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If you love the podcast you're listening to, you'll really like Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips for Sale. Hi, I'm John, also known as Hi There Catsuit, and each week we interview members of the kink and fetish community to find out why they are who they are. You can find us on all your podcast platforms, as well as YouTube at Authentically Kinky Podcast. Hello, Venus. I just wanted to ask you a question here on your podcast today. Me and my wife have been married coming up on three years now and dating about six.
We have always enjoyed a variety of kinks that I had brought in and educated her around, mostly chastity, foot fetish, femdom relationship type things. And just recently, I had let her know that some of this cuckolding material has been turning me on. We ended up having a small talk about it, and she said she's not really comfortable with another man right now, which I completely understand.
She sees the penetration between me and her as something really special, and she thinks that's kind of a turning point to where she wouldn't be able to say, I'm the only man she's ever slept with after she's been married um but what she did say she's interested in experimenting with another girl I watched and I thought that was very interesting I did find that very much of a turn on and not really something that I had ever really thought of up until that point um I just wanted to get your opinions on what i would call lesbian cuckolding um your opinions on that dynamic and maybe possibly some advice this would be her first time with another female as well as my first time being cuckolded as well as either of our first times with anyone in the bed so we're trying to take things real slow just kind of chit chat other couples right now and play the waters.
But yeah, I've been listening to your podcast. We both have find it very interesting. And yeah, I just looked up and thought I would send you a voice message here to kind of explain our dynamic a little bit. I appreciate any insight or response I get from that, if any. And yeah, I appreciate it. You have a great day. Joining me on the show to talk about this question that I've received from a listener is Blonde on the Bay, my fellow Canadian cuckoldress friend. Welcome to the show, Blondie. Oh, thank you so much for having me here. I always love chatting with you.
Yes, you've been on the show at least once before, I know that, where we talked about when I first met you in Las Vegas. It was so fun. It was such a great party. So welcome back. I'm happy to have you on today. Thank you.
This is such a great topic to talk about today because I don't think I've actually talked about this on the podcast before but I remember way back when uh oh there was this was years ago I did I was a guest on somebody's podcast and it was a swingers podcast and they they really didn't know much at all about cuckolding and so I told them about like you know this is about your wife sleeping with somebody else and your husband potentially watching or hearing about it after whatever and. And they were like, oh, they come from the swingers.
We're like, oh, I wonder if that means that I've cucked my husband because I've slept with other women. I've had these experiences with other women. And I was like, my immediate reaction was like, I don't think that's the same.
But it really got me thinking because I was like why is it not the same but could it be the same I was just like wow my my mind was like bending I was like really having to try to think about this so I'm so happy to explore this with you today this listener said he's been um married to his wife for three years and that they've been together for six years and that they, he's introduced her to some kinky stuff like chastity, foot fetish stuff and femdom.
So that was, I'm really glad that he gave that background because that gives some, um, information about, you know, perhaps how this could work for them. Um, but interesting that she said she's not comfortable sleeping with another guy. And I think that's pretty common with a lot of these wives where their husband brings up this fantasy and is like, I really want you to fuck these other dudes. And she's like, no, hard pass. Like, I don't want to do that.
But maybe if she's bi-curious or has a bisexual past or whatever that she might want to do that with a woman so how what would this look like and how would that actually work so let's dive into this um so Blondie you were you said that you you are you've heard of this before and like is that right yeah I have um I have heard about it a guy that I listen to on another podcast too he his wife has a girlfriend and and he's a cock he's a you know hardcore cock and it's always been gentleman that her that his wife was with but then she she sort of decided, you know, she met this woman and they formed an actual relationship and the girlfriend would come over and hang out, watch movies with them.
And then, you know, the girl, the women would go into the bedroom and enjoy their time and he would sit and listen. And, you know, it is, it may not be another man, but I mean, in the lifestyle, we often also explore gender fluidity too, right? And different dynamics that way. So just because she's with another woman doesn't mean he's not being cut, and it doesn't mean he's not going to still have some, at least most, some of all those feelings.
Maybe not it's kind of different thinking about you know a big hard black cop driving into your wife as opposed to a gorgeous woman eating her out right both are both can be equal turn-on but I guess the angst there is different right and that's what I was kind of assuming yeah but i think i mean it all depends on your comfort level where you are in your lifestyle journey where you are in your dynamic and i've always said there's no wrong way to to tuck holding as long as you're both on the same page and you're both doing it consensual. Ah, I agree.
