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Coming up on venus cuckoldress podcast these are the stuff that they don't really show you important where you have to like take it easy or um you can have the same enthusiasm but you're almost given like maybe a quarter of dick and it's like yeah so my thing is always to try and like present it well but at the same time don't want to hurt my co-star so it's always a case of you know easing in and like watching reading body language and just having that little mini communication between the two of you but there have been a few that have been like look okay my fans, my fans want this, but I'm petrified.
And I'm like, yeah, we can. Here's ways we can do it. So you can still have the whole experience, but without the pain. In their eyes, that they are completely and utterly in awe of the person in front of you. And when they're doing a scene and you can see that they're holding on to every single word, that they're completely and utterly engrossed in each other, that kind of stuff, it's only a shame that in some of these situations, you can't bring a camera with you. But I've seen so many times where I've seen things and go, that's bloody, bloody beautiful.
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Today, I have this super sexy guy named The Shadow Dimitri, who's going to be on the show and talking about all what it's like to be an adult content creator in London. And big shout out to one of my helpful cucks, Oliver, who suggested Dimitri as a guest for the show today. And I'm just so grateful for all of the help that I get from my group of helpful cucks. And if you're wondering what that is, it is a supporter tier on my website in the Queen's Quarters Supporter Club and the fan club, where you get to help me out with all sorts of different things.
So suggesting guests for the show is one of them. So if you want to sign up for that tier, there's tons of other benefits. And you can go to venuscackledress.com to check it out. Okay. Big announcements. This is crazy. This is fucking crazy. Like I am just, I don't know. I'm still shocked about this because this is just, it boggles my mind. It's crazy. So holy fuck, this show, this little show about cuckolding, the Venus Cuckolders podcast, it just bumped up to the ranking of the top 0.5% of all podcasts in the world. That's insane. It's over 3 million podcasts. That just is like, holy shit.
That's amazing. This little show where I talk about cuckolding is that popular. It's just like, wow. I just want to say a big, huge thank you to to everybody everybody who's been listening into the show like there's a lot of you just want to say a big huge thank you for believing in my message and supporting the show so my message of cucks are loved and cherished and valued and women really can have it all if they just ask for it. So thank you to everyone for tuning in, for supporting the show and supporting my message. I'm hugely grateful. Can you believe it? Top 0.5%? Like what? What?
Holy fuck. That's crazy. And okay, second announcement. This is going to be really fun. So make sure you tune into this. Dimitri and I, my guest for the show today, are teaming up to do a live chat on the Moan app.
And that is going to be Thursday, May 18th coming up on the Moan app and that is going to be thursday may 18th coming up uh on the moan app and that'll be noon pacific time 3 p.m eastern and 8 p.m uk time so make sure you tune in for that it is going to be live a live event for it's free you could just download the app and tune in at that time and you can ask questions you can join in the chat you can it's just always a lot of fun so make sure you check it out on the moan app that's may 18th and then the very next day get this that very next day may 19th on friday i am doing a special pillow talk event just wait till i tell you who my guests are.
Okay, this is going to be a free live Pillow Talk event that will feature my guests, Harmony California, the OG Queen of Spades herself, and the one and only Doc Chocolate of the Bulls and Queens podcast, but also a prolific adult content creator, as you can tell by his Twitter and his OnlyFans. So I'm going to have the two of them on the show. It's going to be free. It'll be at noon Pacific time, 3 p.m. Eastern on the 19th. If you want to register, you just go to venuscuckoldress.com, click on the events tab and you'll be able to check that out. Okay, that's it for announcements.
I think pretty sure that's it. Now it is time to jump in to this little chat I had with the very, very sexy Dimitri. Here we go. Joining me on the show today, I have the shadow Dimitri and he is a UK content creator, a sex positive nudist, a performer and events host. Welcome to the show, Dimitri. Say hello to everyone. Hello. Thank you for having me. I'm so happy to have you here. It was one of my helpful cucks who is in one of the membership tiers to support the podcast. And he, I put it out to my helpful cucks. Okay. Who do you want to see on the show? And he recommended you.
