Lifestyle Events Calendar
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Tuesday, May 19, 2026
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Allures
Sat, May 23, 2026
Sacramento, CA
Special Event Allures and Topless Travel brings our Premier and Exclusive Lifestyle Experience to Jaco, Costa Rica for a spa resort weeklong TAKEOVER! Join us in exotic Costa Rica from May 23-May 31, 2026, for a clothing optional takeover of a resort paradise! This tropical boutique hotel features 2
Allures
Mon, Mar 16, 2026
(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Allures
Mon, Mar 16, 2026
(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Club Safe Word
Tue, May 19, 2026
Registration Link Here Are you new to the captivating world of shibari rope artistry, seeking to exp
Club Safe Word
Tue, May 19, 2026
From $18
Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! For quicker check-in at a Play Party, please register for Membe
Club Safe Word
Mon, May 18, 2026
$8.60
Lets get together to sing karaoke in a naughty setting where clothing is ALWAYS optional! There will
Club Sapphire
Wed, May 20, 2026
Tukwila, WA
Are you a single or solo gentleman interested in becoming part of the exclusive Club Sapphire lifest
Club Sapphire
Wed, May 20, 2026
Tukwila, WA
From $10
Get ready for a night of uninhibited fun and sensational entertainment! Join us at Sapphire for Nake
Club Sapphire
Mon, May 18, 2026
Tukwila, WA
Women of Sapphire: Power in Pleasure is a community that provides an opportunity for women to streng
Eros Knoxville
Thu, May 14, 2026
Knoxville, Tennessee
From $10
THE REVUE & THE RUN RUNNING OF THE BULLS Thursday | May 14, 2026 Step into the spotlight and feel th
House of Black
Tue, May 26, 2026
San Diego, CA
From $15
KINK ED hosted by Shel THIS MONTH'S TOPIC TBD Schedule of the Evening... 7:00PM: Arrive, put your st
House of Black
Fri, May 22, 2026
From $25
BDSM NIGHT A NIGHT OF BDSM, FETISHES, & KINK SCENES WHAT CAN WE DO??? Mingle with one another in our
House of Black
Mon, May 18, 2026
From $5
CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP ABOUT THE GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who
House of Candi
Thu, May 21, 2026
$13.15
Flirt Yoga and Dabs every Thursday Tempe HoCTwo This isnt your average yoga class. Its a 420-friendl
House of Candi
Tue, May 19, 2026
$13.15
TUESDAY NIGHT OPEN LOUNGE @ HoCTwo! Were shaking up Tuesdays with something magical. Our house submi
House of Candi
Mon, May 18, 2026
Tucson, AZ
From $10
BACKSTAGE BINGO Tucson Nude Lounge May 18th Fast calls. Loud reactions. No encores. Were turning the
Oasis Tickets
Tue, May 19, 2026
Toronto, ON
From $15
DTF is here; we are ready to help bring fantasies to life. This night is devoted to women who enjoy the company of multiple men. At 9:30 pm, our host will facilitate a men's meeting exclusive to male guests wishing to get the most out of DTF in a safe and fun manner. Men who arrive for DTF are welco
Oasis Tickets
Mon, May 18, 2026
Toronto, ON
Join us for Naked Yoga with Bri. Unwind from your day into a sensually slow yin-inspired yoga practi
Oasis Tickets
Mon, May 18, 2026
Toronto, ON
From $15
Celebrate the Holiday Monday on Victoria Day , welcoming solos and couples from 1pm-3am. Loose your
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Fri, May 22, 2026
Oklahoma City, OK
East OKC Monthly M&G Flirtin' It Up @ Landing Zone Time: Doors open at 7:30 PM Location: Landing Zon
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Wed, May 13, 2026
Oklahoma City, OK
South OKC Monthly M&G Flirtin' It Up @ Alley Club Time: 7:30 PM Location: Alley Club Get ready for a
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Fri, May 1, 2026
Anywhere, OK
MONTHLY PHOTO CONTEST #MayFlowers2k26 MAY FLOWERS April showers have come and gone, nowlet'slet thos
Pleasure Bound Studios
Sat, May 23, 2026
Olympia, WA
$25
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Pleasure Bound Studios
Thu, May 21, 2026
Lakewood, WA
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Pleasure Bound Studios
Tue, May 19, 2026
Tacoma, WA
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Secret Pleasures
Thu, May 21, 2026
Emmaus, PA
4 hour party geared to ladies looking to fulfill their fantasies. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 7pm and ends at 11pm. See our website for more details:
Secret Pleasures