I think in the beginning, when I was first learning about cuckolding, I was really trying to sort it all out in my brain. And in doing so, I was really kind of trying to compartmentalize everything so that it made sense. And in doing so, I think I mistakenly kind of was gatekeeping the cuckold label and saying, well, this is cuckolding, but that doesn't seem like it is. And I just over the years have learned like you can do it this however the fuck you want. It's all valid. It's all fun just because it doesn't look like your typical cuckold script who gives a flying fuck.
Okay, if you're having fun doing it, and you're're both getting off and enjoying it it doesn't really matter at all what it looks like so if anybody does want to have a female bull uh then go fucking go for it i mean who gives a fuck yeah i mean it's like people saying oh well you're not a true cock if you aren't in a cage right oh you aren't a true true cock if she isn't pegging you. Oh, you aren't a true cock if you don't suck dick or take it. Right. You know, like, those things are all those are all things at the buffet table. Yeah. And anybody in the lifestyle can try any of those things.
Yes. Doesn't make you something.
It just means that the kink that you're interested in, and then you want to try maybe you enjoy it maybe you know yeah that's absolutely it um i agree definitely but what we're talking about like what would like would would it be the same i feel like it would be slightly different probably because so much of the cuckold fantasy if not nearly all of it god damn it is has to do with piv sex penis and vagina sex about and the whole breeding thing the whole like her with another guy her taking a dick that's not yours basically and that's what it revolves around i mean that is like the center of the universe for all cuckolding fantasies, basically.
And that's what it revolves around. I mean, that is like the center of the universe for all cuckolding fantasies, basically. I mean, that's a generalization, but like, that's the base of every script pretty much that you see out there is that she's sleeping with another guy and it has everything to do with dick and pussy sex.
But so how would that work If this is a woman obviously it's not dick and pussy sex unless maybe she's wearing a big strap on and she fucks her like that's a possibility i kind of think that maybe because they are starting out this is a good stepping stone yeah it's a good way for them to experience a third person coming into their relationship and seeing how that feels I mean we all know we we don't we don't stay in the place where we started yeah every anywhere in life and especially in the lifestyle we all start somewhere but if you ask somebody 10 years later where they are and where they started there's there's miles between the starting and and the current current spot yeah we all start we all have to start somewhere yes and it's a it's a you know it's a it sounds like it's a safe space for her or she that she thinks interracial black and white the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride.
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Like, I totally get it. A lot of women have this idea that, you know, it really means something if you are physically with another guy other than your husband, that there's some shame around that, which, yeah, which is crazy. But I get that a lot of women really buy into that. But yeah, but let's face it. Sex with women is probably a whole lot safer. You're not going to probably not going to have your drink spiked. You're not going to have a threat of violence. Like, she's probably not going to try to steal your man. And, you know, like, not going to try to steal you away from your man.
And like,'s just it's soft essential this is women plus okay so so get this i was thinking about this i'm like oh my god okay so the whole fan a lot of the whole fantasy that cugs have is um her getting better sex with with somebody capable, a guy who's more capable, who's bigger dick, give her more orgasms and all that sort of stuff, right? Like this is how guys cucks think. This is the thing that really turns them on, gives them the most angst and everything like that, right? Gives them such a boner.
But if you look at the orgasm gap, oh, you guys, all the boys listening right now, you're not going to want to hear this, but if you learn about the Oh my God. If you look at the orgasm gap, oh, you guys, all the boys listening right now, you're not going to want to hear this. But if you learn about the orgasm gap, you will learn that heterosexual women have like the lowest rates for consistent orgasms when it comes to PIV sex.
Absolutely fucking rock bottom lowest lowest whereas guys have like 95 regular orgasms from sex okay hetero guys okay but lesbian sex there is there's no orgasm gap with lesbian sex i'm for real real. They are consistently having lots of orgasms. Why? Because they have this more egalitarian approach to sex and orgasms, where it's not just about them. It's about them and their partner. And not only that, but the statistic, the research shows that it's way more, it has way more to do with oral receiving and giving oral than with hetero guys.
