Spokane’s Swingers Lifestyle community for couples and single women ready to explore, connect, and have fun.
Since 2018, we’ve built a welcoming, respectful space where 18+ adults can meet new people, attend incredible events, and experience the Lifestyle without pressure or judgment.
The website is for 18+ adults. All in person events are 21+ due to alcohol being present.
Who Is Ellis?
“Ellis” is a clever nod to L.S. — the LifeStyle.
If you’re a Friend of Ellis, you’re in the circle.
What We Do
Friends of Ellis brings the Inland Northwest together through:
Meet & Greets
Themed Parties
Hotel Takeovers
Campouts and outdoor events
Workshops, education, and safety guides
Private members-only gatherings
Every event is designed to help you connect at your comfort level, whether you’re dipping your toes in for the first time or you’ve been Swinging for years.
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Mar 20, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
March Club Party
Sat, Mar 21, 2026
Party Theme: Spring Tease Show a Little Skin Winter is fading, temperatures are rising, and instincts are starting to wake up. March is the month where you flirt with the weather and with each other. This theme is all about the tease a little covered, a little exposed, a little did you just see that
Friends of Ellis
The Golden Age of Seduction
Fri, Apr 17, 2026
THE GOLDEN AGE OF SEDUCTION Step back into the late 70s, a time when nightlife was electric, velvet ruled the room, secrets lived behind half-closed doors, and the most unforgettable stories began after dark. This spring, Friends of Ellis returns with an all-new signature hotel takeover: Two full ni
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Apr 17, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, May 15, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
May Club Party
Sat, May 16, 2026
Party Theme: Voyeur & Exhibitionist Night Step Into the Shadows or Shine in the Spotlight Are you the type who loves watching desire unfold from the shadows? Or does the heat build when eyes are on you? This month, Friends of Ellis brings you a night dedicated to two of the lifestyles most thrilling
Friends of Ellis
Summer Campout Early
Fri, Jun 19, 2026
Friends of Ellis Late Early: The Ultimate Outdoor Adventure Escape to the wild side with Friends of Ellis for our Early Campout! Just one hour north of Spokane, this weekend getaway is packed with playful adventure, connection, and sexy summer energywhether you're staying all weekend or just droppin
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Jun 19, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Jul 17, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Summer Campout Late
Fri, Aug 21, 2026
Friends of Ellis Late Late: The Ultimate Outdoor Adventure Escape to the wild side with Friends of Ellis for our Late Campout! Just one hour north of Spokane, this weekend getaway is packed with playful adventure, connection, and sexy summer energywhether you're staying all weekend or just dropping
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Aug 21, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Sep 18, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Oct 16, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Nov 20, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 Looking for something fun to do? Want to meet real couples instead of messaging endlessly online? Our Friends of Ellis Meet & Greet is the perfect low-pressure way to get out of the house, grab a drink
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, Dec 18, 2026
Spokane, WA
FoE White Elephant: Naughty or Nice Edition Its December lets unwrap some trouble. This month were spicing up the Meet & Greet with a White Elephant gift exchange. Think fun, flirty, playful, and something youd actually be happy to steal from somebody. $30-ish is the sweet spot for individuals and $
Desire Cruise
Desire Seductive Mediterranean Cruise Aug 2026
Sat, Aug 15, 2026
Trieste, Italy
Join the lifestyle in 2026 for the sexiest cruise of the year! OCEANIA ALLURA SHIPS GENERAL INFORMATION CRUISE HIGHLIGHTS LUXURIOUS SUITES & STATEROOMS This remarkable vessel, theOceania Allura, has been revitalized to blend sophistication with a contemporary flair. Each suite and stateroom exud
Bliss Cruise
November 09 - 16, 2026
Mon, Nov 9, 2026
MIAMI, FL
Apparently, size does matter!! Due to overwhelming demand, we will be sailing on the Wonder of the Seas for our November 2026 cruise. We will start in sunny Miami, Florida and sail to Oranjestad, Aruba & Willemstad, Curacao. Each day and night brings something new to do, see and explore in one o
Bliss Cruise
Bliss Mardi Gras Cruise
Sat, Feb 19, 2028
New Orleans, LA
Step aboard the ultimate Mardi Gras Cruise, setting sail from the vibrant and captivating city of New Orleans. This exclusive, couples-only voyage is your ticket to an unforgettable celebration of life, love, and sensuality. Imagine yourself amidst the electrifying atmosphere of one of the world's m
Sugar & Spice
Hedonism II Negril, Jamaica! Ms. Sugar & Spice goes to Ms. No Swimsuit Contest Hosted by Tom's Trips.
Sat, Feb 27, 2027
Negril, Negril
After you pay in full for this AMAZING EXPERIENCE, WE WILL GIVE YOU 50% OFF OF YOUR NEXT EVENT ENTRY! (Discount does not apply to hotel rooms) You can try to have a similar Hedo experince this Hedo event can never be duplicated! Qoute from Debbie-- This was my favorite Hedo experience! Everyone had
Desire Cruise
September 2027
Sun, Sep 19, 2027
Lisbon, Portugal
Step aboard the luxurious Allura for an unforgettable journey where history, seduction, and passion intertwine. Our Desire Lisbon–Morocco Cruise 2027 sets sail from the enchanting Lisbon, a city that will captivate you with its rich tapestry of history, culture, and vibrant nightlife. As you embark
World Travel Events
Lord of the Jungle Weekend Event
Fri, Aug 28, 2026
AVENEL, NJ
Special Event LORD OF THE JUNGLE WEEKEND EVENT - With Fetish (Leather & Lace Night) Friday, Let’s Get Lei’d Saturday Pool Bash, and Animalistic Instincts for our main event - LORD OF THE JUNGLE! Party Floor Rooms are based on First Call, First Served and with a purchased event ticket. Party Floo