Join host AC Maxwell on today's episode of The Swinging Single Podcast as we debunk common misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle. In an engaging and enlightening discussion, we'll address myths and misunderstandings surrounding swinging, providing valuable insights and perspectives from experienced swingers.Furthermore, don't miss a special interview segment featuring the infamous Duchess of Dick and her Friday night date. Tune in to hear firsthand accounts and escapades from one of the most renowned figures in the swinging community, offering a glimpse into the exciting and dynamic world of non-monogamous relationships. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or simply curious about exploring this lifestyle, this episode promises to be entertaining, informative, and thought-provoking.
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This episode is sponsored by Eureka Ergonomic. Most people with a home office share a common problem. You design a beautiful space, but end up with a standing desk that feels more like equipment, not furniture. Suddenly, everything feels cold and out of place. Eureka Ergonomic is different. Eureka Ergonomic designs standing desks, chairs, and full office setups that actually belong in your home, with warm materials, clean finishes, and thoughtful details that elevate your entire space.
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By continuing to listen to the podcast, you agreed to be bound by the then current version of this disclaimer by listening to the swinging single podcast you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms shave your cock and balls gentlemen oh yeah yeah. Here we go, everybody. You're listening to the Swingin' Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell. I'm A.C. Welcome to my podcast.
Remember, everybody, this is a swinging podcast about the single male experience and the swinging lifestyle. It's not about anybody else.
It's all about me's all about me ac i'm going to tell you a little more about my stuff and you know see what's going on and all that wonderful stuff that we do and all that so sit back relax and enjoy today we're going to contact miss duchess of dick she got a new job she started her new job she's going to on a date hopefully get some nice big cock for herself and we'll talk to her in a minute but right now i'm just trying to go find my way on this damn thing you know the internet i'm not good at this shit so you know but later on we're going to talk about exploring misconceptions about the swinger lifestyle so sit back and get back get with your wife get you with your husband maybe have her sit on your face get a blowjob while i listen to my titillizing tales of seduction and swinging as a swinging single male but first remember to you know go to uh swinging single podcast.com that's all things ac check out what i'm doing where i'm gonna be at all that good stuff then if you want also go to want to email me maybe you have uh want to be interviewed by the lovely me ac you can go to the uh go to my email swinging single podcast at gmail.com you could talk then and all that stuff but and all that great stuff so you know let's get down to let's give miss dick miss the duchess of dick let's give her a call and see what is going on and all that great stuff and it's gonna call in mobile this is my very first phone interview she was come in, but I was like, hey, don't come in.
I want to do the phone and all that shit, see how it works. Hello? Ah, damn. I only think it fucking works. Let's see how it works. Hello? Hello. Yeah. I don't think it's working. No?
working no i think it's going through your little thing there let me see it's on the air huh i wonder how this works though sorry that sucks well no it don't suck I just gotta figure it out Let me see Nope, don't fit on that one Alright It should work Because everything else works on it Hmm Hmm Let me see Nope Keypad Nope Nope Alright, well Oh well Technical difficulties here It's no big deal I'll see you next time. Nope. Nope. All right. Well, oh, well, technical difficulties here.
It's no big deal. Anything now? Nope. No, it's not working. Damn. Oh, well. But anyways, oh, hold on. Try it now. Yeah. Anything it now. How about now? Yeah. Anything? Anything. No. So you're going on a date later? That is the plan. Yeah. All right, cool. And where are you going? Just to the bar. To a, just a bar. How far away from your house is this bar? Like 35 minutes. Holy shit, why is it so far away for you? That's how far it is from my house to anything in the Heights.
Oh my God, you're going to the Heights? Does he live in the Heights? No. No? He lives in Katy. Okay, so why don't you meet somewhere in between, like, you know, where I'm at. There's a place that's around here. That is in between. Yeah, it is. Katie, he takes $99 all there. We already decided on the place, so that's where we're going.
All right, so you're not going to be by each other's house or anything like that so nothing's gonna happen then i don't know first date i don't know uh i think on our first date we did it too okay maybe yeah so that's good So tell us about this new job. Okay, don't get into real details. So this is the job that you wanted, right? This is a job that I wanted. I've been looking for a little while, and I'm still doing my same career path, just with a different employer. Yeah. Yeah.
