Mr. Mocha, cohost of the Ofacez Podcast, joins the show to share his journey into the lifestyle as a black bull and swinger with his wife. He shares his hilarious story of how he was thrown into his first cuckolding dynamic scenario with his boss and his boss s wife and how that experience shaped his curiosity and eventually his love for being a black bull in the lifestyle. He also opens up about how he met his wife and ecouraged her to be sexually free and uninhibited and how that led to them hosting parties and becoming a host couple for Splash Mocha events. 🔗Links:The Ofacez Podcast - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacezSplash Mocha Events - https://splashmocha.com/sessions/newJoin Venus on Bluesky - https://bsky.app/profile/cuckoldressv.bsky.socialGet the private podcast bonus episodes - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/Queens-quarter❤️Venus Connections❤️ - Matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships and female-led relationships. Learn more at https://www.venusconnections.com/ Give her what she wants 💦 🍆 the Thrum - triple the pleasure, feel the difference 🤤 BUY NOWDestination Links for Venus - https://lnk.bio/VenusPodcast
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So join VenusConnections.com. That's VenusConnections.com. And find the relationship of your dreams. Here's what's coming up on the show. And she says, come here. So, I mean, she was happy to talk about how small he was. I mean, he was probably a good three inches. So she wasn't used to taking any real dick. So I'm fucking her, but I'm not going wild. Because, you know, she tells him to come here. So she says, come here. He obeys, walks over, take your pants off, still hasn't clicked.
I'm fucking her. He's standing in front of her, takes his pants down. So he's got him down, like, to his knees. So she grabs his dick and it doesn't even make it to her mouth before he fucking comes all over the place. Shit. She snaps.
This is why you have such a miserable and i'm her and i'm like oh my god he's gonna beat her up like while i'm her and he starts oh honey i'm so sorry and he's going through this i apologize and i know i'm miserable no one has given me any clue at what kind of game we're playing here i'm literally inside of this woman while she's saying this. And like, I start going down. Like I start, dick start getting a little soft. I'm like, what the fuck is going on here?
I'm going to have to protect this lady with my dick out. This is about to get really weird. This is the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast. A place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. let's go welcome to the show. I'm your host Venus. Thanks for joining me today. I have the very sexy Mr. Mocha on the show today of the Oh Faces podcast. So him and his wife, they are a host couple at the Splash Mocha parties.
That's where I met met him and so he's going to be talking about how he's been a black bull in the lifestyle for many years so he's got a lot of information about what that's been like but he's going to share his story about how he was kind of like thrown into the cuckolding thing like the story is so crazy it's hilarious but also he's going to talk about what his journey's been like and his incredible marriage to the most incredible amazing wife Mrs.
Mocha so he's going to talk all about that and we're going to be talking about the hotel takeover parties that are interracial that is a splash mocha event so we're going to talk about what that looks like what that feels like and some tips for couples for guys and the ever increasing popularity of interracial in the lifestyle so it's going to be an awesome conversation but first I have a couple of announcements so the first one is have joined Blue Sky Social.
I'm going to eventually fade out my Twitter because I fucking hate Twitter, X, whatever you want to call it. And Blue Sky Social seems pretty fucking awesome. I've been on it now for like a week and I like it. I just like Twitter minus all the garbage. And yes, it does allow porn. So this is all very important to you guys that are listening. You're like, but Twitter's where the cuck porn is. Yeah, fucking know about that. Okay. I get it.
But now there's somewhere else that will keep you very happy. I promise. So my handle on there is at cuckoldressV, same handle as Twitter. And I really want you to come and join me there. If you follow me, I'll follow you back. So that's at CuckoldressV and it's called Blue Sky Social. It's free and just sign up just like you did with Twitter. And it's a lot of fun. So I'll put the link in the show notes for today so you can find it there. All right.
Last but not least, I did a bonus episode recently with the amazing, always wonderful, always great to talk to Crystal Welch. And we tackled a listener question, which was all about this guy who feels like he is what he calls addicted or hooked on interracial porn. And he really, really wants his wife to, you know, cock him with black guys, but like, she is not into black guys, she just won't do it.
And so he's really stuck because he feels like he absolutely has to have that and in order to be happy and fulfilled in his life. but he's really stuck because he feels like he absolutely has to have that in order to be happy and fulfilled in his life, but he doesn't know what to do. So this is a question I get asked often, or I've heard of often, where you kind of have this incompatibility, and what do you do?
