If you have been paying for short-term memberships since 04/2007 (creation date of your profile),
In 2007 I think Lifetime sub was only $100
We do not use IM and say so in our profile.
We found it was time wasters contacting us.
We have a Google Voice # that couples can talk to us on.
That gets rid of fake couples who are really single guys.
After multiple messages we said to one "couple"
"when can the two of us talk to the two of you at the same time?"
"The couple" then blocked us

