Join host AC Maxwell on the "Swinging Single Podcast" as we delve into the tantalizing world of hotwifing. In this episode, we celebrate the annual Hotwife Day on July 21st by sharing favorite hotwife stories that epitomize the essence of passion, desire, and exploration in the swinging lifestyle. Get ready for a captivating journey into the realm of liberated relationships, where boundaries are pushed, fantasies are fulfilled, and connections are deepened. Tune in as we embrace the spirit of Hotwife Day and honor the allure of these empowering and erotic narratives.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.comJuly 21st International Hotwife Dayhttps://www.coletteclubs.com/https://www.hotwifestoriesblog.com/international-hotwife-day-july-21st/
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Welcome to the Swingin' Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell, broadcasting from the legendary Upside Down Pineapple Studios here in the heart of Texas. For over two decades, I've embraced the swinging lifestyle as a single male, and on this show I'm here to share my wildest tales and experiences with you, the listeners. So grab some lube and some tissues, and for those spouses out there, get cozy and settle in for some uncensored, eye-opening stories on the Swimming Single Podcast.
In today's episode, we are going to be talking about the lovely Hot Wives. Yes, did you know that there is a International Hot Wife Day? It's on July 21st, 2025. So if you're International international hot wife, July 21st is your day. So let's get started. Talk about International Hot Wife Day. Make sure you go to swingingsinglepodcast.com. Email me at swingingsinglepodcast at gmail.com. Check out all things AC. Go to Full Swap Radio.
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And if you want to check me out, swingandsinglepodcast.com or swingandsinglepodcast.gmail.com. Also, remember, go to Full Swap Radio to check us all out. There's a bunch of other swingers on there, Full Swap Radio and all that. If you are going to be in the Kansas City area, Kansas City area, February 21st through the 23rd, come check out Craven's Crazy Winter Nights. I'll be there doing my podcast live from the convention there.
It's a big, huge event there during this time, and I think you all will enjoy. I'll be broadcasting live and all that stuff. But today we are going to talk about International Hot Wife Day, which is July 21st. Yes, you might say, why are you talking about it now? Well, because this is my little thing with the hot wives. I love hot wives, hot wives to everyone. Single men love hot wives, and so do single women. But, you know, everyone loves a hot wife and all that great stuff.
So, I found out there was a day dedicated to the international hot wives. We don't talk about the ladies in Europe, Asia, South America, Africa, and all those other places. Australia and all, man. Some beautiful Aussies down there.
We don't talk about their ladies in europe asia south america africa uh and all those other places australia and all that some beautiful aussies down there we don't talk about their hot wife but we're going to talk about them today we're going to talk a little bit about the international hot wife day so the international hot wife day celebrated annually on the 21st of every year is a special occasion that honors and acknowledges that hot thewifing lifestyle and the couples who engage in consensual, non-monogamous relationships.
This observance is dedicated to appreciating the trust, the transparency, the exploration that define these relationships, while also encouraging dialogue and raising awareness about hot-wifing the choice of july 21st as a date for the celebration holds symbolic significance sorry i gotta burp and this is a live podcast i don't do any editing and all that it's a fucking gonzo show and you don't like it oh well you don't have to listen but if you do stay tuned occurring during the peak of summer to reflect the passionate and intense nature of this lifestyle so what is a hot wife well we all know the hot wife is a married woman or a woman in a committed relationship that is and with the encouragement of their spouse or the significant other are encouraged to participate in extramarital sex with other men.
You can put other women in there, too, if you want. It's no big deal if you want to put that in there. AC is not going to argue with you. I'm not going to argue with you about that at all. But that's basically what a really hot wife is. Now, I know there's a lot of confusion now because of the young swingers coming in thinking a hot wife is a woman who is very good looking. And she's a wife.
call her a hot wife no that's not what it is and that's why i think a lot of people get confused i don't think advertising does a really good just job when you do a hot wife party now i know when you go to uh i can't remember it's in florida i can't i think it's the spot i can't remember i'll have to look it up but there's a place there is a swing club out there in the middle of nowhere in florida uh in between jacksonville orlando that has running the bulls now when you talk about the running of the bulls there you know it's for couples that love the extra male attention the females that love the extra male attention and all that and it gets about a couple hundred people at the parties every every time they have one i think they do it once a month but that is something that's known you know a bull single male so if you're looking at it and you look up what is a bull honey i don't know what that is we're new to this and you'll see it's a single guy so if you're not in the single guys you probably wouldn't go but with the hot wife i don't think there's a lot of people look up oh hot wife honey you're hot you're my wife so you're a hot wife but they don't really don't really understand what a hot wife really is.
