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Allures
Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional

Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional

Sacramento, CA
Special Event Allures and Topless Travel brings our Premier and Exclusive Lifestyle Experience to Jaco, Costa Rica for a spa resort weeklong TAKEOVER! Join us in exotic Costa Rica from May 23-May 31, 2026, for a clothing optional takeover of a resort paradise! This tropical boutique hotel features 2
Allures
Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates

Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates

(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Allures
Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates

Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates

(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Club Eden
DFW Texas Swing

DFW Texas Swing

Euless, TX
From $20
TEXAS SWING Come feel that Texas dance swagger! 4 th Thursday $35 VIP MEMBER COUPLES $45 DAILY MEMBE
Club Eden
SATX All Kinks Thursday

SATX All Kinks Thursday

San Antonio, TX
From $10
ALL KINKS THURSDAY Powered by Infliction Hall Rope*Impact*Edge*Dom/Sub/FemDom*Leather*Primal* Little
Club Eden
DFW Play More Party

DFW Play More Party

Euless, TX
From $20
Play More PARTY Meet Mingle Play Whos DTF? $25 VIP MEMBER COUPLES $35 DAILY MEMBER COUPLES $20 DAILY
Club Sapphire
Swing into Summer Take-Over

Swing into Summer Take-Over

Westport, WA
From $150
Club Sapphire Presents: SWING INTO SUMMER Westport Lifestyle Take-Over Sorry we are SOLD OUT! Get on
Club Sapphire
NEW Single-Solo Male Orientation & Party

NEW Single-Solo Male Orientation & Party

Tukwila, WA
Are you a single or solo gentleman interested in becoming part of the exclusive Club Sapphire lifest
Club Sapphire
Midweek Rendezvous

Midweek Rendezvous

Tukwila, WA
From $10
Why wait for the weekend? Some of the most electric connections happen midweek. Wild in the Middle i
DomCon
DomCon LA 2026 Registration

DomCon LA 2026 Registration

Los Angeles, CA
From $25
Who Attends DomCon? Whether youre new to BDSM or a seasoned player, DomCon has a place for everyone. The premier convention for Domination, submission, and fetish has two locations twice a year. No matter where you live, DomCon is an accessible expo of knowledge and exploration. To find out more abo
DomCon
Sponsorship Opportunities - DomCon LA 2026

Sponsorship Opportunities - DomCon LA 2026

Los Angeles, CA
$1000
Sponsorship Opportunities DomCon LA invites you to participate in the sponsorship of America's Premier Professional and Lifestyle Domination Convention. Being a DomCon LA Sponsor presents an excellent opportunity to expand the exposure and visibility of your name, logo and/or website as well as crea
DomCon
DomCon LA 2026 Volunteer Sign-Up Page

DomCon LA 2026 Volunteer Sign-Up Page

Los Angeles, CA
Our Ticket page shows which Pass you will earn for the shifts listed, &/or future events. To get ful
Eros Knoxville
TodayTHE REVUE & THE RUN

THE REVUE & THE RUN

Knoxville, Tennessee
From $10
THE REVUE & THE RUN RUNNING OF THE BULLS Thursday | May 14, 2026 Step into the spotlight and feel th
House of Black
Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group

Consensual Non-Monogamy Discussion Group

From $5
CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP ABOUT THE GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who
House of Black
A Black Tie Affair - A Night of Rope Education

A Black Tie Affair - A Night of Rope Education

San Diego, CA
From $15
A BLACK TIE AFFAIR A Rope Practice Hosted by: Shel Educators: Talented Mr Jay & bunny Black Tie Affi
House of Black
Sexy Content Creation Party

Sexy Content Creation Party

San Diego, CA
From $15
SEXY CONTENT CREATION PARTY hosted by Ree Calling all Couples, Individuals, & Content Creators... DE
Infliction Hall
All Tied Up

