Rope Lounge is now a free Rope Social for our SubSpace Members in good standing. How does it work? If you are a Premium Member, you would purchase a $10 ticket (so we can anticipate how many people will show up), and when you check in, your ticket fee will be reimbursed. But only if you show up and check in! And parking is always free at SubSpace! The concept is simple: we are opening the doors to the studio and dungeon for casual unsupervised rope practice and skill share. This is NOT a class/workshop or a play party. It's an opportunity for you to share some rope skills, learn a few things and meet some other rope enthusiasts. You can come and/or leave whenever you want within the 3 hour window. We always try to have some people on hand to answer questions or help out with ties but it's not an instructor led workshop or class. We can have a sign up sheet for pick up rope play for those who wish to tie with new people. Hard points will be available for people interested in tying partial or full suspension. Tie at your own risk. The cost is a reimbursable $10 for members, $20 (not reimbursed) for guests/non-members. Message us with questions: [email protected] The address is in the confirmation email - no orientation is required for this event.

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March 4 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
March 4 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
Wed, Mar 4, 2026
We are opening the doors to the studio and dungeon again for some casual unsupervised rope practice. This is NOT a class/workshop or a play party. It's an opportunity for you to share some rope skills, learn a few things and meet some other rope enthusiasts. You can come and/or leave whenever you wa
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March Cuddle Party at SubSpace
March Cuddle Party at SubSpace
Fri, Mar 6, 2026
Please note: you MUST be pre-vetted before the event by our event host, Claudia aka KindNAberrant on Fetlife. Please make sure to reach out to her before coming to the event. Unless you've been vetted for the January or February Cuddle Party, you would need to reach out to Claudia first. We are supe
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Impact Essentials for Couples - Presented by Conscious Kink (Charlie & Brandon)
Impact Essentials for Couples - Presented by Conscious Kink (Charlie & Brandon)
Sat, Mar 7, 2026
Description: Looking to deepen your connection through conscious, intentional impact play? Impact for Couples is a 2.5-hour, interactive workshop designed to help you and your partner explore what feels goodtogether. This class combines lecture, live demos, guided practice, and personal coaching to
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GET! LOUD! IMPACT! NIGHT!
GET! LOUD! IMPACT! NIGHT!
Sat, Mar 7, 2026
Impact night is back after a sold out January event. Bring your paddles, canes, floggers, whips and other pain inducing toys! Or just your hands for those spanking scenes. This party is not limited to Impact play but keep your scenes within the spirit of the event. We'll have social area in the fron
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The Art Of Touch: Pressure Points - Workshop
The Art Of Touch: Pressure Points - Workshop
Sun, Mar 8, 2026
Class Description: For the next installment of our "Art of Touch" series, we are bringing back a crowd favorite: pressure points! This workshop is perfect for couples seeking to add an element of playful mischief to their dynamic while learning how to safely manipulate the body's pressure points for
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March 9 Whip Social
March 9 Whip Social
Mon, Mar 9, 2026
The WHIP ENTHUSIAST GROUP is back at SubSpace! From your host, JMK: "Whip enthusiast group is open to anyone who has an interest in whips. It's a time to practice your skills and socialize with like minded people. Hi, I'm -JMK- and I'll be your host for the new social on the second Monday of each mo
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March 11 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
March 11 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
Wed, Mar 11, 2026
We are opening the doors to the studio and dungeon again for some casual unsupervised rope practice. This is NOT a class/workshop or a play party. It's an opportunity for you to share some rope skills, learn a few things and meet some other rope enthusiasts. You can come and/or leave whenever you wa
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March 13 Friday Night Play Party
March 13 Friday Night Play Party
Fri, Mar 13, 2026
Come out and play at another traditional Friday Night Play Party at SubSpace! We'll have social area in the front, play area in the back, and plenty of options for impact play and whatever your kinky mind can come up with. **Doors open at 8pm. Orientation will be at 8:15 sharp. If you have not atten
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Anatomy 101 for BDSM
