FoE White Elephant: Naughty or Nice Edition

Its December lets unwrap some trouble.

This month were spicing up the Meet & Greet with a White Elephant gift exchange. Think fun, flirty, playful, and something youd actually be happy to steal from somebody.
$30-ish is the sweet spot for individuals and $30-ish for couples, but if youre one of those over-the-top gift gods who likes to shock the room with a $100 surprise we love you. Keep doing that.

Sexy, silly, useful, wildjust keep it wrapped and keep it fun.

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How to Choose Your Gift

Pick your vibe:

Single Guys bring a ~$30 gift (This does not mean Single Guys can attend)

Single Ladies bring a ~$30 gift

Couples bring a ~$30 gift

This keeps things balanced and prevents someone from unwrapping a toy they literally cannot use.
Bring something fun, sexy, or interesting that you would want to steal.

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How the Game Works (FoE Style)

1. Bring a wrapped gift.
No names. No clues. No shaking it like youre previewing the horsepower inside.

2. Everyone participating gets a number.
We go in order, one at a time.

3. Player #1 picks a gift and opens it.
They show it off. We judge them lovingly.

4. Player #2 can either:

Steal the opened gift, or

Pick a wrapped one and open it.
If they steal, the person they stole from chooses a new gift.

5. Each gift can only be stolen twice.
The third owner is locked in.
(Were preventing full-scale diplomatic conflict over a high-end vibrator.)

6. You cant steal back the gift you just had.
Were not enabling toxic on-again/off-again relationships with objects.

7. After the final gift is opened, Player #1 gets a last chance to steal.
Classic redemption arc. Or tragedy. Depends on the vibe.

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Gift Inspiration

Not requiredjust vibes.

Classy sexy items

Playful adult toys

Funny-but-not-trash gag gifts

Useful accessories or couple items

Something youd be thrilled (or terrified) to unwrap in front of a crowd

Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet

LOCATION: The Bad Seed
2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217

Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink, and connect with other lifestyle-minded adults.

This isnt a club night.
No playrooms.
No pressure.
Just a relaxed, flirt-friendly night in a public bar where you can mingle, talk, laugh, and see who catches your eye.

We have a private section reserved so you can slip right in and feel at home. Order a drink, join a conversation, or hang back and feel the vibe its all easy and natural.

What to Expect:
A warm, social atmosphere with real couples and singles (no single men)
Bartenders serving great drinks and food
Light icebreakers to help start conversations
A chance to meet people face-to-face without jumping straight into a party
A perfect first step before trying our Club Parties, Hotel Takeovers, or Campouts

If you spark a connection at the Meet & Greet?
See them again the next night at our Club Party or at any of our upcoming events.
This is your chance to dip your toes in and meet the people behind the profiles.

Please RSVP so we can staff appropriately.

NO SINGLE MEN

New to the Lifestyle?

Our Meet & Greet is the safest, easiest place to start.
Ask questions. Talk to real couples. Learn the basics.
See how it feels without committing to anything.

Our admins are happy to give a quick Swinging 101 chat if youre curious, and our website has full guides and FAQs whenever you're ready to explore more.

This event is designed for you to:
dip your toes in
meet other couples
learn at your own pace
get comfortable
see if the Lifestyle fits you

If youre tired of guessing or hoping someone online is real come meet them in person.

Basic Etiquette

Short and sweet:
No means no
Always ask before touching
Dont overdrink
Respect the space
Couples arrive together and leave together
Single women are welcome
No single men