Unleash your passions with confidence.
Enter a sophisticated sanctuary where elegance and excitement
converge. At Alternative Desires, we provide the ultimate
environment to safely exploring your deepest fantasies. Our goal
is to cater to the Lifestyle community. When becoming a member,
it allows admission on weekend nights with full bar, snacks, and
specially selected big event play nights, where the play areas
will be fully open.
Alternative Desires
WNYSS Spring Birthday Meet & Greet
Sat, Mar 28, 2026
ROCHESTER, NY
Let’s turn up the heat at Upstate NY’s hottest—and only—lifestyle nightclub & bar. This isn’t a vanilla bar, so expect spicier vibes than your typical night out.Come celebrate, mingle, and bring the Spring birthday energy. Membership fee waived for this event!Important:• Advance sign-up required, pl
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Saturday Sheer Madness
Sat, Apr 11, 2026
ROCHESTER, NY
This ain’t your average vanilla bar evening — we keep things fun, flirty, and far from basic. Let’s see your sexiest sheer and see through outfits for this evening! -Drink specials all night-Sexy planned entertainment-Doors open at 8PMCome sip, tease, and mingle with the best kind of crowd… the kind
Alternative Desires
AD presents Kink Carnival
Sat, Apr 18, 2026
ROCHESTER, NY
The lights are low, the energy is electric, and the night is anything but ordinary…Welcome to a world where curiosity meets temptation and every corner holds a new thrill. Our Kink Carnival is bringing you an unforgettable night of sensual exploration and seductive entertainment!- Live Shibari Tying
Alternative Desires
Final Pour: Cheers to the Chaos
Sat, Apr 25, 2026
ROCHESTER, NY
We’ve made memories… we’ve caused a little trouble… and now it’s time for one last toast before we say goodbye to this season!Join us for a night that’s a little classy, a little wild, and full of everything that made this season unforgettable.- Raise a glass as we celebrate the moments that had us
Alternative Desires
Spring Swing: Midnight Seduction FULL hotel takeover
Fri, May 1, 2026
NIAGARA FALLS, NY
Special Event ?? Location revealed upon ticket purchase. Buffalo/Niagara Area Experience Includes:
?? The Bombshell Bar Crawl to set the tone
?? A sun-soaked Pool Party with games and playful competition
?? A fully equipped Playroom featuring MotorBunny & Sybian
?? A seductive Dungeon Space with
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Bliss Cruise
April 18 – 24, 2027
Sun, Apr 18, 2027
FORT LAUDERDALE, FL
6-Night Charter | Round-trip from Fort Lauderdale, FLPorts of Call: Cabo Rojo, Dominican Republic & LabadeeThis 6-night sailing is full of “firsts” too — it features a new Bliss destination: Cabo Rojo, a beautiful and exotic port in the Dominican Republic, plus a return to the private beach para
Bliss Cruise
Bliss Cruise - April 2026
Sun, Apr 26, 2026
FORT LAUDERDALE, FL
Get ready to set sail on the most thrilling romantic escapade of your life with Bliss Cruise - the ultimate playground for couples who crave adventure, passion, and a whole lot of fun. This adult-only cruise is your golden ticket to a world where the only limit is your imagination, and the only rule
Sugar & Spice
Hedonism II Negril, Jamaica! Ms. Sugar & Spice goes to Ms. No Swimsuit Contest Hosted by Tom's Trips.
Sat, Feb 27, 2027
Negril, Negril
After you pay in full for this AMAZING EXPERIENCE, WE WILL GIVE YOU 50% OFF OF YOUR NEXT EVENT ENTRY! (Discount does not apply to hotel rooms) You can try to have a similar Hedo experince this Hedo event can never be duplicated! Qoute from Debbie-- This was my favorite Hedo experience! Everyone had
Desire Cruise
Desire Lisbon Morocco Cruise September 2027
Sun, Sep 19, 2027
NEW YORK, NY
Set sail on a journey of elegance and desire through the heart of the Caribbean. The Desire West Indies Cruise 2027 invites open-minded couples to indulge in a world where luxury lifestyle, cultural richness, and unapologetic passion converge. From the historic charm of San Juan, Puerto Rico to the
H&H Social Club Member Site
Bacchanalia III
Thu, Oct 1, 2026
Porto Advantura, Mexico
BACCHANALIA III: The Ultimate Playa Lifestyle Experience Playa del Carmen, Mexico H&H Social Club Exclusive Welcome to Bacchanalia III , our third annual international lifestyle experience at a complete clothing-optional, all-inclusive resort takeover in beautiful Playa del Carmen, Mexico . This isn
Bliss Cruise
February 24 – 28, 2027
Wed, Feb 24, 2027
TAMPA, FL
Bliss Cruise is sailing from Tampa for the very first time, opening exciting new possibilities for your clients! This 4-night teaser cruise continues our successful February tradition — the perfect introduction to the Bliss lifestyle or a spicy short getaway for our loyal return guests. We will be a