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Welcome to theus cuckoldress podcast a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious the passionate and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast and check out the venus blog and of course, if you love it, share it. Now, sit back, make yourself comfortable, and enjoy the show with your host, Venus. welcome to the very first episode of the Venus Cuckolders podcast. I am your host Venus. I'm so excited to be doing this right now.
I'm hoping that you love it and are just as excited about this conversation and about learning about all of this fantastic cuckolding lifestyle. Some of you may be familiar with who I am based on reading my blog venuscuckoldress.com and I've been writing on that blog since 2016. I first started as a cuckoldress when I was introduced to it from a boyfriend back in 2015. And since then, I've just been really outspoken, passionate advocate for this kind of lifestyle and talk about it as much as I can.
Because I feel like when you find something really great, that it's just natural to want to share it with other people and that's how I felt about this kind of relationship. I had just ended my first cuckold relationship and I was looking for something similar and sat down to start writing a blog and I had no idea what I was doing.
I just wanted other women to know about this kind of relationship because I had no idea it existed and so I figured there's probably a lot of other women out there, like myself, who don't know it exists, and who this kind of lifestyle would just suit who they are, like it suits how I am. So that's, that's been my goal. That's what motivates me to write. And it's what has motivated me to start this podcast. What I want to do with this podcast is to first and foremost, just educate people about the real meaning of cuckolding. There's so much misunderstanding out there.
And I hope to bring some clarity to that about the real meaning of what a cuckold relationship actually is. And also address the questions of you know what's in it for her because there's so much in it for her and what's in it for him that's usually the very first question that people have is okay i think i understand what this is but why would he like that like what's in it for him so i would able to, um, you know, get people to understand that in a accurate kind of way.
Um, I would also like, you know, for more women to become involved in this, like I said before, I think it's a fantastic kind of relationship, especially for women. And I hope that more women, uh, will at least consider it as a legitimate kind of relationship. It may not be for them and that's okay. But just to, you know, have them understand that, hey, this exists and it's loving and caring and extremely hot and sexy and empowering and you might really love it. And coming from a woman, maybe they will listen to that. I don't know, but I hope so.
I definitely would love to be able to celebrate some of the couples who are in successful cuckolding relationships. There's just some really amazing people out there and lots to learn from them. But also I feel the need to shine a light on some of the negativity that's out there, especially online and within dating in this lifestyle and also some pitfalls for couples because there certainly are some. So I think sharing some of that information and tips and things like that is always a good idea so people can learn from that.
Okay, so that's a little bit about me and a little bit about what I would like to do with this podcast. Now, I do recognize that some of my listeners may have never heard of cuckolding before and have no idea what it is. So for that reason, I'm just going to go into a quick little summary of what cuckolding is compared to hot wifing and then go from there. So for cuckolding, what it is for me, this is my definition anyway, is it's a form of non-monogamy.
So it's a one-sided open relationship where he is faithful to her and she is not to him and they both love it that way so with cuckolding relationships there is usually some form of power imbalance where she's in charge or she makes the decisions who she sleeps with and there's usually some form of sexual denial or humiliation. I mean, not always, but that's a pretty common theme in cuckolding. So it's quite similar to a hot wifing or stag or vixen kind of relationships. And I'll get into what that is.
But as far as the sexual denial and humiliation that makes cuckolding unique, that can be, you know, pretty mild or it could be pretty harsh. So there's a wide spectrum of practices within that part of it. But it's, you know, it's each couple is unique. Each couple has their own kind of thing going on. I'll go into more detail in future episodes about humiliation, about sexual denial, and about this power imbalance that seems so unfair and why I love it so much. So stay tuned. I'll definitely go into a lot of detail about that.
So with hot wifing or what's sometimes referred to as stag or vixen relationships, it's very, very similar where he's faithful to her and she's not to him. However, there is no power imbalance. It's very equal. And sometimes maybe even like he is the one who decides who she sleeps with. He's the one that makes the rules about that. And usually there isn't much or any sexual denial or humiliation in hot wifing kind of relationships. So that's, those are the big differences there. And I obviously love cuckolding versus hot wifing.
