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Why he would want to do something like that is because it's his way of showing her that he accepts her having just fucked another guy. Like, he's baby like I love you for what you just did it's he loves her he wants to give her pleasure but also wants her to have even more pleasure so it's his way of having that kind of like sexual intimacy in that moment but it's so much more than that because he's also giving his permission and his gratitude for her having just met her own sexual needs in an entirely different way with an entirely different person.
So that is like a gift in itself and so I feel like that is part of why it makes it such an incredibly special moment. As I absolutely loved to do, I started to go down on her. She awkwardly pulled away. This was so unusual because she really loved that I would eat her and she would always climax. I instinctively knew that she'd been with another guy and she didn't want me to put my face in it. So in my mind, I was like, no way I'm not letting you go. You're mine now. I wrapped my arms under her legs and pulled her pussy to my face and ate her like I meant to. He's looking at me.
His eyes are sparkling with that cocktail of cuck emotions. I smile at him. Come, sweetheart. And I lay back on the bed and open my legs. He walks forward, gently grips my thighs with his hands, and kisses each of them softly. He looks up at me, eyes wide and heart open. I love you, I whispered to him. He looks at me with the most intense love and then buries his face in my freshly fucked pussy. I wrap my soft thighs around his neck and gently push his head even deeper. Deep love echoes back and forth between us, getting louder and louder by the minute. First, my pussy gets what it wants.
Then my heart gets what it wants. This is what cuckolding love is. This is what it's all about. And this is why cleanup is the pinnacle of the cuckolding experience. It is everything. Welcome to the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. A place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, the passionate, and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast and check out the Venus blog. And of course, if you love it, share it. Now, sit back, make yourself comfortable, and enjoy the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. I am your host Venus.
Today I'm going to talk about cleanup. It's hot as fuck. If you haven't heard of it before, you will learn all about it today. And before I get into it, I just want to apologize for it being a little while since my last episode. Life has been fucking stressful, as I'm sure it's been for everybody in the year 2020 because it sucks so bad. But yeah, life has been really fucking busy, so I haven't been able to record as much as I have wanted to, but I'm back and making up for it today.
Also, I just wanted to mention that recently I came across an awesome interview on the Sex and Psychology podcast, which is hosted by Justin Lay Miller. He has written the book, Tell Me What You Want, The Science of Sexual desire and how It Can Help You. And he did an interview with Dr. David Lay, who is a sex therapist who wrote the book Insatiable Wives. Now, I've talked about this book before. It's so fantastic. It goes into great detail about cuckolding, the history of cuckolding, and you get to meet some really great cuckolding couples.
So anyway, Justin Lay Miller interviewed I don't know. I don great episode. I would highly recommend it. I loved it. They talked a little bit about, you know, what cuckolding is, the difference between cuckolding and hot wifing. But they also talked a lot about the statistics of how often men and women actually fantasize about cuckolding, which was really interesting, and also why it's so controversial and the political link to cuckolding. So why do conservative men seem to have this fantasy more often than their liberal counterparts?
And they talked a little bit at the end about the future of cuckolding, which was quite fascinating. So if you want to listen to the podcast, it's called Sex and Psychology, and it's by Dr. Justin Lehmiller. All right, now to start off the episode today, I'm going to play a few clips that some of my listeners have submitted. And there's a tab on the venuscuckoldress.com website that's called Ask Venus, the Venus Hotline. And so these listeners went on there and recorded some of their comments and feedback about the show and also mentioned a little bit about cleanup.
So I wanted to just go over that first and then I'm going to get into my stories and experiences with cleanup and why it is so fucking fantastic. But I would like to give you a warning that it's going to be really hot. So you might want to make sure that you are not in a public place when you listen to this. All right, let's get started. Hi, Venus. Thanks for what you do. Listening to both you and Michael C. over the past two years has been helpful to me.
I really appreciate how you express yourself, how you provide intelligent, thoughtful descriptions and understandings of the lifestyle, and how you focus your message on the depth of love and intimacy between the couples involved in the hot wife and cuckold lifestyle. And here's why. I'm happily married for 21 years. We have teenage children. We have a relatively vanilla sex life. I've had the cuckold itch most of my life. 23 years ago, when my wife and I first started dating, we lived in different cities and would stay with each other on weekends.