That's how I came across you. So I'm super happy to have you on the show. And I must say, I had to do a little homework to look you up and figure out what your content is all about. I did not mind that homework at all. You're hot as fuck and your videos are really good. So I'm super happy to have you here. I'm a little squirming in my seat because yeah, this is fun. But you're in London right now, right? Yes, I'm in London right now. Okay. And the accent is definitely doing it for me too. Okay. And so I'm going to compose myself here.
It's a good thing i'm not recording this in person because if i was recording this in person there's no fucking way i'd be able to keep myself composed like i'm lucky i'm doing this remotely so thank you thank you all right so before we jump into things and and talk about all the you know exciting stuff i want to ask you okay how did you you're this content creator online and all of these other things like how did you get to where you are doing that like what was your journey like oh it was um it was actually more of an accident a happy accident um I originally was into I was a bit of a swinger then a bit of a kinkster and someone just kind of asked me would you consider going into the adult industry because you and they pointed me in the right direction they gave me some helpful tips as to what to do to get started and yes I was very nervous at the beginning and I was just lucky that the people that I met earlier on really really set the tone and really helped me like really get into the industry very well and I'm forever grateful to them so I was I was lucky I was in the right place at the right time with the right people and how long ago was that uh just under about two years I guess okay oh so you're pretty new at this I would not have guessed your content is awesome.
And there's a lot of it. So I'm like, you're busy as fuck. So, which I figured out by trying to book you for this. I was like, okay, these guys got a lot going on. So, so two years you've been doing it.
You had some good people that introduced you to to making content yes um what else what other kind of things have you been up to other than just creating adult content um because at the same time um I was a trainee firefighter and I was also doing graphic design and handyman work so I was freelancing for a lot of time for a long time I was doing a lot of odd jobs and stuff and this just added to the already list of long list of things that I just do in my spare time so okay and and I know I was looking at some of your videos and you do do some cuckolding stuff and we'll get into that but i i was i noticed that there's a lot of bdsm themed stuff as well is that something that you really enjoy as well it's it's something i actually love with a passion I think BDSM and kink are ways of people just finding out about themselves.
I love the psychology behind it. I love watching, like giving pleasure to people in a way that is controlled and nonjudgmental kind of way. So it's just nice. It's just liberating. So it's something that I genuinely, genuinely enjoy.
Yeah, the kink community I think in my opinion is made made up of just the most welcoming non-judgmental people like you could just be you and people don't give a fuck they're like sure let's do it which is awesome you just don't come across that I think in a lot of places in society so I totally understand the gravitational pull towards that for that reason I have come across content producers who are also very into the kink aspect of it so these two things seem to go pretty hand in hand are you do you monetize your kink work or interests as well or is it just like the video production of like porn stuff i try and hold back to a certain extent i don't want to completely take the kink world into porn because there are some aspects of it that I still find very sacred and I still enjoy it.
I don't want it to ever feel like work. And when you take things into like a work environment, the joy starts to come out of it and you literally start treating it as work. Whereas for me is something i genuinely enjoy um i i used to do a lot of pro-dom work um and i used to do a lot of cuckold meets where people want me to um perform cuckold um situations set homework set challenges. So, um, and I took pride making bespoke scenes for them. So for me, it's, it's something that I find actually joyous rather than work. So I don't really want to tarnish that. Okay.
So you're saying you do enjoy doing those scenarios for couples. Is that right? Yeah, I do. Again, if it's a genuine thing, if it's a genuine kink and there's genuine enjoyment behind it, I enjoy doing it.
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Okay, let's just let's jump into this part because I just love this. So I was speaking to i think it was doc chocolate about this and he's got the bulls and queens podcast such a great guy and um i was telling him how within the cuckolding lifestyle for couples the struggle is to find the right bull and to get the right scenario that they want and you know there there's a need and a desire there that is unfulfilled Thank you. to get the right scenario that they want. And, uh, you know, there, there's a need and a desire there that is unfulfilled generally and a real struggle for these couples.
And I was like, why don't we have more of these gentlemen like yourself who are, you know, who really love and enjoy giving these experiences. And I'm like like can we just like brand them as fantasy facilitators because right that's actually what i used to do for my friends um it used to be a private thing that i'd actually do for my friends i find out what their kinks are and um do my best to make facilitate it so i've had friends that have certain fantasies that they'd always want to do, but they don't know how to get started.
