Unappealing profiles

We talk about this often. A positive outlook, and positive communication is so much more pleasant.

Oh, and did you say “road trip”? You know, Louisville is only nine hours away...

These same people wonder why they never make any connections here.

It's actually good in that we'd rather decide they're not worth our time here before we wasted any time in person.

I have six weeks of free time and I have been looking at road trips , new friends and especially the Forums. I have seen many unappealing profiles: Many, many stressing, rather than their likes and dislikes, the errant ways of many members in not responding to messages. I found them to be haranguing in tone and almost belligerent. Rather than feeling the guilty urge to reply to appease them I will not answer because in my experience :the way you start is the way you finish. Another pet peeve is the stress of body fitness. I too like a fit man and couple but am not obsessed with six-pack abs and thunder thighs. One profile actually showed a body-fat content chart! Anyone else seen these sort of thing? Thoughts? _