So Crystal and I, we tackled this question, and our answers might not be what you would think. So it might be a bit surprising for you. I don't know. But for those of you who support the podcast by becoming a fan tier or of any of the tiers in the fan hub at venuscuckoldress.com, you get access to the private podcast and all the, I don't know, there's like over 100, I think, bonus episodes on there on the private podcast. So thank you for supporting the show.
You get access to that bonus episode. If you subscribe to Apple podcast subscriptions, you got access to that episode as well. And so if you are thinking about supporting the show, now is the time to do it because it's a great bonus episode that we just put out. Okay, that's it for announcements. Now let's jump into today's show with Mr. Mocha. Here we go. Joining me on the show, I have a special guest, Mr.
Mo mocha i'm so excited to have you here uh he is the co-host with his wife uh of the oh faces podcast and him and his wife are a host couple for these splash mocha events may have heard me talk about that on the show before so welcome mr mo. Mocha to the show. Say hello to all the listeners. Hello everyone. And Venus, thank you for having me on. I'm excited to be here. Always any excuse I have to see your face, I'm good. Okay.
And so for all of you listening right now, you need to be watching the video on YouTube because this guy is sexy as fuck you're making my cheeks turn red he's so hot like damn i'm just like it's gonna be really difficult to do this interview i'm not gonna lie because this is a mutual thing like i'm just staring at i'm just looking at you so i'm i'm good here make sure you give me good questions or I'll be distracted by you, Venus. I'm going to try my best, but I'm already flustered.
So let's just jump right in. Okay, Lucky Mrs. Mocha, you guys are married. And how long have you been in this lifestyle for? How did it all start out for you? So I've been in the lifestyle since I was 23. I was introduced to lifestyle before Mrs. Mocha and I got together. So I was actually introduced by a coworker and I had no idea what it was.
I mean, I'd worked with them for quite a while and we were all out having drinks after work and we'd done this a million times and we're all drunk and he comes up and tells me his wife likes me. And I'm like, oh, that's nice. I like her too. He's like, no, no, she likes you. And I'm like, thanks. I like her too. So he grabbed me by the shoulders and he goes, Hey, she likes you. So automatically I'm thinking like, oh, my God, this guy thinks I've been flirting with his wife or something.
So I'm like, dude, I've never done anything inappropriate. I've never tried to, he's like, no. Calm down. Calm down. I'm okay with it. I'm okay with it. And then I'm like, you're okay with it. He's like, yeah, we're, we're good with that. And I'm like, Hey bro, I don't, I don't fuck dudes.
He's like, no, what i'm saying that's not what i'm saying i'm like well what are you saying he's like listen man we're we're swingers and you know she likes you so if you want and so my heart's pounding out of my chest because you know i'm a i'm a guy and like it's not every day that some like your fantasy just walks up and literally taps you on the shoulder. So I'm still like, not sure if it's real. So I'm like, okay, all right. Yeah.
So we go, we go back, we go back, we wind up going to my place cause they've got cats and I'm allergic to cats. So we go back to my place and I'm like afraid, I'm nervous in my own place. And they're just like, she strips her clothes off. And he's like, and I'm like, in my mind, I'm like, what am I supposed to do? Like, I'm freaking out inside, but I'm trying to stay nice and calm and cool. Like, yeah, okay.
So, like, he gets in the bed and he starts, you know, playing with her breasts and everything. And she's looking at me and they're looking at me. And she's naked and he's naked. And I'm like, I've never been in this situation before. So I get in there and I'm, I'm having a like massive failure. My brain wants in my dicks out the lunch. So she's like, like, I don't know. Cause I'm still saying to myself, okay, is this guy going to try to fonder my balls?
You know, like, is he going to get, I don't know. I'm 20, I'm 23. So she makes me comfortable, you know, and then I realized, you know, we're both focused on the same thing here. And then everything starts to work. All systems are go. And then we have a great time. We have a great time. And then after that, afterwards, I get like a full explanation of this is what this is. And this is how it works. Thank you. we have a great time. We have a great time.
And then after that, afterwards, I get like a full explanation of this is what this is. And this is how it works. And I'm like, how does a guy sign up for this program? And they took me to parties and introduced me to people. And they told me how to act and how not to act. And that was how I started. That was how I got into it.