So, you know, you know, let's get that. Let's get that recognition. A hot wife, woman, married woman, committed woman, any relationship, having sex with other men and women or even couples, uh, with the permission and the guidance of the hubby. So what's the origin of the International Hot Wife Day?
The the concept of the international hot wife day emerged from the growing acceptance and recognition of hot wifing as a valid and consensual lifestyle choice even among couples typically viewed as conservative as online communities forums and social media platforms provide spaces for connection sharing experiences and mutual support the visibility of hot wife had increased.
This momentum led to the ideal of establishing a dedicated day to honor and acknowledge this lifestyle, ultimately coined the Happy Wife Company. All right. So that's how you really get some of it. Let's think about me. Let's go and try to think back. When was my first hot wife experience?
See, my first hot wife experience was the very first time i ever went to a club which was the dayton swimming social club in dayton ohio the only problem was i didn't know what a hot wife is no one knew what a hot wife was because guess what during 1998 you had two categories you fell into as a swinger you're the full swap or soft swap there was no hot wife bulls anything like that unicorns anything dragons uh yada uh you never knew you just knew those two so my very first time i went was a date and swim social club i went there as a young 21 year old single male as usual i, as usual.
I went there for the first time, and the first time I experienced was with a woman with multiple men. It was a gangbang, and I did three gangbangs that night. So that was my very first. So technically, she would be a hot wife with her husband, encouragement, and all that stuff. Now, one thing about the Dayton Swimming Social Club, it's closed now and all that. It was a great place. This was during a time where, you know, HIV and all that stuff was fairly new. We knew more about it and all that.
And at this club, it was a requirement that you had to wear condoms. So everyone had to wear condoms no matter what. If they saw you were not wearing condoms, they would actually kick you out. And I was like, wow, this is pretty cool.
You know, you don't have to worry about anything and all that stuff, which is which is you know it's good because the owners were worried about the safety of the couples and all that other patrons now if you go behind closed doors i don't know what was going on i wasn't in those rooms so you maybe no condoms were used i don't know but i remember when being outside the owner would organize these game banks for these girls and he would make sure that everyone had a condom and on when they were doing uh vaginal or anal penetration so that was just the house rules and it's actually when you first go in there you read the rules it is states in there that everyone must wear a condom and all that now you would think well was it a big crowd because you know sometimes people don't want to be told to do.
Yeah, it was a big crowd. It was a pretty big crowd for a Friday night. I remember I had to go to a Friday night because they didn't allow, I don't think they allowed single guys on Saturdays. So I went there on a Friday night when I was going back to college in between semesters. And I had a great time. Like I said, game being three girls, I would go back.
When I would go back and forth home to back home to Michigan, I would stop over the nights, maybe the weekend and just, you know, fuck my brains out. I went to a couch in the middle of nowhere and you know, you got cow tipping and drinking. That's about it. You know, the girls, well, you know, at the time I was more into sports and all that. So I wasn't really too much into the girls trying to wind them and dine them and 69 them. I was more of a, let's play football.
Let's play baseball, and I'll just go to a swing club and get fucked whenever I can. And that was pretty much the downfall of me because, you know, once I got that taste of pussy and swinging, it just made everything take a backseat. I was hooked. I was addicted and all that. So that was my very first forte into the hot wife and lifestyle. And I would have to say pretty much my whole swinging career is based on hot wife and pretty much because I'm, you know, I'm the single guy.
I'm the being encouraged. I'm being supported by the husband, the fuck his wife and all that stuff. So, you know, I pretty much every single guy in here is experiencing the hot wifing lifestyle. So we have to understand it. Hot wifing offers a thrilling and titillating way to introduce excitement and a variety into a relationship. You know, you always hear couples, they want to add spice and all that stuff. So this is true.