So I'm using that information and with the right circle of people that I have at my disposal, I try and make these fantasies happen. I love that so much. And I think it would be so great, especially for the new couples who are nervous as fuck who are, you know, and this is a very touchy kind of spot in the relationship where if it goes wrong on that first time, it's disastrous. So getting it right is really, really important. And I'm like, why don't we have these fantasy facilitators out there?
I get it in the laws here in Canada and the US is probably not legal, but I'm like, this needs to be a thing. It really does. So I, it warms my heart to know that you enjoy doing that, that you love doing that. That was going to be one of the questions I asked you, do couples approach you? Do you do the, this kind of work with them? And so I'm just thrilled to hear that that's a yes. But again, it's also, it's not as much as I'd like to, because obviously now I'm in the adult industry. I'm very much limited to working with only with people that are also in the adult industry.
So it kind of puts a barrier between me and the average person that wants to get to know these things, want to have the questions, want to have the fantasies. So there's a lot to juggle with this, but it is something that I'm still doing. After this show, I'm sure your DMs are going to be lit up. No, I think that's, that's wonderful. Okay. So did you, when you first started doing adult content, had you already been introduced to the cuckolding thing?
Like, is this something that goes way back or is this something that's new for you it's way back oh because before I got into the adult world I was a swinger I came through the swinging background um I met up with other couples I met um the whole couple swap the whole um I've been a bull to a few couples that I'm still friends with to this very day and it's just yeah i was really into it long before i got into kink long before i got into porn so i understand when people have these fantasies and they think i'm going to be it's taboo and i'm like no you're not saying anything new i completely understand so again sometimes it's genuine enjoyment then i'm happy to facilitate now okay and so so you've this you were introduced to this a while back and there's definitely a wide spectrum when it comes to cuckolding you've got like hot wifing on one end you've got cuckolding on the next and there's all sorts of different dynamics within that one one's more tame like like cuckolding light, top wiping.
And then there's like cuckolding extreme. So what's your sweet spot? Where do you fall on that spectrum where you're like, this is where I'm comfortable? The only thing is, is because like you very well said, there's a massive spectrum of it.
me my only i'd say my only stumbling block or only like boundary is that i'm not bi so there's a lot of the um the forced buy stuff that a lot that some cockles want that i can't facilitate so it's you know there's ways around it that you don't have to it doesn't have to be sexual but at the same time it's something that I'm very hyper aware of and it's always changing with people's fantasies and wants so yeah I've heard that often where um the bull is like you know what I just not good I'm not gonna go down that road because i just don't and that's tough because yeah i've had i've heard of way more couples looking for by bulls than i've come across by bulls i mean maybe there's there is a lot of by bulls but they're just not advertising it i don't know there is i know a few but again it's advertisement how do you get out there and dare i say it there is also massive um i hope this is okay to say but it's almost like a uh like a fetish that's for some bulls to have certain aesthetics and when they don't meet those aesthetics they don't always get work so there's always the challenge of that as well are you talking about like body type or dick size or is that what you mean all of the above you've also got this um you know there's some that are specifically picked because race.
So there's a lot of things, a lot of factors that goes into picking a bull. So, you know, so it's not as easy. Yeah. Oh, yeah. In the very beginning, when I first started this show, when I was, you know, talking about the basics of cuckolding, what it's all about, I made a point of saying, look, bulls come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. Like they, you know, just like regular human beings. And so it's not that it's, you know, the default is one type of guy. Certainly in real life cuckolding, you know, with regular couples, like it, that, it, that is true.
It is basically like goals or whoever they want them to be but in when it comes to like content and uh videos and porn and stuff like that and and the porn caption memes thingies like it's one type of guy usually absolutely and i just happen to love black guys. I think black men are just sexy as fuck. Like I was looking at, yeah, chef's kiss. Absolutely. I was looking at one of your videos where you were fucking this chick from behind and you were doing the like circular motion thing.
