Why are most women in the lifestyle bisexual?
Surveys of active lifestyle communities consistently find that 60–80% of women describe themselves as bisexual or bi-curious — far higher than general-population estimates. Several factors drive the asymmetry: same-sex contact between women is openly welcomed at most lifestyle clubs and often forms the core of soft-swap encounters; many women find the lifestyle's explicit permission structures liberate latent or partial attractions; and "bi" on a profile signals openness to soft-swap dynamics that many couples seek. The opposite asymmetry — bisexual men — is much smaller in mainstream lifestyle culture, though "bi-MMF" subcultures exist and are growing.