When is The Ins and Outs of Play Parties?

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties takes place on April 28, 2026 at 10:00 PM in Oakland, CA.

Where is The Ins and Outs of Play Parties held?

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties is hosted by Mission Control in Oakland, CA.

How do I get tickets for The Ins and Outs of Play Parties?

Tickets can be purchased at https://events.missioncontrolsf.org/events/90335/orders/new?promoter_id=860299

What type of event is The Ins and Outs of Play Parties?

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties is a sessjon / klass event hosted by Mission Control in Oakland, CA.

What time does The Ins and Outs of Play Parties start and end?

Doors open at 10:00 PM and the event runs until 12:00 AM on April 28, 2026.

Who hosts The Ins and Outs of Play Parties?

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties is hosted by Mission Control. Visit their page at swing.com/events/mission-control for upcoming events and details.

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties

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The Ins and Outs of Play Parties

Tuesday, April 28th
7:00pm - 9:00pm
In-Person Class

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Tickets are $35

Allies and Big Daddy Members receive $5 off

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Sliding Scale tickets available, apply here

Plus, check out Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1 on April 14th and Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2 on April 21st

Can't attend on these date? Watch these workshopson-demand at any time from home.

Sex parties, akaplay parties, are a provocative way to explore your sexuality and relationships,experiment with different fantasies or desires, and discover new aspects of yourself.They offer an empowering opportunity tochallenge societal taboos while connecting with others who also question the status quo.However, without the proper preparation, play parties can also feel intimidating and intense. Whether flying solo or with a partner, learn howto feel confident navigating play parties and maximize your ability to experiencepleasure and fun!

In this experiential workshop, you will:

Address common anxieties, fears, and misconceptions surrounding play parties and the reframes that will alleviate your anxieties.

Discover a plethora of tips and tricks for meeting new people and making nourishing connections.

Receive valuable insights on attending play parties solo or alongside a partner.

Learn howto navigate consent culture and play party etiquette so you feel empowered and safe

Tackle potential challenges and develop tactics for navigating thembefore, during, and after parties.

Play parties may seem daunting but they can also be exciting andrewarding. Thepractical guidance, captivating anecdotes, and interactive exercises in this workshopwill equip youto explore play parties with confidence and skill!

Can't attend on this date? Watch this course on-demand at any time from home.

Reviews from past participants

A born educator and brilliant communicator, Dr. Aly lifts the veil, diving deeply into power and desire while demystifying the etiquette and culture surrounding polyamory, sex parties, and kink. Her workshops effortlessly incorporate touch, validation, humor, and introspection, as well as dozens of concrete facts, tips and techniques. -M.B.

This class has a lot packed in and is especially helpful if youve never been to a play party. A few weeks later, I went to my first play party and it was a great experience largely due to Dr. Aly. -E.W.

Dr. Alys compassion and confidence puts rooms of strangers at ease, even while her workshops take you boldly to the most intimate of places. With her expert knowledge, personal skills and creative approaches, she is a gifted facilitator and guide. - J.W.

Important Info

* I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, races and ethnicities. The bathroom at this venue is not ADA accessible (may not be large enough for folks in wheelchairs).

* Arrive 10-15 early so you can find parking and get settled, or 15-20 mins early if you are planning to take a COVID test at the door.

* A limited number of volunteer and sliding scale tickets are available. Apply for a sliding scale ticket or send an email to [email protected] to volunteer.

*Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to another individuals but not a future event.

COVID Policy :

Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.

Upcoming Workshops and Courses

April 12th -How to Eat Puy Like a Champin Oakland (on-demand rentalavailable)

April 14th -Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1in Oakland(on-demand rentalavailable)

April 21st -Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2in Oakland(on-demand rentalavailable)

April 23-26th -Sustainable Intimacy: Fuel Passion for Lasting Lovein Sonoma (on-demand rentalavailable)

April 28th -The Ins and Outs of Play Partiesin Oakland(on-demand rentalavailable)

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Workshops and Courses Available as On-Demand Rentals

Cultivating Your Pleasure

Feel Your Way To Yes

Free Your Fantasies

From Pressure to Pleasure: Reclaim Your Desire

Get Out of Your Head In Bed

How to Be a Feminist in the Bedroom

How to Eat Puy Like a Champ

How to Pick Your Person(s)

Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2

Navigating Non-Monogamy Level 1

Neurodiverse Love & Emotional Intimacy

Neurodiverse Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy

Neurodiverse Relating & Executive Function

Refining Your Sexual Intuition

Repairing Ruptures in Relationships

Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills(8week course for individuals and couples)

Sleaze-Free Seduction Skills

Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game(4 week course for couples)

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties

VisitTurnON.lovefor a complete list of myupcoming live events,coaching services,podcastsand more!

About Dr. Alison Ash

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. Dr. Aly has helpedpioneerresearchinto the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves.

Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love