And I was like, oh damn, that is a black guy black eye thing that is like that's how you guys fuck different let me tell you I've got rhythm in the hips what can I say that's it absolutely and okay and let's talk about your dick because it's glorious it's beautiful huge my size I'm a size queen I love it so yeah obviously you've got that going for you blessed hashtag blessed and uh and that works well for you in the content industry I'm sure do you come across any women though who are like can't take it though they are but then this is the these are the stuff that they don't really show you in porn where you have to like take it easy or you can have the same enthusiasm, but you're almost given like maybe a quarter of a dick.
And it's like, yeah. So my thing is always to try and like present it well, but at the same time, don't want to hurt my co-star. So it's always a case of, you know easing in and like watch the reading body language and just having that little mini communication between the two of you but there have been a few that have been like look okay my fans want this but i'm petrified and i'm like yeah okay we can here's ways we can do it so you can still have the whole experience, but without the pain. My friend, that reminds me of a story. My friend Scarlett, she's on the Flaming Yoni podcast.
She's fucking hilarious. But we're both size queens and love black men. And she was like, what did she say? She was fucking some guy and she was almost going to run from, she running from the dick running from the dick you know the whole pushing away the like arching your back they're like oh shit that's too much and we i tease we tease each other about that now because i'm like there ain't no running from the dick honey languages yeah body language there's like in porn i've seen it where the women kind of like reach back with their hand and put it on your thigh or something like that.
That's their sign of like, it's hurting right now. So yeah, I get it. All those poor women who have to get warmed up and stuff like that. It sucks to be them. I'm not one of those. I'm a big pussy girl.
So I'm like, I like my, my pussy because it's so great for big black guys because like it's so welcoming you know you don't have to knock you just come right in it's great i'm hashtag blessed and all these all these women who want this tight pussy i'm like but why obviously you're fucking these little dick guys like you know it's the whole designer pussy thing that everyone's going for but okay now i want to ask you a little bit more detailed stuff about these uh scenes that you do in the videos regarding hot wifing and cuckolding okay some of those women that you've made scenes with have been like I looked at their accounts like damn they got stuff going on too like they're having a lot of fun um yeah but I didn't actually watch like the videos you know from start to finish um but what are some like I know how scripted is it that's what I want to ask you like do the things that you you say and the things that she says is that completely scripted or are you guys just kind of going with it a lot of what we do is off the dome it's it's that's not very rarely do we get scripted content it's um what we may do is if there's a scenario that we want to paint, we go into character and it becomes roleplay.
But a lot of the things that comes out of our mouth and what is said is improv. Okay. So yeah. I like that. Yeah. So the things that comes out of my mouth are very, yeah, impromptu. When you were saying earlier saying earlier that you you know used to do like firefighter work and like handyman stuff i immediately went to like god if you showed up at my door i'd be like yes i mean i'm sorry but that's where my mind went but then i was looking at one of your videos i saw you show up at someone's door. I was like, fuck me. That's what I need right now. Yeah.
Some of the scenes are hilarious, but like I said, I've literally been very lucky. I look back at all the people that I've worked with and I'm like, damn, I've been lucky.
know you always fear that when you meet your heroes or you meet people that you admire that they're not going to be nice and it's like it's been a hundred percent record that everyone that i've actually had the privilege of working with have been just absolutely hilarious and just fun to be around oh that's so good yeah okay so when you go to shoot a video somebody what does that look like like what's your average day look like when you go to do that well prepping you know obviously communicating with each other trying to make sure you get the venue sorted um asks if there's like any um props or anything you need to bring with you um sorting out the paperwork in terms of things like a model release um also uh checking each other's uh certs uh the um sets that you get from dean streets just to just make sure everything's on the up and up you also do that again on the actual day of the shoot and um also finding out about levels well what kind of do do's and don'ts as well yeah for the shoot so um things that they're comfortable with if they've got any preference on what kind of scene they want and then you just negotiate you can and i've also been to some shoots where people don't want a scene they don't want a um a storyline as to why it's happening and it just happens off the dome so a lot which each performer you work with there's always something new to be brought to the table so yeah okay is it the i guess the producer or the or her that decides what the scene is going to be well again if you're working for a studio um working doing porn for studio and doing porn with content creators are two completely different okay that makes sense if you're doing it for a studio you're at the mercy of the studio you basically do the storyline that they have you do the scenes and the shots that they want and uh yeah it's pretty much structured.