And everyone's treating you nice, not like the last one huh it's great yeah it's wonderful the twitch in my eyes stopped it's glorious you had a twitch in your eye i'm serious jesus christ what were you doing stressing out yeah well that's no fun did anyone tell you're not gonna make it like the last job no thank god oh okay that's good well i just want to make sure because i know how that was kind of messed up how you how long did it take was the first day, right? It was the very first day.
Yeah. Don't don't stop looking for another job, not because they thought that I couldn't do the job, but because they knew that, like, yeah, it's probably just going to be a stepping stone and I could get out. That's kind of... I don't know. He wasn't wrong. He wasn't wrong. Well, still, hell, man. You know? He still could have been a little... But did he do it in an asshole kind of way? No. No? I don't think so. Well, that's good.
oh well that's even better then yeah oh my god sorry don't worry about it it's okay I just wanted to make sure this is this is disappointing but okay I'll just try to get another day I know I'll try again we got all you gonna come in this weekend I'll see try to get another day. I know, I'll try again. You're going to come in this weekend? I don't know. Do you need me to? Yeah, I'm going to need you to do that. Because this damn thing ain't working. I had some good stuff.
We got to help the listeners out there because a lot of people need advice. What do people need advice about? About swinging. And I think this goes right up your alley. I think there's one I want to talk to you about, but I don't know if it's going to work and get on this fucking thing. Come on, motherfucker. Why is this not working? I don't know. Yeah, it's not good. See, I had it all figured out. See, when I play music, it goes through the phone and all that. So let me see.
Let me try to play music again. See what happens. Okay, and that says Contact you cancel See They won't even let me Play music now So Something's going on Maybe I can't Play music And Talk to you At the same time Yeah That, that's my wonder. Yeah. Oh, well. Fuck. Can I try it? Let me see. Nope, that ain't working. See, I thought I had it all figured out. But anyways. So, but before, let's go.
This is one this is pretty has to be done i want to talk to you about okay all right let me get this so this is uh so this is someone wrote so hubby and i met a couple three years ago all right so they're on one of those dating apps we hit it off on the first date which led to naked hot tubbing and a wild night we have played with them multiple times and have had a really great connection in and out of the bed okay i love the other guys big cock and salt and pepper here she must be talking about me i'm pretty picky and really comfortable with him we've tried all sorts of combinations with the other couple and it's super hot.
One of my favorites is the MFM. We're meeting with this couple after the winter holidays to get away. The other wife, the other, the other wife has gained weight over the past three years and my hubby has lost interest and doesn't find her sexy.
It's a dilemma because I still find the other husband hot and craving uh mel m m fm what to do thanks so what would you tell her to do well you could just handle it like an adult that's one option um and the husband the one husband who's not interested in the other wife who gained weight then like be real about that that sucks yeah i haven't heard about that but that's not that's neither here nor there right so so you know have that conversation and say,'m you know thanks very much but i'm not interested anymore you know try that route or you can always both bow out and call it a wash but once you recommend but once you recommend both of them just to bow out because what your situation was and all that, what did it possibly happen to them?
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Because I thought that was a good one for you because of what your situation is when one of them continued to play it and the other one bowed out. Yeah. That's the same thing I would tell her. He's got a nice big cock for you and all that. But, you know, what's more important, that cock or your marriage? 100%. Yeah. So I'm thinking, but from what it sounds like, I think she's more into the cock than she is into her own marriage. Well, that's a big leap. Who knows? I'm just saying.
I'm trying to do some, I got to be the controversial one on this show. I guess that's true. Yeah who knows I'm just saying I'm trying to do some I gotta be the controversial one on this show I guess that's true yeah that is your boat yep so you know I'm thinking that the she's looking for a way out and maybe this is her ticket out but I don't know maybe anybody is looking for a way out then you use the words I want a divorce leave it at that. Well, some people don't want to do that.
They don't like doing that. And do it the hard way? There is no easy way for the marriage. Well, you know what? People think there's always an easy way. You know people are lazy now. Oof. Yeah, people are very lazy. They don't want to put any work into it anymore. So, you know, preserve the marriage, find a new couple. Yes. Other big cocks out there, you know? Yes. You can find a connection, some chemistry with somebody else. I think that would be the preferred route. Yeah. Okay.