All Tied Up

Dfw, TX
From $15
ALL TIED UP Rope Play Stay Kinky and Rope On! $20 VIP MEMBERS - $30 DAILY MEMBERS BYOB SET UPS LOCKE
Infliction Hall
GURLS NIGHT OUT

GURLS NIGHT OUT

Dfw, TX
From $20
GURLS NIGHT OUT Thursday Come Dance The Night Away! $20 MEMBERS - $25 DAILYMEMBERS BYOB SET UPS LOCK
Infliction Hall
Newbies and Beginners Night

Newbies and Beginners Night

Dfw, TX
From $5
Newbies & Beginners Night Basics & Boundaries **** CLASSES START PROMPTLY @ 8:15 **** $20 MEMBERS -
KNetic Club Calgary
KNetic Newbie Night & Member Appreciation!

KNetic Newbie Night & Member Appreciation!

From $25
KNetic Newbie Night & Member Appreciation Doors open at 8:00 PM Tickets sell fast!! KNetic Newbie Ni
KNetic Club Calgary
Gang Bang Event

Gang Bang Event

Calgary, Alberta
From $30
KNetic Gang Bang Event Hedonism at it's finest This is the SECOND Gang Bang Event at our brand new K
KNetic Club Calgary
Naked Yoga

Naked Yoga

$35
Naked Yoga Lets Get Naked! Doors open at 7pm. Class starts promptly at 7:30pm KNetic has teamed up w
Oasis Tickets
Naked Karaoke

Naked Karaoke

Toronto, ON
Back by popular demand: Naked Karaoke returns inside Oasis Aqualounge. Singles and couples are invited to belt it out; in the buff if you dare! Join our host Scarlet Black and sing your favorite songs in the Oasis Ballroom. Naked Karaoke begins at 10:00 pm. Solos and couples are welcome from 1:00 pm
Oasis Tickets
Speed Dating

Speed Dating

Toronto, ON
From $15
Today, solos & couples are welcome at Oasis Aqualounge for 'Woody Wednesdays. ' Enjoy our clothing-o
Oasis Tickets
Naked Yoga

Naked Yoga

Toronto, ON
Join us for Naked Yoga with Bri. Get into the zen mood in this hatha-inspired, beginner-friendly pra
Ohanas Social Club
PROM

PROM

From $30
More details soon! Pre-registration is requested ** Absolutely NO admission after doors close at mid
Ohanas Social Club
Tropical Paradise Weekend COMPLETE Hotel Takeover

Tropical Paradise Weekend COMPLETE Hotel Takeover

Northeast, OH
Our next Hotel Takeover is NOW booking! Atrium rooms have sold out. Other rooms still available! Pac
Ohanas Social Club
Hump Day Trivia

Hump Day Trivia

Columbus, OH
From $15
A sexy fun mid week night of Trivia to get you throughuntil the weekend! A great night for newbies!
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Learn - You New Here?

Learn - You New Here?

Anywhere, OK
Absolutely, London Heres a full copy-paste HTML event page with that warm retro hippie flower-power vibe: ```html OTB Presents: You New Here? Lifestyle Newbies Class May 21st 7:30PM CST Virtual Class Find Your Groove Fresh to the lifestyle? Heading to Sooner Swing and wondering how to walk in with c
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Flirt - South OKC Metro Monthly Meet & Greet

Flirt - South OKC Metro Monthly Meet & Greet

Oklahoma City, OK
South OKC Monthly M&G Flirtin' It Up @ Alley Club Time: 7:30 PM Location: Alley Club Get ready for a
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
MAY 2026 PHOTO CONTEST!

MAY 2026 PHOTO CONTEST!

