Swinger Events in California - 27 Upcoming Events

Find 27 upcoming swinger events in California from 12 verified hosts. Browse club nights, parties, hotel takeovers, and travel events from local organizers.

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Allures
Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional

Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional

Sacramento, CA
Special Event Allures and Topless Travel brings our Premier and Exclusive Lifestyle Experience to Jaco, Costa Rica for a spa resort weeklong TAKEOVER! Join us in exotic Costa Rica from May 23-May 31, 2026, for a clothing optional takeover of a resort paradise! This tropical boutique hotel features 2
Bronze Party
12th Annual "Very" Little Black Dress at Twist

12th Annual "Very" Little Black Dress at Twist

San Francisco, CA
From $11
Bronze Party Presents 12th Annual Very Little Black Dress at Twist San Francisco Party @ Twist w/ On
Bronze Party
Sexual Independence Day at Twist!

Sexual Independence Day at Twist!

San Francisco, CA
From $11
Bronze Party Presents Sexual Independence Day ! Party @ Twist w/ On-Premise Playspace! Friday, July
Bronze Party
14th Annual Combined Sexy Forces at Twist!

14th Annual Combined Sexy Forces at Twist!

San Francisco, CA
From $11
Bronze Party Presents Combined Sexy Forces 14 ! The 14th Anniversary of SF Parties Coming Together! Party @ Twist w/ On-Premise Playspace! Sunday, May 24th 10 PM 4 AM Sexy Patriotic Theme Featuring DJ Tony Roxxx 387 Bay Street, San Francisco Featured DJ DJ Tony Roxxx For Couples and Single Ladies on
Club Bia Vida
Lingerie & Live Beats event

Lingerie & Live Beats event

San Diego, CA
From $20
BIA COLLABORATION WITH CLUB SAFE WORD SAN DIEGO, CA Lingerie & Live Beats ! 3rd Edition High-Energy DJ Dance Play Fridays Friday July 31st. 7PM2AM DJ Mister-E Dance Party: 7PM10PM Dance & Play Afterparty: 10PM2AM Club Safe Word San Diego Live DJ Dance Floor Play Spaces GET PASSES Premium Membership
Club Safe Word
Couples and Single Fems Play Party, all levels of experience welcome (An Aphrodite's Oasis event)

Couples and Single Fems Play Party, all levels of experience welcome (An Aphrodite's Oasis event)

San Diego, California
From $44.96
**Couples and Fems Play Party **This Party is restricted! No single CIS Males! *Co-hosted by Couple In4Life ! Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! It's time to unwind with some sexy friends. (No theme. Dress as sexy as you want to for each phase of the night Keep it classy and upscale) Open 8:00 PM
Club Safe Word
USA's San Diego All-Inclusive T-Girl Sex Addict Play Party!

USA's San Diego All-Inclusive T-Girl Sex Addict Play Party!

San Diego, California
FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/02/06/usa-s-san-diego-all-inclusive-t-girl-sex-a
Club Safe Word
Skill Swap

Skill Swap

San Diego, California
Join us for an interactive Skill Swap focused on BDSM and kink education. This is a community-driven
Do you know George?
The Table

The Table

San Francisco, CA
The Table is an invitation-only dinner hosted by The Group, created for open-minded, professionals who value connection as much as craft. Each evening brings together a small number of like-minded people in the lifestyle for an experience where conversation flows easily, laughter comes naturally, an
Do you know George?
The Table

The Table

La Jolla, CA
The Table is an invitation-only dinner hosted by The Group, created for open-minded, professionals who value connection as much as craft. Each evening brings together a small number of like-minded people in the lifestyle for an experience where conversation flows easily, laughter comes naturally, an
DomCon
DomCon LA 2026 Volunteer Sign-Up Page

DomCon LA 2026 Volunteer Sign-Up Page

Los Angeles, CA
Our Ticket page shows which Pass you will earn for the shifts listed, &/or future events. To get ful
Her Fantasy Party
Her Fantasy Sexy Schoolgirl at Twist

Her Fantasy Sexy Schoolgirl at Twist

San Francisco, CA
From $6.25
HFP Sexy Schoolgirl at Twist! Sunday, September 27th, 10 pm-3 am LOCATION Twist, 387 Bay Street, S
Her Fantasy Party
Her Fantasy Birthday Suit at Twist

