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Club Eden
OKC Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers
Sat, May 16, 2026
Oklahoma City, OK
From $25
BAD ASS BITCHES & BIKERS Saturday 5.16.26 Couples pricing: VIP Members $65 Daily Members $85 Daily S
Club Eden
DFW G STRING Friday
Sat, May 16, 2026
Euless, TX
From $30
G STRING Friday Ladies come show off your T Back at the door and get $5 off your door fee. $50 VIP M
Club Eden
SATX G-String Friday
Fri, May 15, 2026
San Antonio, TX
G String Friday $60 VIP MEMBER COUPLES $65 DAILY MEMBER COUPLES $30 DAILY MEMBER FEMALES DAILY MEMBE
Club Giggity
Club Giggity's Thursty Thirsday M&G Mixer at Fenderz Bar & Grill
Thu, May 7, 2026
York, PA
Ok Central PA, your Thursday nights are about to get a lot more fun. Thursday May 3rd we are back and are bringing an all new M&G/Mixer to York, PA! We are pleased to present the Thirsty Thursday M&G at Fenders Bar located in the Wyndham Garden York. Come get a peak at our amazing venue for Club Gig
Club Giggity
Club Giggity's Talk Nerdy To Me Weeeknd Takeover
Fri, May 29, 2026
Breinigsville, PA
Special Event Ok Giggity Gang, after another exhausting search and some colorful negotiations, we are pleased to announce we have secured another amazing new property. And this one isn't ran by a homophobic bigot or filled with FIFA players lol Our new venue located in Allentown, PA is perfectly sui
Club Giggity
Club Giggity's Lusty Lingerie Party at The Loft ESL
Fri, May 15, 2026
Brooklyn, NY
Special Event Kick off the weekend in sexy style with Club Giigty as we invade NY's hottest lifestyle club for a sexy Friday night Lingerie Party! DJ Giggity is back home in Brooklyn and in the mix at this amazing upscale, waterfront, fully on premise lounge/club. Plush, lavish and intimate are just
Colette Dallas
colette Dallas Newbie Night
Wed, May 20, 2026
Dallas, TX
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer. FREE one-night membership fo
Colette Dallas
Camo & Shorts@ colette Dallas
Sat, May 16, 2026
Dallas, TX
Camo & Shorts@ colette Dallas Doors open at 9pm This Saturday, things are getting a little more dangerous. Join us for Camo & Short Shorts, a night where military-inspired style meets summer heat. Think camo prints, short shorts, crop tops, boots, and anything that shows off your playful, rebellious
Colette Dallas
colette Dallas Fete Fetiche: Dungeons with Dragon
Fri, May 15, 2026
Dallas, TX
From $20
9 PM - 4 AM Slip into the shadows and step into a world of dark fantasy - Fête Fetiche: Dungeo
Colette New Orleans
colette New Orleans Thirty Dollar Thursday
Fri, May 15, 2026
New Orleans, LA
From $10
colette New Orleans Thirty Dollar Thursday New Orleans 9:00 PM - 2:00 AM Every Thursday. Don't miss
Colette New Orleans
colette Austin POP (Poly Open Party)
Fri, May 15, 2026
Austin, Texas
9 PM - 2 AM Are you a swinger, in an open relationship, poly or just want to see what the consensual
Colette New Orleans
colette Houston Boots N Bling
Fri, May 15, 2026
Houston, TX
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM Polished boots, bare legs, and just enough sparkle to catch the light. Boots N Bling is
Colette San Antonio
Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio
Thu, May 21, 2026
San Antonio, TX
Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio Doors open at 9pm * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette San Antonio 11431 Perrin Beitel San Antonio, TX 78217
Colette San Antonio
Camo & Shorts@ colette San Antonio
Sat, May 16, 2026
Adkins, TX
Camo & Shorts@ colette San Antonio Doors open at 9pm This Saturday, things are getting a little more dangerous. Join us for Camo & Short Shorts, a night where military-inspired style meets summer heat. Think camo prints, short shorts, crop tops, boots, and anything that shows off your playful, rebel
Colette San Antonio
Boots and Bling It's a Cowgirl Thing
Sat, May 16, 2026
San Antonio, TX
From $20
Saddle up and get ready to ride into a night of Western glam at colettes Boots and BlingIts a Cowgi
Curvy And Fabulous Events
CURVY AND FABULOUS PRESENTS: BRINGIN’ THE 80'S BAC
Sat, May 16, 2026
Scranton, PA
Special Event Special Event CURVY And FABULOUS PRESENTS: BRINGIN' BACK THE 80'S FRIDAY, MAY 15TH AND SATURDAY, MAY 16TH IN SCRANTON, PA. 2 DAY ENTIRE HOTEL TAKEOVER, ABSOLUTELY ZERO VANILLAS ALL WEEKEND. The 80’s are calling—and CURVY AND FABULOUS is answering in the sexiest way possible with an exc
Friends of Ellis
May Club Party
Sat, May 16, 2026
From $10
Party Theme: Voyeur & Exhibitionist Night Step Into the Shadows or Shine in the Spotlight Are you th
Friends of Ellis
Meet and Greet
Fri, May 15, 2026
Spokane, WA
Friends of Ellis Monthly Meet & Greet LOCATION: The Bad Seed 2936 E Olympic Ave, Spokane, WA 99217 L
Genie Wishes Events
Outer Space Galactic Glow!
