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This is the Venus Cuckoldress podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Let's go. Welcome to the show everyone i'm your host venus thanks for joining me today today i'm talking about one of my favorite topics talking about a bbc interracial cuckolding so i have this thing on my website where you can send in a voice note to me, either a question, a comment, or a confession.
And sometimes I go and I take those and I put them on the show and talk about them. Today is one of those. And there are three different confessions that I'm going to talk about today. They are awesome. They are super hot. So stay tuned for that. But first, of course, I have some announcements to make. On the 17th of May, which is, I believe, a Friday at 2 p.m. Pacific time, 5 p.m. Eastern, I'm going to be doing a special live event in the Queen's Quarters community.
It is a live chat event where I'm going to be talking about my favorite subject, interracial cuckolding. And I am going to be making a huge announcement during that event. And I mean, it is big. I am so, so excited for this. I can't spill the beans on it yet, but just know that it has to do with some fun, juicy stuff that's coming up. So it's free to attend. You can go to venuscuckoldress.com, click on the link that says events. You can do it that way.
The link is also in the show notes for today's episode. So make sure you check that out. That's on the 17th of May, a live chat in the Queens Quarters community. Big announcement. We're going to be talking about interracial cuckolding. Don't miss it. Also recently, I had a really fun time being a guest on the Bad Girls Bible podcast. We talked about all things cuckolding, and it was really, really a lot of fun. It was very interesting. So make sure you check that out.
I will post the link to that show in the show notes for today's episode. All right, that's it for announcements. Let's jump into the show today. Here we go. Hey Venus. So my confession is about how I got into this lifestyle or I should say how I like started to enjoy this lifestyle. I guess it started with my first girlfriend who I'm going to show for a little bit, went and slept with a black eye or two.
And when we actually got back together for a little bit, I was the first person she ever had sex with.
But after we broke up and got back together she flat out told me I had a small dick and at first it kind of hurt but it honestly turned me on after time and made me curious about uh black dicks which kind of turned me into uh loving that kind of porn because i would start searching it all the time and just the comparison of those big black dicks compared to mine was like huge i'm like four and a half five inches and pretty thin and uh i don't know i've been told by multiple girls after that i was one of the smallest they've been with, and it kind of just made me start to think about how much I loved thinking about all these women in my life being with much bigger cocks.
and the thought of them with like a big black cock just always arouses me a ton. So at this point in my life, I mean, I love big black cock. It's just really funny, I guess. I just love this guy so much. And this stood out for me for a couple of reasons. Okay, the first, I love that part where he says, yeah, she slept with a black guy or two. The way he said that. Oh, my God. I don't know why, but I just found that, like, so fucking adorable.
But, okay, so he took this, like, potentially really painful experience where his girlfriend, you know, they broke up and she went and slept with some other guys, black guys. And then she came back and they got back together and she told them straight up, like, your size is not comparable to these other guys. And he took that, which could have been so, so hurtful and so damaging.
He took that and instead of allowing it to be something that was destructive for him into something that was like such a turn on for him. I love the fact that some guys are able to do this. And when it comes to origin stories, I think that this might be a little bit common, because I've heard guys being able to do this, where either she cheated on him, and it was so painful, and he was so upset about it. But then oddly, it turned into something that was like an insane turn on for him.
And in this case, where it was, you know, his size is lacking, he's got a small dick, and she's telling him that. And instead of, you know, being really upset about it, it turns into this real kind of obsession about size and such a turn on. God, I love that so much. not all cucks have, you know, small dicks, not all cucks are lacking in sexual ability.
But for the ones who are, the fact that you can really embrace this kind of relationship, this kind of identity as a cuck, as it being like this part that you really do like about yourself. Oh, my God, I fucking love that so much. And the fact that he went and decided that he enjoys this part, this looking up BBC porn, watching all of this BBC porn, he said he likes the comparison between himself and these guys. okay you guys guys, this is a fucking thing.
I'm pretty sure I've said this on the podcast before, but this is legit a fucking thing. There are, I want to say, millions of white guys out there obsessing about BBC porn. And a lot of them are in the closet about it but they really enjoy watching BBC porn this is like mesmerizing for them this is a real fucking thing like this is obviously big business the BBC category on just Pornhub alone is huge but then you've got sites like black.com and stuff that really play into this.
These are, I would say, by far, almost all white guys obsessing about this.
And if there's something that I've noticed over my lifetime, and a lot of other women are going to agree when they hear this, there's nothing that guys obsess about more than dick size well maybe sports but i swear to god they've made dick size obsession about bbc into a fucking sport for real but nothing gets guys fired up more than them talking about thinking about their dick size or the size of other guys dicks or whatever. Like this is a fucking thing.