Anywhere, OK
MONTHLY PHOTO CONTEST #MayFlowers2k26 MAY FLOWERS April showers have come and gone, nowlet'slet thos
Pleasure Bound Studios
Meet N Greet

Meet N Greet

Tumwater, WA
Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its bes
Pleasure Bound Studios
Dominant's Roundtable (new location)

Dominant's Roundtable (new location)

Tumwater, WA
This is a non vetted event Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetli
Pleasure Bound Studios
South Sound Submissives (New Location)

South Sound Submissives (New Location)

Tumwater, WA
This is a non vetted event Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetli
Sub Space Seattle
Kinky Connections - Match and Mingle Night at SubSpace May 31

Kinky Connections - Match and Mingle Night at SubSpace May 31

From $15
Are you new to the scene? Or new to Seattle? Are you looking to make new friends? Are you interested
Sub Space Seattle
May 30 Saturday Night Play Party

May 30 Saturday Night Play Party

From $25
Come out and play at another traditional Saturday Night Play Party at SubSpace! We'll have social ar
Sub Space Seattle
Free Rope Social - Hump Day! May 27

Free Rope Social - Hump Day! May 27

From $10
Rope Lounge is now a free Rope Social for our SubSpace Members in good standing. How does it work? If you are a Premium Member, you would purchase a $10 ticket (so we can anticipate how many people will show up), and when you check in, your ticket fee will be credited back to your account. But only
BeenPanda
Hot Date in Palm Springs, CA on Wed, May 13, 2026
Palm Springs, CA
Hi everyone. We'll be at the O Spa in Palm Springs Wednesday night May 13th. We're looking for couples or single ladies. No single men right now please. We'll have alcohol, take some shots, relax in the hot spas. It's a clothing optional spa and we'll definitely be using that to our advantage. Hopef
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BeenPanda
Hot Date in Victorville, CA on Wed, May 27, 2026
Victorville, CA
Hi everyone. We're looking for a hook up, some NSA, clean fun. We can host. Just really need to have some fun and de-stress. We'll have booze, take some shots, just have a good time. Hit us up, let us know, we're both very pleasing and giving. Couples and single ladies only. No single males this tim
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Tempusfuget22
Hot Date in N Myrtle Beach, SC on Fri, May 29, 2026
N Myrtle Beach, SC
We will be staying in Myrtle Friday and she wants to have a sucking for certs get together and BBC's are most welcome. So if you're interested reach out with a pic available please. This will be from 2 till 7pm T&D
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Tempusfuget22
Hot Date in Myrtle Beach, SC on Thu, May 28, 2026
Myrtle Beach, SC
We will be visiting the beach and would like to meet a couple or BBC to join us that evening. We will host , have a picture for her to see and be serious. T&D
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Tempusfuget22
Hot Date in Myrtle Beach, SC on Wed, May 27, 2026
Myrtle Beach, SC
We will be in Myrtle beach Thursday evening and would like to have a couple, or a BBC join us or maybe both to pass some time away. Have a g rated pic to share if you're interested. We will host
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Philburl
Hot Date in Washington, DC on Fri, May 29, 2026
Washington, DC
Mature couple’s last night in DC. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda
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Philburl
Hot Date in Washington, DC on Thu, May 28, 2026
Washington, DC
Mature couple visiting for a week. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda
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Philburl
Hot Date in Washington, DC on Wed, May 27, 2026
Washington, DC
Mature couple visiting for a week. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda
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Hotwife_Nxxtdoor
Hot Date in Louisville, KY on Wed, May 27, 2026
Louisville, KY
Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville. Married, bourbon-loving couple looking for upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful chemistry. Open to couples, or confident singles—no pressure, just vibes. Where’s your go-to drink spot?
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Hotwife_Nxxtdoor
Hot Date in Louisville, KY on Wed, May 27, 2026
Louisville, KY
Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville (May 24–29) and doing it right. Married, bourbon-loving, flirty, and ready to make the night unforgettable. Think upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful flirting that speaks volumes. Looking for couples, or confident singles who enjoy good convo, rea
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Hotwife_Nxxtdoor
Hot Date in Louisville, KY on Wed, May 27, 2026
