--> --> Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2 Tuesday, April 21st 7:00pm - 9:30pm In-Person Class *** Tickets are $35 Allies and Big Daddy Members receive $5 off Sliding Scale tickets available, apply here Get Tickets *** Also, be sure to check out Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1 on April 14th to examine how your values and needs impact which styles of non-monogamy will work best for you, explore how to open up and find poly people to date, and learn how to avoid the most common ENM pitfalls. A recommended but not required precursor. *** Plus, you may also be interested in The Ins and Outs to Play Parties on April 28th *** Can't attend on these date? Watch on-demand at any time from home. Want to be able to maintain multiple healthy relationships? Do you feel challenged by jealousy or unsure how to support your partner when theyre feeling jealous? Do you feel confident naming needs and negotiating agreements? In this experiential workshop with sex and intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love , you will: Create systems that enable exploration and growth while also providing support and stability Examine power dynamics in and across various types of relationship structures, and learn how to empower all participants Explore techniques for discussing fears and needs and negotiating agreements with lovers and partners Discover tools for navigating jealousy and other challenging emotions Gain tips for meeting and connecting with metamours (your partners partners) Empower yourself with the know-how and tools you need to have happy, secure, and fulfilling non-monogamous relationships. Reviews from Past Participants Dr. Alys approach to jealousy allowed me to explore it, along with other underlying emotions, as a call to action. Learning how to negotiate allowed me to connect with my and my partner's intentions for our explorations and how to structure them in a way that feels safe and accessible. - D.G. "I am so glad I got to be in a room full of folks exploring alternative relationship styles. Concepts, communication and mindset associated with a non-monogamy can be applied to many relationships as triggers related to power dynamics, jealousy and boundary setting come up in all sorts of relationship dynamics." - S.R. Dr. Aly was emotionally encouraging and answered all questions with care and grace. I left having discovered a new way of communicating my needs to my partners I hadn't had before. I can't recommend her class highly enough." - M.P. Important Info * I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, races and ethnicities. The bathroom at this venue is not ADA accessible (may not be large enough for folks in wheelchairs). * Arrive 10-15 early so you can find parking and get settled, or 15-20 mins early if you are planning to take a COVID test at the door. * A limited number of volunteer and sliding scale tickets are available. Apply for a sliding scale ticket or send an email to [email protected] to volunteer. *Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to other individuals, but not a future event. If you are unable to make the event. COVID Policy : Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional. Upcoming Workshops and Courses April 12th - How to Eat Puy Like a Champ in Oakland ( on-demand rental available) April 14th - Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1 in Oakland( on-demand rental available) April 23-26th - Sustainable Intimacy: Fuel Passion for Lasting Love in Sonoma ( on-demand rental available) April 28th - The Ins and Outs of Play Parties in Oakland( on-demand rental available) *** Workshops and Courses Available as On-Demand Rentals Cultivating Your Pleasure Feel Your Way To Yes Free Your Fantasies From Pressure to Pleasure: Reclaim Your Desire Get Out of Your Head In Bed How to Be a Feminist in the Bedroom How to Eat Puy Like a Champ How to Pick Your Person(s) Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2 Navigating Non-Monogamy Level 1 Neurodiverse Love & Emotional Intimacy Neurodiverse Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy Neurodiverse Relating & Executive Function Refining Your Sexual Intuition Repairing Ruptures in Relationships Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills (8week course for individuals and couples) Sleaze-Free Seduction Skills Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game (4 week course for couples) The Ins and Outs of Play Parties Visit TurnON.love for a complete list of my upcoming live events , coaching services , podcasts and more! About Dr. Alison Ash & Sebastian Clarke Dr. Alison Ash , aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has helpedpioneerresearchinto the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offer individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love and on Instagram . Follow your TurnON: Mission Control respects your privacy. Click here to unsubscribe from future Mission Control mailings. Unsubscribe - {{email_address}}

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--> --> Sustainable Intimacy Fuel Passion for Lasting Love Couples Retreat in Sonoma April 23rd-26th $200 Early Bird discount thru January! We have heavily discounted volunteer tickets available for $750 for one couple. Reach out to [email protected] to create a payment plan or buy group ticke
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