BarRaj

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Anal

My pre-anal cleaning procedure is to use a large-ish anal douche -- it's about 10oz and goes in about 5", so more industrial than the smaller bulbs. I give myself about 2-3 good flushes and I'm good for a solid night of play. My first time…

Bi Couple Says they will play straight

Most do and I think it's very common. However, it's really less about Bi vs Straight and more about consent. As a straight man, one might implicitly be saying no male-male contact but many bi guys aren't into kissing, don't enjoy being pen…

Smooth Asses.

Waxing is my (the boy-half) method of choice and I don’t find it painful; more of a mild sting. When I first started waxing the anticipation is worse than the actually sensation, now I hardly notice it.

Pride, who goes to it?

Yuo, we both go! There's not a huge bi contingent at ours but a few bi groups we belong get a float together. I get why so many bi guys might shy away from pride; many don't feel queer enough, then there's bi-erasure and bi-phobia. Good fo…

Manscaping vs Hair

I think many of our partners prefer freshly waxed hardwood floors. Especially the undercarriage if any backdoor action is on the menu. I think I mixed enough metaphors for one day! :-D

i'm newly bi

Welcome the wonderful world of being bi! There seem to be a lot of bi guys/couples are in SoCal so you should have no problem; have you put something up on HotDate yet?

The Womanizer CLit Sucker

Oh My Yes! The Womanizer and the Lelo Sona are my "go to" toys. They're expensive but absolutely worth it. @wewoodlikesome, there's a little cup that goes over your clit and it uses a little suction and vibration.

Favorite thing to do

oooo...so many sexy posts! For me it's getting sucked while he works a toy in and out of my ass....then we switch.

Fake bi men

We've encountered this a couple of times so we usually discuss (and lead with) MM kissing. It's not to suggest all bi guys are into kissing but helps weed out the curious/exploring/unsure (to be polite) guys. Have you played much with coup…

Bi Sexual Men

Perhaps that answer is in that many commenting have had a negative experience with a bi guy. I can't say if that is truly representative of the community but if I was a single bi guy I would be wary to share that on my profile for fear of…

Hottest MMF or MMFF position you've done

@Hotcpl, @Randy and @spurr just make this thread way more exciting! *high five* We're right there with you three; there's nothing hotter than a guy getting topped by another guy..it's our favorite activity! I totally agree with @Randy, it'…

Bi Hmmmm

I think it’s purely subjective: if you consider yourself bi then you’re bi. People see my wife and I walking down the street and objectively think straight couple — in fact we’re both bi. When I dated a guy they’d objectively think [smokin…

Just how does a MFM or FMF really work?

@fishincouple, Since you mentioned a bi-curious male in your profile I figured I'd jump in. :) We've had a number of mmfs and they are very fun and never the same experience twice. I find the asymmetry makes for some creative ways to keep…

Why do bicouples block bimales on here

We don't block anyone categorically but we've been sort of surprised the number of single bi males who start a conversation with us but aren't comfortable with much more than being naked in the presence of another guy (i.e, no kissing, no…