Sat, May 16, 2026
Tempe, AZ
From $40
The Genie Wishes Glow Tradition Continues: Outer Space Galactic Glow (Tempe)! The GenieWishes Glow Party returns and this time we're adding a Galactic layer to inspire your creative juices. Once again,were turning the lights down and turning the glow way up. This is your invitation to let your imagi
House of Candi
TUCSON BACKSTAGE BINGO Nude Lounge
Mon, May 18, 2026
Tucson, AZ
From $10
BACKSTAGE BINGO Tucson Nude Lounge May 18th Fast calls. Loud reactions. No encores. Were turning the
House of Candi
Tempe Queer on the Wild Side Play Party
Sat, May 16, 2026
Tempe, AZ
# Queer on the Wild Side ## Glam Rock Kink Play Party Tempe **Saturday, May 16th 8:00 PM 1:00 AM** Love in an elevator. Backstage passes. Bad decisions in good leather. Glam-rock sleaze with a queer, kinky edge loud looks, loud music, and a dungeon that hums like a backstage green room at 3 a.m. Thi
House of Candi
Saturday Morning Clothing Optional 420 Yoga Tempe
Sat, May 16, 2026
$13.15
CLOTHING-OPTIONAL YOGA @ HoCTwo TEMPE Stretch, breathe, and let it all hang out Two sensual sessions every week for movement, release, and connection the House of Candi way THURSDAYS Doors open: 5:30 PM Yoga begins: 7:30 PM SATURDAYS Doors open: 10:30 AM Yoga begins: 12:30 PM All bodies welcome all
Le Boudoir Club
Get Down & Dirty
Fri, May 22, 2026
From $30
This Friday, kick start your weekend by GETTING DOWN & DIRTY THE FRIDAY PARTY @ LE BOUDOIR FRIDAY PA
Le Boudoir Club
ENM THURSDAYS
Thu, May 21, 2026
London, England
From $25
ENM THURSDAYS READY TO SHARE? FOR FEMALES THAT REALLY DO WANT IT ALL!! A great event for any female
Le Boudoir Club
THE WILD THINGS PARTY
Sat, May 16, 2026
From £35
BACK IN THE SWING OF THINGS! FOR ALL THE WILD THINGS With DJ @SimeonRileyOfficial FOR COUPLES & LADIES (MAYBE 1-2 SELECT MALES) Le Boudoir is the UK's smartest lifestyle venue, where a world of naughtiness, sexual liberation, and debauchery hides in every corner. With a fully licensed bar and sexy t
My Frisky Business
Rainbow Rave
Sat, Jun 6, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event My Frisky Business presents Rainbow Rave Join us on Saturday June 6th from 10PM to 4AM , at THE LOFT in Brooklyn, NY Get out your most Colorful Rainbow Rave Outfits and come Taste the Rainbow as we party the night away! This is an ON-PREMISE, FULL CLUB TAKEOVER. The venue is BYOB, &amp
My Frisky Business
Flower Power Party
Sat, May 16, 2026
West Babylon, NY
Special Event My Frisky Business present's Flower Power Party Join us Saturday, May 16th, from 10PM to 3AM at Medusa’s Playhouse in West Babylon, NY Let’s get groovy baby, get out those bell bottoms, crop tops, peace signs, tie dye, flowered headbands, fringed vest and everything that brings you bac
Ohio Swings
Weedo Wednesday
Wed, May 20, 2026
New Carlisle, OH
From $20
Weedo Wednesday, NOTICE: THERE WILL BE MARAJUANA SMOKED IN THE SMOKING AREA ON THIS EVENT. PLEASE AT
Ohio Swings
Rainbow Vibes
Sat, May 16, 2026
New Carlisle, OH
From $40
Dress in rain bows or rain bow colors. Come support our community. Let's Party ! ! ! ! ! Our parties
Ohio Swings
Pre-Pride Show
Fri, May 15, 2026
New Carlisle, OH
From $30
Prelude to P R I D E month. Drag show @ 9pm Door prizes: Our parties are laid back do as much or as
Open Instincts Events
Spring Fling Weekend
Fri, May 15, 2026
From $65
Spring Fling Weekend COMPLETE HOTEL TAKEOVER Step into Spring Fling, a private weekend escape wh
Pendulum Club
5 SLUTTY DRESS FRIDAYS SOUTH
Fri, May 15, 2026
Houston, Texas
From $32.48