You know, after 7 years, 10 years, 20 years, you know, you eat the same meal every day, you kind of get bored with it. So, you know, you go, okay, let's add something. Let's add some toys. Nah, the toys get boring. Oh, let's add another toy. Well, you know what? You see pornos. You see you might have friends that are swingers now, and they're having a great relationship and whatnot. And you go, okay, let's try swinging. Let's see what we can do. Let's find a club.
You know, maybe we're on vacation, and we go to a club.
A lot of people want to have that lifestyle that that fantasy of having two men at once a lot of women do or a lot of men want to have the fantasy of two women and all that stuff so you know you try it out you become a hot wife when you figure out you after a while you figure out what you like and you know maybe your man likes the thrill of finding men to fuck you and you love fucking men in front of him and having them join in and split roast you and all that great stuff.
So it involves one partner granting permission for the significant other to engage in intimate encounters or explore sexual experiences with others. This fetish can encompass encompass scenarios where the observing partner witnesses the interaction or is aware of them happening in a separate setting. Regardless of the relationship type, hot wifing allows couples to explore boundaries and delve into their desires and dive into their desires, really.
And like I said, I'm a hot wife looking for a hot wife because I love finding men, couples, and women, if they're available, to have sex with my partners at the swing club. I'm not worried about me. I'm not worried about me having sex with all the women in there. Like a lot of guys will.
And, you know, we call, in the swinging world, single men, we call women single women coupons because they get you into the clubs on any day and they get you more access to pussy let's just be let's just be honest if you have a woman with you you're gonna your your avenues are getting laid by someone else is very high whereas you go by yourself and you're maybe you're not the best looking good guy you can't dress well you're not anything like that your chance of a pussy at a swing club goes down a little bit so you know you're kind of stuck and it just sucks for everybody so a woman bringing in a woman will you know get you that awesome awesome you know you know the more vagina for you basically and all that and that's true you know and people want to say no that's not true ac no no it is true we all you know you can disagree all you want but the facts are the facts man you know so you just got to just take it good with the bad so anyways so let's see what else um now what you know what is intriguing about this for me it's just a her you know maybe i'm gonna have an off night i worked all day i'm not gonna be able to do it too well well now i got these other guys that can substitute for me and i can see my partner having the best orgasms in her life and she's getting all that because of me she's enjoying herself she feels sexy about herself she feel confident her self-esteem goes off the roof because you know she's finally coming into her own and that's what intrigues me about hot wifing is that i get to see this flower bloom right before me uh because now she understands her sexuality she understands you're not a slut why why do other people want to put another one why do women want to put other women down i don't you know we don't see guys do that much women always do that they're always staring at each other at the clubs you know there's a one woman walk by and you know they're all looking now either they're looking because they're horny for them or they're judging the person saying oh I can't do that.
They're always staring at each other at the clubs. You know, there's one woman walk by, and you know they're all looking. Now, either they're looking because they're horny for them or they're judging the person saying, oh, I can't. She shouldn't be wearing that dress. Oh, she looks good in that dress or whatnot. I look better in that dress. You know, whatever it is.
So my intrigue into it was the fact that my partners can explore their sexuality, become, you know, more self-confident, have that more higher self-esteem and really find themselves in what they want in life. So the allure of hot wifing lies in the excitement, like I said, the mystery and the thrill of knowing what a partner is intimately involved with someone else yet remains committed to returning. And like I said, the reclaiming sex is the best.
You know, after she's, you know, gone through the realm of people that she's been with that night and you fuck her at the end you put your load of cum inside of her and you mark your territory basically and that's the excitement of hot wifing for me you really get that mystery uh you don't know who's going to be at the club you don't know what's going to happen that night it could be nothing like i've took girls to clubs uh and you know not a damn thing happens it's just nothing there's no one there you know whatever I've took girls to clubs, and, you know, not a damn thing happens.
It's just nothing. There's no one there, you know, whatever. The mood don't strike. And I've gone to places where, you know, it's a nonstop fuck fest where we're all having sex for hours and hours at a time. And it's just awesome. Everyone's mingling. It's like one big orgy, you know.