Wow that must have been pretty mild mind-blowing I can totally understand your reaction at first when you were like oh my god oh my god what she's interested in me like oh shit like like I would probably if I was in your shoes I'd probably be pretty terrified like you don't know what some like jealousy and some guys like that can be scary yeah and I'm a flirty person i'm naturally very flirty so yeah yeah i i i don't i didn't flirt as much with venus because venus is so so hot and she always has a crowd of admirers men and women around her so you know i had to to tone it down you know with Venus but I'm gonna keep trying to flirt with Venus one of these days but uh yeah so so my wife you know if you fast forward many years when I met her by the time I met her by the time I met her I went from being just like a, I started off as like a, just a single guy, learned the ropes, played with hot wife couples, got introduced to cuckolding without being told that that was the introduction.
So I just kind of got, you know, drop kicked into that. A guy I did security for for a long time. I did security for a guy, knew him, knew his wife. And I mean, I'd done security for maybe like a year, personal security for this guy. I'd carry this guy into his house. You know, literally I've driven him around. His wife would, he, I always thought he just treated his wife terrible. He talked to her just terribly. He just talked to her like shit. He was so condescending and rude.
So I just kind of felt bad for her because he was like a super nice guy with everybody but his wife. He comes to me one day and goes, hey, listen, my wife likes you. She thinks you're a good looking guy. You know, and, you know, do you feel? How would you feel about coming to a hotel with me, her and another girl and, and doing something? And I'm like, I'm saying myself, I wonder if she's aware of this. So I'm like, is she cool with that? He's like, nah, she's fine with it.
I'm like, cause I didn't want to go into a situation where I feel like, like he's making her do something like, ah, it's not my thing. So we go back and forth. He's like, dude, just, if you're uncomfortable, just leave. And you're like, your security, like who's going to keep you in here? I'm like, oh, okay. So fast forward, go out, go to the room. We actually start off. We start off with me, his wife and another girl. And he's watching me and his wife play with another girl.
I don't play with his wife. I only play with the girl, and the girl plays with his wife. So she leaves, and I think I'm done. And he's like, hey, you know, you can go ahead. And I'm like looking at her because she's had a great time with the girl, but she's super submissive, doesn't say anything. And then me and him are talking, and I'm like, yeah, but I'm not sure she's going to be comfortable with me touching her. He's like, no, go ahead. And so we're like standing over.
And so finally I go back to the bed and I'm like, kind of, you know, reluctantly, you know, are you good with this? And so she tells him, go sit down. Here's the thing. But at this point, it hasn't processed into my mind that this is the first command I've ever heard her give him. First one. And she says, just go sit down. So he goes and sit in a chair in a corner. And, you know, she's kind of touching me. And, you know, I'm standing at the edge of the bed and she's just like touching my body.
This is back when I was young with muscles. So, you know, it was all hard then. So she's like touching everything and, and she's looking at me, but she like kind of looks at him and I'm looking at her and she's kind of a little predatory, but it's still not clicking in yet. It still hasn't because I'm really saying, man, I hope this lady's not doing this against her will. I hope I'm not taking a part in some weird shit. I'm still in my head.
I mean, I'm, you know, I'm not even fully hard because I'm kind of like, man, I hope she's good. So she puts her mouth on it and I realized, oh, she's good. She is comfortable. She is really comfortable. Like, oh yeah. So I, I kind of forget it, but I mean, now he's kind of gone and she, you know, she's working it. So I get on the bed, get behind her and she says, come here. So, I mean, she was happy to talk about how small he was. I mean, he was probably a good three inches.
So she wasn't used to taking any, any real dick. So I'm fucking her, but I'm not going wild because, you know, she tells him to come here. So she says, come here. Still hasn't fought. He obeys Walks over. Take your pants off. Still hasn't clicked. I'm fucking her. He's standing in front of her. Takes his pants down. So he's got him down, like, to his knees. So she grabs his dick, and it doesn't even make it to her mouth before he fucking comes all over the place. Shit.
She snaps you have such a miserable like she goes and i'm fucking her and i'm like oh my god he's gonna beat her up like while i'm fucking her and he starts oh honey i'm so sorry and he's going through this i apologize and i know i'm miserable no one has given me any clue at what kind of game we're playing here. I'm literally inside of this woman while she's saying this. And like, I start going down. Like I start, dick start getting a little soft. I'm like, what the fuck is going on here?
I'm going to have to protect this lady with my dick out. This is about to get really weird. So I like looking at him. She's like, go fucking sit down. This is what a real. So now she's saying this is what a real man is. So now I'm catching on like, OK, we're clearly we're good. He's like doing a penguin walk back with his pants around his ankles, you know, over to the chair in the corner. I know I'm talking about how miserable his cock is.