Friday nights in South Houston just got sexier! Our Friday night visitors have beenavery active kinky crowd who know how to party. Now we are making sure we continue to provide our members the best sexiest environment to create afun night for both new couplesthinking about taking their intimate play
Pendulum Club
7 SLUTTY DRESS FRIDAY NORTH
Fri, May 15, 2026
Spring, TX
From $32.48
NORTH LOCATION!!! Must see this club! TPC is now in NORTH HOUSTON! FRIDAY NIGHT IS SLUTTY DRESS NIGH
Pendulum Club
3 Slutty Dress Night HEMPSTEAD
Fri, May 15, 2026
Houston, TX
From $32.48
HEMPSTEAD LOCATION!!! Woo-Hoo! TPC is back! This Friday Slutty DressNight! Couples And single female
Playcate Conventions
How about a red hot DTF party?
Sat, May 16, 2026
Goose Creek, SC
Get ready to turn up the heat as May kicks off, because our DTF party on Saturday, May 16th is set to blaze into action! This is no ordinary gathering—it's a red-hot affair, and we're kicking things off with a bang... again! The party ignites at 7:30 pm and wraps up as the clock strikes midnight. Ar
SoCalCircus
SoCalCircus Friday 05/22 8PM  eXXXtremely action p
Fri, May 22, 2026
Garden Grove, CA
THIS IS AN EXCELLENT PARTY FOR WOMEN & COUPLES WHO LOVE LOTS OF ACTION! Call us RIGHT AWAY at 909-549-5236 (Please do not text) and PLAN IN ADVANCE if possible. Spots for girls and couples are limited and they are going faster than ever! We only allow six girls/couples per party and those spots will
SoCalCircus
SoCalCircus Saturday 05/16 8PM  eXXXtremely action
Sat, May 16, 2026
Garden Grove, CA
THIS IS AN EXCELLENT PARTY FOR WOMEN & COUPLES WHO LOVE LOTS OF ACTION! Call us RIGHT AWAY at 909-549-5236 (Please do not text) and PLAN IN ADVANCE if possible. Spots for girls and couples are limited and they are going faster than ever! We only allow six girls/couples per party and those spots will
SoCalCircus
SoCalCircus Friday 05/15 8PM  eXXXtremely action p
Fri, May 15, 2026
Garden Grove, CA
THIS IS AN EXCELLENT PARTY FOR WOMEN & COUPLES WHO LOVE LOTS OF ACTION! Call us RIGHT AWAY at 909-549-5236 (Please do not text) and PLAN IN ADVANCE if possible. Spots for girls and couples are limited and they are going faster than ever! We only allow six girls/couples per party and those spots will
Sugar & Spice
80's Hotel Party and Ms. Sugar & Spice Qualifier (
Sat, May 16, 2026
Vineland, NJ
Special Event We are heading back to the 80s for a weekend where the music is rad, the rock is awesome, and the style is always sexy. www.sugar-n-spice.net for info and tickets! Please keep in mind that rooms on the party floor is available on a first-come, first-served basis, so be sure to secure y
Sugar & Spice
80's Hotel Party and Ms. Sugar & Spice Qualifier
Fri, May 15, 2026
From $150
Get Ready to TimeTravel Back to the Totally Rad 80s! Pack your neon, lace up those hightop sneakers,
THE HOUSE
Day Pool & Sybian Game Night
Sat, May 23, 2026
Raleigh, NC
Ok time to get a little wild. We will have a Sybian set up in front of a table. The ladies will ride the sybian and try to complete the game in front of them. Stack & unstack cups. The ladies must get to at least to their panties or naked. The winner will get a prize. So come out to watch or join in
THE HOUSE
Backyard BBQ ByThe Pool
Sat, May 16, 2026
Raleigh, NC
Thats right it is Summer time and ready for our BBQ we do a few times a summer. Come out early to enjoy the pool. Meet some new friend. We will have BBQ chicken with all the fixins all day. So get your reservations in ASAP as we will fill up fast. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support.