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My first cuck boyfriend, he was into race play. He loved the whole like racial undertones of interracial cuckolding. I wasn't into it so much for like the racial undertones, but I understood as a woman, I understood that kind of compelling nature that guys, black guys have when it comes to like sexual prowess and ability and just size and just fucking sex appeal and all of that sort of stuff. Like, I obviously understood it.
it I still do and so I was into it mainly for like the sexual preference of black guys so it really did not take much for me to jump on board for that but having said that like there's tons of cuckolding couples out there that don't have, they don't go down that kind of interracial road.
It might just seem like it's bigger than it is because this is something that I love and I talk about a lot, but it is, it's definitely not everything within cuckolding, but oh my God, it is something that is for sure. It is really something. But one thing I have noticed is that I do think that there's way more guys thinking about interracial BBC cuckolding, you know, that sort of stuff than there are women for sure. Like that's guaranteed.
And I know this because in my matchmaking service, there are so few single women who are looking for interracial cuckolding when it comes to looking for a partner. There are so many single guys who are looking for a woman who's a so-called queen of spades like myself, who just really enjoys black bulls. And that is a very stark contrast between the two. Like there are tons of guys who absolutely have to have that. It's a must have. They are so into it. This is part of who they are.
They absolutely must be in an interracial cuckolding relationship. So few women, single women who are out there are looking for that.
Like's just it's it's so rare it's so rare I feel like the interracial cuckolding couples that are out there um they didn't start out that way this was something that kind of evolved within their long-term relationship or marriage so to have a single woman who is you know right right in the beginning looking for for that kind of dynamic is just it's kind of unrealistic i'm a bit of a unicorn in that sense but i also really love the fact that this guy is you know really getting into the that a small penis humiliation part of it like i just i i love and adore that i did not understand that when i first got into cuckolding that was like i was like what the fuck i do not get that at all it didn't make any sense to me i'd never come across that in life before in fact most guys are just really defensive about the size of their dick so i'd never come across one who really enjoyed being teased about that.
But oh my gosh, do I ever love it now? It is really a form of love. Really, it is. So any of you ladies who are listening out there and you have a guy who is wanting you to tease him about that, fuck, just go for it. It can be so, so much fun.
As long as you're both really into that fuck just go for it it can be so so much fun as long as you're both really into it then go for it yeah morning Venus um yeah I just my name's Steve my uh I mean I fell upon your blog on that I think it's absolutely fascinating my confession is um obviously as a young white guy, teenager, the young, like, 20s, I used to listen to the girls and they're talking about how the sexual prowess of black guys. And it really, really used to grate on me.
It really used to make me angry.
And then one day, it's like, fast forward, I don i don't know as young guys do i was reading this magazine and i just read this story about this how this man worked with this black guy and he had fantasies of him like sleeping with his wife and all that and i told his wife and like she said no and then basically he sort of like dragged her down and all that and um she eventually yeah yeah said yes yeah and i was reading this story and it's like how he got the man back to his house and all that how much bigger he was and him and all that you know so angry and all that but at the same time i can understand it i'm so turned on and anyway uh fast forward to today and I'm with this my girlfriend now I was married and all that vanilla relationship that broke down and we have a girlfriend now and like we openly talk about fantasies and I told her and I think god's like she takes me on it's almost like now I don't know if she teases me and all that and we've actually been to a club in England called the black man's Fan Club where white couples go and single black men go and she hasn't actually slept with a black guy yet but we do fantasize about it and that and basically it's well yeah we went there she was flirting with them and all that she put a cage on me and it was like I don't know I was angry but turned on and oh god the emotions were absolutely fantastic and at that point I loved them more than anything in the world funnily enough and yeah she just flirted with gave one like just a handjob and all that and I just realised the size of some of these guys, I could never even begin to compete.
But that turned me on even more. But then she'd come home, she'd kiss me, and we stayed in a travel lodge. And we went back, and she teased me all night. It was just absolutely fantastic. And it's almost like the more I admit I could never compete sexually with them, And more it's like, the more turned on I'll get, the better erections I get, the better orgasms I have. It's almost like nature's little reward for admitting the truth, you know what I mean? Anyway, that's just my little thing.
It's probably boring. Keep up the good work, and I think you're a fantastic lady. Anyway, take care. Bye. Such a great little story.
it's probably boring uh keep up with the good work and i think you're a fantastic lady anyway take care bye such a great little story um i've heard this this reminds me actually of a story that i think i read it on the goddess worshiper blog um where he was talking about it might have been on there anyway where he was talking about in the beginning, like he would get he's a white guy and he would get so upset about the fact that the women, the girls in college or whatever, whoever they were, were always flocking towards the black guys.
and the black guys were getting so many of these girls. And like, it always made him so mad. Like there was this real frustration and anger that he felt about it. And then one day, I guess he just kind of broke through that emotion. And there was this sense of defeat.
and with that sense of defeat came this like it was oddly like such a turn on for him to realize that and from that point onwards it was just this obsession about bbc and obsession about white women with black men and and all of that sort of stuff and so it was a it was like a switch was flipped and his frame of thinking just Let's what it made me think of. And so this is just kind of echoes that where this guy was, you know, he would always get upset.