And that the sexual experiences that women have with other women last far longer than with hetero guys. So that's no shocker. I mean, when a guy, you know, comes, it's like, it's over, it's done. Whereas women are like, we're just like, all right, let's, yeah. What do we got? What's coming up next? Plus there's like probably a ton of toys to be used with when women are playing with other women, whether it be strap-ons or vibrators or whatever, like there's a ton of stuff. But why? Because it's way more creative than PIV sex. So I think it's more playful too. Absolutely.
Paced, playful, sensual, all of that. We're more comfortable with another woman often than we are with a man in terms of showing our flaws too. Right. Oh, absolutely. Yeah, totally. So we're scrunched up on the bed and our tummy has a roll in it. We don't care. Yeah, exactly. Another woman who has the same kind of body as we do. Yeah.
My tits are a bit saggy relax into everything we're all saggy we're all wrinkled yeah yeah exactly there's no judgment there yeah but i'm wondering so the point of for for this man with who has brought you this question his point of view if this situation occurs he's like living every hetero man's dream, almost. And especially if they decide to invite him to join. Now he's got two pussies to eat out. He's got, like, he's kind of being cucked, but at the same time, they've almost slid just into a threesome. Right. Possibly, right? Yeah.
That is the number one fantasy, sexual fantasy in the United States, according to Dr. Justin Lee Miller, is a threesome. And so, yeah, he would be basically getting this like sweet bonus if he's given the opportunity to join in, which is my, his wife might feel good with that. She might feel comfortable with that, or she might not because the, this couple has a kink, a bit of some kink experience. At least he's, you know, they've, they've been talking about it, especially femdom.
This, she could actually, this wife could actually have fun with this in that, like, she would not be lying about the fact that this woman could give her better orgasms than her husband. And he's not even a guy. Right. Is that not extra humiliating? I mean, that's what I think. It is doubly humiliating to be cussed by a woman. She doesn't even need a big dick to make you feel vastly inferior. Right. You can bring your wife to orgasm over and over and over again without missing a beat or getting tired. Yes. Yes.
And as a husband, you just sit there and go, no words i i just i just couldn't imagine yeah it's it's probably like i don't want to be there at some point like i mean probably if they're starting out they just want to she's probably just going to want to have some you know pretty girl to make out with and stuff like that and that's fine but at some point if they could find a woman who understood the husband's cuck fantasies and really wanted to get into the role of a female bull oh my god that actually could be quite fun i'm not gonna lie that would be so much fun right I could definitely fuck on right now let's go that would actually be so fun oh my god you little bitch you want this pussy you can't have it this hurt pussy's all mine how you write that on my bucket list list of things to do i've never really even thought of that before.
But I was like, damn, that could actually like, be a real thing. If a woman was to want to get really into that the psychological role of that, that could be a thing. And maybe more wives would be more open to that if they have bicarious tendencies or interests. Well, from my experience, at least 80% of the women in lifestyle are bicarious or bi. Yeah.
I went through that like 15 years ago, maybe longer I definitely yeah 10 years ago yeah last of the year I know I was like I really want to eat pussy I really want to do all the things and I did all the things and I was like okay that's done moving on oh what's this cuckolding thing yeah funny how that works you were talking about how every you know who we are as we start in the lifestyle so different from where we are 10 years later so there's oh my gosh good example of that right um i mean yeah i've changed insanely but i really do believe and i was told this by a medical professional friend of mine that there is an actual a biological reaction that happens in in men's bodies when they think about their wife or partner sleeping with another man having sex with another man there's a biological reaction a flood of hormones and that's why you hear all the time from guys who say oh my god i thought about this cuckolding scenario with my wife or I saw this video or whatever, and I got the most intense erection, the most intense orgasm I've ever had in my life.
There really is something biological that happens with guys where I think that's why you have so much um desire male-led desire in this lifestyle where this is just like pushed so heavily by men it's because it does affect them in some way that i don't think as women affects us in the same way um so i was wondering like what was wondering like with a female bull would have that same reaction? Probably not, I don't think. I don't think so. I think, I don't think so. I mean, now all you're just watching is a girl-on-girl scene.