And then remember, I have never even read about cuckolding at this point. So the next thought that hits my mind is, wait, I hope she don't fucking think she's going to talk to me like that. And so I start punishing her. Like, I mean, I am fucking her into oblivion and like, she's like slapping the bed and she's like, like yelling at him, this is how it's supposed to be. This is how a man takes it. And I'm like, that was my introduction into it. So we, I mean, it wound up being fucking amazing.
Like it just wound up being crazy. And like we did that. And at the end of the night, you know, I get dressed. My head is like fucked up. Like I didn't even get warmed up. It was like no lube.
You didn't tell me that i may be stepping into some super weird shit so i get we we walk out he walks me out and he's like hey just make sure you don't tell anybody about this i'm like dude you don't have to worry about me telling anybody about this shit i don't even know how i feel about this shit like This whole time i've been feeling bad for this woman this whole time i've been feeling terrible for this sweet little woman and like she literally stayed they stayed in scene until we left like she was and that that's when i realized behind closed doors they had this weird thing and it was and then every time i see them after that like I I would get hard instantly and she would be so submissive and and then like after that like if I bring him home you know after a night doing security for him take him up take him and put him in a room and she like like she's like you know I want you to stay here I want you to fuck me next to him and when he wakes up i want him to know what you did to me and i'm like this is some wild shit and that was my introduction to cuckolding like it made me do research like it made me really do research because i'm like if there are more people out here like this half of me wants to meet them all and the other half of me wants to run away.
I didn't know how I felt about it, but you know, after that, then you, then I started understanding and identifying and, and realizing the difference. So I didn't even get like a soft introduction in the cuckolding. So after that, I'm like, let's go. So that was those two aspects. So once I finally met my wife, I had been in the lifestyle and for so long. So I just had this mentality, like any woman who I meet, I'm going to tell her right away, this is my lifestyle.
So I didn't, any, any woman who I was with or playing with or interacting with, I let them know what my lifestyle was. And if they weren't okay with it, like we can be friends. And I'd always say, I'm cool with being friends if you're not comfortable with the way I am, but I can't be, it's either I'm gonna be this way or be a cheater. Yeah. And I don't want to be a cheater. So, and Mrs. Mocha was happy to be in the lifestyle. Transcription by CastingWords Interracial. Black and white.
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You're so lucky because a lot of guys just can't find, or it's very difficult to find a woman who's going to sign up for that kind of, that kind of thing. And amazing that, and so great that you were able to say, Hey, look, this is what I'm into. And, you know, I appreciate if you're, if you're not into it, that's cool.
We can we can be friends but like there's so many guys who just wouldn't have the guts i guess to bring that up and say that and and it's amazing that this is such a big part it's become such a big part of who you are that you need that aspect in a relationship to be able to feel fulfilled in your life like that that's pretty cool pretty cool. And then your wife signed up for it. She was like, yeah, fuck yeah. So how does she feel about that?
I know you can't speak for her, but like, how do you think she feels? I mean, we've talked about it a thousand times. So I was just very direct about it. You know, I think most guys are afraid. Most guys start off as liars. Yeah. And that's what the problem is. Most guys think that they can come into the relationship and lie, and then eventually say, oh, by the way, I was in the lifestyle. Right. So you've already started off with deception. You know, the fear of losing that person.
I get that you like this person. You don't want to lose that person. But if most guys have this mentality that, you know, some I'll get with her and then I'll cheat because, you know, you know, guy code one on one. Cheating is not I don't cheat on you for me. I cheat on you for you. I cheat on you so that I don't hurt your feelings because most guys are fine with that. I didn't feel that way. It's like I don't want to have to fucking lie.
And then also because I was so promiscuous before my wife, I didn't feel like we could be a good team if she didn't have access to the amount of excess that I had before her. Because then she couldn't understand me. We couldn't be compatible. So I needed to open the door for her. Because you know, you meet somebody and you can see that animal back there. And you can see that they're holding back. And I just remove all of that. Okay. I don't want you to have to hold back.
And as a leader and as a dominant male, I believe that if you're going to bring a woman into this, you have to leave from the front. So let me find out what your fantasies are. Let me find out what you want. I've done it all. So we're going to start, I'm going to prove to you that I can stomach you doing the things that I want to do. Okay. I want you to see that when you play with some guy, you're going to get rewarded for enjoying yourself because society has told you that sex is bad.
