Here's a thought, if one wants to sleep with a trans woman then maybe do a little research on the subject and don't start off using terms like 'ladyboy', 'shemale', and the like for a start. While we're on the subject, trans and intersex people have absolutely nothing to do with 'sissies' and crossdressers so please keep us out your fetish community on there.
Also, I have no idea what the hell is up with that Mark person but we don't fall into that single male category, thank you very much. I know plenty of my friends who avoid the lifestyle for reasons like this and would probably be willing to engage a lot more if we were treated with a bit more respect. I'm open about the fact that I'm pre-op on my profile and it hasn't been an issue for me so far.
Long story short is that we're out here and some of us are very much into the lifestyle though we may not be as visible as some who seem to want to co-opt our experiences.

