bridgetenderVeteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
mine too.
Have fun,
BT
Urgent
ReadyTooPlayWithUMember
Chicago, IL, Us
My apologies then.
bridgetenderVeteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
Ready, I said nothing disparaging about you.
The OP is posting as a str8 SM. You posted that his profile still wasn't visible to you. My question is why would you assume that it would or should be based on that? 90+% of the time, when SMs seek input on their profiles, they block other SMs.
It's his prerogative to do as he pleases. Not anyone else's.
That was my point. No need for you to become defensive or to feel the need to explain how hard you've worked. I'm not passing judgment on you or anyone else.
BT
ReadyTooPlayWithUMember
Chicago, IL, Us
You're right, Bridgetender. I am a bi male. I have worked hard on my profile with the help from others on here and feel that I can give back and help as well. Just because I'm bi, doesn't mean I'm looking to jump every guy I see. I'm happily married to a woman for 25 years today. I much prefer being with women but an occasional guy is fun too.
bridgetenderVeteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
That was a comment from a Bi SM. So, if you're not looking for Bi single guys, then, there's nothing wrong with having access restricted.
If you are, then, open'er up. Whatever floats your boat.
BT
Monroeville, PA, Us
I did not know that my profile would not be viewable...I will change it
PhoebertAndWifeVeteran
Fort Payne, AL, Us
He probably believes the setting that says "no interest (profile viewable)" means what it says.
Most people don't realize that you have to set interest level to "maybe" before couples, single ladies or single gentlemen can actually view your profile.
ReadyTooPlayWithUMember
Chicago, IL, Us
Profile is still blocked. Oh well.
bridgetenderVeteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
Dood,
Kudos for bucking up and owning your shit.
There's nothing wrong with taking a step back and apologizing for being wrong, and even if you don't feel you're wrong, doing so to try and explain what you meant. it makes you human and fallible, which are good things.
BT
Monroeville, PA, Us
To reply to all I was unaware my profile was not viewable to single I welcome their feedback found it strange there were restrictions, I deleted the original post because someone had commented that I should simply be patient and wait in the better profiles section, I figured why not waste everyone’s time, I felt it was inconsiderate and rude, my apologies! As for the urgency I simply did not want to look like a young single guy who was trying to take advantage of a demographic I wanted to represent myself well here and be take seriously and considered often! I know I know broad strokes here.... but are there any further questions?
I do appreciate the time you took to veiw and critique my profile...
Monroeville, PA, Us
To reply to all I was unaware my profile was not viewable to single I welcome their feedback found it strange there were restrictions, I deleted the original post because someone had commented that I should simply be patient and wait in the better profiles section, I figured why not waste everyone’s time, I felt it was inconsiderate and rude, my apologies! As for the urgency I simply did not want to look like a young single guy who was trying to take advantage of a demographic I wanted to represent myself well here and be take seriously and considered often! I know I know broad strokes here.... but are there any further questions?
I do appreciate the time you took to veiw and critique my profile...
eroticamazonVeteran
Santa Barbara, CA, Us
ROFL!
Shit, that song is probably 40 years old.
Good one!
eroticamazonVeteran
Santa Barbara, CA, Us
I guess the urgency is over :)
bridgetenderVeteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
Yes, but sometimes, weird is a very, very good thing.
BT
_rabbit_n_scamp_Veteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
And why did you delete your original post? People are weird.
~rabbit~
ReadyTooPlayWithUMember
Chicago, IL, Us
Ok, Funly. I'll make an exception for you.
funlyfriendVeteran
Albany, NY, Us
But some of us want to be locked up and Fucked...LOL
ReadyTooPlayWithUMember
Chicago, IL, Us
I'm also curious as to why you've locked your profile to single males if you're looking for advice. At least open it for a few days. Don't worry, I'm not gonna try to lock you up and fuck you. Just trying to help.
PleasantonGuy969Member
Pleasanton, CA, Us
Care to share why you thought this post was Urgent? The title seems to have set an odd tone to the whole thread, so it might help if we understood the urgency behind your request?
eroticamazonVeteran
Santa Barbara, CA, Us
This is not a profile suggestion, just a lifestyle suggestion.
When people get into the lifestyle, there are some serious misconceptions about reality. Men think that there are 10,000 supermodels naked saying, "You are the stud I have been waiting for, come fuck me," Women think that there are 10,000 400lb men who haven't seen their dick in 10 year waiting to rape them. The reality is that it is not that. There are people on the other end.
Your agenda and their agenda may not align. Just like real life. They are not waiting for you to suddenly show up and then throw panties at you.
I always comment to people that if you are treating the lifestyle like you are ordering off a fast food menu, you will be disappointed. If you want that, hire a hooker. The lifestyle is not that.
Good luck . . . and as Mr. Miyagi would say, "Patience grasshopper."