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Tagged: First Time

Advice and stories focused on first-time swinging experiences.

Articles tagged First Time

Blonde woman in black thong and thigh-high leather boots cuffed to a padded black St. Andrew's cross

The St. Andrew's Cross: BDSM Play Furniture Basics

A practical guide to the St. Andrew's Cross — restraint safety, scene communication, and aftercare couples need before using any BDSM play furniture.

BDSM
5 min read · Nov 18, 2013
Young blonde woman and dark-haired man in close intimate embrace with eyes closed in dim light

The Art of Swinging - Couples and Their Sexual Adventures

Why couples swing, what forms it takes, and how communication and consent turn shared adventure into an experience that genuinely strengthens a relationship.

Couple SwappingSwinger Couple
4 min read · Oct 2, 2013
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5 Oral Sex Tips for Pleasuring a Woman

I never get tongue tied is with oral sex on a woman. Oral sex is something that the vast majority of women love to have done to them, but of course it is only g

Couple SwappingSwinger Lifestyle
5 min read · Mar 6, 2013
Cartoon graphic of a grinning banana character beside large blue text reading Does Size Matter on green foliage

Does Size Matter? A Body-Neutral Look at Connection

An honest, body-neutral take on the size question — why confidence, communication, and technique matter more than anatomy in any lifestyle or partnered context.

Swinger Lifestyle
3 min read · Jul 16, 2012
Assorted condom packets, latex gloves, dental dams, and lube sachets spread out on a white surface

Lifestyle Party FAQ: Common Questions, Consent-First Answers

A practical Q&A on attending lifestyle parties: who gets invited, how clubs differ from house parties, what to bring, and the "no one has to play" etiquette.

Swinger Clubs
3 min read · Apr 9, 2012
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How Bisexual Men Find Welcoming Space in the Lifestyle

Bi men navigate a distinct set of experiences in the lifestyle. This guide examines bi-male agency, bi-erasure, and what genuine CNM inclusion looks like.

Bisexual Swingers
4 min read · Sep 13, 2011
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First-Time Swingers: What to Actually Wear

A practical, inclusive wardrobe guide for first-time swingers — meet-and-greets, clubs, house parties, and resorts — with etiquette cues from Swing.com members.

HotwifingSwinger ClubsSwinger Couple
5 min read · Jun 9, 2011
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So You Want to Become a Swinger: An Honest Readiness Check

Thinking about becoming a swinger? This is a self-assessment, not a recruitment pitch, including the risk factors and readiness questions most articles skip.

Swinger CoupleSwinger Lifestyle
6 min read · May 19, 2011
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Threesomes: Practical Advice for Couples

Practical 2026 advice on threesomes: common configurations, the mistakes couples make, finding a third on a lifestyle platform, protecting the primary bond.

Threesomes
6 min read · May 9, 2011
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Choosing a Swinger Club: What to Look For

How to find the right swinger club for your first visit — what to research, what to ask, and how Swing.com's club directory makes the search easier.

Swinger Clubs
4 min read · May 2, 2011
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