Before we were exclusive, we met up one Saturday afternoon and we started to get intimate, though something was different. She was a little guarded, which seemed unusual. As I absolutely loved to do, I started to go down on her. She awkwardly pulled away. This was so unusual because she really loved that I would eat her and she would always climax. I instinctively knew that she'd been with another guy and she didn't want me to put my face in it. So in my mind, I was like, no way am I letting you go. You're mine now.
I wrapped my arms under her legs and pulled her pussy to my face and ate her like I meant it. I really didn't notice anything different like coming her pussy or being all stretched out. Well, everything was just fine. She relaxed. She came and we had fun. I didn't ask her about it. She didn't say anything though. Years after we were married, I found out that yes, she had fucked another guy that she was also dating before she saw me that Saturday. She also shared with me that he was really hung, which turns me on to no end. I wish she could have heard her voice when she confessed that to me.
Her voice wavered like she was getting weak in the knees just saying it. He had a big dick. The words hung on her tongue. Secretly, just between you and me, I believe every girl deep down is a size queen. Anyway. in the knees, just saying it. He had a big dick. The words hung on her tongue. Secretly, just between you and me, I believe every girl deep down is a size queen. Anyway, sometime after we became exclusive boyfriend and girlfriend, I told her that I didn't mind if she dated other guys. I had no idea what I was desiring. I had no understanding of my desire.
I didn't know anyone who had these feelings. Certainly, she didn't. Though, interestingly, she said, like you'd want to watch me get ready for a date? I don't know where that came from, but it was unbelievably hot to me. Well, she quickly put the kibosh on any of that and only wanted to be mutually exclusive. It's not that she shamed me, but I felt hurt like she didn't understand me. Fast forward 14 years into our marriage and I started to discover all this business about hot wifing and cuckolding. I was so turned on and had a big aha that I wasn't some weirdo.
Over the next six years, I talked more about it with her, but it was really hard for me to talk about all the filthy, dirty things in my mind. Once I started to listen to your podcast, it became easier for me to express myself to her. We have played with Chastity. Last year, she locked me 24-7 for 32 days during Locktober. She sent me to get waxed with a key in a lockbox and texted the code to our esthetician. I love the public display and the outing. I'm still working to communicate my needs to her, though she says she doesn't want to involve a bull.
I don't want to push her, though I want to continue our conversations and ideas for what else we can do to get some of what I desire. My question or request to you is, will you please incorporate material in your podcast or on your blog that would help couples with our kind of a dynamic to further progress with the mental aspects of tease and denial and all things hot wife and cuckold. I realize that she may never take the steps to make it a reality, but I am hopeful. I love her deeply. And at the same time, my cravings for this lifestyle have deepened. It's constantly on my mind.
Thanks, and I love your show. What a great story. I just love that. That part of where he's talking about the fact that he ate her out after she'd been with a guy, and he didn't realize it until much later, although he did actually suspect it, but I loved it. I think that was probably like really special. I had such a big smile on my face when he was talking about that part. Anyway, to answer your question, yes, absolutely. I will be talking about that in more detail in future episodes. So thank you so much for submitting your story. That was great. Hi, Venus. How are you doing?
My name is Frank and I'm a Patreon supporter. I thank you so much for the podcast. I truly appreciate it. I just wanted to tell you of a couple that I know of. this goes back to cucks are not weak um we are strong we are incredible people so this couple i know of they're really sweet um she is actually don't remember what she does for a living he is previous military so let me describe him real quick he is i think six two He 6'2", or 6'3", 200-some-odd pounds. He served in the Special Forces of the military. He is the definition of a badass. Big, huge, muscly guy, big old fuzzy beard.
He's been in Afghanistan for a number of times, a couple of tours overseas. He has a dozen confirmed kills, two of which were hand-to-hand combat. The definition of a badass. And he's a cuckold.
He's the sweetest thing to watch the two of them, he and his wife it's just incredibly beautiful it is incredibly loving caring um and he's hung he's not a small man by any strategy imagination um he's he's packing some pipe but it's his thing uh to watch his wife with another man and a couple of them at that and she loves it she's empowered by it um she always was had a fear that he would stray um and he never really didn't he didn't understand this part of him he just he just couldn't get it he just didn't uh and so he never spoke about it really how could you and you're a big badass guy um and one day he confessed it to his wife and they talked about it for quite some time i think they said about a year or so almost uh two years actually and they acted upon it um and he he's fantastic he fluffs he eats the cream pie he devours the cream pie he loves it in his beer he loves really it's it's an incredible relationship so no cucks are not uh weak we're not inferior we're certainly not betas by any stretch of the imagination.