So it just all depends on what club you go to, what day you go to, and what vibe of the club because sometimes clubs it takes time for them to get going and all that you know depends on who's on there so when all parties consent and feel comfortable hot wifing enables the exploration of fantasies and desires in a respectful manner you know when's the last time you asked your wife what does she really want no judgment what do you want what would you like if you have you done that yet because that's what i always ask my girl well i honestly i tell them i'm a swinger um i'm gonna swing i'm not looking you know for you know a non-monogamous relationship it's gonna be non-monogamous and some girls flee some girls stay around because they're cool about it they're excited about it so i always ask them what are their fantasies that they want to do most of the time it's two men which is great because i'm able to get those two men i'm i'm okay with it you know i'm not in the life my life part where i'm just okay uh these are not you know i don't want to see you with another man i want to be with you and another woman i'm not like that you know if it happens it happens hell i won't uh deny it but if the woman wants to have two men let's go for it so you want to find her fantasies then you got to find out what type of guy she likes does she care what guys guys, she just cares about the cock is hard, stuff like that.
And you feel out, and you see her desires, you might have desires for couples, single women, she might want to try bisexuality and all that stuff. So, you know, you really, so hot wifing just brings out more than just you, a woman fucking men. It could bring out a whole ton of stuff where she, she embraces her sexual freedom that she never had before because for whatever reasons. So why hot wifing can be stimulating for couples?
Well, for both men and women engaged in hot wifing, the act of sharing a partner can be arousing. Men may find pleasure in their partner's desirability and derive arousal from seeing them gratified by another. I can say that. Now, think about this. You go to a club and every guy wants to fuck your wife or your partner. How cool is that? And guess what? Everyone's jealous because they're going home with their wives but they really want to go home with yours. They're like fantasizing about it.
How cool is that that you're able to do that uh and all that so you know they may also take pride in showcasing their partner's allure while retaining the sense of ownership yeah you own it you're married to that you're going home with that hopefully and that's yours no one else's women can desire women may desire to explore intimate encounters outside their primary relationships, revealing in the attention, reveling in the attention and enjoying the role of coveted partner willing to be shared.
Hot wifing also allows sexually adventurous women to fulfill fantasies and desires beyond their partner's capabilities. It's important to note that the individual motivations can vary despite the general observations. Now, what type of fantasies does she have? What type of fantasies do you have? Like my fantasies were to find a girl that wants to get fucked by big dick guys and shit like that and have fun. Your wife might, who knows?
You have and you got to be very if you're into you want to start hot wifing you got to be able to talk to your wife and tell her you know tell the truth be honest with her don't lie don't bullshit her because they're gonna see through it so just do that find out what she wants and hell see if you can give it to her you You know what? And also be very careful because swinging is, you know, can be dangerous for couples. Swinging can, you know, be a great thing. Swinging can also be a bad thing.
Make sure you're communicating. Communicate some more. There's no, nothing wrong with being over-communicative in this lifestyle. It can only help you. So why the 21st? What's the significance? The selection of the 21st of July for International Hot Wife Day aligns with the summertime symbolized intense passion and desires often associated with hot wife and lifestyle.
The date is picked because of the heightened sexual exploration and celebrates desires and fantasies with the realm of trust and consent. By designating July 21st as International Hot Wife Day, it underscores the importance of communication, consent, open-mindedness, and nurturing, fulfilling, and healthy relationships. There's that word again, communication. It's probably on every fucking podcast I ever do. Communication and also consent. The two C's. All right. Well, let's do three C's.
Communication, consent, and condoms. The three C's. Make sure you have the three C's all the time whenever you are thinking about or doing swinging. So what are some celebration and events? Now, I don't know any of this. So I'm just taking the word of the person that wrote the article that this hot wifing is true and it's July 21st every year.
So the International Hot Wife Day is marked by various activities and gatherings aimed at promoting awareness and education about the hot wifing lifestyle. These events, including seminars, workshops, and discussions held both in person and online, provide platforms for couples to share experiences, learn from experts, and engage in meaningful conversations about the intricacies of hot wifing. Now, learn from experts. I am no expert. Do not take my word as expert.
And if you do, well, thank you very much, but I'm not an expert. Now, not every... Swinging couples are like snowflakes. There's no two the same. Because you know what? Life happens. I know couples who went full board, full ass, full speed ahead into swinging, and they would swing a year or two. Then all of a sudden, you never see or hear from those couples again. They just drop off the face of the earth. Why? I always ask. Do they get divorced? No, they don't get divorced. Shit happens.
