky, maybe if you go into some subspace, is there someone there who's going to be able to help bring you down and, and hold you and make sure you're, you're all set.
Um, so these are things to keep in mind i'm so glad that you brought that up because um with the my gangbang on my wedding night this was going to be like hardcore angsty for my cuck obviously because it's her wedding night and i'm fucking all these other dudes in front of him and it's just very symbolic but aftercare i hadn't thought about that. But that is something we're going to need to plan into all of this.
And the nice thing about having like a cuckold gangbang is that like your cuck is there to be with you afterwards and is there to clean up, clean up the room, clean up your pussy, like clean it all up. Clean up the dicks if that's the way they go. Yeah, that's his job. So that's wonderful. But I love what you said about having somebody there to make sure that you can just turn off your mind and enjoy and not have to worry about stuff. I was at a hotel takeover party last year and I did a reverse glory hole, which is where... Love that. Right?
It's where the women either lay down or bend over and then have the curtain come down on their waist. And so I had to have a gatekeeper there with me because I was like, I'm not just allowing just any fucking dudes to walk up and like, I'm no, I need somebody to like manage this shit. My manager.
how did you how did you kind of decide which which strangers were going to get to engage with your body parts that were exposed i didn't but i had my friend doc chocolate who's host of the bulls and queens podcast he was there with me and so he was like the guy that stood next to me and was like you know instructing the guys uh on what to do and stuff and so that was good and i wouldn't have had it any other way like you just you need somebody there who's gonna like hold the condoms and the lube and make sure everything goes well but there even logistically you just need yeah it's like that's even just you just sometimes just need an extra body who can do certain who can open the door because somebody's late although i think if you're late you shouldn't get to go to go to the gangbang.
That's my personal opinion. The hotel door is going to be open from 8 to 8.15. At 8.16, it will be closed. I don't know. Like, oh, dude, the subway was running behind. I don't know. Being on time means being five minutes early.
minutes early that's how i was raised yes absolutely um but there is something really erotic about getting fucked by people and not knowing who those people were so when you talk to you about your story about the woman who was blindfolded that was fun actually the sex you know is not like it's not like you go in a reverse gangbang or reverse glory hole to for the sex you do it for the fascination of not being able to see anything of the person right and so being able to walk around afterwards and like not i'd be like did i fuck you like did i fuck you was it you like it's kind of fun it's thrilling like that but so i can understand where putting a blindfold on during that whole thing would be super, super fun.
But also very important for me to actually, like, be familiar with these guys who are going to be in my first gangbang, knowing them really well. They know me really well. And then hopefully they know each other, too. That would be ideal's that but um i think honestly there needs to be more of more gang bangs where it's women fucking a guy i agree we should start by planning mine and we can test it out from there No, but, um, this is the, the catch, uh, women pegging the guy.
I need to start with my first pegging first but which i'm also saving for love but uh one then sure yeah i think this like needs to be a thing because i saw something on instagram uh yesterday where it said something Like there was some research study that found that over 60% of guys are silently, secretly hoping that they can be anally penetrated. And I'm like, yes. Secretly? Or yeah, they won't say it. I don't think I'm part of that 60%. Oh my God. But I'm like, okay, I really do feel like guys would really enjoy being pegged. And it doesn't make you gay. I don't care what anybody says.
It is simply just about pleasure. And it is a great experience for guys. It's a great experience for women.
I've never thought I would like pegging but I fucking love it but I think that maybe there should be some cuck gang bangs and if I had a cuck I would definitely do that I would get all my girlfriends together we would gang bang this dude like it would be we would peg the fuck out of him it would be so fun actually that would be really great I'm getting all of these ideas but i think that needs to be more of a thing because yes i like i understand that gangbangs are focused about like one usually you said before it could be anybody any gender but you know a lot of times in porn is like one woman and she's kind of being like overwhelmed by all this dick and it's about and and that's really like the energy, but can we like flip the script a little bit and have the guy be like overwhelmed by all of this, like big pussy energy and like, you know, so long as all they'll, they'll all kiss me on the mouth and call me pretty at some point.
Like, yeah, sounds great. Help me put that together. I think that would be amazing. We need to, like, make this an actual thing. What if that was the first time I did pegging, though? Oh, my God. Yeah. You should make a podcast episode about it. I don't know if I got to be that public about it. Like, my father is still alive. So it's.
Oh, now you're shy about that that one thing everything else doesn't matter but you know we do share a google alert we have the same name i think you should do an episode about it losing your ass virginity i think that would be great i you know look my last girlfriend i thought would if if i thought hey i think this is the woman i'm gonna finally have pegged me and then uh you know that didn't work out i just want the first one to be with someone like i mean it's it's like i'm a a kind of religious 16 year old girl where i'm like no i just want my first but the first one i want the first one that means something the rest don't but the first one And I, I would, I, I would like the first time I get, I do pegging to be with someone like I care about that's intimate, who loves me.
But like, if not that what you described, not a bad backup, like I'm open to that. If somebody wants to put together four-ish women to peg me all at once, I think I'd be able to scratch the original plan for that. Yeah, I love it. Well, there's definitely an art to taking a guy's ass virginity. I've learned this from Ruby Ryder. She's an amazing educator when it comes to pegging and stuff.
But but yeah so there's there's an art to it but it's and i cannot totally understand why you would want it to be with somebody who you you know it's soft and tender and loving and everything like that because a lot of what you see in porn with pegging is like i'm gonna fucking break your ass open you little bitch you know oh yeah see see i'm not little bitch type of energy i'm like uh i want to be an equal while i'm on my knees so yeah i uh but yeah no i i and i don't think even once i get in the peg i don't know how much i'm going to be into like yeah fuck me i think i want to be made love to uh we'll see um venus is like mine might be a little bit bigger it might be a little bit rougher and you know it's fine to have one of those you gotta have one of those in the lineup right like if i had if i look if i lost my pegging virginity in a gangbang i feel like it would have to be uh a lot a lot of babes with with small with thinner sorry it's not a length right it's about the width so i would i need some mostly thinner but like you gotta have like one girthy one in there, you know, just for good measure, just to, just to surprise you, just to make you go, Whoa.
Okay. I think you would really love it. But anyway, keep me posted on how that, that goes. Um, we're, we're pretty much all out of time for this really fun episode on gangbang planning. So I really appreciate you coming on. I've learned so, so much about this because like I said, I didn't, I really don't know that much about it. So I appreciate that you've shared all of your helpful tips and experiences with me regarding that. Um, where can people find more information about you? listen to your show, all that good stuff? Sure.
You can find the Man Whore Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts, or you can go to manwhorepod.com. I am on Instagram at BillyIsPrecida. I'm on TikTok at TheBillyPrecida. That's P-R-O-C-I-D-A. And in New York City, if you're in the New York City area, I run a monthly naked comedy show in Brooklyn. It's very fun. We do two shows a night every month. Next ones are March 22nd and April 26th. And you can also, again, find information about that at manwhorepod.com. Yeah, I've seen your naked comedy shows and well, I've seen them censored.
And I love how you do the big censor down in the middle of your legs like this. You're censoring something that's hanging real low. I want you to think that. Yeah. Oh, you crack me up, Billy. Anyway, thank you so much for being on the show today. I have had such a great time with you. Thank you for having me. Always a pleasure. Thanks for joining me today. Make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com. That's where you can book a private chat with me. You can check out any cuckolding events that might be happening.
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