"The reason we do not have viable 3rd parties, again, is because people are trying to pick winners."
No, it is because we have First-Past-The-Post, Winner-Take-All district voting, without any proportional representation, preferential voting or any other system that allows the #2, let alone the #3, have any representation. Let's say everyone votes their actual preference, and we get 10% Green, 10% Libertarian, 10% other miscellaneous... and 35% or so D, and 35% or so R. Nothing would change, other than 30% of the electorate wasting their vote.
In almost every other country, if you get 2% of the vote, you get 2% of the seats. The US system is rigged for inertia, and intentionally so.