Anatomy 101 for BDSM
Sat, Mar 14, 2026
Class Description: Comelearn important information from an ER nurse who is also an experienced kinkster. This class will cover three essential topics for people who engage in BDSM: 1) A walkthrough of different parts of the human anatomy that will help you make safer choices in your play and underst
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Yoga In The Nude - with Karma Yogi
Yoga In The Nude - with Karma Yogi
Sat, Mar 14, 2026
Yoga in the Nude Come together in naked community to practice yoga! All are welcome! This class will be Hatha style with Kundalini and Yin influence. Bring your own mat! It is recommended to bring a yoga towel or blanket too. Youre welcome to bring blocks if you generally use them. Verbal and energe
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Kinky Karaoke and Game Night at SubSpace
Kinky Karaoke and Game Night at SubSpace
Sat, Mar 14, 2026
Kinky Karaoke is back at SubSpace. We'll have a special audio system, 70,000 songs to choose from, and our Sybian will be out for those of you who want an extra level of spice while you sing! Can you last a whole song on the Sybian? In addition to the karaoke, we'll have some (kinky) games out for t
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Techniques in Tying - Intermediate Series
Techniques in Tying - Intermediate Series
Sun, Mar 15, 2026
Class Description: This 3-part series is designed for those who feel confident with single/double columns and are ready for more complexity. Classes will focus on functional rather than decorative patterns, emphasizing the techniques needed for creating stable ties and understanding how components i
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The Dominion - March 15
The Dominion - March 15
Sun, Mar 15, 2026
Diadem-Events presents "The Dominion", a BDSM social and play party for Fem Tops, Doms, Dommes, and Mistresses, along with the submissives and bottoms of all flavors that admire them. Make the dungeon play spaces Your Demesne, socialize with your Peers, or enjoy theyummy snack spread and the additio
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March 18 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
March 18 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
Wed, Mar 18, 2026
We are opening the doors to the studio and dungeon again for some casual unsupervised rope practice. This is NOT a class/workshop or a play party. It's an opportunity for you to share some rope skills, learn a few things and meet some other rope enthusiasts. You can come and/or leave whenever you wa
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Leather, Lace and Lingerie Play Party March 20
Leather, Lace and Lingerie Play Party March 20
Fri, Mar 20, 2026
Need an excuse to get dolled up? Put on your finest hosiery, lingerie, leather, lace, latex, you name it. Come out to see and be seen at our Friday Night Play Party. We'll have our social area set up in the front with snacks and drinks, play area in the back, and plenty of options for kinky play - w
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Speed Tying Social @ SubSpace
Speed Tying Social @ SubSpace
Sun, Mar 22, 2026
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no "dating" here, but you will meet, tie, and be tied. People are encouraged to attend solo, as this is an opportunity to mix and mingle. Please arrive on time in order to fully particip
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March 25 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
March 25 Rope Lounge - Hump Day!
Wed, Mar 25, 2026
We are opening the doors to the studio and dungeon again for some casual unsupervised rope practice. This is NOT a class/workshop or a play party. It's an opportunity for you to share some rope skills, learn a few things and meet some other rope enthusiasts. You can come and/or leave whenever you wa
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March 27 Friday Night Play Party
March 27 Friday Night Play Party
Fri, Mar 27, 2026
Come out and play at another traditional Friday Night Play Party at SubSpace! We'll have social area in the front, play area in the back, and plenty of options for impact play and whatever your kinky mind can come up with. **Doors open at 8pm. Orientation will be at 8:15 sharp. If you have not atten
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Smutty Book Club at SubSpace - "The Ritual" by Shantel Tessier
Smutty Book Club at SubSpace - "The Ritual" by Shantel Tessier
Sun, Mar 29, 2026
Join us for an exclusive evening of steamy discussions and good company as we dive into "The Ritual" by Shantel Tessier! This premium members-only social event is the perfect chance to sip, chat, and swoon over our latest read in a relaxed, cozy setting. There is a $5 cost to cover shared snacks and
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April Cuddle Party at SubSpace - with Movie!
April Cuddle Party at SubSpace - with Movie!
