preg oops

accidents are a real possibilty

No, Swallowing always works 100% for birth control....

Nope. When we started my husband had a vasectomy and I was already "fixed" from a female problem. But this does remind me of a cute situation with a couple we partied with often. They had house parties with a few friends and she was absolutely a doll and very sexual. They were a very refreshing young couple. The thing was that even on birth control, she got pregnant by her husband and they didn't want that. Her husband did not get a vasectomy. He was a very proud young Cuban man and he was confident that a vasectomy would render him weak! lol

So, at these parties, except with my husband and one other man, she exercised Cuban birth control (she fucked with her ass) even with her husband. Way too funny. And you should have seen her when my husband stuck his dick in her pussy. She was a wild woman, cumming all over the place.

I understand the birth control thing and it may be why there is some hesitation for younger people to swing or limit their play to soft swapping. We are seniors now and have never worried about it. My husband hasn't had to worry about cumming in a lover and I have never had that "Am I going to get pregnant" feeling when a man pumps me full of his sperm.

It has happened to us. Got fixed last yr. so no worries.

curious I raised my daughter to love men and sex like her mother does. I told her sex is for fun, loves is finding your best friend in a man who you enjoy living with. I told her to be nice to men and don't treat them as a wallet. Never believe anything a mans says, he will say he loves you, anything to get you naked. Don't believe just enjoy the attention.

I told my daughter that you take full responsibility for your actions, never trust a man to have birth control you must make sure that sex does not happen without birth control.

She is now almost twenty in college, her biggest problem with men is that she can not get rid of them they all want to marry her. She called a couple of years ago and asked how can I break up with a man after a few dates without hunting his feelings. I told her to tell the young man that you don't want to date just one man, I feel like my Mom. She has been living with the same man for thirty years. Worked.

Stupid women yes !?

And what about the stupid men who choose not to use a condom and assume birth control is not their responsibility ? While there may be some people , men and women both, who may not always be as responsible as they should no birth control is 100% effective. To automatically assume women are stupid is sexist and irresponsible.

More than you'd realize.

Stupid women yes.

im sure its happened plenty of times to people that have UNprotected sex. I had a vasectomy to make sure it wont happen to me when playing with others.

has anyone ever had this happen