Well, this is a wash, but anyways, I'm going to let you go. So you get ready for your date. What are you going to wear? I'm going to wear jeans and a stretchy off-the-shoulder sweater. It is cold out, but, you know. It is cold. I wait all year just to wear this one stupid sweater. Okay, well, now you got it. So are you going to wear panties? Yes, I'm going to wear panties. Why? It's cold out. So what?
It's cold's cold your vagina's 98.7 degrees you know that is true but i prefer wearing underwear i don't ever go commando never even at the club if you you when you go to the club you wear panties too i do that's correct at least a small thong, right? Usually, yeah. Okay, that's even better. Okay, that's okay. I can let that slide. I ain't going to get on your ass about it. I'm so glad I needed your permission. You did. So, is this guy, oh, I don't know.
I don't want to, I don't know if I, I'm not going to ask that on the air. I'll ask you later. I'll ask you off the air, so, you know. But, you know, good luck on tonight. Thank you so much. Hopefully you get some. Hopefully you have some fun. Hopefully it makes you come multiple times. We'll see. We're going to play it by ear. Oh, come on, man. So do you know, like, in the first five minutes, you're going to fuck a man or not? No, not always, no. Not always? It doesn't always work that way? No.
Okay. Well, I got a story about a married woman I met, and she's kind of fucking blowing me off. So we'll talk about that tomorrow. Okay. On the Swing and Single Podcast. All right. Have fun. All right. Bye. All right. That was Duchess of Dick talking, trying to do a phone interview. I thought I could do it. Let's see. Now watch. I could put my phone in so anyone knows. See?
It goes right into my thing thing i don't know why when i call someone it doesn't work so something's wrong with me anyways i'll figure it out someday he'll turn that down this is a great song pink hotel by scene queen it's a really good song i think you guys would like it but for now we're gonna talk about we're gonna get back off of duchess of dick while she gets on some dick uh we're gonna talk about a little bit uh about that lovely lovely misconceptions of swingers you know whenever you hear swingers you always think about we're fucking everywhere we're doing all this stuff and yada we're full with diseases and stuff like that so the swinger lifestyle often faces misinterpretations that mislead individuals couples alike it's essential to dispel these common misconceptions to ensure a better understanding of this community before considering joining it all right you don't want to be joining something that you have no clue about like a lot of people do you know a lot of people think oh it's a bunch of good looking people yada stuff like that they're all sexy they're all young and all that because they watch fucking movies and they don't really pay attention to anything other than the movies so the misconception of one misconception of cheating and swinging there's one the swinger lifestyle is rooted in consensual sex and partner swapping carry making it a far cry uh from cheating while infidelity involves deception you know and betrayal swinging thrives on transparency and mutual agreement although cheating can occur in a swinger life in a swinger relationship it does not align with principles and casual swinging all right also another one is the assumption of a troubled relationships contrary to belief not all swinging couples are in trouble relationships seeking a quick fix through swinging in reality successful swinging requires a strong trusting relationship that is built on openness and communication it can strengthen a healthy relationship but may exacerbate exacerbate existing issues in a troubled relationship it's also a perception of promiscuity i can't say that word basically a perception that we're all fucking everybody and everything and anything now for me that's true i don't mind fucking anything and everything except for men but i love the fuck but not everyone is like me ac so the notion that swingers will engage in sexual activities with anyone is a misrepresentation while this stereotype may be perpetrated in certain media portrayals Real life swingers are discerning in choosing their partners.
Most swingers are selective and value mutual attraction and compatibility in their interactions. Now, that's not always true. You know, you got me. I do a lot of things and I'm out with a lot of different people.
So, you know, it's have to say that is mostly true a lot of swingers are not permissiveness or don't fuck around as much as you would think you know now there are some that get a group of people like they'll have three or four couples and they're always fucking those three or four couples they're not fucking anybody else but you know they can't but then then you do have couples like me who are going from dick to dick to pussy to pussy and hey that's okay that's what it's all about we're all about here having fun being adults so in conclusion by debunking these misconceptions it becomes evident that a swinger lifestyle is more complex and nuanced than commonly perceived understanding these misconceptions is crucial for those considering entering the swinger community to navigate it with a clearer perspective.
All right. So the misconception of orgies and group sex and swinging, it is common misconception that hold on one second. Okay, there we go. While some, it is a common misconception that swinging solely revolves around orgies and group sex.