Family happens. People have babies. People have kids people have kids people have sick parents stuff like that or people get sick or people even die you know so the experts can say this is how you should do it but only you know your partners you only you know your husband only you know your wife and you know how to through to her, hopefully, that you know how to talk to her or how to talk to him.
So it's kind of one of those things where you have to, you know, really, you can take expert advice, and that's all it can be, expert advice. It doesn't mean you're going to actually win. I know a lot of guys try to go, how can I convince my wife to start swinging?
start swinging well for one you're already fucked up because you can't convince your wife to swing all right because it's just you know one of those things either you're in or you're out you know she might want to go check it out and after that she might not be interested in all that's why i always say you got to be very careful when you introduce anybody into the swinging lifestyle male or female female, because if you go to the wrong place, it will ruin your chances of actually becoming a swinger couple.
So, you know, when you're talking about hot wife and hot wife, it could be many things because you got cock holding. Cock holding is the same, pretty much the same thing, but it's just a different dynamic. You know, cock holding, you're being humiliated as the man. And the bull is fucking your wife, which is usually a more alpha type male.
Not cock size size but alpha size you know maybe a guy who if i could kick your ass or something like that uh and sometimes a bigger cock too so you know you just got to think what am i you know what do we got to do and how can we learn now you Now you take it, like I said, take advice from, see if it works. And you know, it might not work. Take advice, you know, try your own.
Like I said, you got to feel yourself out before more than anything, because you're going to be the one that knows yourself the best. So furthermore, celebrations at International Hot Wife Day may entail social meetups, parties, or vertical gatherings organized by individuals and couples seeking connections with like-minded individuals.
These communal interactions facilitate the exchange of stories, insights, and advice while embracing the diversity and acceptance of consensual, non-monogamous relationships and i have seen more on sdc you see a lot of uh seminars that they post and all that i never go to any of them i should probably start going to them you know they get more material for my podcast and all that because i do it twice a week for almost an hour so you know i gotta talk a lot of shit so anyways so you know i have seeing these new, this new wave of meeting people with people doing, you know, seminars online.
Usually they're at night, mostly the time. I haven't seen that you can actually go like to a video on demand video type where you go back and watch it or something like that.
In case you miss it you know you might work nights and stuff like that so you're not going to be there or you're not going to be able to listen to it but yeah you do see more of this hot wife type of leaderships come in and come about for whatever reasons I can't really tell you why hot wifing has become more and more popular maybe because of like I said maybe it's social media and the movies maybe more movies are seen having women fuck their cheat on their husbands and all that stuff and guys get turned on by I'll see you next time.
of, like I said, maybe it's social media and the movies. Maybe more movies are seen having women fuck their, cheat on their husbands and all that stuff and guys get turned on by knowing their wife is fucking another man even though it's cheating in the movies. And guys might get turned on when they see that movie and they go, oh and they might start thinking, hey baby, what do you think about that? Maybe you can go off and go to a bar and pick up a guy and fuck him or something.
Anyways, so, in conclusion, the International Hot Wife Day Come on.
that maybe you can uh go off and go to a bar and pick up a guy and fuck him or something anyways so in conclusion the international hot wife day commemorated on july 21st stands as a day devoted to recognizing and honoring the hot wife and lifestyle it serves as a catalyst for promoting communication understanding and consent with non-monogamous uh partnerships though the celebration of International Hot White Day, individuals and couples strive to dismantle societal stigmas, fosters open dialogues and create a welcoming environment that acknowledges and respects diverse relationships.
Social societal stigmas. You're a whore if you fuck a lot of guys. Women, you know. You've seen that. You probably had been called a whore before. Is it true? I'm trying to guess 100% of the women will always be called a whore at one point in their life. So, you know, you get told that early on in life and you start thinking, well, I don't want to be known as a whore, so I don't want to do this.
So you, so sexually you, you pent up pent up you you come oppressed with your sexuality instead of being open and open to new things and new ideals and expressing yourself sexually and all that. So the societal stigmas can really hurt a female. I think, well, I probably know more than anybody than anyone else. Not really men. You know know, you don't hear guys calling each other sluts and all that. We high-five each other and say, hey, good boy, good job. Foster open dialogues.