I have four businesses. I have a bunch of homes. Blah. Who gives a rat's ass? You can't be a beta and achieve this level of life. but i'd be lying my ass off if i said I didn't truly, thoroughly get off on my girls being with other men and just ravaged, truly ravaged by them. Anyway, again, I appreciate the podcast. I think it's pretty fantastic. Have a great one. Interracial, black and white, the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love. Now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride. Don't sacrifice quality and comfort any longer.
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Cucks are not weak they certainly are not they're incredibly emotionally and mentally strong and so i hope that more and more people begin to understand that thank you so much for that story i think that really goes to show and also ties in with today's episode because it, uh, it mentions that this guy who is like so alpha in so many ways, um, but who just like really gets off on cuckolding is also into cream pie cleanup. And so I just wanted for people to be able to hear that and know that it doesn't necessarily make you less of a man. It doesn't make you weak. It doesn't make you inferior.
It's just hot as fuck. Hello, Venus. My name is Bobby. I've been a cuck wannabe for many years. I love almost aspects of the cuckold lifestyle. What intrigues me most is the cleanup duties. I've scoured the internet looking for videos, stories that deal with cuckolding. I don't care for the made-up porn that's out there. I search for videos from real people that are into the lifestyle. I guess that's why I love your podcast so much. I know it's real. I find it so exciting when it comes down to cleanup. I know what mine tastes like, and I don't mind it at all.
But here I am dreaming of going down on a woman I love while she's all messy with another man's cum. I just don't understand why this turns me on so much. The mere thought of it drives me crazy. So my question to you is, what do you think goes through a cuck's mind when he's about to go down on his wife after she's been with a date of one of her with one of her bulls do you or your cuck have any certain pattern you go through as you prepare for him to clean you up do you like to call him to the bedroom lie down and just spread your legs and let him go it?
Or something like the bull if you cuddle, you tell him of your date, and slowly get into it? There are so many different scenarios that you go through as you get your cuck into the cleanup ritual. What are the two of you thinking as he licks you up and devours the juices of you and your bull's lovemaking. Thanks, Bobbi. Thank you, Bobbi, for submitting that voice clip. This just ties in nicely with today's episode all about cream pie cleanup, but also a little bit about my experiences as well. So how about let's just begin. Cleanup, definitely my favorite part of cuckolding relationships.
And before I get into actually defining what it is, I'm just going to talk a little bit about my background and my story when it comes to learning about cleanup. Um, about, I don't know, five, six years ago when I first met this guy who, um, we were dating and he introduced cuckolding. I was like, holy shit, this is fucking amazing. But at the time, I hadn't learned about it online. I hadn't seen any porn with it. I literally did not know what cuckolding was, but I knew I loved it as soon as he explained it to me. But the whole cleanup thing was not something that was brought up.
It was not something that we talked about and like fantasies and stuff like that. I do remember him saying like at one point something like, oh, I'm just not really into that or whatever. And I just was like, I don't really even know what it is. So that was about the extent of that. So yeah, I didn't really, I didn't really know what it was until several months later after that relationship ended. And I started looking online and I was like, holy shit, like there's a lot of cuckolding stuff out there. That's when I, I first came across it.
And I don't remember exactly where I came across it, but, and I don't remember having like a strong reaction to it or anything like that. I wasn't like, oh, that's gross or shit that turns me on. I just remember being like, oh, I don't, it was one out of many things that I came across within this lifestyle where I was like, all right, I don't know anything about that. I do not understand it. And just, and I just kept like, you know, moving on to the next thing. And so I learned about it, but it wasn't something that I was like completely like, oh, fuck, like that's incredible.
I just looked at it as something like, okay, I don't really, this is obviously something that I don't know anything about. And it wasn't until like maybe like a couple of years later that I started to really learn about it and not just to learn about it, but to really appreciate the complexities of it and understand like how fucking mind blowing that kind of experience could be. And I'm going to get into that because like, wow, it's incredible. I will say that to anybody who is thinking about it, curious about it, holy shit, like this is the apex of the cuckolding moment, honestly.
So let me get into actually defining what it is. So for those of you who are new to cuckolding, like I was, or just curious about it or whatever. So clean up is defined as like when a husband or boyfriend performs oral sex on his wife or girlfriend after she has had sex with another man. And it usually involves like a freshly fucked, cum-filled pussy. So that's why it's called cleaning up because he's literally just like cleaning up after that hot, messy sex that she just had.