He was talking about how, you know, he would hear the women talk about the sexual prowess of black men and it would make him mad. And and then, you know, frustrated and all that sort of stuff. And then, oh, my God, what was it that he said? The more I admit I could never compete sexually with them, the more turned on I get, the better erections, the better orgasms I get. And then he goes on to say that this is like nature's reward for admitting the truth.
my god but i heard that i'm like that's exactly it and that's kind of like that switch that gets flipped where if you just admit that's that you've been defeated that the this competition no longer exists that these guys have won and you have lost. There's something oddly fun about that. I will never understand it.
But I absolutely love the fact that more than one of these guys out there are all experiencing this when it comes to understanding that black guys are just for the most part in my opinion just better in bed so and it's not just about size although he did talk about the size and by the way okay what is this club what is this the black man's fan club I feel like um I need to be there he said in, I think, London or UK or something like that.
Anyway, I obviously am not in that part of the world, but I apparently need to be because I've never heard of a club like that in the city that I live. But that sounds so fun. Like, hello, why don't we have that here?
Anyway, the's fan club yes please sign me up um but then he talked about the that kind of mix of emotions of like he said it was like a mix of being angry and turned on watching his girlfriend play with these black guys and I can only imagine that that's kind of what like angst feels like for cucks that kind of like it's uncomfortable but it's yet very very exciting and it's such a turn on and I've heard this from so many guys out there who have said so many cucks out there who've said that it's a cuckolding fantasy, either talking about it, sharing that fantasy with somebody or following through with that fantasy with somebody.
There's something about that that creates the most powerful erections, the most powerful orgasms of a guy's entire life. And I've heard this so many times from guys that it is kind of shocking for them because it's not expected. But it also says something that these desires, these cuckolding desires are so powerful. And I've heard, like I said, I've heard that from so many guys. This is an actual real thing. So I can absolutely understand where the interracial aspect plays into that.
It's just so fun. I think cucks are so amazing. And I just love the fact that you guys can go through this kind of like psychologically emotional turmoil and discomfort and yet be so turned on at the same time and just be so excited about it at the same time. I just think that's so fascinating. I don't really know that there's anything else like that out there that I have experienced before. This is why I love cucks so much. And of course, this is why I love interracial cuckolding so much.
Hi Venus, this is Dave, and I wanted to share a cuck experience I had this past weekend. But I also want to say thank you for all you do to bring awareness to cuckolding lives and cuck lifestyle. I think it's more common than people think or people want to admit anyway. But as far as my experience goes, it was this past Saturday about 2 a.m. My wife's phone rings and it's her boyfriend. And she hangs up and tells me that he's going to be here in about 20 minutes.
So I get up to get dressed, but she instead hands me a nightgown and tells me to put that on instead. So I go out to the living room, straighten up while she gets ready for her boyfriend. When he arrives, they meet Reed at the door. She tells me to make him a couple of drinks while they go into the bedroom. And as I hand him the drink, she's asking him if he likes my nightgown and what he thinks about it. And so I think that's another.
Just head back into the living room, wait for them to call me back and about maybe five minutes later she calls me and tells me to start sucking his cock and so I do and while I'm doing that she grabs some lube out of the drawer starts lubeing me up I, well, she's going to fuck me with the strap on while I'm sucking this cop. After she gets done lubeing me up, she lays back down and tells me to eat her pussy. So I do.
After a couple of minutes, she hands me a condom and tells me to put it on him. And at this point, I realize that he's going to fuck me with the nightgown on. So I put the condom on, just position myself to take his cock. I mean, he's fucking me and he probably fucks me for a little few minutes and takes the coffin off and fucks my wife until he comes inside her pussy. Of course, I clean her up and I clean his cock up.
It was different in the sense that, I mean, I've been penetrated by other guys, but this was like, you know, spur of the moment type thing, not planned. Obviously, she planned it and they had planned it, but I didn't know about it. And so it was different, but fun and exciting at the same time. And I enjoyed it.
Okay, so the first thing I noticed about this story, this confession, when it first came in and I listened to it, so the first thing i noticed about this this story this confession when it first came in i listened to it i the first thing that went through my mind was is this real i'm always quite skeptical when guys talk about uh like a a fantasy experience that they've just had because I've come across so many guys who tell this story about what they did or what was done to them or whatever and it's obvious that is bullshit that this is just a story that they've made up in their mind that they just want to talk about it because it's hot and they're rubbing one out at the same time and they just want me to talk about it with them or something like that.
