Looking to take a vacation

I signed up in 2018 but didn't use it because I got into a relationship afterwards. I just signed back in for the first time since then this week.

Member since: 12/16/18?

Buckle UP OP... we are a tough crowd on forums and always will be.. Not buying it !

YOU have been here since 2018 ! 30 years old and dont get how to act in life and swinging..picking up woman... sorry if you want some understanding then grow up.. its that simple !

Our single guys have what it takes and know how to act .. we are NOT here to hold your hand !

Most people are more successful when then indulge in a bit of reconnoitering before embarking on a new mission. ;-)

Perhaps poking around the forums and reading a lot (especially in the Successful Swinging section) before jumping into the deep end with both feet would give you an idea of the outspoken people you'll find in the forum and some clues about successful practices to use on SLS.

@Holly- Thanks for the thoughtful reply, obviously I am somewhat new to the scene/site and I can take some thoughtful criticism. It looks like I have some work to do. Maybe I am on the wrong site/forum section

@everyone else. I literally just joined the site and am still getting use to how everything works here. Maybe instead of being so negative and harsh you could help me understand better. But thanks for making me feel so very welcome here...

The O.P. Is why we have started using other sites. We have watched this one become overrun with profiles like his. There should be another category to go along with Straight, Bi, Bi-curious.... Clueless. That way they could all find each other. Can you imagine all of the “‘ ‘sup” messages? Clueless and Hopeless.

He knows best. We just got a private pic request. No message at all. Totally clueless.

. . . And then try a Hotdate post

Sens, this is the second couple to reply to you that does exactly what you are referencing. Take some time with your profile and especially your pictures. The best course of action would be to head over to better profiles and make the changes that are suggested. Thelma has good advice to follow at the top of that section for pictures. Your default picture should be how you would dress if you were meeting a lady for a date because that is precisely what this is about. You can be successful if you separate yourself from the field.

Wow.. good luck on that one.. sorry your photos tell many experienced swingers .. you are inexperienced, dont get what it takes.. and well just try harder.. you will get it or maybe not!

Your photos say.. nothing and are really scary looking to "fun" couples!

So I need to take some time off work and take a vacation...I would absolutely love to find a hotwife/cuck couple to take a vacation and play with!

Don't really want to leave the country, but I'm down to go just about anywhere for the right woman!