Yeah, like, is it voyeurism now?'s just not as dominant where this man comes in and is dominant over you and your wife as i mean a woman could be but it's it's still not going to be the same men men are just innately geared to be you know more reactive to a male coming in right like they get all up in themselves and but with a woman they you know you oh haha that's cute you're being a dog right right you know we kind of get you know pat it on the head and told that you know oh you're cute so i yeah i think it would be an interesting experiment yeah yeah i really do i feel like there could be a lot of fun that could that could be had with this kind of scenario whether or not it produces the same level of like angst or or you know cucky angst or um it's definitely boner material there's no doubt about that like no matter what he's gonna enjoy watching his wife with this other woman and just the the spectacle of two beautiful women together like hello like yeah but whether or not he gets that kind of kucky feeling kucky reaction i don't know i really don't know i mean i know I don't know.
hot it's always hot yeah but whether or not he gets that kind of cucky feeling cucky reaction i don't know i yeah i really don't know i mean i know i mean i can probably speak for my tuxin in that i don't i think he would he would enjoy it it would be hot to watch yeah but it certainly wouldn't give him the same that same angst that he experiences when there's a black gentleman with me. Right.
give him the same that same angst that he experiences when there's a a black gentleman with me right yeah yeah i think i don't know but you're right it is a great place for this couple to start absolutely a great place for this yeah we all have to start somewhere having said that though if she really is a hard no to fucking other guys then don't see it as a start you see this as a the the one and only step and that's no going further than that like like a negotiation a compromise right right exactly because once you've got a hard no the more you push the further back she's gonna go exactly yes you just can't and i do want to say one thing to the wife if she's if she listens to this um which i hope she does um i know that in your mind there is this like sacred thing of like sex with your husband is you know is sacred and blah blah like you but that know, having sex with another guy is, it means something that's shameful.
I know you probably think that based on what your husband said, but like, let me tell you, girl, this is, there is nothing fucking magical about it. Okay. It is okay to explore someone else's physical body. It does not mean you fall in love with them. It doesn't mean you love your husband less. It doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with your marriage or you or that you're a slut or that there's any shame in any of that. You're simply enjoying someone else's body just like you're enjoying another woman's body.
There's absolutely no fucking difference okay so I'm just gonna say that I yeah and I I can I get where she's coming from I don't know if you've heard my story of my first time but I'm happy to share it here yeah yeah go for it go for it okay our first time um my husband convinced us convinced me to go to a party in Vancouver. And it was a greedy girl party. And I was convinced that, okay, fine, we're going to go to this thing. It's going to be fine. Nobody's going to want me. I'm going to prove it to him. And then the whole topic will be dropped. Right? Yeah. So we go to this party.
That is not what happened.
I was fresh meat kind of deal and I was looking around and I my husband was great he stood back and he just let me work the room and flirt and enjoy and fun and then like you know at some point he came up and he said okay are you going to pick somebody and I don't know how how I don't know i don't know i've never done this i i don't know how i can do this my whole life i thought in order to have sex with somebody i had to be in love with them so this is huge so we pick a guy who was like super nice all evening very polite and we go into a room first thing we do is i ask him to put on two condoms which we all know how Well, that worked.
He had a hard time not. I asked him to put on two condoms, which we all know how well that works. He had a hard time. He didn't have a hard time until he took one of them off. And then things were going. So I lay back on the bed. And funnily enough, there's a tucked chair right there beside the bed.
And my husband sits down and then holding one of my hands and i i had to take it away because i put both hands over my eye oh and i said to this guy i'm like just do it just do it so he starts fucking me and it's feeling amazing and then i take my hands off my eyes and i'm holding my husband's hand and we're looking at each other and he was just looking at my husband's face and the sheer amazement joy and love just radiating out of him I was like oh okay because there was always that niggling thing in the back of my mind was this is a trap yeah he's we're gonna get in there this guy's gonna be on top of husband's going to change his mind and he's going to lose his shit either on the guy or on me.
But that isn't what happened. It isn't at all. And I realized that I could enjoy the physical contact of another person and the different feelings that I got from different men. And I didn't have to also, I didn't have to lose. It wasn't a trade. I didn't have to trade the love and commitment and amazing relationship I had with my husband in order to have this also amazing sex life. Right. I got to have it. I got to have all of it. Right. Both of it. Like, it was amazing. And so like, we left that place. And, you know, we talked after him that, yeah, when can we go back?