Some studios let you have free reign, but a lot of them are structured. But when you're working with content creators and other performers and porn stars, you negotiate. You just talk with each other and say, yeah, I really want to do a scene like this. Or someone might say, oh, I've always wanted to do this do this and or i've got a custom order for this kind of a video or my fans really like this sort of uh things and then you just negotiate with each other and produce content so yeah so is this your like full-time job it's not but it's it's rapidly becoming that way uh it's uh Thank you.
this your like full-time job?
It's not but it's rapidly becoming that way it's again I'm humbled by the amount of love and support I've been getting a lot of people are asking to do collaborations and projects and it's I just pinch myself because it's like my calendar is just constantly getting filled up with either working with projects or uh helping out with other people's projects as well so i really we've had someone drop out we really would love you to come into this shoot and it's just been that's been my life success that's awesome oh well i think are you planning though like to eventually make it your full-time job would that be ideal for you the end goal would be to because I enjoy being in in front of the camera but I've got so many ideas the the one thing that I think I'm lucky with is I have so many ideas and concepts that I really want to shoot and with the right budget location and stuff, there is so many things I want to do.
So I'm thinking I may migrate at some point to being behind the camera and actually like coming up with some very quite out there stories and just try to like. Quite out there. What does Like I was like kinky stuff or just like wild or like pushing boundaries or what? A little bit of everything. I guess I don't want it. I don't want it to just be boy, girl in a room, bang, bang. Cause a lot of times that's, that's what you get, but I want to do the kind of stuff that yes, you can, you can get that gratification, but it's shot nicer. It looks nicer.
There's a little bit of a skill, a story, a tease to what I'm doing. So, like, I, for one, I see myself as a gentleman dom, and I'd love to try and change that whole doms have to be mean and angry and raise their voice to the girls kind of thing. And I'm trying to change that stereotype of you don't have to. You can do just as much with just a soft whisper or just a well-placed word and stuff. So, yeah, I just want to try and do more creative things.
I so understand and appreciate what you're saying with that because this has been I have I've done a few porn video review episodes I was really convinced I don't really watch a lot of porn but I I was really convinced that there was like a lot of really great cuck porn out there and then so I asked people send me your favorites like I want to know what what are the good ones and I would watch them I'd be like oh that didn't really do much for me like it's okay but like I wouldn't go back to it and I realized that this is all content made by men for men male consumption and no wonder it doesn't press the buttons in my brain.
I'm looking for, and I'm looking for a different script, I think, rather than the stereotypical cuck, oh, pathetic, poor little thing, like, you know, on his hands and knees, like just begging for, you know, poor me, you know, like that kind of thing. I'm looking for something different. And I never really get anything other than that from the content. So I know exactly what you're saying. Like there's these little words and looks that you can give, but it takes creativity. It takes, or I guess a lot of skill to be able to figure that out in a way that like translates properly.
And this is, this is the challenge and I enjoy the challenge. I want to create stuff like that. So, well, if you do go into venture into the cuckolding stuff and you're thinking about producing that, I will definitely give you a few pointers and tips about what I think that women really want to see. This has to happen. I, I, I, I welcome this.