Like it's just very common to come across that online where guys are just bullshitting, just basically fantasy vomiting and stuff like that. So that was the first thing that went through my mind was like, is this real? This doesn't seem real to me.
then i i like i listened to it a couple more times i'm like well maybe it is because he was talking at the end he was talking about how like you know he's been penetrated by other guys before but this was different because this was a spur of the moment unplanned kind of thing so i'm like well maybe this is something that him and his wife do partake in for real. I don't know. I'm still not entirely convinced that this happened for real, but I'll just assume that it was.
There are a couple of things that I found interesting about this. Obviously that, you know, his wife is down for this. I don't want to say there's not a lot of women out there who are into this form of cuckolding that is like the forced feminization, the forced by aspect, whether it's forced or not, I don't know.
But I just haven't come across a lot of women who are, I guess, in that part of the spectrum of different dynamics and practices within cuckoldolding I haven't come across a lot who who are but I've have a lot of heard from a lot of guys who do fantasize about these things so um I don't know I if he if she is like that she's gone down that road and she loves it and she's comfortable with it and they're both having fun with it like fuck yes that's amazing that's awesome that you guys both are compatible in that way when it comes to your fantasies that's great but i have not come across a lot of women who are you know in that i guess that that stage or whatever um so maybe that's why i was a little skeptical as well however you know this know, this, the, the getting your man to wear women's panties or women's nightgown or something like that as a form of sexual humiliation, this is a theme that you do hear about sometimes within cuckolding.
It's not something that I have practiced because it's just not, it's not something that really turns me on. So it's not something, a road that I have gone down or I don't think I will, but there are a lot of women who get off on that. There's a lot of husbands who get off on that aspect of it. So I get it.
The fact that she was, she was the one who initiated all all of this this is a very common male fantasy when it comes to cuckolding and you'll see this in like a lot of like the porn memes and stuff like that where it'll be her catching him off guard oh by the way so and so is coming over in 20 minutes um and you know don't have any say in it. This is what I want and I'm going to make this happen kind of thing. This is a very common kind of storyline when it comes to cuckolding.
Whether or not there's a lot of women out there who really do take the lead like that and really like to, you know, throw down the surprise bull visits and stuff like that and oh surprise he's gonna fuck you and you know you don't have any say in it kind of thing whether or not that actually happens for real very often I kind of doubt but this is something that a lot of guys do fantasize about I guess the loss of control over the situation like she's gonna make me do this and she's gonna you know surprise me with this and I don't have any say in it and um yeah this is just something I see very often but one of the things that like I really I don't get it I don't get it so I like I've this before, like, would I get my cuck to dress in panties?
And what I put makeup on him in a wig? And like, I don't know, I don't understand this whole thing. Because like, I get it as a form of humiliation. But for me, I can't wrap my head around the part about like, are you, you're trying to make him look like a woman and that's supposed to be insulting is looking like a woman. I don't know, but I can't, to me that fucks with my mind because I'm like, women shouldn't be looked upon like that.
So wouldn't dressing your man like a woman be a compliment and not like a degradation? I, I don't know. I can't do it. And then there's the part about like in the story where he was saying, yeah, so my wife, you know, she made me dress in this night gown and she had her bull come over, boyfriend or whatever, come over.
And she asked him how, if he likes my nightgown and she had her bull come over boyfriend or whatever come over and she asked him how if he likes my nightgown that he didn't in this story say what the response was by the bull but i can't help but like wonder what the fuck the response was like what like because i'm trying to put myself in the position of a bull and I come over to her house and her husband's there in her nightgown. I mean, I'm trying to figure out what my reaction would be.
I would probably be like, he looks like a fucking idiot. I don't know. What do you want me to say here? Like, oh, he looks gorgeous. Like, oh, that looks cute. I don't know. Like, I feel like he looks like a fucking idiot. But maybe that's the point is that she was looking for like a genuine reaction. Or maybe this is a bull who just likes to play along with the whole forced feminization, humiliation game that they're playing.
And maybe this bull was like, oh, yeah, he looks like such a dirty little slut or something like that. You know, maybe that he just would get into that kind of little headspace game. I don't know, but for me, it would be hard for me not to blurt out that, you know, this looks like a fucking idiot. I don't know. For me, it would be hard for me not to blurt out that, you know, this looks like a fucking idiot.
I don't know, and I don't mean that in any way, shape, or form that's going to yuck somebody's yum. I'm just trying to put myself in that headspace, and it is hard for me to get past that. So anyway, there's that. Otherwise, I like this story, even though it didn't have anything to do with the race of the bull. That is totally fine. There were these other kind of dynamics within this story. And it was super hot. And I do really like this confession story. Thanks for joining me today.
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