So once we, once I put that first foot down, it was, it was a steady run to where we are now. Funny how that happens. but i i feel it's so important because so many women think that like they couldn't have sex with another man that they married this one. And, you know, it's like it's cheating or it's shameful. And it's not.
We can tell you that till we're blue in the face until you actually experience it and see the feelings, all those emotions yeah in your husband who you love you love this man right yes you want to do something you want to make him happy but at the same time you don't want to give up so much of yourself that you might destroy your relationship as long as you have solid communication and you have talked and talked and talked this thing to death and you're holding hands through it and you're supporting each other then it's just fantastic yes yes so maybe maybe if this wife is listening she might rethink it or just take that into consideration and maybe think understand that it is possible to have your cake and eat it too literally and i talk to a lot of lot of new couples in the lifestyle.
I do some mentoring on the side, which is really, that gives me my feelings of compersion is, you know, talking to new couples and helping them navigate all of the, just it's, you know, there's a lot out there. There's a lot of misinformation out there misinformation out there you are you know I have always felt that your podcast delivers genuine true and real information yay I hope so I hope so that's the goal you're killing it um one little piece of advice for this couple if they do decide to go down this road and uh and have another woman in the bedroom I don't know.
I don and and have another woman in the bedroom, don't forget about the aftercare for any of the couples who are listening, who are thinking about doing any kind of cuckolding for real in the real world, real life with real people. um that's something that i've learned that over the years that is often not thought about or neglected is the aftercare. And that this can be a very mentally emotional thing for your husband, the cuck to go through his very first time getting cucked.
And you have to really plan some time together, whether that be talking, cuddling, whatever, afterwards, in order to kind of reconnect. So don't forget about that part was often forgotten. That's so important. I'm glad you mentioned that. Yeah. Because it's really easy to still be riding that high. And just forget that there's also another person feeling. Yeah, I know. Because like, I feel like for us riding that high with you, you're still like, yeah, when's the next one? Where can I get more dicks? But he's over there going, um, hello. Yeah.
I, that's something I learned over the years is like this for us women, this is all fun and exciting and thrilling and just like incredible, like the story you just talked about. But we forget where we don't know that our for our partner, this can be a whole range of feelings. It can be really great in cloud nine and all that sort of stuff, too.
But there can be that crash to where they're just like, Oh, what have I done like is you know how come I feel so shitty right now so oh yeah yeah it's a it's a roller coaster really so communicate that's right talk talk all the time um I think that I think that's all the advice I have for this couple is there anything else that you wanted to add in before we wrap this up um i would um i don't think so i would just be like i would encourage them to explore explore talk read listen to lots of different points of view if something doesn't if you if you hear something or somebody tells you oh this is the way you should do it and it doesn't feel right to you like you're like really that's what we have to do then no that's not for you yeah there isn't there is no there's no set guidelines there's no set rules on okay this is what you have to do in order to be this right you're really exploring and you're really finding out on your own and you don't have to do it the way anybody else does it right just be yourself and true to yourself and make sure that you're both enjoying it and the minute one of you isn't speak up yes yes and oh oh yes i should say hubby don't direct.
Don't be the mini Spielberg. Do not direct the scene. Let your wife do whatever the fuck she wants with this woman. Yes. Having and having too many rules like, oh, you can't touch this and you can't do that. I mean, talk about a buzzkill, right?
When you're talking about sex, we all know it comes down to just the way we are our animal instinct and you really have to sit back and let those take over yeah exactly especially because this is going to be her first experience with a woman she's never been with a woman before it's going to be nerve-wracking i remember my first experience and i was just like oh this feels really I'm losing my virginity card all over again I was so worried that I was doing it right but yeah apparently I did but I like I've only just watched it on porn so I didn't know if I was eating pussy the right way right right I think it's kind of hard to get it wrong.
I think we're just, yeah. We have one. Exactly. Yeah, we know where the clit is. So let's work on closing the orgasm gap. Okay, so where can people learn more about you and what you're doing? You said you're doing some mentoring. And I think you've got an OnlyFans that you're doing too right? I do I have an OnlyFans my OnlyFans is Blonde on the Bay my ex is Blonde on the Bay you can reach me there you can reach me at BlondeOntheBay at gmail.com and FetLife I'm'm also blonde on the bay. Basically blonde on the bay everywhere. I am. I, you know, just covered it. Makes it easy. Yes.
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