Swinger & Lifestyle Events in NEW YORK, NY - 100 Upcoming Events
Find 100 upcoming swinger and lifestyle events in NEW YORK, NY from 15 verified hosts within 50 miles. Browse club nights, parties, hotel takeovers, and travel events from local organizers.
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CHECKMATE NYC
Sat, May 9, 2026
New York, NY
LITTLE BLACK DRESS SEDUCE EVERYONE IN YOUR LITTLE BLACK DRESS... A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN EVER! Dance to our dj playing the best tracks! Girls wear your sexiest dress, highest stilettos, lingerie and outfits of the season while seducin
CHECKMATE NYC
Fri, May 8, 2026
New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only prescreened
CHECKMATE NYC
Thu, May 7, 2026
New York, NY
REDUCED ADMISSION FOR CHECKMATE MEMBERS THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY! NO SINGLE MEN EVER AT CHECKMATE! We take NO walk-ins or guests. You must have an rsvp if you are a member or have an invitation/ approval and abide by our dress code. Experience a classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy
Club Labyrinth
Fri, May 8, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY FRIDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / U
Club Labyrinth
Thu, May 7, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY THURSDAY!! - 9PM to 3AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / UNION SQUARE. LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU ALL THERE! EASY PARKING I
Club Labyrinth
CLUB LABYRINTH * ANYTHING GOES WEDNESDAY * MIDTOWN LOCATION * Couples, Single Men & Single Women
Wed, May 6, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY WEDNESDAY!! - 9PM to 2AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE
The Loft Elites Swinger Lounge
Fri, May 15, 2026
From $30
Club GIIGITY IS IN THE HOUSE. FULL CLUB TAKE OVER. NO MEMBERSHIP REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT Were turning up the heat this winter as we once again take over New Yorks most exclusive, fully on-premise lifestyle club The Loft Elite Swinger Lounge for our sultry Winter White Party ! Lets make this winter u
The Loft Elites Swinger Lounge
Sat, May 9, 2026
Brooklyn, NY
From $35
The Mini Micro Dress Party: Where Less is Temptingly More Get ready to let your inhibitions slip away as we turn up the heat with the Mini Micro Dress Party . Its all about pushing the limitswhere the dresses are tiny and the fun is anything but. Slip into something daring , something revealing , an
The Loft Elites Swinger Lounge
Fri, May 8, 2026
From $30
Casual Encounters No Pressure, Just Chemistry No need to dress upjust arrive relaxed, confident, and completely yourself. The atmosphere is soft, unhurried, and quietly charged with possibility. This is a space for subtle glances, easy smiles, and conversations that linger a little longer than expec
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CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA
Thu, May 14, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ONE NIGHT STAND [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] THURSDAY MAY 14TH 2026 AN EROTIC COUPLES & SINGLES THURSDAY NIGHT SWINGER PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 SEXY SPRING PLAY AT CALIGULA NY FOR SEXY SWINGERS WHO WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND IN THE SEXIEST & MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE SPECIAL GUES
CaligulaNY
Sun, May 10, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: SINFUL SUNDAY NIGHT SWINGER SOCIAL [SEXY SPRING 2026 EDITION] SUNDAY MAY 10TH 2026 LET'S KEEP THE WEEKEND MOMENTUM GOING A SUNDAY NIGHT COUPLES & SINGLES PLAY PARTY FOR THE SPRING OF 2026 COUPLES & SINGLES WELCOME THE INDOOR SMOKING ROOM WILL BE OPEN COME CHECK OUT OUR ALL NEW
CaligulaNY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA
Thu, May 7, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ONE NIGHT STAND [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] THURSDAY MAY 7TH 2026 AN EROTIC COUPLES & SINGLES THURSDAY NIGHT SWINGER PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 SEXY SPRING PLAY AT CALIGULA NY FOR SEXY SWINGERS WHO WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND IN THE SEXIEST & MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE SPECIAL GUEST
The Secret Society Of NY&NJ
Sat, Jul 25, 2026
Astoria, NY
Special EventTHE SECRET SOCIETY OF NY&NJ AND CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ANIMAL INSTINCTS 2026: CUM RELEASE THE BEAST: A SEXY ANIMAL PRINT SUMMER COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES PLAYFEST FOR 2026THE HOTTEST SWINGER PLAYGROUND IN ALL OF NYDANCE & PLAY THE NIGHT AWAY IN THE MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE**RODNEY'