Damn, I wish it would because you it'll be a lot of fun while some swingers do engage such sexual activities others prefer various dynamics such as partner swapping three souls same room interactions and soft swapping many swingers find fulfillment in more intimate and limited sexual encounters rather than large group settings hence labeling swinging as predominantly about orgies and group sex is inaccurate. When I first went to club when I was 21, my first experience was a gangbang.
So I guess that would be a group activity. And most of my first experiences were in groups because like I said before, the gangbang was the rage in, you know, in the swinging lifestyle. A lot of the women were, like I said, it was like, you know, a gangbang pretty much every Friday and Saturday night back at home and all that.
So I was like, okay, I'm going, okay, I i'm going so you know it was some it was something different and something fun to do and all that great stuff so that's my first involvement i didn't really get to the partner swapping until later on until i had a girlfriend that was interested in it uh you know uh threesomes you know there wasn't that many threesomes at the time because most of it was uh gang bangs but as time went on the gang bangs got less and the threesomes got to become more a lot of same room interactions you know when i was with my girlfriend and we were swinging we weren't swinging uh we weren't partner swapping or anything we were just doing same room sex and all that stuff so we're basically soft so many swingers find fulfillment in more intimate and limited sexual encounters rather than in large group settings.
And it can be very intimidating for the male, especially if the guys, you know, you've got a lot of guys who have bigger dicks than you. Let's face it, we're insecure. Men are insecure about cock size and all that.
And it takes a while for us to get, you know, comfortable with our own bodies and all that, and all that just like women you know hence labeling swinging as a predominant about origins and group sex is just inaccurate it is really is like i said people watch too much tv watch too many movies social media stop looking at only fans people because you know what they're not real life they're not real swingers they're not doing that so understanding thefaceted nature of swinging swing is often misconstructed as being solely focused on sex while sexuality is a significant aspect of swinging it is not the sole defining factor right for most swingers it's not for me as a swinger yes it is mostly because i am single i am in this lifestyle by myself My interaction is Basically for sex I'm the I'm not the rule i'm the exception like i said uh i tell most guys you gotta remember it's very difficult for us sex is what we're there for we are the tool for couples to enjoy themselves and we have to abide by that we gotta We got to follow the rules.
We got to take care of ourselves and all that. So, you know, we just have, I have a different set. Like I said, my podcast is not about a couple's experience. My podcast is about my experience as a single male in for the past 26 years. Now do what I love to have a partner.
Of course, every guy would love to have a partner because it just makes it easier and it makes it more fun however what I like about doing going these places by myself and not having to deal with anybody else guess what I don't have to worry about making sure she's having a great time like I said when I take girls I always make sure they're taken care of they're having a great time so you know they like to have multiple men So we're finding multiple men's and a great time.
Like I said, when I take girls, I always make sure they're taken care of. They're having a great time. So, you know, they like to have multiple men. So we're finding multiple men's and that's the type of women I like to take to the clubs because, you know, finding a male is easy. Finding couples that you get along with and all that is very difficult in my opinion, but it, you know, that's just my opinion.
So I always put, put have a put most of the value in the swinging as a as in sex whereas a lot of couples don't they look for friendship and stuff outside of the lifestyle where i don't i'm here this episode sponsored by eureka ergonomic most people with a home office share a common problem design a beautiful space, but end up with a standing desk that feels more like equipment, not furniture. Suddenly, everything feels cold and out of place. Eureka Ergonomic is different.
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Upgrade your space with Eureka Ergonomic at eurekaka ergonomic.com i i'm here i'm here to take care of your wife i'm here to make sure she's happy i'm here to make sure she's protected and make sure you're happy with my results and all that so swingers also place value on socializing like like-minded individuals forming lasting friendships and building a sense of community within the lifestyle now that does not say i have friends in the lifestyle that i have for 20 years i have people i still talk to when i first started swinging some of them have passed away because we're god oh it's 26 years you're gonna have some some got divorced some are still together some don't swing anymore some are still swinging so you know you do those friendships because, you know, you go to the clubs, you find the same people and all that.
So, thus, dismissing swinging as merely a pursuit of physical pleasure overlooks the deeper social connections and emotional expats it offers.
So, the misconception that swinging always involves random partner swapping is largely influenced by the myth of the swinger key parties for me that's not a myth for single guys we do do random partners couples when you first meet they do random partners but mostly when we are experienced in it we tend to play with the same people that we always play with. And, you know, a lot of couples don't go and fuck anybody.