And I think if I, you know, if I think about why it is that I love cuckolding more than hotwifing, I mean, I don't think I could ever be in a hotwifing kind of relationship because first of all, I like to make the decisions about who I sleep with. Back before I even met my first cuck boyfriend, I was in the swinging lifestyle for many, many years. And I found it really challenging to date in that lifestyle because I felt like any guy in that I would date in the swinger lifestyle would want to have, you know, equal partnership as far as like the power goes.
So there would always be a lot of rules, boundaries, limits, all that, you know, normal stuff in, in swinging kind of relationships. And I get it. I totally get it. But for me, that just didn't, I didn't want that at all. I like to be able to make the decision about who I'm able to sleep with and do whatever I want, whenever I want. I'm a little bit selfish like that. So honestly, before I found out about this kind of relationship, I thought there's just no way that I was going to find a guy that was going to allow me to have that kind of sexual freedom.
And then when I met my first cuck, I was just blown away. Like I literally was like, are you serious? You're telling me that I can fuck whoever I want and you're not going to be jealous. You're not going to get crazy about it. And you're actually going to fucking love this part of me. And I just couldn't believe it. I, and so I ran with it, literally just dived right into that shit. Cause I was so happy. I was literally so happy to have found that. Um, so for me, that's a big part of it. I want to be able to do whatever I want whenever I want.
Um, but I, you know, I'm, that was the kind of relationship that I first started out with in cuckolding. So maybe I'm just used to that, but I don't think I could ever be in hot wifing kind of thing. It's just, it's just not me. I kind of like the unfairness of cuckolding. And I've definitely learned to love the humiliation part. I mean, that's something that doesn't come naturally to a lot of women. We're taught to not ever hurt somebody's feelings. And that's not how I would explain humiliation, but that's what women think it is.
But I have learned to love it., it started out, you know, with the really subtle stuff, but now it's kind of just like, no, I'm pulling it all out. Only if he likes it though, if he doesn't like it, then I'm not, it's not going to benefit me either. I tend to like what my, my partner likes. So, and that's the great thing about cuckolding is that like in this kind of relationship, it's very much like you feed off each other and that's the way that it should be. It shouldn't be kind of just like, you know, me doing whatever I want, not giving a shit, not caring about my partner.
I do love and care for my partner. I want to make sure that he's happy. And so people think that it is really selfish and unfair when really, it's not. And that's my opinion on that. Anyway, I will definitely go into detail in future episodes about, you know, how I got into this and my first cuck relationship with him and my first cuckolding experience and all of that crazy hot shit. Cause it's crazy. Um, but so stay tuned for that. That's definitely coming up. Um, for me, cuckolding has been around forever. It really has. And, um, it seems to be more popular lately.
And I, I don't like't know it seems like that to me maybe I just I don't know I'm constantly exposed to it so I could be just living in this little bubble where it seems like really it's everywhere but it seems like more more and more people are talking about it now which is awesome and I think it's really great but it's you know it's it's a lot of places online now and it's brought up you know kind of in mainstream um movies and stuff like that like it's it's talked about now and that can be like a great thing but it's also kind of detrimental because there's so much uh bullshit that can be found online about cuckolding and so much out there put out there that's just unrealistic.
It's just not true. It's, it's just a bunch of crap. And it's also, you know, it helps to create misunderstandings and misperceptions within this lifestyle. So that part really sucks. And I feel like that's what's's happening that the more that this is becoming kind of mainstream-ish that there's just more and more shit out there so for me in this blog I really hope that I can bring some clarity and real talk to cuckolding because that is what is needed so that's a little bit about cuckolding and why I love it so much.
Now there may be some people that are asking themselves, you know, why do you think cuckolding is so awesome? Because I don't shut up about it. I talk about it all the time. I love it so much. I talk about this to my girlfriends all the fucking time. I'm probably sick of hearing about it. But anyway, for me, I will always forever say that this kind of relationship is so unique, so special, and literally magical. And, you know, people kind of laugh when I say that, because what are you talking about? But it's true. It's true.
There is some sort of crazy fucking magic that happens in this kind of relationship that I feel like doesn't happen in any other kind of relationship.
But having said that, I will say that what I'm talking about, this magic stuff, this amazing, unique, like incredible cloud nine shit, it only happens when it's between two people who are in a loving committed long-term relationship so when you're in love with that person that's when all of this insane intimacy love bonding connection stuff happens and with these cuckolding experiences and so when you don't have that when it's just two people who let's say are friends or have met on some fetish website and decided that they are both into this and they want to try it out on a Friday night that this doesn't the same thing that I'm talking about just does not happen at all it It just not, it doesn't.