Wed, May 20, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 12pm and ends at 3pm. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list, so e
Secret Pleasures
Tue, May 19, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Tuesday Tease Parties are designed for you to try something or someone different. Go explore and have a new amazing experience. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 7pm and ends at 12am. See our website for more details:
Secrets Hideaway
Thu, May 21, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover”Thursday May 21Swingers Break® Takeover presents “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet” on Thursday, May 21st at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa! Kick off the weekend with a retro-inspired welcome party where Playbo
Secrets Hideaway
Wed, May 20, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway™ Presents:“Erotic Rendezvous"Every Wednesday at Secrets Hideaway™Every Wednesday, Secrets Hideaway transforms into a haven of desire and connection with its weekly event, "Erotic Rendezvous." This midweek escape promises an evening where sensuality intertwines with excitement, provi
Secrets Hideaway
Tue, May 19, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents:"Pride Tuesday"Every Tuesday at Secrets Hideaway™Join us for a dazzling night of pride and passion at Secrets Hideaway Pride Night, hosted by the fabulous Twila Holiday and April Fresh. Embracing the spirit of inclusivity and love, this event promises an electrifying atmosp
The Florida Treehouse
Sat, May 9, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Meetup with BDSM & swinger friends to chat @ local restaurant. This is a great way to get out and meet others in a safe, public, friendly environment. This is also a terrific icebreaker if you're interested in coming to BDSM Night at the Treehouse. Always the Sunday before BDSM night! THIS IS A MEET
The Florida Treehouse
Fri, May 8, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Rainbow nights are specifically focused on meeting and playing with our rainbow friends, partners, and allies. No specifications on relationship, gender, kink, or sexual identity. Whether you want to connect with your rainbow friends, gender bend, or explore a new facet of your sexuality - this is y
The Florida Treehouse
Sun, May 3, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
karma77
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Tue, May 5, 2026
Phoenixville, PA
Hi male looking to make special friendships within the lifestyle. My GF is encouraging my bisexuality and is encouraging me to find friends with and without benefits that help me explore my bi side. tuesdays are always a free night and would love to meet men, women and couples over drinks in the Pho
karma77
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Phoenixville, PA
Hi male looking to make special friendships within the lifestyle. My GF is encouraging my bisexuality and is encouraging me to find friends with and without benefits that help me explore my bi side. tuesdays are always a free night and would love to meet men, women and couples over drinks in the Pho
karma77
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Phoenixville, PA
Hi male looking to make special friendships within the lifestyle. My GF is encouraging my bisexuality and is encouraging me to find friends with and without benefits that help me explore my bi side. tuesdays are always a free night and would love to meet men, women and couples over drinks in the Pho
MontaukSwinger926
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Tue, Jun 2, 2026
✈Arlington, MA
In town for wort and looking to expand my experiences. I’m open to meeting great people. Let’s chat and see how things shake out.
MontaukSwinger926
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✈Arlington, MA
In town for wort and looking to expand my experiences. I’m open to meeting great people. Let’s chat and see how things shake out.
MontaukSwinger926
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✈Fayetteville, NC
In town for a couple of nights and looking to make new friends.
6Scorpio9
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Tue, May 26, 2026
✈Galena, IL
I will have my motor home set up at a local campground so I can host! I enjoy watching others play. I will host for others just so I can watch, if you would like me to join, take pics or film, I am good with that as well.