I have couples where they'll meet for a date or two before they even have sex with people. Now, it never lasts long for me because, like I said, I'm here for the sex.
I'm not here for that uh get to know you type of thing let's get to know each other five seconds and let's get it on you know that's right i'm just being honest with you people you know i could go on here and tell you oh i'm looking for the connection and all that i don't i met a married woman she her husband's a cuckold uh he don't fuck her and you know And she's like, okay, we met, we talked for three hours and uh she finally texts me says i don't feel i don't see a connection we don't have a connection okay all right no problem she's looking for a connection i'm not i'm just looking to fucking please her make her husband happy and blow my load inside of her so her husband can eat my cum out of her that's what i'm looking for but she needed the connection in there so in reality the concept of discriminant indiscriminate partner swapping is not common practice in the swinging community she wouldn't be because she could just fuck me and that was it and that would have been fine so most swingers prioritize selectively and consent when engaging in sexual activities like you said if you go to a club you think it's going to be an orgy it's not an orgy now there are some clubs where you know they got a lot of people so a lot of people are fucking, if you go to a club, you think it's going to be an orgy.
It's not an orgy. Now there are some clubs where, you know, they got a lot of people. So a lot of people are fucking, but you got to remember, pay attention to some of these people are not fucking a bunch of other people. They're fucking the person they're coming with and stuff like that.
So, you know, you just got to, you know, see what it's, uh, brings you, uh, seeing what the club is so while, close-knit swinger gatherings may foster more familiarity and comfort with partner swapping, large-scale events typically do not promote random encounters. Therefore, categorizing swinging as primarily about random partner swapping is misleading and lacks understanding of community values. Like I said, I go into clubs where there's 2,000, you know, 1,000 people.
Everyone's fucking everywhere. But you know what? Then I remember those people came together. They're not swapping partners. Now, will partner swap happen? Sure, yes. The numbers are just there. But most of the couples are just with each other and they're fucking. They're having a good time. Maybe the wife's getting plowed. She's getting back shots and she's sucking on some titties or she's kissing, making out with another dude or she's making out with another woman.
But they're not partner swapping and all that. Now, when you go to a smaller house parties, you might have more partner swapping there because it's a little more intimate. You get to really meet people. Like when you're at a club, the music's loud. You really can't, you know, you got to scream your ass off just to talk to someone because, you know, the music is loud. And you just might not feel like doing that. All right. So another misconception. Swinging destroys good relationships.
The idea that swinging will ruin relationships often stems from judgmental attitudes towards non-conventional lifestyles all right now listen yeah swinging their head swinging has destroyed some marriages but guess what i bet you those are few of them we talked about the statistics here people are very happy swingers are very happy in their relationships because guess what because i'm thinking they can tell their partner anything and their partner's not going to get upset with them like who what fucking like i don't understand this what woman or what man goes through their whole life married they get married at 25 thinking that for the rest of their life their wife's going to look at them like they're the hottest man in the world you're going to get your balls are going to get saggy you're going to get gray hair you're going to get gray pubes all that stuff and you think your wife you're gonna get maybe you get fat and all that your wife oh she wants me no she's gonna want the young stud with the six-pack ab and an eight-inch cock to come over and plow her while she's got your fat ass to look at all day you know she's gonna think sexual we're sexual people and ladies you think your husband uh is never gonna think about other fucking other women oh god more of a boy you ladies yeah we're always thinking about that stuff you know and it's not you know it's not your fault it's not no one's fault it's just human nature that's who we are guys so you know we don't have to be all uptight about it all right swinging can enhance a relationship swinging can destroy a relationship also it's just how you communicate and what your goals and your end game is so in reality swinging can strengthen a healthy relationship by fostering open communication and creating shared experiences yeah nothing better than getting uh game banged or uh having a threesome with two.
The concept of comparison where individuals find joy in their partner's pleasure is integral to many successful swinger dynamics. Like I said, if you're a guy, man, if your wife wants to fuck someone, let her do it. Let her have fun because guess what? She's going to return that fun.
Unless she's very selfish, which in time, maybe you didn't white woman but you know i don't think so i think i have seen it i have noticed when i take a girl out and i make sure she's fucked real well she's happy she's satisfied she takes care of me and she'll do stuff for me she'll get people for me to screw around with and all that stuff but she's not happy, she's not going to want to do this stuff with me or anything like that. So guys, let your wife be a woman.