Now, for those of you who can maybe get your head around cuckolding, i bet you can't get your head around cuckolding I bet you can't get your head around this most people are like you know they can they can sort of understand okay the cuckolding the non monogamy thing okay yeah I can get that but this part they're like what the fuck why would he want to do this and why would she want him do this? Those are the main questions that everybody tries to figure out. So I'm going to try to answer those as best I can based on my experiences. And for me, I think it comes down to two things.
So I feel like why he would want to do something like that is because it's his way of showing her that he accepts her having just fucked another guy. Like, he's like, okay, baby, like, I love you for what you just did. It's, he loves her, he wants to give her pleasure, but also wants her to have even more pleasure. So it's his way of having that kind of, like, sexual intimacy in that moment, but it's so much more than that because he's also giving his permission and his gratitude for her having just met her own sexual needs in an entirely different way with an entirely different person.
So that is like a gift in itself. And so I feel like that is part of why it makes it such an incredibly special moment.
The other reason is within cuckolding relationships, there's this kind of like tease and denial or teasing humiliation, loving humiliation kind of thing going on right and um this is because he loves it that way like he gets off on that he totally gets turned on by that kind of like twinge of cuck angst that he feels knowing that she just fucked another guy and she's just kind of like literally rubbing his face in it literally so it's used as a form of like loving humiliation even if no words are exchanged in that moment the fact that she's just fucked another guy and the fact that his face is now between her thighs, like cleaning that up, the taboo nature of that, the fact that, you know, society believes that she should not be fucking some other guy, that she should be fucking her boyfriend or husband only.
And him in that moment kind of knowing that is a little bit of humiliation. Like I said, even if no words are exchanged, there's this kind of unfairness to it all or seemingly unfairness to it all. So, and within femdom, this kind of humiliation can be like really overt. Like she's just, you know, really going at it, making him feel like humiliated for the fact that, um, she just fucked somebody else. But basically she loves the fact that it turns him on so much. And that's the key to this whole kind of relationship.
Humiliation is not just like being mean or being unfair or being cruel or being demeaning. Sure, it can mean that sort of thing within like, I don't know, BDSM or I don't know, whatever the fuck kind of relationship. But I feel like within cuckolding relationships where there is some aspect of humiliation involved is literally just like the two of you getting off of each other. Like it's just so, it turns you on both of you. And so if I'm going to dish out a little bit of humiliation, I'm going to do it because I love seeing his reaction.
I love seeing him so turned on yet so kind of twisted in that cuck angsty feeling in that moment, like that's so special within a cuckolding relationship and so unique. Like, I just don't feel like you can find that somewhere else. And so that's the key is that even though this act of cleanup is or can be humiliating, I feel like for the woman involved, like she's going to love it. She's going to love that reaction that he has. She's just going to get off on it. And the two of them just feeding off of each other. It's just awesome.
So those are the couple of reasons why a guy would want to do this for his girlfriend or wife and why a wife or girlfriend would want him to do it for her. And so I hope that makes a little bit of sense, like answer that question a little bit. But as far as like explaining what it's actually like, this is going to be my favorite part of this podcast. Because for me, I'm going to go into a little bit of a story about an experience that I've had.
And this is from what it was like actually for me, because I can't say what it's like for everyone else, but I can at least explain what it was like for me. All right, here we go. Now I'm going to tell you about a story about my experience with cleanup. And I should warn all the guys out there, maybe some of the women, that this story is hot as fuck. So if you're walking down a public street, busy street, if you're at work, you might want to save this part for later when you have a little bit more privacy. Okay, here it goes. In my own words, this is all about cleanup.
All week, my anticipation grows. I know I'm going to be seeing Jake on the weekend and it's been a while. So I'm starving for his big black dick to stretch me out. I can't wait. So excited. My boyfriend, who I love dearly, has noticed me getting excited. I've been getting my nails done, getting my hair done, getting all my waxing done, trying to pick out some nice outfit for me to wear, the usual. And I've noticed that my boyfriend has been extra helpful around the house. Like his energy has changed. He's more attentive and he's like buzzing with excitement.
He's in that kind of cuck angst state of mind. So it's that beautiful mix of emotions of like excitement, nervousness. He literally has that cuck look in his eyes. And I love that look. I can look in his eyes and they're just like sparkling with that kind of excitement that anticipation that kind of nervousness that comes along with being a cuck and looking forward to see the woman you love being taken by this big black guy oh that look in his eyes I can't get enough Honestly, I can't. It turns me on so much to see him like this. So Saturday night arrives.