So I kind of feel sorry for the people who have tried quote unquote tried cuckolding with somebody like that, where they're just, they're not in love, but they just want to do this. They want to act out this scenario because they think it's really hot and sexy and they do it and they're like, yeah, that was fun. On to the next thing.
I kind of feel of feel bad for them because like they don't get to experience real cuckolding and that the difference is just so enormous that you can't even compare the two so I feel bad for those people they don't even know what they're missing really honestly when there's love that happens between two people and you're in a cuckolding situation there's just some sort of like emotional connection dance thing going on between the two of you and that combined with this sexual experience is mind-blowing and it's super hard for me to explain it because it is just that amazing like my first cuckolding experience I'll see I can't.
I just can't I literally have been on one vanilla date since then that's five fucking years ago and I lasted maybe like 20 minutes before I just wanted to leave like I'm like what am I doing I can't do this like I have to have cuckolding because I already know how amazing it is and it's Thank you. Like, I'm like, what am I doing? I can't do this. Like, I have to have cuckolding because I already know how amazing it is. And it's, they say cuckolding relationships are addictive. And I would 100% agree with that because once you've had that, you, like, nothing else really compares.
So it's like being in love with somebody and the the trust the connection the bond that you have together is just super amplified by cuckolding and that's really hard for people who don't know what cuckolding is it's hard to portray that to them because they just think about it as a sexual act like oh he's watching her fuck some guy or she's fucking a guy and she's filming it for her husband at home or something like that like those are the things that they think about when really that's like that's like nothing really that's not not that's like none of it all the amazing stuff that's going on is how she is looking at her husband or boyfriend while she's doing something or saying something or giving him like a like a look like they're thinking about each other in that moment and or you know she's thinking about him or how he would like this picture or you know she's just and he's like you know beside himself all fucking excited thinking about what she's doing and everything like that like there's so much more going on than what people think about and that's the shitty thing about cuck cuckold porn is that this is so awful it's just like people who don't know cuckolding maybe they've come across a cuckold video on Pornhub or something and um unfortunately most of it is shit like absolute shit and and I don't say that because like the act or you know they're fine whatever there's nothing wrong with the actual videos themselves it's just that I say it's shit because they in that in porn it's impossible to portray what's really actually going on in a cuckold scenario because all of that kind of mental emotional stuff is you can't you can't pick up on that you just cannot so for mainstream porn the only kind of uh cuckold scenario that they can portray well ish is some like cruel femdom kind of cuckolding where you know he's got a collar and leash or like he's you know on his hands and knees and she's you know humiliating him degrading him making him feel like a piece of shit and like it and he's looking like you know this pathetic weak little cuck and stuff like that and and they go with that storyline almost every single fucking time and it's unfortunate because that is not what cuckolding really is it is in some cases sure some women go off and do that sort of stuff and and he loves it like that I don't know but like I will tell you that that's not accurate there is also some amateur porn out there that is pretty good with real couples doing this sort of thing but still regardless with, you can't capture that kind of emotional exchange that's happening.
So that really kind of sucks. Anyway, I think I went off on a little bit of a tangent there. But I just want to say that cuckolding is really fucking magical. And it leaves you with this kind of high for days, literally, you're on cloud nine for days after you have cucked your husband or your boyfriend this shit is so exciting and so amazing incredible fantastic just the best experience ever that you are going to be on cloud nine for fucking days afterwards And it's just some next level relationship stuff.
So my hope is that more and more people can experience that because I don't care what anybody else says about cuckolding being strange or being weird or their cucks or you know to be they're they're not respected or whatever fuck that shit this is a loving caring amazing kind of amazing kind of relationship where they both respect each other and have these experiences that are just next level. And why wouldn't people appreciate that? I don't understand.
The kind of experiences in cuckolding relationships, I think, are way better than any kind of other relationship out there that's my controversial opinion and I'm sticking to it okay it's time to wrap this up thanks again for joining me on this first episode of the Venus Cuckoldress podcast I hope you go to venuscuckoldress.com to check out the blog and subscribe to the podcast. You can also join me on Twitter. My Twitter handle is at CuckoldressBee. I've got some really exciting episodes coming up, so I hope you'll join me. Thanks again for tuning in.
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