Cuckolding

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"I find play with the wife of a cuckold couple to be very exciting."

I concur. The added edge of this specific role play is very erotic. Right Lisa? ;-)

I find play with the wife of a cuckold couple to be very exciting. I spend time to get to know them, particularly the wife. I am there to help her with her dominance over him to play with her and to help her with her dominance over him. Much of the time she wants to be submissive to me to show him how she needs to be with a 'real man'.

Toungefuker, you sexy thing. Deb will come over and ravish your man for you

How about just a husband who is a huge Voyeur and loves to see his wife pleasured by well endowed men.

Hi there dfwallace......welcome to the Forum!!!!

You are absolutely correct. J

I figured there had to be! LOL TY!!

BTW, Toungefuker, apparently there is a term for a female cuckold...
cuckquean (KUK-wean) n. a female cuckold....who knew? LOL!

Interestingly, I am getting a number of e-mails and IMs from men on this site that want to be cuckolded! Most of them seem to be married guys that have a fantasy of their wife dating someone else, but are either reluctant to approach their wives on the subject or they have approached their wifes and been turned down.

As someone that is in a cuckold relationship, I agree with "Lost", lots of men enjoy watching their wifes getting fucked and vice versa. That is not cuckolding in my book. I am sure there are many forms and degrees of cuckolding, but I think that it requires at a minimum that the wife is fucking someone else "instead of" her hubby, boyfriend, etc. To take things a step further, I think roleplay for cuckolding usually in cludes...I am fucking him instead of you because he is a better fuck....has a bigger cock...etc. I currently cuckold my hubby because he is very small endowed and the guys I like to fuck are much better in bed than he was. He is still allowedto service me orally, and he does that very well! LOL! As part of our roleplay, he is not allowed to have orgasms. Ths intensifies his excitement when he is allowed to watch or listen to me playing. While, I think that the thrill some men get from watching their wife fuck someone else is certianly similar to the thrill a cuckold hubby experiences, I still think there is a pretty big step between that and wanting to be a cuckokd. My hubby is very happy with his role. I bet that most husbands would react differently if their wives told them they where only going to fuck other men from now on!LOL!

I think I would like to explore the oppisite of cuckolding...I would love my husband to have sex with other women in front of me, verbally degrading me all the while..telling me who and when he is going to fuck...of course at some point I would HAVE to have sex with him because it would turn me on soooooo much! Is there a name for this? LOL

lik, I agree with Gina. We are good friends with a c couple. He does no play at all. Honestly he is usually out back chilling with friends while she is inside playing and doing her thing. He doesn't set it up, he is not there to watch and does not participate sexually at all. To me that is a cuckold relationship. Now all men enjoy watching from time to time. I know with Jay (and myself actually) he will lie there sometimes when I am really enjoying myself in play and watch. Its a beautiful thing to us to watch your partner really having fun. Thats not cuckolding because he is still an active participant. MFMs are not cuckolding either of course. Shell

Not in the true sense of the word, as you are the one arranging and in control. If your wife insisted that you only watch and not participate, or had you doing that, or you placing yourself in that position, then yes, I would agree that that is cuckolding. Just as there are many definitions of swinging, many of true bondage, many of the sub/Dom experience, I would imagine that cuckholding also gives way to interpretation.

Have fun,
G and D
PS It's not for me, but it's a hot concept for those who enjoy it.

I am a man that loves to see my wife in action. Whether it be with men or women. It is a big turn on for me to see her pleasing or being pleased. I am the one that pushes these hook ups with others because she could take it or leave it. Almost every time I join in but there are times when I like to just sit back and watch or video tape. We do hook up with men and women and couples where I am participating with people other than my wife. My question is: Does this make me a cuckold husband?

We have enjoyed cuckolding for several years now. I definitely have a much stronger sex drive than my hubby. I also prefer sex with more well endowed men. My hubby is very small endowed. Also, my hubby has always been more into the mental aspects of sex. This seems to be a good arrangement for both of us. He does not have sex with others and is only allowed to give me oral. Can't speak for other but we are both enjoying ourselves.

We enjoy HotWifing - a milder version of cuckolding. Check out ourhotwives-dot-org.

Cuckold-- Faithful husband with an unfaithful wife.

To us that means the husband has sex only with his wife. Many have taken the term cuckold to relationships that are actually swingers with a bimale.

In our viewpoint if the male has sex with anyone other than his wife he is a swinger rather than a cuckold.

we like it with a light touch of domination, hard tease, mild humiliation." you're a good little pussy for being faithful while I enjoy a real man"

George and Brenda

You know, in the past I honestly wondered how a husband could allow this. But on Sat. we went to a party with a couple that is cuckold. And they are fabulous!! He was there with her having a great time, drinking wine; when she went to play he was there chilling with the people outside having fun. I can see how couples do this, he had a great time. Shell

Any Marylands here ??

For us cuckolding is for her to have other men for her pleasure and to further dominate me. I am there to watch, assist as instructed by her. If required she has me in a cock cage while she enjoys her bull.
Talk about exciting!

Couldn't resist a topic so near and dear to our hearts! We play with cuckolding a bit, but do not live it hardcore as a lifestyle. A true cuckold of course is always faithful, only wife has sex with others.. We sometimes swing full swap, but if we go into a play situation cuckold style we we finish it that way.... never to switch to full swap in the middle. It would remove the hard tease of cuckolding that is the basis for the excitement to begin with.

Just as orgasm denial was mentioned in a different thread..... in our cuckold play we use "pussy denial". I enjoy the torment of watching Brenda having a hot threesome with another couple knowing I won't be allowed inside either fem... only to masturbate while their stud gets it all!

I get plenty of touching/fondling.... maching me ache for it more.When I finally cum ( with my hand) I always cum hard. Brenda has just the right tease in her smile to let me know that she knows I want it bad!!!

We enjoy it interacial also. Adds to the naughtiness of it.

Cuckolding is in the broadest sense is a man with an unfaithful wife. But frequently there are other implications such as the male is submissive. Cuckolding can take can occur for differing reason including:

1. The woman just has a much higher sex drive than her partner.
2. The couple enjoy voyeurism/exhibitionism.
3. The male is Dominant and exercising control. You will has sex with who I tell you to have sex with.
4. The female is Dominant and excercising control. I will have sex with whom I want and you will accept my unfaithfulness.

There are many reasons and a couple just has to understand and communicate to make sure no one is hurt emotionally.

I think you need a married bull.They only need you for sex.They have a life.Also while the best ones may already be taken they can still be loaned out.

No problem at all, I'm currently seeking my cuckold husband to be grin so I check in on this thread from time to time.

Mistress Heather