With decades in the lifestyle ( swinging / wife swapping etc ) it still troubles me on the way people reach out for contact and the responses that are received or not received.
First things first I over three decades I have never been discourteous and not given an answer to any inquiry.
I have often wondered why my inquiries were filed in eternal limbo as I have always been extremely polite courteous and made sure we were a match in some way.
I never expect for all answers given or received to be go aheads, but common courtesy is a way of life I think we all should strive for. Even a simple no thank you would be great.
For men writing to women or couples (especially couples)
why do you feel no introduction like a first name and what you like about the profile should be left out ).
Most of my lady friends in the lifestyle agree with me a male ad with only cock and balls photo's are a turn off. AT least some body photo's and a private facial photo for those they are very interested in with a name and desires (generic) would be wonderful.
We know many people hate to be recognised on these sights but SLS provides the private share photo sight with release only by the profile holder.
What I am saying is courteous and a little respect can go a long long way.