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Now that I've just about completed my first year in the LS as an older, single nerd, let me offer a slightly different viewpoint: I get the best actual outcomes from meeting people that contacted me first. There are two ways to respond to…
A lot of great answers here already. When I've seen this argued online, I put some thought into myself. There is no doubt that couples are the center of the Lifestyle, and as I single, I would never identify myself as a capital-"S" Swinger…
Thanks for posting this, so at least I know how this is working at the moment. I have to say, that while I do get some responses when reaching out, in my limited experience here so far, I actually get much better outcomes from couples who…
Asked and answered. Thanks, all!
Thanks again, that's very helpful. I think messaging is completely blocked, regardless of friend status. However (cough, cough...), it appears that friends can read your feed/wall posts. I can't test that, but it seems likely.
Thanks for the reply, Mayhem! They didn't actually message me; they sent a friend request, which I was successfully able to accept. Which is pretty interesting if they were able to do that on a free account.
I've received a friend request from a couple with good pics, profile, validations, etc. No red flags. But no message and their profile is marked as a free account. I've sent them a message just case, but I'm assuming they can't read it or…
Does anyone have a notion what size or resolution of pics renders best on SLS? I'm still working on my profile, but I've noticed some wonky behavior on the few pics I've uploaded so far. I'm guessing there is an unstated file size limit, a…
