New couple

Whatever you do, don't write "Taking a break" in your profile. You'll go the way of Jimmy Hoffa in no time.

Thanks to both!!!

It would probably be better to read the fora first. You get plenty of information there.

Then if you have any questions after that, fire away...

Welcome Ely.. so from our point of view hard to say what you are looking for but for "us" we have evolved over 24 years plus swinging. What we can say is take your time, its not a race.. vet all properly and what I mean is SLS is filled with fakes and picture collectors including some who the wife does not know the husband is on SLS and married guys cheating. Just last year Kathy caught 2 who claimed they were single but when we met she found out they were both married and cheating. So talk with all parties first and meet as soon as you can.. those who continue to stall on meets are usually not real.

Make it your journey, what you two want, what you enjoy and what excites you both.. for us what our profile says is what we both do. So do what makes you two comfortable.. and just remember its just sex, sort of like a sports match thats FUN . Communicate about everything and leave jealousy at the door.

You will both evolve and change over time.. and thats expected.. For us we have pushed our boundaries on things we said we would not do we now do with pleasure and say.. wow that was amazing! Dress for success always.. its also fun and exciting.. the clothes, perfume or cologne.. we make and entire night of this and it leaves a great memory.

Stop by or Im us anytime.. we can only tell you what worked for us.. and yes you will have setbacks like no shows, some guys and woman are not that good in bed the first time.. its natural and sometimes things do happen.. But when you find that great one.. wow ! Dont compare to your other half.. big difference between love and a great marriage with all the trials and tribulations and just sex for FUN!

Enjoy your journey.. we have for a very long time!

Hello everyone, me and my wife are new to this lifestyle and we would like to have any recommendations from more experienced people on everything. Thanks and be safe!