Yeah, if you can talk about, if you're able to talk about your wife getting nailed by another guy, I'm sure you could talk about your wife about anything, money, government, politics, stuff like religion. I'm sure you could talk about anything because if she's open to getting, you know, taking back shots from another guy or another woman or another couple, I'm not going to do that.
politics stuff like religion i'm sure you could talk about anything because if she's open to getting you know taking back shots from another guy or another woman or another couple i'm sure she's able to pretty much talk about anything else because everything else is just you know icing on a cake and creating a welcome environment now if you go to some of these hot wife parties these uh bull running the bull parties they're very, they're very open. They're very welcoming and all that.
No one's really criticizing. And it doesn't really matter what size you are, even color. You know, I only thing I don't see a lot of in the hot wife lifestyle is a lot of black women. There is not a lot of black women in the hot wife lifestyle, uh, at these parties, you know, it's mostly white couples, Hispanic couples here in Texas, a lot of them. And it's kind of sad. I would love for more black ladies to be in the hot life lifestyle because, you know, AC loves everybody.
It's hard to turn her down and the beautiful woman, you know. And I'll have to say it. All ladies are beautiful and all that. So that is your International Hot Wife Day. July 21st of 2025 will be it.
I don't know what day that falls on, but whatever falls on you know just have a good time let's have a good time tell your wife maybe have a threesome that day bring a new guy in new bull or whatever you want to call it I don't like being called an animal but hey some people like calling their single men a bull and all that so now let's talk about my hot wife experience well you know i always have my favorite hot wife experience would be when i was at colette's about a couple years ago it was in september you know uh the fall started and my favorite hot wife in the world holly hot wife was coming to colette's in houston and she was bringing all her posse of beautiful beautiful women and god damn like i just pray every time that i get the fuck holly hot wife and all that stuff because she's fucking beautiful anyways so she goes there you know and she's brung her posse of beautiful fucking women man these girls are gorgeous and there's a lot of people there this night usually on a friday night at colette's in the houston there's not a lot of people it's a decent crowd but it's not a lot of people but there was a shit ton of people this time and it was great it was it was great people were talking people were mingling more than usual and one thing i noticed is this what i always find out they were looking you know they look for a certain type of guys i look for the film they were trying to film too they're going to film some scenes there for their only fans or porn pages or whatever and i knew i didn't have Thank you.
for a certain type of guys i'd look for the film they were trying to film too they're going to film some scenes there for their only fans or porn pages or whatever and i knew i didn't have the look yet i wasn't in shape yet uh and all that stuff i wasn't you know feeling it so you know i was just there to check her out see her in person maybe talk to her a little bit i never got to talk to her because i was busy i was hot sex with, uh, other hot wives that were there.
And a lot of guys, and this is where guys mess up. And I think a lot of single guys always do this. They zone in on one couple for the night. And unfortunately it's a numbers game. Now I know a lot of you couples are not going to like to hear that, but it is, it is a number game.
If you male out there it's a numbers game and i always tell single guys don't stick to one couple all night especially if they're not interested you know you can gauge you can sense that they're interested in playing the woman will be more tentative to you she'll be touching you she'll be doing the signs that says she wants to fuck you and she's not doing those things and he's not doing those things uh you know i always say just move on fine go talk to the next couple see what they're into and all that stuff and all the guys were surrounding holly hot wife and her posse of beautiful ladies so i'm talking to all the other hot wives that were there who you know we're looking for male attention and because of my male my intuitive to intuiveness i was able to bang a bunch i think i fucked that night four different hot wives that night because you know instead of sitting there and trying to bang that most beautiful women in there which was Holly Hot Wipe and her crew I went for the other ladies who you know no one was there for but I was and we had I had a great time that night and it was a very special night for me at least I could say that so that fun night, you know, having sex with four beautiful women and all that stuff, and it was just great, you know.
There was no problems there, nothing. And by the end of the night, I was spent. And I think Holly, hot wife, and all her friends were doing their scenes in the big-ass shower, because if you go to Colette's in Houston, they had that huge huge ass fucking shower. A shower that I'm very jealous of and that I wish one day I would have in my own room and it was great and all that. It was pretty good. Like I said, that was probably my best hot wife night. I had others.
