Flakes

Oh yes we get it.. married guys who we caught cheating last year 3 of them on SLS we said hey lets call your wife and ask her if she want to come over or its okay for you to play..

AS they EXITED STAGE LEFT!

RonKathy

Normally I would have broomed him after the first or second message. but I was extremely bored from driving all day, and it kind of kept me entertained for almost an hour. Kind of like messing with those scam callers every once in a while. Sometimes the mood just strikes.

DB as we have stated more than one time on FORUMs.. ones profiles says volumes.. next time pass them by and dont waste your time.. we have!

CL holdovers.. and they are everywhere since they closed down!

Just happened to me on Sunday.

Got messaged from a guy with a Bi profile, wanting to know if I had plans for the night, and asking me to open my personal albums. I replied that I only open them to Couples and Single females. Of course his response was " I have a girl, man." When I asked why he doesn't have a couples profile, " She is from out of town and only visits once in a while, but she is here now."

I actually looked at his profile and there was nothing at all mentioning what he was looking for, just a bunch of ramblings about mutual satisfaction, and orgasmic bliss. Again, nothing about with who. He had opened one of his personal albums, and as you might guess, it was nothing but a bunch of dick pics.

So I decided to ask one more question, which was " You have pics of you and your part time girl? " His reply "Only after you open yours. Why the suspicion? If you don't want to have sex tonight, just say so." I just told him that even though I just got off the banana boat last night, I read books before coming to America.

Did he really think he was fooling anybody?

Last year the Monday before Easter, I had a couple contact me wanting to meet up that week, since they were going to be without kids. We set a time and place to meet Wednesday evening. Wednesday noon they cancel, because wife has to work
late. Reschedule for Friday.

Friday afternoon the wife has a migraine.

They ask me about Sunday afternoon, since kids home Sunday evening. Sorry, all day Easter is reserved for my 84 year old mother.

Saturday afternoon “you sure you can’t meet tomorrow?” “Yes, I’m sure.”

Sunday noon “any chance you can come over this afternoon ? Here’s my number, text me “. Since I was at moms, I didn’t see the message until late Sunday night.

Messaged them twice that week, and one more time two weeks later, but have not heard a thing from them since.

Just flakes? I'm shocked. You never see flakes without fakes in swinger discussions. Fakes and flakes always travel together.

@Ron&Kathy ... so when that hubby asked you to talk her into swinging, did you get up and leave right there before wife got back from the bathroom, or did you wait for her to get back to tell her what he was up to and then leave?

Well said R&K

I had an experience at Mohegan Sun once that was worthy of noting. I had been chatting with a couple for a while on SLS, and we agreed to meet at the Casino and see how things went and go from there. I always take meet ups with a grain of salt, having the looks is one thing, holding a conversation and seeing how people interact is another, and rarely do I go beyond the meet up the first time around.

Anyway, good thing I went there with the intent to also get some time in to donate to the Indian tribe. I was there early and had text the couple on KIK and let them know I was at the Casino and to let me when they got there. They KIK text back and said they would be there shortly, well shortly never happened....poof gone, no KIK text response, their profile on SLS gone...... such is life LOL

There are a couple of things that I take to heart in this lifestyle....respect and honesty , they are the standard bearer in this lifestyle. I take things with a grain of salt when it comes to meeting people from SLS. I know fully well the games - married but not married, single but married, single with a hall pass that he doesn't know about, body not what they say it is, age not even close (a few years either side of their posted date I am okay with), hygiene or dress not appropriate for a meet up ....the list goes on, but there is hope. I have met some genuine people from SLS, and each turned into a very long time of vanilla and not vanilla relationships.

There are disappointments and great discoveries in life, just as there are in the lifestyle and on SLS. I just keep on keeping on, and hope for the best!

Yes.. 3 since on SLS over 8 years , single guys profile when we met and vetted at first meet.. they turned out to all be married and cheaters ! Now also we have run into a couples profile and when we met the wife had no idea she was meeting swingers and when she went to the bathroom.. the husband asked "us" to talk her into swinging.. so NOW we talk with ALL parties before we meet with a couples profile and see if all on the same page!

WE are NOT here for the games many play on SLS including having a profile and never meet to swing!

Occasionally

No

all the time LOL

Anyone having issues with a bunch of flakes , disguised as couples?