Her Fantasy Birthday Suit at Twist

San Francisco, CA
From $6.25
BIRTHDAY SUIT BASH The Ultimate Fantasy Party for Couples, Hotwives & Singles! Sunday, May 31, 2026 | 10PM - 3AM SIGNUP TICKETS RSVP WHO'S GOING "Her Fantasy Birthday Suit!" TWIST | 387 Bay Street, San Francisco, CA We are taking over San Francisco! Join us for a legendary night as we celebrate the
Her Fantasy Party
In 2 DaysHer Fantasy Short Skirts at Twist

Her Fantasy Short Skirts at Twist

San Francisco, CA
From $6.25
"Her Fantasy Short Skirts at Twist!" Sunday, May 17th, 10 pm-3 am LOCATION Twist, 387 Bay Street, San Francisco, CA We invite you to " Her Fantasy Short Skirts at Twist " on Sunday, May 17th, 10 pm-3 am . Ladies, this a chance to wear a sexy short skirt and be the center of attention! Her Fantasy Pa
House of Black
Sexy Content Creation Party

Sexy Content Creation Party

San Diego, CA
From $15
SEXY CONTENT CREATION PARTY hosted by Ree Calling all Couples, Individuals, & Content Creators... DE
House of Black
KINKED - TOPIC: TBD

KINKED - TOPIC: TBD

San Diego, CA
From $15
KINK ED hosted by Shel THIS MONTH'S TOPIC TBD Schedule of the Evening... 7:00PM: Arrive, put your st
Sanctuary
ECLIPSE presents LUNA

ECLIPSE presents LUNA

Los Angeles, CA
An experience curated by US for US All attendees vetted, music you can vibe and play to, and mocktai
Sanctuary
TRANSCEND

TRANSCEND

Los Angeles, CA
From $25
TRANSCEND A kinky space for the GNC/Transgender community! Description: Transcend is a space made BY
Sanctuary
THE SLAVE PIT

THE SLAVE PIT

Los Angeles, CA
$250
THE SLAVE PIT A Professional FemDom Play Party Wednesday May 20, 2026 7pm-10pm Sanctuary Studios LAX
Simply Living Silver
Sanger Banger Campout

Sanger Banger Campout

Ahwahnee, CA
Special Event August 28th – 30th Get ready for an unforgettable time at the Sanger Banger! Bring your RV or pitch a tent and settle in for a fun-filled experience. Enjoy a delicious tri-tip dinner and a variety of other tasty foods while soaking up the lively atmosphere. The event features multiple
Tangerine's Dream
Tropical Pool Party

Tropical Pool Party

Coarsegold, CA
Tropical Pool Party 8 Hours of Pool and Play Doors Open at 2 pm Doors Close at 5 pm Party until 10 pm You’ll be transported to a tropical island when you walk through the Dream Ranch Door. The warm sun, tropical music, and heated pool will invite you to find a comfortable spot and relax after your t
Tangerine's Dream
Strawberry Moon Pool Party - Clothing optional ven

Strawberry Moon Pool Party - Clothing optional ven

Coarsegold, CA
Strawberry Moon Pool Party - Clothing optional venue Look forward to an upscale, safe, and relaxed atmosphere with other great people like yourself. We'll be 2 days away from the sweet Strawberry Moon but what a great way to start the summer pool parties with an afternoon of sun, swimming, and fun i
The Suite Life Platinum
Summer Lovin' Sexy Sultry Pj Party

Summer Lovin' Sexy Sultry Pj Party

Sacramento, ca
From $20
LEGAL: The Suite Life Sanctuary is a member's only, private association. We are specifically closed
The Suite Life Platinum
Bi-Bi Winter. Hello Sprung: Bi/Bi-Curious Guys & Girls and Supporters ALL ARE WELCOME

Bi-Bi Winter. Hello Sprung: Bi/Bi-Curious Guys & Girls and Supporters ALL ARE WELCOME

Sacramento, ca
From $20
THE SUITE LIFE Taboo FRIDAY: Bi/Bi-Curious + Supporters By Popular Request ALL ARE WELCOME. YOU DO N

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