6Scorpio9
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Janesville, WI
I have a light schedule all this week! I can travel within an hour or so! I do have a large SUV so back seat fun is not out of the question!
6Scorpio9
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✈Galena, IL
I will have my motor home set up at a local campground so I can host! I enjoy watching others play. I will host for others just so I can watch, if you would like me to join, take pics or film, I am good with that as well.
krilisfel
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Fri, May 8, 2026
✈Tampa, FL
Heading to Eyz Wide Shut for a night of fun. Hoping to see the changes that have been made, especially in the BDSM dungeon. Also curious to see if there are anyone using the new Throuples admission! I guess it's where a single can enter with a couple. Interesting. And since we have played in numerou
krilisfel
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✈Manhattan, NY
Her 1st visit to NYC! Flying in for a quick 3 night promotional getaway (I know, way too little time) for her first taste of the city that never sleeps. Lots packed in to the very short time, but still would love to meet other lifestylers. Staying in a Midtown Property near Grand Central. Have limit
krilisfel
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✈New York, NY
Her 1st visit to NYC! Flying in for a quick 3 night promotional getaway (I know, way too little time) for her first taste of the city that never sleeps. Lots packed in to the very short time, but still would love to meet other lifestylers. Staying in a Midtown Property near Grand Central. Have limit
Big8md
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Thu, May 21, 2026
✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
I will be on the Regal Princess May 16-23 leaving from Fort Lauderdale. I am looking to play with females, couples or bi-males. I am Interested in most types of safe fun!
Big8md
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✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
I will be on the Regal Princess May 16-23 leaving from Fort Lauderdale. I am looking to play with females, couples or bi-males. I am Interested in most types of safe fun!
Big8md
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✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
I will be on the Regal Princess May 16-23 leaving from Fort Lauderdale. I am looking to play with females, couples or bi-males. I am Interested in most types of safe fun!
Fitcplfun
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Thu, May 14, 2026
✈Marco Island, FL
At our SWFL spot for a week and interested in meeting open-minded, bi-curious or bi couples & singles.
Fitcplfun
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✈Marco Island, FL
At our SWFL spot for a week and interested in meeting open-minded, bi-curious or bi couples & singles.
Fitcplfun
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✈Marco Island, FL
At our SWFL spot for a week and interested in meeting open-minded, bi-curious or bi couples & singles.
Vablonde4fun2
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Thu, May 21, 2026
✈Gatlinburg, TN
We will be in town the week of the 16-21. Looking for BBC or couple with bi female. Hubby loves to watch me please and be pleased by others. Hit me up if you are interested in getting together for some sexual fun or we can hit the town for some adventure then back to the condo for some late night ad
Vablonde4fun2
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✈Gatlinburg, TN
We will be in town the week of the 16-21. Looking for BBC or couple with bi female. Hubby loves to watch me please and be pleased by others. Hit me up if you are interested in getting together for some sexual fun or we can hit the town for some adventure then back to the condo for some late night ad
Vablonde4fun2
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Gatlinburg, TN
We will be in town the week of the 16-21. Looking for BBC or couple with bi female. Hubby loves to watch me please and be pleased by others. Hit me up if you are interested in getting together for some sexual fun or we can hit the town for some adventure then back to the condo for some late night ad
EroticAdventures23
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Thu, May 21, 2026
✈Miami, FL
Icon on the Seas cruise 5/16-23. Let us know if you’re on board
EroticAdventures23
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✈Miami, FL
Icon on the Seas cruise 5/16-23. Let us know if you’re on board
EroticAdventures23
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✈Miami, FL
Icon on the Seas cruise 5/16-23. Let us know if you’re on board
dirttrackfan94
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Mon, May 18, 2026
✈Stone Harbor, NJ
In town for a few days...Would love to have some fun...Prefer couples and single women, but won't rule out a single guy either
dirttrackfan94