The Secret Society Of NY&NJ
Sat, Jun 27, 2026
Astoria, NY
Special Event THE SECRET SOCIETY OF NY&NJ PRESENTS: CALL OF BOOTY AT 2026 AT CALIGULA NY: CUM SHOW YOUR CAMO-TOE EDITION A COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES SEXY SUMMER CAMOUFLAGE DANCE PARTY AND PLAYFEST FOR 2026 AN ON-PREMISES SWING CLUB CALIGULA NY THE HOTTEST SWINGER PLAYGROUND IN ALL OF NYC SATURDA
The Secret Society Of NY&NJ
Sat, May 23, 2026
Astoria, NY
Special Event THE SECRET SOCIETY OF NY&NJ AND CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: CUM GET LEI'D 2026: A SEXY SPRING LUAU PLAYFEST AN ON-PREMISES SWING CLUB CALIGULA NY THE HOTTEST SWINGER PLAYGROUND IN ALL OF NYC SATURDAY, MAY 23RD 2026 A COUPLES, AND SINGLE LADIES DANCE PARTY FOR 2026 DOORS OPEN FROM 9:PM-4:
World Travel Events
Fri, Aug 28, 2026
Avenel, NJ
Special Event LORD OF THE JUNGLE WEEKEND EVENT - With Fetish (Leather & Lace Night) Friday, Let’s Get Lei’d Saturday Pool Bash, and Animalistic Instincts for our main event - LORD OF THE JUNGLE! Party Floor Rooms are based on First Call, First Served and with a purchased event ticket. Party Floo
Janis at Worldtravelevents.com
Fri, Aug 28, 2026
Parsippany, NJ
LORD OF THE JUNGLE WEEKEND EVENT - With Fetish (Leather & Lace Night) Friday, Lets Get Leid Saturday Pool Bash, and Animalistic Instincts for our main event - LORD OF THE JUNGLE! Party Floor Rooms are based on First Call, First Served and with a purchased event ticket. Party Floor Rooms - We will mo
ShareNation Events
Fri, Jul 24, 2026
Avenel, NJ
Special Event 12TH ANNUAL WHITE PARTY WEEKEND
WHERE ENERGY, DESIRE AND CONNECTIONS COLLIDE
IT'S ALSO SHARENATION'S BIRTHDAY WEEKEND
ALWAYS REMEMBER - IF IT'S IN THE MID-20'S CALENDER DATES IN JULY, SHARENATION IS THROWING ITS WHITE PARTY July 24 to July 26, 2026 in Parsippany, New Jersey THIS POST I
ShareNation Events
Fri, Jul 24, 2026
Parsippany, NJ
GLOW NIGHT Where Energy Meets Desire This isnt just a party this is a frequency shift . GLOW NIGHT is where the lifestyle comes alive where energy, attraction, and connection all move in sync. The lights go down the glow turns up and everything starts to flow. This is the space where: Eye contact sa
ShareNation Events
Sat, May 23, 2026
Parsippany, NJ
SHARENATION PRESENTS: COMMANDO Memorial Day Weekend Pool Takeover Saturday, May 23, 2026 | Parsippany, NJ Rooms for this event are booking. Contact: Holiday Inn of Parsippany - 973-263-2000 Group Code CELEBRATION for the best Room Rates High Noon to 6:00 PM Memorial Day Weekend just got upgraded. CO
LifestyleLynx GET LUCKY Meet & Greet
Fri, May 29, 2026
Lewes, DE
?? Don’t get LEFT OUT… The very first LifestyleLynx Delaware Meet & Greet is here! ?? Join us on Friday, May 29th at 7:00pm at Lefty’s Alley & Eats, 36450 Plaza Blvd, Lewes, DE 19958. We’re taking over the semi private “Spare Room” (walk left of the giant bowling ball monument, past the Arcade) with
LifestyleLynx GET LUCKY Meet & Greet
Sat, May 16, 2026
Morristown, NJ
We are back in Morristown, NJ at 'Revolution Bar & Social Club', 9 South Street, Morristown, NJ 07960 (same as the March event), for the LifestyleLynx Motown Mixer Meet & Greet, Saturday, May 16th 7:00pm, AND now we will have the entire lower level to ourselves with more bartenders for 300+ attendee
Were Back Wet & Wild
Sat, Jun 20, 2026
Stamford, CT
After a long Hiatus, we are coming back stronger than ever. It's been too long, but our friends are ready to get back to where we left off long before COVID. We are an Interracial you know how our ladies love HOT CHOCOLATE
Medusas Playhouse
Sun, May 10, 2026
West Babylon, NY
MEDUSAS PLAYHOUSE presents SUNDAY FUNDAY OPEN TO ALL COUPLES AND SINGLES (Males & Females) FREE FOOD FREE MIXERS PRIVATE ROOM LOCKERS MUSIC *THEME* we encourage all to dress in their Sexiest Outfits Medusa’s Playhouse is a premier Lifestyle Swingers club on Long Island which is perfect to meet, gree
Medusas Playhouse
Sat, May 9, 2026
West Babylon, NY
MEDUSA'S PLAYHOUSE Presents RED SEE THROUGH DRESS PARTY OPEN TO COUPLES AND FEMALES ONLY FREE FOOD FREE MIXERS PRIVATE ROOM LOCKERS LIVE DJ THEME we encourage all to dress in their Sexiest RED SEE THROUGH Outfits & Gentleman Nice & Neat NO HATS NO WIFE BEATER TEES -NO FLIP FLOPS OR SANDALS -NO HOODI
Medusas Playhouse
Fri, May 8, 2026
West Babylon, NY
MEDUSAS PLAYHOUSE presents SUNDAY FUNDAY OPEN TO ALL COUPLES AND SINGLES (Males & Females) FREE FOOD FREE MIXERS PRIVATE ROOM LOCKERS MUSIC *THEME* we encourage all to dress in their Sexiest Outfits Medusa’s Playhouse is a premier Lifestyle Swingers club on Long Island which is perfect to meet, gree