I'm trying to think back in the spank tank back when I went to date and swim social my first time had all those three gang bangs I was in then the next time I was in next time I actually went to date and swim social I actually hooked up with a single woman and I don't think she was much older I think she was in her late 20s and I was like I said I was 21 20 yeah I was 21 I think she was in her late 20s and all that but she lived in Ohio and I was like I don't want to be moving to Ohio so nothing really came out about other than us fucking all night and having four sums and shit with other people me and her were a great team that night so that was pretty cool that I met it that was my first ever single girl it'll be a long time before I get to another single girl and all that which really sucks but you know hey whatever so you know you know it's what what can you do anyways so you know then let's see i'm trying to think of another one i went to tpc north there were only a few couples there and three single guys uh and fortunately all the couples were coupled up one couple was uh was seeming to want singles when i was there uh but she was fixated on one dude and i knew i couldn't compete with this dude because this guy was like over six foot tall so i fuck, I ain't going to be able to get there and all that.
So I wasn't able to do anything that night. This was way, way back then, a long time ago. So, you know, and the only thing you can do is just go back to the back room, find the room and jack off and, you know, bust a nut. You know, that's all pretty much all I can do during this time. Then after I was, I, I was playing adult baseball. After that, I would go to a club, and I would meet this one couple.
They're always at Colette's, and these people are just like wham, bam, thinking, man, he wants you to blow your load on his wife's face as soon as possible, and they'll you into a room and you'll do your business on her face and he basically cleans her up with his tongue now when that happened because this is just recently it's not it didn't gross me out because when I was in Germany back in the early 2000s I went to a club outside of of Berlin, and it was one of those things where they would have two girls were being bukkakeed by every single guy that must have walked into that club.
And these ladies were looking like glazed donuts. And I kind of, I did throw up a little bit when I saw that because I was not prepared for that. No one told me that Germans, I did not know at this time because, you know, the Internet still knew. I didn't know the Germans were freaky ass people. And I could not believe how open and very open, I mean, open these couples were. I mean, I never had, I really had a great time in Europe when I was doing Europe.
And the hot wife in their scene is unbelievable because a lot of women, you know, do the hot wife scene now they do everything they do hot wife they do just regular swapping stuff like that but you know you could go to a really beautiful couple and talk to them and you might if you have some game can get into that girl's panties because of the things that she, uh, of the, you know, openness that, you know, the Germans have. So that was a very fun time.
Like I said, I went to a club and, uh, out in Amsterdam, outside of Amsterdam and same thing. They had a glory hole, ton of women sucking off guys through the glory hole, you know, more hot wife and more fun like that.
And that and you know i participated in that and i had a great time there was nothing nothing that would you know scare me off like i said now because i saw the germans and all that in europe i'm not really scared of too much stuff that's happening that's why i didn't get disgusted when that guy was licking my my cum off his wife's face and all that uh more places if you want to participate in a hot life lifestyle here in houston dallas austin uh and here in san antonio there are some places you can go now if you ever thought about taking your wife or girlfriend or significant other to a porno uh place porn video place theater stuff like that some of the theaters around towns in dallas they have uh libido so i think that's still there they have some glory holes or they just have a big uh a place upstairs where they have the movie screen they have rooms where you go and fuck and all that stuff so you got places like that up there you can go and do stuff at uh san antonio austin i don't know too much houston you have smoochies you have pinks pinks have glory holes in the back but you gotta go through the filth of the people i do not recommend if you want to start practicing hot wiping i would just stay with the clubs and online ads you because some of the guys that go to these places even you know you gotta you gotta have some pride have some pride in yourself.
And a lot of these people do not have pride in themselves when they go. They just go there because they want free and easy pussy. They don't want anything else. They just want to go and fuck. And hopefully fuck. And they'll wait hours and hours for just one couple to come in. And they will chase them out within a matter of minutes because they're zombies. So, you know, you just got to.