Let her explore her sexuality both with men and women. And if she wants a single guy, let her have a single guy. If she wants to have a single woman, let her have a single woman. If she wants to be with couples, let her be with couples. Just don't say, oh, we don't want to do single guys. If I don't got a pussy, if I don't have fun, you can't have fun. Those couples are the ones that are part of the problems where they have those divorce rates high.
So if a relationship is already plagued by mistrust, jealousy, and envy, engaging in swinging may indeed exasperate existing issues. Now, I want to talk about one thing.
there's an article about how a woman was very jealous but then she saw her husband get a blowjob by another woman and uh lo and behold holy crap she is no longer jealous and she loves swinging we'll talk about that later in another podcast when i uh get to it anyways labeling swinging as universally uh deprimental to your relationship is unfounded unless the underlying bond is not strong as believed yeah of course people do stupid stuff you know and they don't have the cracks they have cracks in the foundation and those foundations get bigger and bigger they crack more and more so swingers are immune to jealousy that's the biggest myth that's a myth because we're all getting jealous trust me when a young man comes in he's got a big dick and he's got a six hack ass and all the ladies love him i'm jealous so contrary to popular belief jealousy and envy are not uncommon emotions within the swinging community however swingers actively address and manage these feelings through honest communication and mutual understanding by navigating jealousy and insecurities in a healthy manner couples may can deepen their connection and discover comparison finding joy in their partner's pleasure acknowledging and processing jealousy is a pivotal aspect of maintaining a harmonious and fulfilling swinger lifestyle.
Listen, ladies and gentlemen, all that matters is who is that person going home with? Are they going home with that idiot that they've met at the club? That couple they met at the club? The guy? The girl? No, they're going home with you. So don't be jealous. She's going home to you. Now, lay some ground rules. Like, we don't party, we don't get phone numbers from other people. One of my rules is with one. My number one rule is we go to the club together. We lead the club together.
If you don't lead the club together, then guess what? There is going to be no relationship. I ain't going to call you. You're dead to me. Yeah. Bada boom. Second one is we don't exchange numbers with anybody.
if you want to meet up again we'll meet up at the club we'll be back here Friday night or Saturday night we'll be here oh you know what are you on SDC are you on Quiver whatever you on swinglifestyle.com are you on those we'll look you up but I never take anyone's numbers when i'm with my partner now if i'm by myself yeah it's different because they know i'm a single guy so they're cool with it so i'm fine with it but you know you got to have those rules in place so you know and have a fulfilling day out all right another fallacy swinging is exclusive to a civic demographic it used to be mostly white people when i first started we gotta be honest it was pretty much all white people but now it has become more minorities have gotten into it more latins especially when you're in texas and more latins uh you got more black people getting into it i don't see a lot of asians but you know you'll see one or two in there once in a while So the miscommunication...
some more latins uh you got more black people getting into it i don't see a lot of asians but you know you'll see one or two in there once in a while so the misconception is that only certain individual gays and swinging which is far from reality swingers encompass a device diverse range of backgrounds spanning various races religions professions and social economic statuses from shop owners to law enforcement officers teachers to executives swingers come in all walks of life yes of course it does because we're all sexual human beings I don't want to make any more decisions so you know bdsm lifestyle cares to a lot of you know you talk to a dominators a lot of our clients are high--powered people.
This exclusivity highlights the diversity and universally of the swinger community. Refuting the notion that swinging is limited to a particular type of person. There is none. I don't know. I have no idea. Another myth. Swinging equals a free-for-all for sex. I wish it was like that. I wish it was true.
Because, you know, I would love a free-for-allall for sex the assumption that swinging entails unrestrained sexual activity aligns closely with earlier misconceptions addressed given its similarity to previously discussed myth it is evident that swinging is not solely about indulging in uncontrolled sexual encounters therefore categorizing swinging as a merely free-for-all sex overlooks the nuanced dynamics and diverse experiences that define the lifestyle now when i you go there are parties where they say this is a party where you dtf you are there to uh you're there to have sex and i'm like cool so that's great so you're there to have sex, great.
And you're there and all that, so, you know, you know what you're getting into. You know when you walk in, you're getting naked and everyone's having sex. That's when I was living in Buffalo, the part, the couple that I knew that hosted the parties at the hotel, that was the party.
