FoE White Elephant: Naughty or Nice Edition

12월이면 어떤 문제를 풀어보자.

이달에는 Meet & Greet을 보다 풍부하게 만들기 위해 White Elephant 선물 교환을 진행합니다. 재미있고, 유혹적이고, 재생산적이며, 실제로 누군가에게서 빼앗길 만큼 기뻐할 수 있는 선물을 생각해보세요.
개인은 약 $30정도가 적당하며, 커플은 약 $30정도가 적당합니다. 하지만 만약 당신이 $100짜리 충격적인 선물을Shock the room을 좋아하는 선물 신드롬을 가진 사람이라면, 우리는 당신을 사랑합니다. 계속 그렇게 해주세요.

sexy, silly, useful, wildjust keep it wrapped and keep it fun.

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선물을 선택하는 방법

Pick your vibe:

Single Guys bring a ~$30 gift (This does not mean Single Guys can attend)

Single Ladies bring a ~$30 gift

Couples bring a ~$30 gift

This keeps things balanced and prevents someone from unwrapping a toy they literally cannot use.
Bring something fun, sexy, or interesting that you would want to steal.

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게임의 규칙(FoE 스타일)

1. Bring a wrapped gift.
No names. No clues. No shaking it like youre previewing the horsepower inside.

2. Everyone participating gets a number.
We go in order, one at a time.

3. Player #1 picks a gift and opens it.
They show it off. We judge them lovingly.

4. Player #2 can either:

Steal the opened gift, or

Pick a wrapped one and open it.
If they steal, the person they stole from chooses a new gift.

5. Each gift can only be stolen twice.
The third owner is locked in.
(Were preventing full-scale diplomatic conflict over a high-end vibrator.)

6. You cant steal back the gift you just had.
Were not enabling toxic on-again/off-again relationships with objects.

7. After the final gift is opened, Player #1 gets a last chance to steal.
Classic redemption arc. Or tragedy. Depends on the vibe.

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선물의 영감

Not requiredjust vibes.

Classy sexy items

Playful adult toys

Funny-but-not-trash gag gifts

Useful accessories or couple items

Something youd be thrilled (or terrified) to unwrap in front of a crowd

Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet

LOCATION: The Bad Seed
2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217

Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink, and connect with other lifestyle-minded adults.

This isnt a club night.
No playrooms.
No pressure.
Just a relaxed, flirt-friendly night in a public bar where you can mingle, talk, laugh, and see who catches your eye.

We have a private section reserved so you can slip right in and feel at home. Order a drink, join a conversation, or hang back and feel the vibe its all easy and natural.

What to Expect:
A warm, social atmosphere with real couples and singles (no single men)
Bartenders serving great drinks and food
Light icebreakers to help start conversations
A chance to meet people face-to-face without jumping straight into a party
A perfect first step before trying our Club Parties, Hotel Takeovers, or Campouts

If you spark a connection at the Meet & Greet?
See them again the next night at our Club Party or at any of our upcoming events.
This is your chance to dip your toes in and meet the people behind the profiles.

Please RSVP so we can staff appropriately.

NO SINGLE MEN

New to the Lifestyle?

Our Meet & Greet is the safest, easiest place to start.
Ask questions. Talk to real couples. Learn the basics.
See how it feels without committing to anything.

Our admins are happy to give a quick Swinging 101 chat if youre curious, and our website has full guides and FAQs whenever you're ready to explore more.

This event is designed for you to:
dip your toes in
meet other couples
learn at your own pace
get comfortable
see if the Lifestyle fits you

If youre tired of guessing or hoping someone online is real come meet them in person.

Basic Etiquette

Short and sweet:
No means no
Always ask before touching
Dont overdrink
Respect the space