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✈Stone Harbor, NJ
In town for a few days...Would love to have some fun...Prefer couples and single women, but won't rule out a single guy either
dirttrackfan94
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✈Stone Harbor, NJ
In town for a few days...Would love to have some fun...Prefer couples and single women, but won't rule out a single guy either
eximious2
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Mon, May 18, 2026
✈Pittsburgh, PA
I’ve never been to Pitt and am staying @ hotel Sunday through Wednesday. Checking out Pirates game on Sunday and I have plans on Tuesday evening, but am otherwise open to options, exploring the city, and finding some cool people for some healthy adult fun! I can host. Open your pics and give me a sh
eximious2
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✈Pittsburgh, PA
I’ve never been to Pitt and am staying @ hotel Sunday through Wednesday. Checking out Pirates game on Sunday and I have plans on Tuesday evening, but am otherwise open to options, exploring the city, and finding some cool people for some healthy adult fun! I can host. Open your pics and give me a sh
eximious2
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✈Pittsburgh, PA
I’ve never been to Pitt and am staying @ hotel Sunday through Wednesday. Checking out Pirates game on Sunday and I have plans on Tuesday evening, but am otherwise open to options, exploring the city, and finding some cool people for some healthy adult fun! I can host. Open your pics and give me a sh
WeR4thNGoal
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Thu, May 21, 2026
✈Las Vegas, NV
Staying on Fremont Street in Vegas 5/18 - 5/22 and looking to meet some fun new friends. Fun like-minded couples (or sexy single black men) who want to dance, swim, drink adult beverages, and hang out for some fun times playing (or not) while we're in town. We haven't played with a couple yet, but l
WeR4thNGoal
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✈Las Vegas, NV
Staying on Fremont Street in Vegas 5/18 - 5/22 and looking to meet some fun new friends. Fun like-minded couples (or sexy single black men) who want to dance, swim, drink adult beverages, and hang out for some fun times playing (or not) while we're in town. We haven't played with a couple yet, but l
WeR4thNGoal
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✈Las Vegas, NV
Staying on Fremont Street in Vegas 5/18 - 5/22 and looking to meet some fun new friends. Fun like-minded couples (or sexy single black men) who want to dance, swim, drink adult beverages, and hang out for some fun times playing (or not) while we're in town. We haven't played with a couple yet, but l
Beachcpl4gf
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Thu, May 21, 2026
✈Marathon, FL
We are in town with family but looking to get away for alittle fun. Looking for a sexy woman or a cool fun couple. Hit us up and open your pics.
Beachcpl4gf
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✈Marathon, FL
We are in town with family but looking to get away for alittle fun. Looking for a sexy woman or a cool fun couple. Hit us up and open your pics.
Beachcpl4gf
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✈Marathon, FL
We are in town with family but looking to get away for alittle fun. Looking for a sexy woman or a cool fun couple. Hit us up and open your pics.
Bri_chels_14094
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Thu, May 21, 2026
✈Huntsville, AL
I (male) am coming down for some training for work. Looking for some good time throughout the week. Looking to find a couple for a few drinks and see where it goes from there.
Bri_chels_14094
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✈Huntsville, AL
I (male) am coming down for some training for work. Looking for some good time throughout the week. Looking to find a couple for a few drinks and see where it goes from there.
Bri_chels_14094
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✈Huntsville, AL
I (male) am coming down for some training for work. Looking for some good time throughout the week. Looking to find a couple for a few drinks and see where it goes from there.
shauntoni
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Mon, May 18, 2026
✈Homosassa, FL
We will be in the area for 2 weeks and looking for hookups with like minded people during our two weeks in the area. If you are interested drop us a line you never know what fun could come from it.
shauntoni
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✈Homosassa, FL
We will be out and about. No pressure night but looking to make some new friends. Let us know if you are interested in grabbing a drink or saying hi, send us a message! We will be in the area till the 28th.
shauntoni
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✈Homosassa, FL
We will be out and about. No pressure night but looking to make some new friends. Let us know if you are interested in grabbing a drink or saying hi, send us a message!
