Partys

You have 26 certs. Seems like you are doing pretty good to us.

When a couple are together it often sends a message they are looking for another couple. If she (or you both) wants to be with a guy then have her/both approach the guy and see how the conversation flows.

Well if looks inviting and not like a prude then that sends a signal or invite if you will. She looks like a hot wife so conservative is not the dress of hello there big boy. Just saying

...or while at partys, if you see an interesting single (M or F) approach them as a couple and talk to them. You're the couple "shopping" for something you two want. Sometimes guys are a bit shy and and not sure how each couple operates and need a simple, "hi, how are you" to get things rolling.

It could be the way you look or act at parties.
If you aren't as social as the wife or are looking too hard at her to see what she's doing, guys will misinterpret that and shy away.

Like Molly said, (try smiling and having relaxed body posture). I think Some men may feel intimidated by your presence if you don't let your defenses down.

Mr. Fun:

At parties do you stick right to her closely? Do you hover over her or offer a defensive posture?

You may be scaring off others to want to talk to her, and you. If you feel comfortable, at the next party, why not strike up your own conversation elsewhere and see if people approach your wife.

Alternatively, maybe she could attend a party alone and see what happens then. We sometimes don't have good party experiences. Sometimes it's us. Sometimes it's others. Experiment!

Now thats funny we agree.. but maybe its you?

Do you set the "lets play tone" or "you touch my wife I will kick your ass." . Just asking for a friend!

take care .. we get it . We too are very outgoing but see many shy guys!

It could be your body language.

When you're at parties, do you angle toward one another creating a more closed profile of togetherness or do you stand side by side, looking out and inviting others in?

You can experiment with that. You can also think about your facial expressions. If you have resting bitch face (you, not your lady), that's going to act as a Keep Away sign too.

Basically, try smiling and having relaxed body posture.

I perved your pics, I see absolutely no reason why any guy wouldn't be all over her lol.

Why at partys do guys shy away from my wife ? She’s available and fun . I asked a guy before and he told me he didn’t want any trouble lol , I think we are all at a party to have fun so relax guys