Fri, Apr 3, 2026
Please note: you MUST be pre-vetted before the event by our event host, Claudia aka KindNAberrant on Fetlife. Please make sure to reach out to her before coming to the event. Unless you've already been vetted for the January, February or March Cuddle Party, you would need to reach out to Claudia fir
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April 4 Rope Lab - Lock Offs for Suspension
April 4 Rope Lab - Lock Offs for Suspension
Sat, Apr 4, 2026
Rope Lab is back! A (more or less) monthly instructor led workshop with a different topic each month. We typically start off with single column and double column practice at 6pm for those who need a refresher and after that we'll have an hour and a half of instructor led Rope Lab. The topic for this
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Ropealicious - a Rope Focused Play Party
Ropealicious - a Rope Focused Play Party
Sat, Apr 4, 2026
Calling all our Rope Friends! We are dedicating this play party to the art of Shibari. From floor rope to suspensions, bamboo and chaos rope. Jute, hemp or other, bring your ropes and fill the space with fun rope scenes. This party is not limited to rope scenes but keep your scenes within the spirit
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April Primal Night - RAWR - SOLD OUT
April Primal Night - RAWR - SOLD OUT
Fri, Apr 10, 2026
***We're at capacity for this event. Please reach out to [email protected] if you'd like to be put on our waitlist.*** After a break for March, join us for our next Primal night! Friday April 10! Don't miss out! Have you ever been curious about primal play? Come join us at our next Primal nig
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April 13 Whip Social
April 13 Whip Social
Mon, Apr 13, 2026
The WHIP ENTHUSIAST GROUP is back at SubSpace! From your host, JMK: "Whip enthusiast group is open to anyone who has an interest in whips. It's a time to practice your skills and socialize with like minded people. Hi, I'm -JMK- and I'll be your host for the new social on the second Monday of each mo
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Free Rope Social - Hump Day! April 15
Free Rope Social - Hump Day! April 15
Wed, Apr 15, 2026
Rope Lounge is now a free Rope Social for our SubSpace Members in good standing. How does it work? If you are a Premium Member, you would purchase a $10 ticket (so we can anticipate how many people will show up), and when you check in, your ticket fee will be reimbursed. But only if you show up and
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Kinky Game Night - Friday April 17
Kinky Game Night - Friday April 17
Fri, Apr 17, 2026
Looking for some good clean fun in the dirtiest way possible? Cum see what we have in store for you! Games available will include: Strip Settlers of Catan Strip Poker 5 Second Rule: NSFW Edition Truth or Dare Jenga Impact Battleship Giant Twister And many others... Is there a fun, sexy, or kinky gam
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Free Rope Social - Hump Day! April 22
Free Rope Social - Hump Day! April 22
Wed, Apr 22, 2026
Rope Lounge is now a free Rope Social for our SubSpace Members in good standing. How does it work? If you are a Premium Member, you would purchase a $10 ticket (so we can anticipate how many people will show up), and when you check in, your ticket fee will be reimbursed. But only if you show up and
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Tasting Night at SubSpace
Tasting Night at SubSpace
Fri, Apr 24, 2026
Did your New Year's Resolutions involve trying out some new kinks? Then this is the event for you!Or if you've ever been curious about trying out a new kinky activity but for whatever reason you've never been able to, check out our Tasting Night. We'll have experts in specific kinks on hand to do so
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Skin Deep - a Sensation Play Party April 25
Skin Deep - a Sensation Play Party April 25
Sat, Apr 25, 2026
Skin is where we meet the world and where the world meets us. Skin Deep is a night devoted to that charged space between one person's hands and another's body. Fire play, needle work, massage, sensation and sensory play all the arts that demand presence, skill, and trust. Come to practice your craft
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Speed Tying Social @ SubSpace April 26
Speed Tying Social @ SubSpace April 26
Sun, Apr 26, 2026
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no dating here, but you will meet, tie, and be tied. People are encouraged to attend solo, as this is an opportunity to mix and mingle. Please arrive on time in order to fully participat
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Booty Canvas - a Body Paint Social
Booty Canvas - a Body Paint Social
Sun, Apr 26, 2026
Back by popular demand! Unleash your creativity and explore the art of body painting in a fun and intimate setting. This event is all about exploring your artistic side and having a blast with paint, brushes, and canvas while socializing with friends. Whether you're a seasoned artist or a novice, we
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Free Rope Social - Hump Day! April 29
Free Rope Social - Hump Day! April 29
Wed, Apr 29, 2026
Rope Lounge is now a free Rope Social for our SubSpace Members in good standing. How does it work? If you are a Premium Member, you would purchase a $10 ticket (so we can anticipate how many people will show up), and when you check in, your ticket fee will be reimbursed. But only if you show up and
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An Evening with Mango - Friday May 1
An Evening with Mango - Friday May 1
Fri, May 1, 2026
We're thrilled to add an extra evening to the sold out weekend intensive with Mango and Rio. Mango will give an unfiltered introduction to Kanna-style rope and how it relates to other styles of tying, followed by a demo/performance of this style. Afterwards, there will be time to socialize and/or ti
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Smutty Book Club at SubSpace - Axes and O's by Kayla Grosse
Smutty Book Club at SubSpace - Axes and O's by Kayla Grosse
Sun, May 3, 2026
Join us for an exclusive evening of steamy discussions and good company as we dive into Axes and Os by Kayla Grosse! This premium members-only social event is the perfect chance to sip, chat, and swoon over our latest read in a relaxed, cozy setting. There is a $5 cost to cover shared snacks and dri
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May Cuddle Party at SubSpace
May Cuddle Party at SubSpace
Fri, May 8, 2026
Please note: you MUST be pre-vetted before the event by our event host, Claudia aka KindNAberrant on Fetlife. Please make sure to reach out to her before coming to the event. Unless you've already been vetted for the January, February or March Cuddle Party, you would need to reach out to Claudia fir
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Working with Size Differentials - A Rope Workshop with Drea
Working with Size Differentials - A Rope Workshop with Drea
Sat, May 9, 2026
Description: Do you feel like you have t-rex arms and struggle to get rope smoothly around your partner while tying? Or have you struggled to get your partner up in a suspension? In this class, well work on strategies for tying around a body when you cant reach around or above your partner. Well als
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Speed Tying Social @ SubSpace May 9 5p
Speed Tying Social @ SubSpace May 9 5p
Sat, May 9, 2026
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no dating here, but you will meet, tie, and be tied. People are encouraged to attend solo, as this is an opportunity to mix and mingle. Please arrive on time in order to fully participat
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Ropealicious - a Rope Focused Play Party
Ropealicious - a Rope Focused Play Party
Sat, May 9, 2026
Calling all our Rope Friends! We are dedicating this play party to the art of Shibari. From floor rope to suspensions, bamboo and chaos rope. Jute, hemp or other, bring your ropes and fill the space with fun rope scenes. This party is not limited to rope scenes but keep your scenes within the spirit
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May 11 Whip Social
May 11 Whip Social
Mon, May 11, 2026
The WHIP ENTHUSIAST GROUP is back at SubSpace! From your host, JMK: "Whip enthusiast group is open to anyone who has an interest in whips. It's a time to practice your skills and socialize with like minded people. Hi, I'm -JMK- and I'll be your host for the new social on the second Monday of each mo
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May Primal Night - MAYHEM!