THE HOUSE
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night
Fri, May 15, 2026
Raleigh, NC
MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, and 25 females, 25 couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to obse
Trapeze Club Atlanta
Women in Men's Shirts
Fri, May 22, 2026
Atlanta, GA
Sometimes less really is more. Tonight at Trapeze, it’s all about that irresistible look! A woman in nothing but a man’s shirt. Loose, playful, and begging to come off.Come out and play at Atlanta's best sex club!*Current membership to Trapeze required. 
Trapeze Club Atlanta
DISCORD NIGHT: Silk & Shimmer Diamond Club 12th Anniversary
Sat, May 16, 2026
Atlanta, GA
Slip into your sexiest silky or shimmering look for a night of sleek style, seductive energy, and unforgettable chemistry!Join us as we celebrate 12 years of the Diamond Club in sparkling fashion!Come out and play at Atlanta’s best swingers club!*Membership to Trapeze required. 
Trapeze Club Atlanta
Leather & Lace hosted by Anything But Vanilla & Hot Couple Chronicles
Fri, May 15, 2026
Atlanta, GA
Fresh Fridays turns irresistible with the perfect contrast of soft lace, sleek leather, and undeniable chemistry!Dress to tempt, make an entrance, and let the night pull you in!Come out and play at Atlanta’s best swingers club!*Membership to Trapeze required. 
Trapeze Club Fort Lauderdale
OnlyVans Sneaker Party
Fri, May 22, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
A playful twist on a fan favorite where fresh sneakers, sexy looks, and flirtatious energy steal the spotlight! Show off your best pair, tease a little, and see who wants to subscribe to your vibe!Come out and play at South Florida’s best sex club!*Membership to Trapeze required. 
Trapeze Club Fort Lauderdale
Ladies in Men's Shirts
Sat, May 16, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Get ready to tease and tempt at Ladies in Men’s Shirts, where the sexiest looks come from ladies in nothing but men’s shirts. Oversized, undone, and irresistibly hot—this is one fantasy you’ll want to see in real life.Come out and play at South Florida’s best swingers club!*Membership to Trapeze req
Trapeze Club Fort Lauderdale
Hot Wife Night
Fri, May 15, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Turn up the heat this May at Trapeze Club South Florida with Hot Wife Night! Join us on May 15th for a night of sizzling encounters and steamy fun, featuring the hottest wives ready to make this night unforgettable. Don’t miss this electrifying evening of passion and play!Come out and play at South
Wicked Fun
Red, White & Wicked
Fri, May 22, 2026
From $10
96 SATURDAY, MAY 22 MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND 9PM2AM TICKETS ONLINE ONLY Event RED, WHITE & WICKED Theme
Wicked Fun
Naughty Nighty
Sat, May 16, 2026
Middletown, CT
From $20
Wicked Fun
The Wicked Draft
Sat, May 16, 2026
Middletown, CT
96 FRIDAY, MAY 15 THE WICKED DRAFT 8PM1AM ONLY 10 SINGLE MEN INVITED TICKETS ONLINE ONLY Event THE W
Wild Walker's
Spanking Party
Wed, May 20, 2026
Dearborn Heights, MI
Club Wild Walkers Presents Bar Take Over Private Wednesday Take over at Wild Walkers HELD ON THE 3rd
Wild Walker's
Corsets and Fishnets
Sat, May 16, 2026
Dearborn Heights, MI
From $10
Wild Walkers Presents: Corsets & Fishnets at Walkers Speakeasy Dearborn Heights, MI Metro Detroit's
Wild Walker's
VIP- Frisky Meet and Greet
Fri, May 15, 2026
Dearborn Heights, MI
Club Wild Walkers Presents A Free No Cover Lifestyle VIP Meet and Greet. Open to All Lifestyle People Come on out and visit us at Club Wild Walkers for an evening of music and excitement. Meet some people and friends and make plans for our Saturday Private Parties Come and meet others you know and o
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