Louisville, KY
Celebrating a milestone the right way—Married couple visiting Louisville May 24–29 for Hubs 50th — and we’re making it unforgettable. We’re bourbon lovers, a little flirtatious, a lot of fun, and we clean up very well for a night out. Think: upscale cocktails, low lighting, slow music, and lingering
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pebblesbambam1
Hot Date in Fort Lauderdale, FL on Fri, May 29, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
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pebblesbambam1
Hot Date in Fort Lauderdale, FL on Thu, May 28, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
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pebblesbambam1
Hot Date in Fort Lauderdale, FL on Wed, May 27, 2026
Fort Lauderdale, FL
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
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HotwifeHotlife69
Hot Date in Biloxi, MS on Tue, May 26, 2026
Biloxi, MS
Will be in Biloxi for about 4 nights and looking for hot couples, single hot guys or hot married guys. Send pics if interested and we will reciprocate. Don't reply without them open and yes we will open ours in return
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2bimore
Hot Date in Battle Creek, MI on Tue, May 26, 2026
Battle Creek, MI
We will be in town the 26th and 27th. Looking to make new friends :-) Take a peek at our profile and let us know if you may be interested in meeting.
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2bimore
Hot Date in Battle Creek, MI on Wed, May 27, 2026
Battle Creek, MI
We will be in town the 26th and 27th. Looking to make new friends :-) Take a peek at our profile and let us know if you may be interested in meeting.
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tatianaj69
Hot Date in Seattle, WA on Thu, May 28, 2026
Seattle, WA
Unicorn. Let me be your third. I'll be in town for a couple of nights and want to be shared with your wife.
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Kr2825
Hot Date in Cabo San Lucas Centro, 03 on Wed, May 27, 2026
Cabo San Lucas Centro, 03
Wifey and I will be in Cabo San Lucas & @ Riu Palace. Looking to see how the vibe is and hopefully meet new friends. Open to anything that pops up in the moment since we are newbies and never had any experience in the lifestyle. Say hi and let's bump in to eachother. Anything is possible...single ma
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VictoriaVixsin
Hot Date in Clearwater, FL on Fri, May 29, 2026
Clearwater, FL
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
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VictoriaVixsin
Hot Date in Clearwater, FL on Thu, May 28, 2026
Clearwater, FL
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
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VictoriaVixsin
Hot Date in Clearwater, FL on Wed, May 27, 2026
Clearwater, FL
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
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SamNTravis
Hot Date in Santa Fe, NM on Wed, May 27, 2026
Santa Fe, NM
The wife and I will be on a mini vacation in Santa Fe from May 26th through May 29th, 2026. We can host at our hotel.
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CC51lifebegins
Hot Date in Charlotte Amalie, VI on Wed, May 27, 2026
Charlotte Amalie, VI
Heading to St Thomas USVI Red Hook area, May 27-June 1. Looking for some new “friends” to hang out with! We love a good time! Couples, SF, select SM.
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JCFuntimes033
Hot Date in Lake George, NY on Fri, May 29, 2026
Lake George, NY
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
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JCFuntimes033
Hot Date in Lake George, NY on Thu, May 28, 2026
Lake George, NY
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
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JCFuntimes033
Hot Date in Lake George, NY on Wed, May 27, 2026
Lake George, NY
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
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Sigma100
Hot Date in Lahaina, HI on Sun, May 31, 2026
Lahaina, HI
We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25
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Sigma100
Hot Date in Lahaina, HI on Fri, May 29, 2026
Lahaina, HI
We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25
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Sigma100
Hot Date in Lahaina, HI on Wed, May 27, 2026
Lahaina, HI
We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25
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Thebad1
Hot Date in Baltimore, MD on Wed, May 27, 2026
Baltimore, MD
Traveling for work and looking for playmates. I'm not familiar with the area and will be hosting in my hotel.
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