i welcome all input so yeah yes let's make this people so many people over the years have said to me oh you know you should really make videos you should make porn like you should do this stuff and i'm like for fuck's sakes i don't know how to do this shit and i really don't know how to translate what's in my mind to like you know a script or like a scene I just, I don't know how, I just know what it feels like when those buttons are pressed, you know, that look, you know, that look when a cuck you say, or do something and a cuck reacts in this very visceral, um, uncontrolled way where he just kind of like, it's like, like oh like he just melts like physically emotionally melts in that second because of something she said or did that moment is magical for me that turns me on so much and yet it's such a natural um what's the right word unplanned kind of thing that man how would you put that into a scene without it seeming like it's like fake you know yeah and that's the thing is capturing that natural enjoyment that natural euphoria it's yeah when you can catch that that's like lightning in a bowl and it's yeah yeah that's what i need that's what i need from cock porn in order to turn me on and i just don't get that i don't see it and so i'm just like well i'm i find myself like i'll like really like that video because he his dick is glorious and i really fucking love looking at it you know and the thing is you can be playful with it it doesn't always have to be like i like to put elements of teasing into the video it doesn't always have to be like everyone gets what they want straight away it could be a little tease a little play having fun with it and i think there's almost like a blueprint where everyone thinks this is what you need to do for this particular scene or this is not a cock scene unless you've said or humiliated or done this or that and I kind of think you can break away from that mold and come up with something else but I think people are very scared to go outside of what sells and yeah yeah absolutely I come you're the first person I've talked to that actually is saying these things because i've been thinking about this for years but yeah i there's something to with cuckolding there's a lot of tease and there's a lot of denial as well as for some most cuckolding i should say where it is like a mental strip tease now if we can get a mental striptease in a porn video, that would turn me on so much.
And I know it would turn on a cuck so much too, because I know how their brains work. And so I'm like, if you could put together this like mental striptease, visual striptease of a cuckolding situation where you have just, it's almost like know movie trailers where they just show you this little glimpse and then you have some sound and then you're putting these scenes together in your mind and and it's very like suspense and it's very like anticipation and and very like thrilling can we have that with it can can happen. Like, I want that. The thing is, it can happen.
There is, and I see, and the thing is, this is the thing, I see it in kink environments. Oh, yeah. When I see a natural, like a mistress and a cock together, or wife and, or hot wife and a husband, or cock and a wife. When you see that natural, like, almost like pure submission in their eyes, that they are completely and utterly in awe of the person in front of you. And they and when they do in a scene and you can see that they're holding on to every single word, that they're completely and utterly engrossed in each other, that kind of stuff.
It's only a shame that in some of these situations, you can't bring a camera with you. Yeah. I've seen so many times where I've seen things and go, that's bloody, bloody beautiful. That's actually, and you just, and you just see that relationship.
but you can just gratitude in the in the cock's eyes when he's looking at everything that he's been asked to do and it's like how how is that bad look at look at the joy in their face that is that and if you can like make content like that but that is very artistic that's an art right to be able to capture that and portray that and that that's difficult and i totally get what you're saying about how like it's very scary for people to branch out into something like that because who knows if there's even a market for that you know but like i'm i'm sitting here going please please but please.
I think it would be great. If you don't create it, you'll never know. Yeah, yeah. So I really hope that you do go down that road and that you do venture in that direction because I would totally 100% support that.
You seem to understand that there is these magical moments that happen organically in these situations that we don't i don't think necessarily get from mainstream porn so but that i you know feed off of i live for that shit like i you know i would absolutely get off on that way more than watching just regular piv fucking on the screen and that's what porn was originally made for it's meant to be a little a tool to for you to get off on if you if you're not getting enough from that content then either find it or create yourself you know make the kind of content that you'd enjoy watching which is kind of why this is going to be a little shameless plug oh my god Go for it.
I was quite lucky that I've got a really good videographer that follows me and shoots a lot of my stuff, and he just gets it. So when you've got a team behind you and you throw an idea and they just get it, it's great.
so the kind of content that i've been shooting lately are the kind of stuff that i would enjoy watching and luckily it's the kind of stuff other people enjoy too so i've been lucky in that regards and i think if you've got like a good team and they also like what you like and you creating something together yeah it's nothing that makes artistic photos by the way people artistic artistic those yes yes agreed agreed no okay that makes total sense because your videos do look really good like they look really good so um yeah that makes a lot of sense and yeah you'd have to have a really good team for that so okay and what.