So if you're thinking about going to a porn theater, just be wise that the people that go there are not couples. You get some couples that will go there, but they might not be there when you go there. And guess what's going to be there? A bunch of guys are going to be there and you're going to have to not fight them off. But if you don't like being followed, it's not for you because they will follow you into everywhere. Thank you.
bunch of guys are going to be there and you're going to have to not fight them off but if you don't like being followed it's not for you because they will follow you into everywhere you know smoochies especially at smoochies you got the same guys like i could go to smoochies today and the guys i seen a year ago will still be there i always tell these guys if you put more time into finding a girlfriend you wouldn't have to come here anymore you could fuck your girlfriend all the time, but you know, Hey hell would I know anyways so if you want to do that do go to those porn theaters make sure you do your research make sure it's you know it's a nice place it's clean not a lot of them are clean I'm sorry but that's up to the management of those places so go there and there's a lot of other places where you can go go to a swingers club you got all the kinds of swing clubs in dallas austin san antonio you got colette's is in dallas austin san antonio that colette's in dallas is i is one of the top clubs so you could go there take your wife there and find those you find yourself a guy for your wife to you know have intimate relations with here in here in houston you got you got five different clubs t and g which friday nights at the first month of the day first friday of the month is cheap 40 a couple you can go there find a guy there uh go to tpc go to collette's there's three tpcs north south hemstead you go there find a single guy and also you can go to uh collette's to find a single guy.
Now, what you got to do is before, if you are searching for single guys and you want to find a single guy for your wife or your significant other, make sure you call the club to make sure they allow single guys because on these clubs, Saturday nights, some of them don't. I think TNG lets single guys in on Saturday. Now, I think TPC Hempstead allows single men on Saturday nights too.
So, but if you're out there, you don't live in Houston, you don't live in Dallas, Austin, or anything around here in Texas, you live in another state and you want to go to a club, make sure you call that club and say, Hey, do you allow single guys? Cause we're looking for single guys. They say yes or no.
They might probably only allow single guys on fridays where a lot of the clubs do if you're in florida you're pretty much good to go on any day of the week because they allow single guys uh there all the time yeah because you know it's florida they're crazy down there over there i miss those florida people florida people i love you i miss you hope to visit you guys soon go to secrets and all that uh so also online now when you do online looking for a guy it is going to be a very hard task because you're going to meet a lot of flakes a lot of fakes try to have try to make sure you get talk to the person online in person you can do video chat there's no reason why a guy can't zoom or video chat with you because you want to make sure the person's will because you don't know like i said in my other podcast talk about guys would post pictures of them when they're 25 and they're 50 right now you know they're 100 pounds heavier now stuff like that they try to like or they try to put a post a you know things like their dick size and all that so you got to make sure you got to put time if you don't if you have time online's a way to go because then you can meet them out at a bar and see if there's any connection stuff like that so you know you just got to be vigilant when you do online stuff because there's a lot of fakes and flakes and there's a lot of couples that are fakes and flakes a lot of guys would sit there post pictures of their nude pictures of their wife online and try to get other couples to send them nude pictures and all that don't send any couples Thank you.
guys would sit there and post pictures of their nude pictures of their wife online and try to get other couples to send them nude pictures and all that. Don't send any... Couples, don't send guys nude pictures. This is what I tell when I have a girl, a partner. I go, hey, we're going to be here at Colette's on Friday night. Come up and the guys will email, do you guys have pictures of them? I go, no, you'll have show up. All right?
Because I'm not in the game of pick collecting or sending pictures out to people. It is what it is. If you want pussy, come on. If you don't want pussy, don't show up. Okay? Very simple, right, guys? You would think swinging would be simple, but recent years have really made it more and more difficult to have. But I think it's turning for a better because I think people are more getting out there and enjoying the lifestyle more and more, which is good. So I don't know.
But anyways, we're going to have to keep on. Remember, gentlemen, to shave your cock and balls because your ladies don't like the stuff that you're feeding them and all that.
So shave those cock and balls that great stuff for you and all that so I don't know so that's loud like I said this is live this ain't no bullshit taped anyways anyways guys go to swinging singlecast.com to check everything out If you're in the KC area Go to Crazy Winter Nights I'll be there in the booths Doing my podcast live Talking to people, hopefully they'll want to talk to me You never know, people might not want to talk to me Or anything like that If you're there, come out, talk to me, I'll be in a booth Also, if you want also if you want to email me swinging single podcast at gmail.com check me out send me some notes give me some show ideas if you have anything i want to cover about being a single male in the lifestyle and my perspective of being a single male in the lifestyle but anyways keep on swinging everybody and have a great weekend.