So, I mean, and then of course, Throughout the process, there was there was a lot of you have to encourage you have to make sure she knows reinforce a lot there was a lot of positive reinforcement because it's not just even if you're a guy who's completely comfortable with your woman doing it she's got the demons within herself you know she's got all these years of the girls in school and her parents and society saying that oh if you fuck if you get tag teamed by three guys you have to explain yourself there has to be some sort of explanation oh you have to be drunk you know you don't have to be drunk and my wife knows all you have to do is say daddy this is what i want you can fucking have it so call you daddy of course she calls me that of course you know she started calling me daddy i've never said i've never in my life said call me daddy she started calling me daddy but you know that's hot um okay so and then you guys started like throwing lifestyle parties and stuff like that together is that what you started to do yes so we actually started off we started off hosting parties for sdc so we would go to parties and we would just we're like it's not as you know let's, well, let me start.
Mrs. Mocha is an animal. Okay. She goes into a place and she's not pretentious. People see her being laughing and joking and getting naked and stripping. And that's really who she is. Like that's her one. There's no fake about it. So we would go to parties and she'd go in and she'd do this and people are like, oh my God. And she was like, what? I thought we were on swingers. Are we not supposed to get naked and do this? You know?
And so because of her energy, we found that if she wasn't, if she, she always had to bring the energy. So we were like, you know, Hey, we might as well start doing parties. And someone recommended us to SDC. They talked to us and we started hosting parties. And then, of course, Mrs. Mocha, if she's the party hostess, you know, she's, if it's a meet and greet, everybody's excited.
If it's a meet and greet where it's like only swingers, oh my God, like I'd have to tell her like, hey, hey, it's still a public. We put your titties away. OK. And all of those other women who you've convinced somehow to take their titties out, please go make them put like so she's just that person. And that just led us into hosting house parties. And once we started house parties, that was just, you know, and it was just her. We started having a birthday party for every year. Yeah.
And those would be crazy. The house would have 150 people in there at a time. And finally, then a lot of the traditional lifestyle parties, she just said, you know, there's not enough people having sex. Like, she just said, there's not enough people fucking. She's like, I want to be in the place where people are having sex. And this is my wife. This isn't me. My that's, she's the sexual deviant. Like she is a bad influence on me.
So it's like, I brought her in and she's like, she's a savage, you know? And she's like, okay, how do we find people who want to come to a party? She's like, I want women around me who are uninhibited. I want women around me who will come in and not be ashamed and not, not, you know, do the pretty girl blow job, you know, and not do the, oh, I'm not going to get naked. And she started attracting that or people would come and say, how do you do this? And she's like, oh, come on, I'll show you.
Stripping people naked. And then we just started having parties where you'd have all these ladies in the party who it went from most lifestyle parties are almost male dominated. And when I say male dominated, the men are kind of controlling the flow of it. And you know, it's a male dominated party when the party can start at eight and go into four in the morning.
If you put 10 horny women in a room with a hundred guys and those women are taking what they want, the party can't last past midnight because there's guys like, oh, get it off me.
And when we learn that I am the person who I will organize it but when party time comes mrs mocha comes out her girls come out and they just take the fucking party over and it is it's magic it's magic when women are running the party it's it's crazy i can't even explain it and we've had so many people come to the parties and they're like, I don't understand this party. It's like our house is empty by 12 by midnight. And like, so but that's that's how, you know, women are taking charge.
They're not feeling bad. One of the funniest things is like there's a lady who came to one of the first parties, one of the first parties. And she said she called my wife later. She's like, you know, I only played with four guys. I didn't want to seem greedy. And my wife, she's like, I fuck 17. So she's like, you're good.
So the next time, next time, the next party we had that lady, I shit you not, her and her husband was posted up in the room and it looked like a NASascar event he was given a water coming out bringing in hot towels wet wipes and she was like rotating guys in and out and my wife was like after we're see don't you feel better and she's like yes she came to every party after that you know so yeah so we we got we were wild for a little bit there that's that's the power of women when we are sexually empowered and we sexually empower each other that's us that's the vibe i like it yeah well i'm excited to meet her at splash mocha in november um how did you guys get involved in splash mocha because when i first met you a couple what was it a couple years ago two three years ago yeah at splash mocha um like you were i think i don't wanna say part of the event but helping with the event so how did you guys get involved in that so um in 2019 we went to splash mocha we went to splash mocha 2019.