It was, you at eight talk to everybody nine o'clock you start you get undressed and you start fucking all right uh so you know it is one of those things so i wish it was like that but it's not so but if you come in thinking like that, you're going to be disappointed. You could now, if you want that, yes, there are places where you can go to find that hedonistic type of behavior. There's a lot of places you can go. You're just going to have to find the right ones at the right time.
It's just tough to really guide you. Secrets. Hideaway is a great place. Caliente is a great place in Atlanta, Lakes, Florida. I haven't been out to Desires or Temptations or Hedo. I haven't been outside this country. Anywhere in Europe, it's like that. Europeans are hedolistic people, man.
the europeans i love you guys i wish there was more clubs like uh europe over here but you know it is what it is uh so you know you'll be able to find it trust me but if like i said if you're thinking it's gonna be all, everyone's fucking everybody, you're going to be very disappointed and all that. But anyways, so I was supposed to meet this couple, a young couple, and, you know, they go silent.
And we're going to talk about online dating and all that, online finding swingers, but this is one of those things. So I was talking to them, and just by seven o'clock, they stopped central time. They stopped texting me. How else do you want me to show you? I'm real. So I said, you must be a scammer or something like that. So they repeat, how else do you want me to show you? I'm real. Well, how should I guys? Well, so I'm going to text her something. It's not that I don't think they're real.
I just think they're scammers. I think they're trying to get money off of people and all that because they're acting kind of funny. And, you know, they're young. They look like they're in their mid-20s, and, you know, they want a silver fox like me. Oh, I can't believe I'm a silver fox. But we'll see what they respond. And, you know, it might be another two hours before they respond again because it is overnight. It's 942. Anyways, so let's go back to the misconceptions.
I know this ain't a great podcast because all the bullshit that's going on.
But anyways, so quick sexual gratification through swinging this misconception has proliferated particularly within the single male community primarily due to misleading the advertisements from entities and individuals seeking to exploit the desires of ego individuals and couples hell yes this is one and you know what but there's no excuse of why single guys some single guys not like there are swinging single males and they're single males. There's a difference and there's a big difference.
And I could talk about this again if you need me to, but you know, the, for time restraints, we're going to just stay, leave that for another time. But with the single male community, a lot of clubs in a lot of places will exploit the horniness of men. Men are horny all the time. We're always horny.
You know, You get like a lot of clubs in a lot of places will exploit the horniness of men men are horny all the time we're always horny you know you get like a lot of guys who they want they don't want to admit that they're horny when they go to the swinger club i'm horny i'm gonna go to a swinger club later on after i'm done here i'm horny i want to fuck i want to have a good time i want to you know eat some pussy do stuff like that but you know what i know it's all bullshit i know it's a lie i know they're not going to actually you know be a orgy there i wish there was but i know i know they're not because i've been doing it for a long time for the young young guys and the new cats coming in they don't know it they hear they they watch tv they think it's like that they think they pay their interest fee and bada boom bunch of women are walking around naked and ready to spread their legs for them it is that's not what it is it's not anything like that and it kind of you know put into play now some places have like parties where it's a hot wife party or stuff like that a hot wife is a woman that has sex with other men with the husband's permission they advertise it on their website they advertise it wherever on instagram twitter then you come lo and behold boom there's no hot wives action it's just a bunch of couples looking for other couples and you're out with 100 200 dollars so you do get that where they do exploit some places exploit for whatever reason they do it I don't think they should do it but you know whatever but remember this gentleman and we're going to get into you guys later on in other podcasts I got a lot of time off now it's the holidays so I'm going to do a lot of podcasts get them all caught up and all that remember it's not like what you see in the movies.
They're not going to spread their legs for you. You actually have to have some game, look, dress, smell good, all that stuff. So, you know, you get this. It's like on Tinder or you get on SLS or you get on SDC, stuff like that, and they want you to pay. Claiming that for a mere $30 investment, you know, you can get an e-book, or you could do an ad, and people will be emailing you. You can do stuff. I don't say, don't listen to me. Listen. You gotta figure out what works for you, and only you.
I know what works for me through trial and error. I can give you advice on how to do it. I can do that, but you know what? If you Thank you.
me through trial and error i can give you advice on how to do it i can do that but you know what if you got a certain way how it works out for you you do it your way because that will help you get you know get laid and which is for a swinging single person that is really you know what you really want to try to do every time right now let's be honest like be honest.