May Primal Night - MAYHEM!
Fri, May 15, 2026
Who's ready for some MAYhem? Our next Primal night is Friday May 15th! Don't miss out! Have you ever been curious about primal play? Come join us at our next Primal night. Either to watch and support others, or to jump in and release your inner animalistic urges. For those who like the rougher thing
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The Dominion - May 17
The Dominion - May 17
Sun, May 17, 2026
Diadem-Events presents "The Dominion", a BDSM social and play party for Fem Tops, Doms, Dommes, and Mistresses, along with the submissives and bottoms of all flavors that admire them. Make the dungeon play spaces Your Demesne, socialize with your Peers, or enjoy theyummy snack spread and the additio
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Kinky Karaoke and Game Night at SubSpace
Kinky Karaoke and Game Night at SubSpace
Fri, May 22, 2026
Kinky Karaoke is back at SubSpace. We'll have a special audio system, 70,000 songs to choose from, and our Sybian will be out for those of you who want an extra level of spice while you sing! Can you last a whole song on the Sybian? In addition to the karaoke, we'll have some (kinky) games out for t
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May 30 Saturday Night Play Party
May 30 Saturday Night Play Party
Sat, May 30, 2026
Come out and play at another traditional Saturday Night Play Party at SubSpace! We'll have social area in the front, play area in the back, and plenty of options for impact play and whatever your kinky mind can come up with. **Doors open at 8pm. Orientation will be at 8:15 sharp. If you have not att
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Gravity & Grounding: Body Manipulation with Rope - Workshop
Gravity & Grounding: Body Manipulation with Rope - Workshop
Sat, Jun 6, 2026
Class Description: How do you move your partner without verbal commands? How do you create flow from one position to the next? This class will teach partners how to use rope to move together with less risk of falling or other accidents. Pairs will learn sequences that get the body from standing posi
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June 8 Whip Social
June 8 Whip Social
Mon, Jun 8, 2026
The WHIP ENTHUSIAST GROUP is back at SubSpace! From your host, JMK: "Whip enthusiast group is open to anyone who has an interest in whips. It's a time to practice your skills and socialize with like minded people. Hi, I'm -JMK- and I'll be your host for the new social on the second Monday of each mo
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Impact Essentials - Presented by Conscious Kink (Charlie & Brandon)
Impact Essentials - Presented by Conscious Kink (Charlie & Brandon)
Sat, Jun 13, 2026
Description: Curious about impact play and want to build a stronger foundation in technique, communication, and safety? Impact Essentials is a 2.5-hour educational workshop designed to help participants better understand the skills and dynamics that make impact play intentional, effective, and enjoy
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GET! LOUD! IMPACT! NIGHT!
GET! LOUD! IMPACT! NIGHT!
Sat, Jun 13, 2026
Impact night is back with a vengeance. Bring your paddles, canes, floggers, whips and other pain inducing toys! Or just your hands for those spanking scenes. This party is not limited to Impact play but keep your scenes within the spirit of the event. We'll have social area in the front, play area i
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BOUND BY DESIRE June 27
BOUND BY DESIRE June 27
Sun, Jun 28, 2026
It's time for the summer solstice version of this beloved performance night! SubSpace Seattle and Seattle Shibari bring you a sensual evening of performance and play, featuring international rope artists Jonathan Ryan & the lovely Sappho . The evening will begin with an intense performance of Kinbak

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