Bigger guy looking for 1st experiance

This may be old news but whatever - I just saw it and I'm not sleeping!

Your profile isn't really all that attractive. We only play with single guys and I'd pass on you almost immediately. Your picture is not so good - not smiling, bad lighting and overall unappealing. Your text doesn't really say much about you. With many couples the guy does most of the initial online interaction and vetting so you have to appeal first to the guy (for his girl) and then appeal to her. With us you have to appeal to me and I let my husband know I'm interested - and you don't really appeal.

I could overlook you weight if you sounded like a fun guy - you might be, but you don't sound like it so I would pass. So work on your profile - lots of advice in Better Profiles forum even if your don't post your own thread.

Good luck!

I'm a single gal ... bbw near Phoenix AZ. I personally love bigger guys. The pic you have is great, I would love to see you add more pics. Just like the earlier posts, more details. But if ever in Phoenix area and looking for a single gal....look me up.

#campguy08, I have to say sorillo is 100% correct !! (and funny ) I looked t your profile , and I have to say sweetie it does need work. You only have one pic, and it's not really a good one.. You really have NO description of your self at all.. You are also looking for a cuck relationship, there are people who are into that, but I think you re looking in the wrong places. You need to go to LS party's, and such, or even post a hot date for what your looking for. Now, as for putting out a mass email. your probably hitting the wrong targets. You may be sending them out to the wrong people who my not be looking for a cuck relationship. Plus there are lot's and lot's of Dood's out there, you need to make people want to look at your profile. I hope that helps somewhat.. Good luck in your search.. XOXOXO Rosie

A few things. First, you're a single guy. In a sea of single guys. No matter what you do, that's one of the biggest hurdles right there. So you need to figure out how to show that you're different and interesting. That adding you to the mix is going to be fun for a lady or couple.

First thing, get over to the Better Profiles forum, read the advice given to others, and check that advice against your own profile and photos. A lot of that advice will apply to you as well, and frankly, your profile needs the help. Actually, I'm thinking that your best bet is to start over. Luckily, your profile can be changed and improved, but you have to be willing to put in the work to make that happen. And it IS work. There are no shortcuts here.

Once you've done your reading, and written a newer version of your profile (and added some photos, the one you have needs to go), put up a post in Better Profiles to have the crew look it over. The advice will be blunt, and it'll hurt some, but everyone there wants to see you succeed, so don that thick skin and hang on for the ride.

Good luck!

I have been trying to find a couple to meet and discuss some bedroom fun but can not get anyone to respond. I have sent out many emails... not sure if iit is my weight, my email wording or my lack of experiance. What do i say to get someone interested in having some fun? Help me, please.