We were actually there as an SDC representative. And, you know, my wife being the constant, just everybody loves Mrs. Mocha. Okay. Everybody loves her. You know, I'm just kind of like her tag on. She's Batman and I'm Robin, you know? So, um, we just kind of, we talked to the owners of the event. We talked to Dimitri and, you know, we because we've done so many parties in Atlanta and before Splash, we there were we did a lot of promoting for other hotel events that came to Atlanta.
So we did a lot of promoting. We did a lot of promoting for the Trapeze Club when they introduced the diamond club. So we would do things back there off. And so we were constantly doing things in Atlanta. So we talked to them and they asked us, Hey, you know, would you like to be a host couple with us? You know, help, you know, join in, you know, be part of the splash mocha family. So we got into that and I mean, we have fun. We, because so I'm not really good at reading stuff.
OK, the way my life works is if there's a thing that needs to be read, my wife reads it and tells me about it. So she saw Splash Mocha and she was like, Daddy, this looks like a great place where I can go and get a whole lot of chocolate dick. And so I was like, all right, let's do it. So I just thought that I was going to go there and just be like, yeah, not really have a good time. Turns out I could have a good time. And she had a great time.
The first podcast after the first mocha, her statement was, it was like swimming in a sea of dicks that was she was very happy about that so um needless to say there is you know we will always be a part of flash mocha because my wife can swim through a sea it's like willy wonka in the chocolate factory like that that chocolate pool that that's what she's. Yeah. So that's, that's why we, we stay there. It's heaven. Yes. Okay.
So for those of you listening who are not familiar with Splash Mocha, what, how would you explain to people who have no idea what this is? How would you explain what Splash Mocha is? What is perfect, uh, the purpose and what does it look like and feel like? Okay. So this is like an interracial playground. So if you are a hot wife couple, stag vixen couple, cuckold couple, and your wife is interested in meeting black men, this is a great place to go. I think it's good for a few different reasons.
Number one, the guys are vetted and the vetting process is more of a, you make sure that the guys, even if they're experienced, new, whatever it is, they understand proper etiquette because oftentimes perceived disrespect is just a lack of experience. So the vetting process makes sure that they understand that they have to be respectful if they want to come to the event. The vetting process helps them understand what type of couples are going to be there.
Because I can say this, you know, now that I'm older and I've been in the lifestyle so long, the bulls, the males, there's a journey. We as men also have to take a journey from what society says is the norm to the experienced bull that people are looking for, for those who are looking for bulls. So you have guys who are in the beginning of that journey, always the guys who are seasoned veterans who know what they want, know how to identify what couples want.
So that's where the vetting process comes in to make sure that wherever the guy is in this journey, he's going to accept those who come. You know, so if you are a cuckold couple and the guy has no experience with cuckold couples, he's going to be vetted and he's going to learn that, okay, if you see something that you're not accustomed to, don't be weird.
If you see something you don't understand, if someone requests something of you that you're not interested in doing, just tell them what your boundaries are. For a couple, if you're a stag vixen couple and, okay, I get it, buddy. This is the first time you've been brave enough to come in and let your wife play with all of these black guys, it doesn't make you less of a person.
It's just that oftentimes you have a stag vixen couple who comes into this environment and where they live at, they may not have access to black men. So this is a great place for a husband to come bring his wife and be social. There's not a competition. It's not, you're not less of a man. It's just that if I can eat strawberry cupcakes all day and then I go to a place with a bunch of chocolate cupcakes, it's not that I don't like strawberry cupcakes. I don't have access to these.
So I'm going to enjoy these because next week I'm going to be back to the other cupcakes. That's how the husband needs to see it. Because sometimes you have a husband who will come in and he'll get halfway through the event and he started having this complex, you know, no need for complex. She still loves you. She still loves your cock, but she's got a few days to play with all of this. So let her enjoy it, you know?
And then the guys who are coming in with hot wife couples, the hot wives, that's, that's a fun group. But with those husbands, I tell those husbands, make sure you explain to guys that what you are, you can say, I'm not a cuck. If someone thinks you're a cuck, don't, don't jump off. I mean, don't go wild. Calm down. Okay. He didn't mean it.
He may not have known, not have known you know and you know in the process in the conversation you can say you know I'm not a cuck but I enjoy watching my wife play because I you know we don't we don't really have a title anymore for what we are because I can sit down and watch my wife get fucked while I'm eating popcorn and be, well, who am I kidding? I'll be stroking it, but don't judge me. And then I also play, I do everything.
