Should we video chat before meeting in person?
Yes — it is the single most useful step in lifestyle vetting. A 15-30 minute video call before any in-person meet confirms photos are real, lets all four people read each other's body language, and surfaces incompatibilities (tone, communication style, hygiene) before anyone has driven anywhere. Most experienced couples consider it standard for any new couple-with-couple meet, and many will not progress to a meet-and-greet without one first. WhatsApp, Telegram, FaceTime, and Discord are common platforms.