Like, do you go there, like, do guys, I don't, I don't go to a club and like, when I go tonight, I'm not looking for, to sit there and do nothing. I'm sitting there for someone to do some hot looking piece of ass that would allow me the benefit of pleasing her, pleasing her.
And you know, the husband allowing me to do that to his wife and all that so you know you got these people that try to scam men because men are stupid and plus guess what who pays the most at a swimmer club single guys you got clubs charging 200 bucks for a night so you know get 10 guys that's 10 2 000 right you get 200 200 bucks a pop, 10 guys, that's $2,000. That makes your rent for the month.
You do that every couple times, every Friday, shit, you make, you know, you got 10 guys every Friday, so that's what's that? Two times four, that's $8,000. That's your rent, that's your electric bill, and so on and so on. So it must be empathized that transitioning into a swinger does not guarantee instant sexual encounters solely based on purchasing into the misrepresentative promises. Yes, swing websites will promise all these connections and all that. Trust me, it's not worth it, all that.
Go to a swinger club. You'll have more fun. The reality is that genuine social skills and the ability to present oneself sincerely are fundamental prerequisites. Embracing the swinger lifestyle does not provide a shortcut to unlimited sexual opportunities regardless of one's appearance or behavior. I have seen in my 26 years going on 27 I have seen very little guys just walk from going to club and walk in and they are pounding.
I have seen some guys who were very good looking had great bodies nice size cocks had no brains but the women weren't going to fuck their brains they were going to fuck those big cocks and those nice bodies and they would get all the pussy so if you're not one of those guys you've got to come up with a strategy. Like me I have to come up with a strategy. I have to be able to talk about other stuff than sex and all that and act Thank you.
so if you're not one of those guys you gotta come up with a strategy like me I have to come up with a strategy I have to be able to talk about other stuff than sex and all that and act and you know show that I'm worthy of her vagina you know some guys just have all the luck guys and that's true now couples probably hate hearing that but it's true there are some guys that can just walk into a club and women will fall on over them and want to fuck them. I'm not one of them. I had to work at it.
Hopefully, you had to work at it too. And if you're one of those guys that can get laid and walk into a swimming club, good Lord, thank you. And I want to interview. Give me a call. Give me an email at swingandsinglepodcast at gmail.com. All right. So, you know, just remember that.
So in concluding, with an understanding of the prevalent misconceptions surrounding the swing and lifestyle, there is a viable opportunity to devolve into its authentic essence and dispel the falsehoods that have proliferated all right right? We got to remember, we are in a community. We got to be the ambassadors, you know. You don't want to see a bunch of toothless, camouflage-wearing people representing our swinger community. You want the good, you want the best of the best.
You want the cream of the crop. So people see that, hey, moms and dads are doing it, doctors, lawyers, teachers are doing it, so it can't be that bad, maybe we'll be interested in trying it, all right, and remember, guys, if you try it and you don't like it, or you just want to do it for a couple years, you want to do it for a month, you just want to have the experience at one time, and you want to one and done and be done with it, go right ahead. It's great. Good for you.
Do what works for your relationship. Do not let this swinging fuck up your relationship. I hate seeing couples, you know, get divorced because of swinging. The foundation was not good. They thought swinging was going to save their marriage. Kind of like how people say having a baby will save our marriage.
It ain't gonna work it doesn't work out like that unfortunately so i hope you like listening to the swinging single podcast with host me ac maxwell wasn't that great because of miss uh yeah miss dutch is a dick is on her date i think think she's almost there at the bar and all that. Going to go fuck some nice side. Hopefully he's got a big dick for her. You know, she's been struggling lately and all that. She's got a brand new job. She loves it. So that's good.
Maybe this guy's got a nice schlong that she can give it to her real good tonight. We'll talk about it tomorrow with her. She'll be in studio and all that. Remember, go to to swing and single podcast.com to go see all things ac uh shave your cock and balls gentlemen also if you want to get a hold of me find out what i'm doing if you got any questions comments angry messages send them my way at swing and single podcast at gmail.com. Hey, I love all of you. I don't have any enemies.
You are an enemy of me. You don't like me, but I like you. So don't worry about it, everybody. Remember, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls for those ladies, and have a good time and keep on swinging.
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