So with the guys, if you bring your wife, make sure you're comfortable in your own skin and understand that if you come to an event like this, where you're giving your wife the opportunity to play with black men, she's going to have a great time because these guys even though they every guy's not going to be your cup of tea most guys are going to be very respectful you know so and don't just don't confuse respectful for being weird or you know or being nervous you know the guy walked up and stuttered he's not being creepy your wife is beautiful and he doesn't know what to say you know get a poor guy a break yeah so it's a hotel takeover party with like four but it's not just for like white couples that like black bulls this is because i when i was there i saw some um other interracial couples who were there to partake in the fun, too.
So but is it is it mostly white couples that we're looking that are you're correct? You're correct. It's not only for white couples. It's it's an interracial party, you know, but that's probably the larger percentage. I mean, any all couples can come. I mean, there is no, no, everyone is welcome completely. Oftentimes like interracial couples have access to different things, but I've met a lot of people who just don't have access to certain things in their area.
So oftentimes it seems like that, that is the group. And then let's be honest, this is still very taboo within circles. It's not taboo to us because we experienced it often, but it's still taboo to a lot of people. You know, we experienced it this weekend talking to some new friends that we met where the lady said, you know, Hey, your husband's a good looking guy, but my husband couldn't handle him, me playing with him. I will never, ever get offended by that ever.
But it's still taboo in some places. So oftentimes the people who are coming, it's more taboo for white couples.
It's less taboo for Hispanic couples, you know, less taboo for the couple so everyone is welcome by all means but you will see the majority of the couples are white couples yeah the environment makes it so that people can easily be approached you like it's not like it's not like normal life you and you walk into that hotel and you're now in a place where it's very simple to approach somebody and talk about what are you into, you know, and this is not like normal life.
This is not like even going to like a bar or a club at home near your home.
You know, this is something so different where the expectation is that you can just approach random strangers even though you don't know this person it's safe to do so in this environment and you can just you know straight up say what are you into like are you having a good time how are you feeling like you know and and the guys can be direct too which is great like when i was walking around splash mocha guys like coming up and like they were very respectful but also We'll see key next time, okay okay i'm just coming and just drop the key in your purse why even bother having keys for the rooms at splash mocha that's all i gotta say no i'm kidding um but it's just like it's fun like that's a different kind of environment so am, I am definitely on the, with the idea that this will be like a good thing for, for new couples to go and at least try it, but don't go with any expectations.
I think that's when you were talking about, don't psych yourself out. Like this is, if you go with the expectation of just, you know what, we're going to go check it out, see what it's like, maybe meet some new people, meet some friends, like no expectations, anything beyond that kind of thing. What do you think about that? Explain. So this I have to ask, what do you mean like no expectations? What does that mean? So for me, it was always, I'm not going to go and fuck anybody.
Like I'm, I'm not going to go with the expectation that I'm going to fuck anybody because I'm, I not. And so I'm going to go and I'm going to meet lots of new people and I'm Thank you. I'm not going to go with the expectation that I'm going to fuck anybody because I'm not. And so I'm going to go and I'm going to meet lots of new people. And I'm just going to see how the vibe is and have fun and go with whatever happens. Some other people are not like that.
They're like scheduling in their fuck appointments. Like it's and I'm like, I could do that, too, I guess. But if I was if I was going to a new a new space or a new venue or even if I'm not, then I enjoy going with, well, let's see what happens kind of thing. And and anything that great that happens beyond just meeting new people, it feels like a bonus to me. OK, so I was I'm a little different. OK, I feel like if I go to a restaurant, I'm going with the expectation of eating.
Now, I may not go with the expectation of eating a particular thing, but I am definitely going with the expectation of eating. And I usually tell people, if you're going to this type of environment, I think you should go with the desire and the expectation because you have a fantasy. For us, we've been in this long enough to where we know that you know that you can have an opportunity whenever you really want it. But most people, they're going to go into it and possibly miss an opportunity.
And you hear it all the time. Man, I wish I would have done this to that. I wish I would have done this because they, they're, they haven't psyched themselves up. They're going in and they had the opposite. Well, I don't have to, I spoke to a couple there and he's like, oh, well, you know, she's going to, she knows she wants this particular type of guy and he has to talk to her for this amount of time. And he has to, I'm like, dude, do you do understand?
And your wife is gorgeous, but you do realize I am not going to sit here for three hours for the possibility of playing with your wife. If I say the wrong thing by mistake, like, bro, like I'm not courting her here.