My Frisky Business
Sat, Jul 18, 2026
Amityville, NY
Special Event THIS IS THE ONE YOU BEEN WAITING FOR!!!!!! My Frisky Business presents our 6th annual Gettin Frisky Summer Pool Party Halo's and Horn's addition! See Eventbrite link for tickets and tier pricing, Tickets go on sale May 1st at 10am. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1986453315340?aff=oddtdtc
My Frisky Business
Sat, Jun 6, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event My Frisky Business presents Rainbow Rave Join us on Saturday June 6th from 10PM to 4AM , at THE LOFT in Brooklyn, NY Get out your most Colorful Rainbow Rave Outfits and come Taste the Rainbow as we party the night away! This is an ON-PREMISE, FULL CLUB TAKEOVER. The venue is BYOB, &
My Frisky Business
Sat, May 16, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event My Frisky Business present's Flower Power Party Join us Saturday, May 16th, from 10PM to 3AM at Medusa’s Playhouse in West Babylon, NY Let’s get groovy baby, get out those bell bottoms, crop tops, peace signs, tie dye, flowered headbands, fringed vest and everything that brings you bac
The People's Party
Sat, Dec 12, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event The People’s Party “TPP” & Medusa's Playhouse are teaming up to bring you: TPP’s Naughty-Nice-Merry-Christ-Mukkah-Holiday-HO-HO-HO-Party - Saturday, Dec. 12th, 2026 – 10am to 3am Club Takeover!
(200+ people expected!) – TPP’s 10+ year ANNUAL EVENT *THEME* We encourage all to dress
The People's Party
Sat, Sep 12, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event The People’s Party “TPP” & Medusa's Playhouse are teaming up to bring you: TPP’s Naughty Back to School-Detention Party - Saturday, Sept. 12th, 2026 – 10am to 3am Club Takeover – (200+ people expected!) TPP’s 10+ year ANNUAL EVENT and BIGGEST TPP EVENT OF THE YEAR *THEME* we encour
The People's Party
Sat, Jun 13, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event The People’s Party “TPP” & Medusa's Playhouse are teaming up to bring you: “TPP’s All WHITE Affair – SeXy in WHITE Party” Saturday, June 13th, 2026 – 10am to 3am Club Takeover – (200+ people expected!) – TPP’s 10+ year ANNUAL EVENT *THEME* we encourage all to dress in their Sexiest
Fantasy Connections Playground Parties
Sat, Sep 26, 2026
Babylon, NY
FANTASY CONNECTIONS PLAYGROUND PARTIES & MEDUSA’S PLAYHOUSE Presents: 3rd ANNUAL FETISH PARTY featuring Shibari Expert Rigger ACE. Saturday September 26, 2026 Doors open at 10PM at Medusa’s Playhouse located at 92 Kean Street, West Babylon NY Visit: www.fantasyconnections.net Sign up and ADD your pr
Fantasy Connections Playground Parties
Sat, Aug 29, 2026
Babylon, NY
FANTASY CONNECTIONS PLAYGROUND PARTIES & MEDUSA’S PLAYHOUSE Presents: 3rd ANNUAL POPPIN’ PINEAPPLE PARTY Saturday August 29, 2026 Doors open at 10PM at Medusa’s Playhouse located at 92 Kean Street, West Babylon NY Visit: www.fantasyconnections.net Sign up and ADD your profile to my group FANTASY CON
Fantasy Connections Playground Parties
Sat, Jun 6, 2026
Babylon, NY
FANTASY CONNECTIONS PLAYGROUND PARTIES & MEDUSA’S PLAYHOUSE Presents: RED WHITE BLUE PARTY Saturday June 6, 2026 Doors open at 10PM at Medusa’s Playhouse located at 92 Kean Street, West Babylon NY Visit: www.fantasyconnections.net Sign up and ADD your profile to my group FANTASY CONNECTIONS PLAYGROU
Karizma Social Club
Sat, May 16, 2026
Glen Gardner, NJ
Adding yourself here doesn’t guarantee your spot! To secure your reservation for an unforgettable night, you must register on our website. Go to KarizmaSocialClub.com/reservations and follow our easy step-by-step instructions, whether you're an active member or renewing an expired membership. Admiss
Karizma Social Club
Fri, May 15, 2026
Glen Gardner, NJ
Adding yourself here doesn’t guarantee your spot! To secure your reservation for an unforgettable night, you must register on our website. Go to KarizmaSocialClub.com/reservations and follow our easy step-by-step instructions, whether you're an active member or renewing an expired membership. Admiss
Karizma Social Club
Sat, May 9, 2026
Glen Gardner, NJ
Adding yourself here doesn’t guarantee your spot! To secure your reservation for an unforgettable night, you must register on our website. Go to KarizmaSocialClub.com/reservations and follow our easy step-by-step instructions, whether you're an active member or renewing an expired membership. Admiss
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