Finally, Jake comes over, walks through the door and he's looking hot as fuck as usual. Like he's hot as fuck. My boyfriend then greets him with his favorite drink, of course. And we all sit down and talk on the couch and we're just, you know, casually chatting and we're all friends. And so we're just catching up and seeing how everyone's doing. And then at some point, Jake stands up. He grabs my hand, pulls me towards him, and presses me against him and grabs my ass. And at that moment, I kiss him, and I can feel his big dick just bulging through his pants.
And I mean, like his dick is really, really big. And I just in that moment can't even control myself anymore. And he's such a good kisser. And in that moment, kind of like the room spins a little bit. And during all of this, my boyfriend is sitting quietly on the couch, just in awe. In this moment, I just, I can't handle it any longer. My pussy is getting wet. I just need to go to the bedroom. So we walk hand in hand down the hallway to the bedroom and my boyfriend stays in the living room and he hears clothing drop to the floor.
Then he hears me gasp and he knows in that moment that I'm in that incredible emotional, physical space where that huge black dick slides into my wet pussy, stretching. And fuck, I love that feeling. That feeling of being stretched out as he slides his big dick inside me and that feeling of him bottoming out on my cervix a lot of women can't handle that feeling but for me I'm addicted to it it is so amazing this is why I'm a total size queen oh god that moment is so good when I gasp when he's putting his big black dick Thank you.
oh god that moment is so good when i gasp when he's putting his big black dick in my wet wet pussy in that moment i like tilt my head back close my eyes my eyes roll back and like it literally takes my breath away. That moment is what I live for. It's literally what I dream of. It's everything to me, everything. When it comes to like, thinking about my pussy, being satisfied, that moment is it.
okay once the bed sheets are soaked and we're both completely spent jake gets up and goes to have a shower my boyfriend walks quietly down the hallway and stands in the bedroom doorway he's looking at me his eyes are sparkling with that cocktail of cuck emotions. I smile at him. Come, sweetheart. And I lay back on the bed and open my legs. He walks forward, gently grips my thighs with his hands, and kisses each of them softly. He looks up at me, eyes wide and heart open. I love you, I whisper to him.
And he looks at me with the most intense love and then buries his face in my freshly fucked pussy. I wrap my soft thighs around his neck and gently push his head even deeper. Deep love echoes back and forth between us, getting louder and louder by the minute. It is so incredibly intense in that moment. Words just can't even begin to describe how intense that moment is. You know that feeling when you're so happy that you feel like you're on the brink of tears? That feeling of joy that's like spilling over into uncontrolled tears in that moment? That's what it's actually like.
That is what cleanup is like within a loving cuckold relationship. For me, first my pussy gets what it wants. Then my heart gets what it wants. This is what cuckolding love is. This is what it's all about. And this is why cleanup is the pinnacle of the cuckolding experience. It is everything. All right, now that we all need a nice cold shower, that is my story. That is exactly what it's like for me. And I hope that I was able to articulate how special that moment actually is between two people because it's just so hard to get the right words to make you understand how beautiful it is.
All right, that's going to be it for today for my story about cleanup. I hope you enjoyed this podcast episode. I would really love to hear from all the women and the men out there who have done cleanup or participated in cleanup and who would like to share a little bit about what that was like for them. And the way that you can do that is go to venuscuckoldress.com, click on the tab that says, ask Venus, the Venus hotline. You'll have up to five minutes to record something to share and make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com to subscribe to the podcast.
There's a page there that says subscribe, and you can just sign up and then you'll get a notification for any new episodes. And for those of you who would like to support the podcast on Patreon, thank you so much. I would really appreciate it. It helps me to bring more content to you. You can sign up on the Venus Cuckoldris podcast and my Patreon subscribers do get access to certain perks. There's pillow talks, live video casts that I do. And also, of course, the elusive Venus Vault with all of my personal and private pictures and videos that are just fun.
Thank you so much for joining me today. You can find me on Twitter at Venus Cuckoldris. You can no longer find me on Instagram. Those assholes have banned me for the third time, so I'm not going to sign up for the fourth time. Fuck them. Anyways, thanks for listening and we'll see you next time. Fuck them. Anyways, thanks for listening. And we'll see you next time.
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