You know, later on, there's a lot of people from splash who we we've become great friends but like bro like i'm not and so that's they come into it with the expectation that we're not playing unless this guy does that and by the end of the the last day we i talked to them when they were sitting there and you could tell she was a little disappointed she was a little disappointed because she didn't play as much she felt like she could have played and you know he's like well you know maybe our expectations are a little off you think yeah you want me to pretend like i married her no i mean i want to be polite and i want to be court i want to be kind but weird about expectations.
For me, it's I go in with the expectation of playing. I don't go with the expectation of I'm fucking everything. I don't do that at all. But I know that I want to play. I know that I want to experience it. I like to immerse myself into the culture because to me, it's part of the culture.
Going there, saying that I laughed, laughed saying that I met new people saying that I played with amazing people having experiences that I can walk away with so yeah for me yes I'm definitely absolutely going in with expectations you know now I mean I'm having extra room keys for next time I see you it's not an expectation I don know it's not an expectation. I'll be hoping, you know, just telling my wife, like, hey, you can go and talk to Venus for me. That's a good word, maybe. You know.
I'm going to talk to you about that. Okay, well, Splash Market is going to be a ton of fun. And that's what I know going into it. Like, I know no matter what, it's going to be to be a ton of fun um and i think it's great that we have these opportunities to go to these kinds of parties but really there are just not very many of them i feel like uh they're i feel like the interracial the demand for interracial parties is so huge and yet there's so limited options when it comes to them.
Would you agree? Yeah, I do. Do you feel like interracial is getting more and more popular? I think it's getting more socially acceptable. It's always been very popular. Because you think about all the guys who you know in the lifestyle, who's been in the lifestyle for years and years and years, and who've been playing interracially for years and years and years before it was as socially acceptable it is now. So it's always been there. I have heard so many times.
That's why I said I never get offended when somebody goes, oh, well, we don't play with black guys. There's no reason to get offended by that. You know, that's like me saying that, you know, I don't, I'm not attracted to some, I cannot be attracted to somebody, but you know, a lot of people don't do it because they know it's not socially acceptable.
I've been to parties where I've had, I've talked to a couple, I've talked to ladies, she's flirty, she's handsy, she's touchy, but it's like, oh, we don't play black guys.
So now I think it's more okay to, it's more socially acceptable to do it, you know, but then the challenge is, you know, I constantly have a debate about how you create good spaces where, you know, you have guys who are experienced enough to provide the experience that couples want and couples who understand that if you encounter quality guys, you understand that they are quality guys and they're not a dime a dozen.
Because I think oftentimes that's where you start, where it's difficult to find good parties. There's parties all over, but there's some parties like I've been invited to, and I'm like looking at the guest list and like three of these dudes are going to that party. I would invite them to my house if they are bringing cash, you know, or, you know, so, you know, because they don't they don't offer that what I what I would call quality.
So I think the challenge with a lot of getting good interracial parties is being able to get guys, vet guys, get couples, vet couples, because I vet every couple that comes to my party. I tell them the same thing I tell guys. I have expectations for them as far as behavior, respect. If your husband gets sloppy drunk, if your wife gets sloppy drunk, you both got to go, you know? So just there's the standards. So I think that there are lots of parties, but standards is an issue.
And a lot of those parties are parties that you wouldn't even go to the outer ring of the circle, you know? So, you know, I know, I know for me, I won't like me and my wife, I'm like, I'm not taking you there, but it would be nice to see more quality parties. I agree. If there were more options available, that would be amazing. I know there's fuck all in this city in Canada that I live in. It's a fucking barren wasteland when it comes to that. But I would travel to Seattle, at least.
Anyway, we are out of time. And I can't believe that because I feel like I had so many more questions. Maybe you can come on the show again for me, please, sometime. Whatever you want me, Venus. Whenever you want me, I am here. Yay. Or you can just come to Atlanta and just do a live interview. I think you'd enjoy that more. Oh, fuck yes. That would be amazing. Oh, my God. Okay. Well, I know I will see you soon in about a month in Houston. Oh, awesome.
So, yes, I'll see you and I'll meet your beautiful wife. And I can't wait. That's going to be awesome. Where can people learn more about you and your amazing podcast and all of that? So our podcast is O Faces, O-F-A-C-E-Z. And we learned the hard way that there is a podcast that's spelled O Faces, which we didn't know that.
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