And what else do I need to ask you? Is there anything else that you want to share with the listeners for today's show?
um oh i do want to actually get people's heads around the whole cuckold and hot wife there's a massive difference between the two please don't don't seem to always get that like they i've had situations where i've worked with some really amazing hot wives and people don't understand how that dynamic works and it's like yeah like there's a difference between a cuckold who likes the some that likes the humiliation not all of them do and that's another thing that needs to be said but with the hot wife situation it's like majority of the time the husband's in on it the husband's happy it's it's an inclusion thing but you still have people that um sometimes want to treat the hot wife's husbands as cocks and it's like you know if that's not being bestowed upon it you can't just tarnish that brush your left right and center so sometimes I think like it's only because I've had close friends that are and the kind of comments that has been hitting them has made me laugh that people there's so many people that have very little understanding about the two yeah that Probably a lot of that misunderstanding comes from your stereotypical cuck on screen and um and how to treat him based on what you see in porn right um I get that I hear it all the time I do and it it sucks because it's another instance of in this lifestyle painting somebody with one brush that's it and and that like and assuming that everybody is all the same where it is such a wide spectrum of of of practices and dynamics and i'm sure it's the same with bulls too where especially where, especially if you're a black bull, like, you'll get automatically treated in a certain way when that might not be your thing.
Like, it might not be your thing.
Do you ever get contacted by single cucks asking for, I don't know, advice basically just acting badly i do um i take it with a pinch like a pinch of salt i try not to take offense because for me people can ask questions and all you can do is either say yes or no it's not for me because you do have the people that will message you and some weird requests i'll get is oh do you allow cleanup duties and i'm like well if you're not a performer no i do not allow that and it's also a case of you know is this something that is also going to be agreed upon with the model you can't just insert yourself and think it's that easy to just you know because because you're a cop and I'm a bull that that relationship automatically happens.
It's like, no. And especially when you have people that will message you with the odd, Oh, would you, would you bang my wife? And I'm like, yeah, again, randomly we all do respect. I don't know who you are. I don't know who your wife is. I wish you the best in your search, but it's just not going to be me. And it's just that kind of trying to find a diplomatic way of just saying, sorry. Okay. You're busy doing all of this content and everything like that. You're enjoying this lifestyle. I'm assuming that you're single. I didn't even ask you. I'm polyamorous.
I don't know how many people know what that is, but I have multiple partners that I'm very close with. They know about my lifestyle. They know what I do. They know about each other.
It's kind of like an open and honest kind of relationship kind of thing um and uh yeah i'm happy i'm genuinely happy so oh my god that's perfect like that literally just makes it all work together when you have that kind i've met several bulls who have the same kind of setup and it just works beautifully because you can still you know not you you can still be who you are and do what you want and what you love and still have those amazing loving committed relationships in your life like it's just that's beautiful that's great well I'm glad I asked you that all right so before go, I want to make sure that I give you the opportunity to let everybody know where they can learn more about you, where they can find all these juicy videos that I've been talking about and doing my homework with.
okay um my twitter handle is at shadow dimitri one1. My Instagram is TheShadowDimitri. So please feel free to... The other spicier links are in there somewhere sprinkled. So if you want to do a bit of searching, by all means, feel free. Awesome. And I will include those links in today's show notes. Oh, before I go, I almost forgot me and you are doing a moan chat, a live moan chat together on the moan app. You know what? I get to pop Dimitri's moan app cherry. So this is going to be good. It won't be gentle.
This is gonna be full on okay that is going to be uh thursday may 18th at 12 p.m pacific time that's i believe 8 p.m uk time is yeah yeah so if you want to check it out uh check out the link in the description notes for today's episode it'll have the moan app linked there just download it create a free private account and then drop in at that time on that day and hang out with us you can actually ask questions you can ask questions in the chat you can pop up and say few things if you want. It's so, so much fun. So don't miss out on that one. The MoNAP, May 18th at 12 p.m. Pacific, 8 p.m.
UK time. Okay, Dimitri, it's been an absolute pleasure to have you on the show. Thank you so much for joining me today. It's been a blast. Thanks for having me. That's going to be it for today's episode. Thank you so much for joining me. Don't forget, I am live on GTFO Radio. That is Tuesday, May 23rd at 12 p.m. Pacific, 3 p.m. Eastern.
You can check it out at gtforadio.ca live on tuesday the 23rd and of course if you want to support the podcast subscribe to the show or ask a question for the show you can visit venuscuckoldris.com and if you want to learn about cuckold matchmaking or FLR matchmaking, check out venusconnections.com. And of course, as always, you can follow me on Twitter. My handle is at cuckoldrisv. That's going to be it for today. We'll see you next time.
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